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Applying Virginity Only To The Female Gender by TONYE001(m): 6:12pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Just a while ago, I read in dismay the thread about virginity on the Front Page. I wouldn't go into the flawed arguments of the original poster and his supporters. Whether virginity is a prerequisite for a successful home or not should be left to spouses to decide for themselves. The purpose of this thread is to attack the trend of applying virginity to only the female gender. The original poster and dozens of other responders talked about virginity with reference to the female gender only. The question then is, what about the males? Are males now permitted by religion, or morality, to engage in illicit sexual activities? Why do we always think of ladies each time virginity is mentioned? Why is there little or no emphasis on male virginity? No matter how you want to look at it, a non-virgin male is exposed to the same factors as sexually exposed females. In terms of religion, the Bible frowns at premarital sex whether the individual is male or female. In terms of health, STD's and their complications apply to both males and females. In terms of fertility, male and female factor infertility may arise from high risk sexual exposures. Our society is weird. Overtime, we have managed to tilt the standards against females. We hold them responsible when they bear female children only. We hold them responsible when the home fails. Now we are implying that they should remain virgins while the males are allowed to do as they please. Maybe we should go back to the drawing board and begin to teach our children (males and females) the values of staying away from illicit sex and other high-risk habits. Maybe we should begin to tell ourselves that the laws of nature, and religion, apply to both males and females. It is cowardice to push blames to the females while keeping the male image aside. My point is, for a successful family, MALE and female factors are equally important. Good evening. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Applying Virginity Only To The Female Gender by Nobody: 6:22pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
TONYE001: These is a Feministic mindset and has nothing to do with the word of God , see in proverbs it's written strong men retain riches and gracious women retain honor, remember men and women are fundamentally different, we cannot apply the same standards morality when in fact it is evident that women are the chased gender hence they control access to sex and reproduction, no matter the urge of a man, if the woman refuses sex will not take place, remember men have 14 times more testerones than women which is the primary hormone for sexual drive, women again are reproductively critical as the chances of been cuckolded to father a child that is not your own is higher in a promiscuous woman, women can get sex easily for existing hence they must preserve their value, man must create his value to get sexual access 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Applying Virginity Only To The Female Gender by Figger(m): 6:28pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Men don't have hymen 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Applying Virginity Only To The Female Gender by TONYE001(m): 6:30pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
JESHAL: I'd try to respond to your post in parts. 1. Your Proverbs quote is not total in this instance. As far as the Bible is concerned, sexual purity applies to both men and women. 2. Accesses to sex and reproduction are determined by both men and women. If a man refuses sex, it wouldn't happen. Unless he would be forced. Same applies to women. 3. Testosterone is the major sex steroid in males. In females, oestrogens and progesterone play this role. They drive sexual desire. So, females too have sexual urges. Only that because of the state of the society, they are somewhat limited in expressing this. 4. Men are equally critical for reproduction. The topic about men fathering children that aren't theirs is outside the scope of this thread. 9 Likes |
Re: Applying Virginity Only To The Female Gender by Nobody: 6:30pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
TONYE001, bank slate Egalitarianism ideology when means both genders are equal in every metric is the dominant ideology that has replaced religion in Western Societies and has seen a more promiscuous society than ever before where divorce is the norms and children out of wedlock is popular 1 Like |
Re: Applying Virginity Only To The Female Gender by TONYE001(m): 6:33pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Figger: ....and because of this, they should be allowed to engage in premarital sex and women shouldn't? Who do they even have sex with? Females. So, they want to have sex with females and at the same time marry virgins? Sadly, this doesn't add up. 7 Likes |
Re: Applying Virginity Only To The Female Gender by TONYE001(m): 6:35pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
JESHAL: May I please ask, what does it take to be promiscuous? The natural order of sex entails the involvement of a male and a female. Men want to have sex as they please. With whom? Females. Isn't this desire exponentially reducing the number of virgin ladies? My point is, when talking about virginity, we should consider both male and female genders equally. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Applying Virginity Only To The Female Gender by Nobody: 6:36pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
