Richy4:
why can't you open up to your lecturers instead of devising a means to eliminate your own Father... I believe you got smart phones.. take couple of pictures and show them with tears in your eyes...

What are you trying to prove to your lecturers?... Why are you bottling things up? ... Are you trying to prove to them by acting tough in their presence that all is well with you when clearly all isn't...No matter how sadist they are, even the devil got soft spots...Assuming your school has students advisors, This situation is enough to granted you a study leave because you can't concentrate.... Please tell your lecturers the situation of things....

You are clearly passing through a traumatic situation at the moment but u have to try your best to leave your dad out of it until his maker calls him...Can you be able to leave with it that you killed your own father for the rest of your life? besides, you have no right whatsoever to take a life u did not make..... he did not kill you when u were a toddler..No matter what you call it, Mercy killing, or kind killing, killing is killing....Thou shall not Kill

Seems u don’t know uniben lecturers, even with a bleeding or partially opened skull they won’t pity you, especially engine department, if u know u know

Try traditional ways bro, mix peak milk with water collected from snail, break that pointed part of snail, collect the shining water from it n mix with the milk, to be taking morning and night

Omorotionmwann:
It has been 12years now since my dad has been down with Stroke which has affected his speech,his right hand and leg and some 4years ago,he couldn't walk anymore but had to be carried to sleep,sit and all physical metabolism is done where he is,even after I and my mum have spent and still spends a lot on physiotherapy,speech therapy,brain checkups at Mecure oshodi,routine and forthnight high blood pressure checkups with expensive drugs and still no changes but it gets worse,all done going around in taxi as I have no car.....

I was 18 and in 200level in a federal uni with him and my mum my only support system when all of this started,couldn't concentrate and focus on school work anymore as I am the firstborn of a 7 boys family and my attention was always needed.....Mum told me I need to drop out that she can't afford all of this alone but I was strong hearted and determined to graduate with a B.Eng...

I had issues with my lecturers as my attendance were poor and my course adviser said it to my face that I would never graduate but I never told them about my travails or they wouldn't even believe me anyways cos they were mostly SADIST,All Engineering lecturers in Uniben especially Mechanical/PRODUCTION ENGINEERING from 08/09 upward,OGUN KILL ALL OF UNA!!! Life was tough for me and my Mum....

Now that I am a Man and supposed to be focus on my life future and raising a family but this is still taking a toll on me emotionally,financially,mentally and I will come home to my mum nagging,crying that she has tried enough over the years and i might come home one day and she has left ....THIS BREAKS ME,I AM TIRED,I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO....I LOVE MY DAD,HE IS IN PAINS TOO!!!

IF I COULD SEE THE FUTURE BACK THEN WHEN IT STARTED,I WOULD HAVE ASKED THE DOCTORS FOR MERCY DEATH,DO NIGERIAN DOCTORS OR HOSPITALS GIVE OUT MERCY DEATH TO PATIENTS?

NAIRALANDERS,I AM DEPRESSED AND I NEED YOUR ADVICE

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that's not a good thing to think about, mercy death is not our culture, for God sake he is your "FATHER". IF YOUR MOTHER IS TIRED, she can go and live the life she wants to live. You as a first born, i know you have tried, both financially and mentally, Man up and find someone you can pay to take care of him.. jean pierre Adam's a black man was in coma 37years and was taken care of by his white wife. Now ask yourself if your father's health is worse than a person in coma, he didn't do this to himself. This is the world we live in, everyone has a problem to solve.

You are trying to discard your own problem..

Kai mana, how could you even think of killing your own father, haba tufiakwa, no matter how you paint it, mercy killing is murder in nigeria don't even try it.

Euthanasia is a crime according to section 311 of the criminal code

Many people giving advise that they can never be in the op shoes for two months talk more of 12 years. Op na man you be same as your mum. Big ups to you two. There are life challenges that I think euthanizing seems best. I believe if your dad can talk he would have wished same. What’s is the point of being alive with suffering .God give you strength in all you decide.

You’re asking advice from the wrong quarters, as most of us have no context about what you’re going through.
So here’s my suggestion:

- Consult a competent doctor and ask all your questions, thoroughly explore all your options with the doctor.

- Call a family meeting and table your findings as the advice your doctor friend gave you concerning your father.

