Darlingme:
Why is it so difficult for most people to keep to their promises, to remit debts?
You help someone with loan based on aggreement and trust, but when it's time to remit, they come up with excuses, default, making you look like you're too weak, too simple and when you get upset and raise your voice, they tag you as being Money conscious.
On your own part, you don't want to lose relationship/friendship/family with them. you consider their struggles, yet, when they have your money either From their salaries or other means, they wouldn't still pay back.
Have you ever been in this kind of situation?
How were you able to handle this kind of people without becoming enemies?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BmNFHNyHUEU

harmargedon:
the country is hard, the best is to stop borrowing. It's difficult for people to pay back loans. Imagine, if a country is deeply in Dept, what do you expect of its citizens.

tafat:
I offered them something I knew they really wanted, the clause attached to the deal happening was the borrowed money being payed back and I got my money. Kind of tricky sha cos this can only help you when you truly have something your debtor really wants

InvertedHammer:
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Not until you lend money to someone who refuses to pay. You decide to go at it the hard way. But on reaching there and seeing their condition, you come dash them money join.

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Darlingme:
Sounds cool though, but most times, they still default not minding the next benefit after remitting

raymondhillmimi:
She needed the money like her life depends on it, you need to see begging! The deadline was the following day and it was a golden opportunity that might not come in a long time. If I didn’t help her I would have been unhappy if she missed that opportunity which am fully aware of. But the crazy part is how she now see it like am disturbing her, this is someone I care about like we talk multiple times a day. Now I call and she won’t call back, I know she might be running around for the funds and thinking am calling to ask for my money. I have decided to not call her for a while and watch is she will come up with the money or part of it or keep acting dumb then that’s when I will show my madness.

Klass99:


Lol , I enjoy reading your comments they amuse me.
The caveat is necessary abeg, aren't you tired of the never ending toxicity on display by some nasty elements?

Na wa for that your married friend o! And here I was thinking that if I marry some of my financial stress & strain will reduce, because hubby and I will be each other's Plan B, for rough times. As in, if I don't have I can turn to him and vice versa.

Well at least you didn't succumb to the emotional blackmail or did you? . What excuse did you give the childhood friend? I no dey carry my childhood paddies play at all, your mention of that brings back fond memories for me.

cayorday89:
Yeah, very simple, I walked into an MTN store, and requested for welcome back sim...

Kobicove:

I have made the same mistake as you but I learnt an important lesson - do not ever loan money to someone who is much older than you!

Kurtis02:
Lend a neighbor 15k, he was a salary earner. Instead of him to repay when salary came, he told me I should wait till the next month that the girlfriend birthday passed and he didn't get her anything.



I just weak.

Shifi1:
They are not your friends
Collect your by all means..
Through police or go there an disgrace them

Kurtis02:
Lend a neighbor 15k, he was a salary earner. Instead of him to repay when salary came, he told me I should wait till the next month that the girlfriend birthday passed and he didn't get her anything.



I just weak.

stevemarkdangot:
Currently in some debts which I took to salvage some business that went wrong. The due date I promised to repay my friend has elapsed and I really hated myself for that. Though, I keep in touch that I will pay up and always appeal to him but I still feel very ashamed of myself. I really hope and pray things get better for me.
Debt is the biggest burden anyone can have in this world.

Zico777:

Darlingme:
I think it depends on the amount.

raymondhillmimi:
She needed the money like her life depends on it, you need to see begging! The deadline was the following day and it was a golden opportunity that might not come in a long time. If I didn’t help her I would have been unhappy if she missed that opportunity which am fully aware of. But the crazy part is how she now see it like am disturbing her, this is someone I care about like we talk multiple times a day. Now I call and she won’t call back, I know she might be running around for the funds and thinking am calling to ask for my money. I have decided to not call her for a while and watch is she will come up with the money or part of it or keep acting dumb then that’s when I will show my madness.