TONYE001: Oestrogen is not the primary hormone for sexual drive and it is present in both male and female but in limited quantity in males, and women have testerones but in far lesser capacity these is the primary sexual drive hormones for both genders, the empirical evidence can be researched In your spare time Women control access to sex, men approach women for relationship which leads to sex or for sex directly, even prostitutes are paid for sex in the context of an homosexual relationship which is the norms of our species 1 Like |
Re: Applying Virginity Only To The Female Gender by Nobody: 6:39pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
TONYE001: Virginity is not possible for a male, remember we experience wetdreams releasing semen with erotic thoughts that we have no control over and early morning erection, men are designed to spread their seeds, since we have millions of sperm and we can produce them till we die, women are designed to preserve their limited quantity of eggs for the best quality man, remember they can't produce it forever, it stops at menopause, sperm is cheap, eggs are expensive 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Applying Virginity Only To The Female Gender by TONYE001(m): 6:40pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
JESHAL: I did not imply that females don't have testosterone. Neither did I imply that males lack oestrogens. Oestrogens, progesterone, and testosterone play roles in the female sexual desire. Testosterone, as you have said, is quite minimal in females. You cannot peg the female sexual desire to only testosterone. Well, let's leave Biology out of this. This would make the topic boring for the general population. 3 Likes |
Re: Applying Virginity Only To The Female Gender by Nobody: 6:42pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
TONYE001, I understand where you are coming from about the ideal state of avoiding fornication and adultery, but in reality if you push these equalist agenda, Feminist movement will actually misinterprete your intentions and demonize men solely leaving us accountable but removing responsiblity and accountablity from the woman 1 Like |
Re: Applying Virginity Only To The Female Gender by BakingPowder247: 6:44pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Even after all the multiple sex, everyone is a virgin |
Re: Applying Virginity Only To The Female Gender by TONYE001(m): 6:44pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
JESHAL: Men are "not designed to spread their seeds." The reason why we have millions of sperm cells is to increase/improve the chances of survival. Remember that the sperm cell has got a limited life span. Also, remember the harsh conditions spermatozoa are exposed to post-ejaculation. Our sexual thoughts and desires are influenced by the environment (media, our circle of friends, etc). Men and women are equally exposed to these. Having wet dreams does not equate to having sex. So, it doesn't apply in this discuss on male virginity. As a matter of fact, male virginity is very, very possible. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Applying Virginity Only To The Female Gender by TONYE001(m): 6:48pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
JESHAL: People are free to interpret my posts as they wish. My only concern is the way we tilt the society against females. Take for instance, this issue of virginity. This is not about feminism and other similar ideologies. This is about being just and truthful to oneself. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Applying Virginity Only To The Female Gender by Nobody: 6:53pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
TONYE001: Men mating strategy is polygnous, we want evolutionary different varieties of women because we have insatiable sexual appetite but societal brainwashing mechanism like religion makes us think monogamy is ok which goes against our Nature, but overt sexual mainstream hedonistic culture from the media and porn exposes our raw Nature by giving us access to different varieties of women Women mating strategy is Hypergamous, they are looking for the best genetically available individual who also has the ability to provide and protect his Gene and ensure her survival and that of her children 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Applying Virginity Only To The Female Gender by Nobody: 6:57pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
TONYE001: The truth is that we have to operate in reality, you are using old order of thinking for these 21st century where things are completely different, women are more promiscuous more than ever, remember majority of men want sexual access but can't get it hence they are masturbating, watching porn or visiting cheap prostitutes, women are very selective with whom they have sex with, they are only sleeping with a very small percentage of men that they seem as sexually attractive or having the socio-economic status to meet up to their Hypergamous instincts 2 Likes |
Re: Applying Virginity Only To The Female Gender by TONYE001(m): 6:58pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