- Every member should share their views and come to an agreement.

One of two things will happen;

- Your family will experience an epiphany, reminisce on all the good times and all he means to you all, and together with renewed vigour commit to the process, whatever the outcome.

- Out of sheer exhaustion from the last twelve years of toil agree to end it graciously, so all parties can rest.

All the best.

This one pass me

Omorotionmwann:


Thank you for this,the doctors wouldn't even attend to us if a particular tests or drugs were not done or bought and they are so expensive

Native treatment works best for stroke... But u need meet a herbal practitioner who's got better or best ratings... 12yrs n counting, his chances might be slim... No harm on trying

I can imagine what you are going through, please forget doctors in science when issues have gone this bad, they will only extort you without any positive outcome, try very good herbalist if you can find one, those people have deep knowledge of leaves that can cure a lot of ailments

I advise you do not try it. Your father will die when his time comes. Your case is similar to mine. Before I got admission in university, my Dad was diagnosed of diabetes. One of his legs was amputated initially. My Mother, may God bless her more, struggled to cater for my siblings and I. I was advised by some people to quit school then coz I had started my year one. I didn't. I persevered. I was able to overcome difficulties with paying school fees through the help of some people. My Dad was bedridden for a decade plus. On the fateful day that he died, his remaining leg was amputated coz diabetes had affected it badly. My Father's goods in his shops were completely sold out in order to settle the hospital bills. Nothing was left out. My candid advice is, let your father die naturally. Do not do something which you will always feel guilty for. Keep encouraging your mum. Tell her not to give up on your father coz the man will die joyfully and peacefully knowing full well that he was well taken care of by his wife and children.

Don't do that, it amounts to murder. Get a nurse to help in nursing him. That will relieve you guys from the attendant stress and psychological trauma.

Goldiness:



It will be your turn next, then you know how it feels to be sick and need help, then you can tell them to do the same for you. Heartless beings.

Shutup! Africans and their hypocrisy!

Someone who is in a vegetative state battling with pains but is not in the position to express himself and his relatives are bearing the brunt of it financially, emotionally, psychologically etc are suffering and you are talking nonsense about being heartless but the same you will still go to juju houses to "jazz" someone who really wants to live out of envy!

Forward prayer request concerning your dad to this number +2348149761471. Someone will call you and pray with you and I believe he will be healed in Jesus name. I look forward to read your testimony here.

Omorotionmwann:
It has been 12years now since my dad has been down with Stroke which has affected his speech,his right hand and leg and some 4years ago,he couldn't walk anymore but had to be carried to sleep,sit and all physical metabolism is done where he is,even after I and my mum have spent and still spends a lot on physiotherapy,speech therapy,brain checkups at Mecure oshodi,routine and forthnight high blood pressure checkups with expensive drugs and still no changes but it gets worse,all done going around in taxi as I have no car.....

I was 18 and in 200level in a federal uni with him and my mum my only support system when all of this started,couldn't concentrate and focus on school work anymore as I am the firstborn of a 7 boys family and my attention was always needed.....Mum told me I need to drop out that she can't afford all of this alone but I was strong hearted and determined to graduate with a B.Eng...

I had issues with my lecturers as my attendance were poor and my course adviser said it to my face that I would never graduate but I never told them about my travails or they wouldn't even believe me anyways cos they were mostly SADIST,All Engineering lecturers in Uniben especially Mechanical/PRODUCTION ENGINEERING from 08/09 upward,OGUN KILL ALL OF UNA!!! Life was tough for me and my Mum....

Now that I am a Man and supposed to be focus on my life future and raising a family but this is still taking a toll on me emotionally,financially,mentally and I will come home to my mum nagging,crying that she has tried enough over the years and i might come home one day and she has left ....THIS BREAKS ME,I AM TIRED,I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO....I LOVE MY DAD,HE IS IN PAINS TOO!!!

IF I COULD SEE THE FUTURE BACK THEN WHEN IT STARTED,I WOULD HAVE ASKED THE DOCTORS FOR MERCY DEATH,DO NIGERIAN DOCTORS OR HOSPITALS GIVE OUT MERCY DEATH TO PATIENTS?

NAIRALANDERS,I AM DEPRESSED AND I NEED YOUR ADVICE

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Please do, its hard, ordinary dog that was sick and couldn't eat or do anything for days i found it hard to act, it kept suffering, pls put an end to his misery, i hope i dont get to that position but shit happens, i pray i have friends and family strong enough to help me maintain my dignity and ease my pain

Stroke can be treated in tradition way. Be cooking peer leave for him so he could be drinking the water instead of ordinary water. He should not been eating starchy food. If you people can afford it plantain should be his Major food. You people should not make him sad cos it do affect their healing process. Above all be prayerful nd consult people. There is cure for it

Omorotionmwann:
It has been 12years now since my dad has been down with Stroke which has affected his speech,his right hand and leg and some 4years ago,he couldn't walk anymore but had to be carried to sleep,sit and all physical metabolism is done where he is,even after I and my mum have spent and still spends a lot on physiotherapy,speech therapy,brain checkups at Mecure oshodi,routine and forthnight high blood pressure checkups with expensive drugs and still no changes but it gets worse,all done going around in taxi as I have no car.....

I was 18 and in 200level in a federal uni with him and my mum my only support system when all of this started,couldn't concentrate and focus on school work anymore as I am the firstborn of a 7 boys family and my attention was always needed.....Mum told me I need to drop out that she can't afford all of this alone but I was strong hearted and determined to graduate with a B.Eng...

I had issues with my lecturers as my attendance were poor and my course adviser said it to my face that I would never graduate but I never told them about my travails or they wouldn't even believe me anyways cos they were mostly SADIST,All Engineering lecturers in Uniben especially Mechanical/PRODUCTION ENGINEERING from 08/09 upward,OGUN KILL ALL OF UNA!!! Life was tough for me and my Mum....

Now that I am a Man and supposed to be focus on my life future and raising a family but this is still taking a toll on me emotionally,financially,mentally and I will come home to my mum nagging,crying that she has tried enough over the years and i might come home one day and she has left ....THIS BREAKS ME,I AM TIRED,I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO....I LOVE MY DAD,HE IS IN PAINS TOO!!!

IF I COULD SEE THE FUTURE BACK THEN WHEN IT STARTED,I WOULD HAVE ASKED THE DOCTORS FOR MERCY DEATH,DO NIGERIAN DOCTORS OR HOSPITALS GIVE OUT MERCY DEATH TO PATIENTS?

NAIRALANDERS,I AM DEPRESSED AND I NEED YOUR ADVICE

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You seems to be mean and somewhat wicked

After your parents suffered see you through school, you are now claiming to be a Man and needs freedom and start a family

Your priority is how to support your younger ones to school and stand by your parents

Which Man you don turn biko? How responsible you are makes you a man and not just rushing having a wife and starting your own family

I never said you shouldn't start a family of your own. But not now please.

Help your younger ones please, stand by your parents please

You are a Man, you ain't a woman who would be calculating her biological clock

Please focus and build your family to some extent

BlesE:
As someone rightly said it will come to pass. Remember thou shalt not kill. Cheers

Most of you who say these quotes are the ones who have not gone through any difficult situation

When you think your case is the worst, you just get perplexed listening to others' stories. Mehn! This guy cannot even think of japa-ing like other youths. He is just chained to a point. God have mercy.

May God direct you and guide you. I honestly do not know how to console or what to advise this OP. All I can do is to pray for him and his mom.

Please, the following Psalm is important:

‘Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name, your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us today our daily bread. And forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one. ’
Matthew 6:9‭-‬13 NIV

May God grant you the fotitude to bear this

Nonsense Pikin you wan kill Your Papa eehn ? Why just kuku ma use him for Money retual make we know say you wan recover Wetin you spent on him ! This Generation eeeeh ?

Omorotionmwann:
It has been 12years now since my dad has been down with Stroke which has affected his speech,his right hand and leg and some 4years ago,he couldn't walk anymore but had to be carried to sleep,sit and all physical metabolism is done where he is,even after I and my mum have spent and still spends a lot on physiotherapy,speech therapy,brain checkups at Mecure oshodi,routine and forthnight high blood pressure checkups with expensive drugs and still no changes but it gets worse,all done going around in taxi as I have no car.....