JESHAL: Sadly, all these definitions are just to justify male promiscuity. Religion and media aside, there are grave consequences of keeping multiple sexual partners. Some of these may amount to death in the long run. Men and women, for the good of their health, should maintain only one sexual partner. 3 Likes |
Re: Applying Virginity Only To The Female Gender by Hziyech: 7:08pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Nawa oo |
Re: Applying Virginity Only To The Female Gender by Figger(m): 7:42pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
TONYE001:During early puberty, males tend to masturbate or have wet dreams in a bid to discover their bodies due to the raging homones, would u describe that as lost of virginity? It simply means that no matter what, no man can be classified as a virgin. 1 Like |
Re: Applying Virginity Only To The Female Gender by Kobojunkie: 7:46pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Figger: vir·gin 3 Likes |
Re: Applying Virginity Only To The Female Gender by TONYE001(m): 7:50pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Figger: Whether a person decides to masturbate or not is not a function of gender. Females too experience the same urge. It is now a matter of choice whether to masturbate or not. Therefore, this does not apply to the discussion. 2 Likes |
Re: Applying Virginity Only To The Female Gender by Offpoint1: 7:55pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Foreign sites are talking about Quantum computing and Mar colonization, while Nigerians are talking about sex organs. How any being chooses to live their sexual life is none of my business, nor should it be a topic worth any form of discussion. If you chooses to keep your virgin is solemnly for your own good and if you chooses to throw it away, it's solemnly for your own good. 4 Likes |
Re: Applying Virginity Only To The Female Gender by Figger(m): 7:56pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
TONYE001:please can u explain to me what a virgin boy simply mean and compare it to a virgin girl. |
Re: Applying Virginity Only To The Female Gender by Nobody: 7:57pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Hymen bro, hymen that blood is golden |
Re: Applying Virginity Only To The Female Gender by TONYE001(m): 7:57pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Figger: The dictionary definition of the term, virgin, is a person that has never had sexual intercourse. 1 Like |
Re: Applying Virginity Only To The Female Gender by Figger(m): 8:01pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
TONYE001:so any girl wey don use extra large cucumber scatter her toto but have not met any man is still a virgin? |
Re: Applying Virginity Only To The Female Gender by iRepNaija1: 8:01pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
I agree with you but you've come to the wrong platform to express your opinion. All you're going to get are responses from some men who will try to rationalize and explain and justify why Nigerian society benefits them more and why it should benefit them more. 4 Likes |
Re: Applying Virginity Only To The Female Gender by Kobojunkie: 8:01pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
JESHAL: For some women, there’s practically no tissue at all. For others, it’s a membrane covering the vaginal opening. That situation is rare, and it can interfere sex or tampon usage, but it can be removed surgically.we live in the information age meaning we owe it to our selves to stay informed. Bleeding during sexual intercourse for women is not a sign of virginity but instead indication that the woman was wounded during the process. 1 Like |
Re: Applying Virginity Only To The Female Gender by Kobojunkie: 8:03pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
iRepNaija1:What would you consider the right platform for this sort of education? |
Re: Applying Virginity Only To The Female Gender by iRepNaija1: 8:04pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Figger: A cucumber is not a pênis, just like a dildø is not a pënis. The only thing the lady has done in the situation you're describing is masturbated. Ergo, she's still a virgin. |
Re: Applying Virginity Only To The Female Gender by iRepNaija1: 8:07pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Honestly, I'm not sure. But NL is not the place. You have too many toxic, misogynistic, sexist people (notice I said people and not just men) who are very happy remaining ignorant and narrow-minded. You'll drive yourself crazy trying to educate others here. But I still appreciate your effort. 2 Likes |
Re: Applying Virginity Only To The Female Gender by Nobody: 8:07pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: To ensure that I can pass my genes, I'm not taking a promiscuous woman serious, she must be chaste, potentially a virgin, there is sound empirical evidence that a promiscuous woman can't pair bond with her partners hence leading to failed Relationships, no damaged hoes, those remnants are for low or average valued men, hymen is a plausiblity and I will search for my bride, she must also have feminine traits with character and be ready for me to take away her virginity at any time I'm not going to father any bastard , I can't risk it with a hoe 1 Like 1 Share |
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