I was 18 and in 200level in a federal uni with him and my mum my only support system when all of this started,couldn't concentrate and focus on school work anymore as I am the firstborn of a 7 boys family and my attention was always needed.....Mum told me I need to drop out that she can't afford all of this alone but I was strong hearted and determined to graduate with a B.Eng...

I had issues with my lecturers as my attendance were poor and my course adviser said it to my face that I would never graduate but I never told them about my travails or they wouldn't even believe me anyways cos they were mostly SADIST,All Engineering lecturers in Uniben especially Mechanical/PRODUCTION ENGINEERING from 08/09 upward,OGUN KILL ALL OF UNA!!! Life was tough for me and my Mum....

Now that I am a Man and supposed to be focus on my life future and raising a family but this is still taking a toll on me emotionally,financially,mentally and I will come home to my mum nagging,crying that she has tried enough over the years and i might come home one day and she has left ....THIS BREAKS ME,I AM TIRED,I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO....I LOVE MY DAD,HE IS IN PAINS TOO!!!

IF I COULD SEE THE FUTURE BACK THEN WHEN IT STARTED,I WOULD HAVE ASKED THE DOCTORS FOR MERCY DEATH,DO NIGERIAN DOCTORS OR HOSPITALS GIVE OUT MERCY DEATH TO PATIENTS?

NAIRALANDERS,I AM DEPRESSED AND I NEED YOUR ADVICE

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Hospitals barely treat stroke patient properly,you guys were supposed to have taken him to local stroke specialist that deals with herbs when it started at the first stage.

Bro let me be candid with you , Eutanizing him is like doing him a favor its not a bad thing, he’s been in pain for 12 years you need to relief him , it’s affecting your life and people around him, I’m sure he won’t be happy with the way he bothers your life too... forget the Nigerian mentality of not killing , but people die in war everday does it make it acceptable by God. My advice is before you carry out the Euthanasia make sure his own family members agrees to it I mean his siblings and co and you and your siblings should also agree....Euthanasia isn’t a bad thing, you wouldn’t do it if you meant evil !

Hmmmm,Its well...OP may God help you guys.

InTheCloudySky:
Euthanasia (of humans) is illegal in Nigeria.

I beg tell them oo...

This is d problem with Africa parents , perhaps your father parents imposed alot of responsibilities on him thereby leading to the stroke he suffers today . If I may ask where is your fathers family(mother n siblings)?Is his wife n children that are carrying all d wahala now Abi. Later all these small small boys will cm here n say my immediate family over my wife.My advice for U is to Tk life as U C it do not put too much pressure on yourself to avoid being in the same situation as Ur dad thereby creating problem for Ur future wife n kids.

Omorotionmwann:
It has been 12years now since my dad has been down with Stroke which has affected his speech,his right hand and leg and some 4years ago,he couldn't walk anymore but had to be carried to sleep,sit and all physical metabolism is done where he is,even after I and my mum have spent and still spends a lot on physiotherapy,speech therapy,brain checkups at Mecure oshodi,routine and forthnight high blood pressure checkups with expensive drugs and still no changes but it gets worse,all done going around in taxi as I have no car.....

I was 18 and in 200level in a federal uni with him and my mum my only support system when all of this started,couldn't concentrate and focus on school work anymore as I am the firstborn of a 7 boys family and my attention was always needed.....Mum told me I need to drop out that she can't afford all of this alone but I was strong hearted and determined to graduate with a B.Eng...

I had issues with my lecturers as my attendance were poor and my course adviser said it to my face that I would never graduate but I never told them about my travails or they wouldn't even believe me anyways cos they were mostly SADIST,All Engineering lecturers in Uniben especially Mechanical/PRODUCTION ENGINEERING from 08/09 upward,OGUN KILL ALL OF UNA!!! Life was tough for me and my Mum....

Now that I am a Man and supposed to be focus on my life future and raising a family but this is still taking a toll on me emotionally,financially,mentally and I will come home to my mum nagging,crying that she has tried enough over the years and i might come home one day and she has left ....THIS BREAKS ME,I AM TIRED,I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO....I LOVE MY DAD,HE IS IN PAINS TOO!!!

IF I COULD SEE THE FUTURE BACK THEN WHEN IT STARTED,I WOULD HAVE ASKED THE DOCTORS FOR MERCY DEATH,DO NIGERIAN DOCTORS OR HOSPITALS GIVE OUT MERCY DEATH TO PATIENTS?

NAIRALANDERS,I AM DEPRESSED AND I NEED YOUR ADVICE

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Toks2008:


Calm your nerves... Asides sentiments the guy made perfect sense just that as I wrote, it does not sound cool taking the life of anyone regardless.

I know what I faced with my dad when he was down with serious stroke.

You never pack shit before I guess.. I pack shit tire, the stress was so mentally torturous and you won't even have a life of your own.

Anyways I believe in Miracle so they should pray and seek for alternative solution.

Lalas my dad passed on.

Oga, I have experienced same alright, you Know the sickness of your dad,my dad had different sickness all in one body, my dad own was worst than stoke, hospital to hospital, in this Nigeria and outside Nigeria, I wish I have my dad, alive in that sickness that killed him badly than dead alrighty.

You even see shit pack, my dad own we had to beg shit to come out, if it doesn't we will put gloves in our hands and use olive oil to massage his anus to beg shit to come out, my dad was decaying while alive, he by himself said he was tired and wanted to go, we bagged he said no he wants to go and he slept of and never woke up, we had to bring him back into the country for burial.

Abeg we all know what we have faced in this life. So leave the man let him live his life, it's a blessing to take care of your sick parents, nobody knows tomorrow, who's turn it will be.

So pray not to be sick alrighty

Omorotionmwann:
It has been 12years now since my dad has been down with Stroke which has affected his speech,his right hand and leg and some 4years ago,he couldn't walk anymore but had to be carried to sleep,sit and all physical metabolism is done where he is,even after I and my mum have spent and still spends a lot on physiotherapy,speech therapy,brain checkups at Mecure oshodi,routine and forthnight high blood pressure checkups with expensive drugs and still no changes but it gets worse,all done going around in taxi as I have no car.....

I was 18 and in 200level in a federal uni with him and my mum my only support system when all of this started,couldn't concentrate and focus on school work anymore as I am the firstborn of a 7 boys family and my attention was always needed.....Mum told me I need to drop out that she can't afford all of this alone but I was strong hearted and determined to graduate with a B.Eng...

I had issues with my lecturers as my attendance were poor and my course adviser said it to my face that I would never graduate but I never told them about my travails or they wouldn't even believe me anyways cos they were mostly SADIST,All Engineering lecturers in Uniben especially Mechanical/PRODUCTION ENGINEERING from 08/09 upward,OGUN KILL ALL OF UNA!!! Life was tough for me and my Mum....

Now that I am a Man and supposed to be focus on my life future and raising a family but this is still taking a toll on me emotionally,financially,mentally and I will come home to my mum nagging,crying that she has tried enough over the years and i might come home one day and she has left ....THIS BREAKS ME,I AM TIRED,I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO....I LOVE MY DAD,HE IS IN PAINS TOO!!!

IF I COULD SEE THE FUTURE BACK THEN WHEN IT STARTED,I WOULD HAVE ASKED THE DOCTORS FOR MERCY DEATH,DO NIGERIAN DOCTORS OR HOSPITALS GIVE OUT MERCY DEATH TO PATIENTS?

NAIRALANDERS,I AM DEPRESSED AND I NEED YOUR ADVICE

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Someone wants to kill his father because of money.

I've seen it all!!!

Goldiness:







You are mad, and sick in the head for conceiving such in your head and advising the OP about it. Look at how you carefully planned it out and still wait for feed back, how funny, what a world of wickedness. See you better change your mindset, pray not to be very sick one day, may be you will tell them to do the same for you. Let God's will be done in the father's life, it's not for anyone to decide, I tell you.

Aren't you the same Nigerian that kills a man for stealing a necklace?

Don't even think about it. God giveth God taketh. Your stroke ridden Dad, could have abandoned your mother and you, since he didn't, you better with for God.

frozen70:

At this stage, you have to discuss with every member of your family if mercy death will be an option

Whatever the family agrees on is what you guys will accept

It's a hard decision but, what else?

No such thing as mercy death in Nigeria.

E no better make you use am do ritual??

IkemChris:
There is a big need to talk to God about him... Don't kill what you didn't create... His creator has destined him for glory... What God cannot do, does not exist[/

Can God die? Can God make another god more powerful than himself?