When a Nigerian girl starts spending her money people are quick to ask this question 'who is bankrolling you?" Especially men. I find this question very offensive.

A woman works hard for her money and she uses it to pamper herself and the question that comes out of your mouth is 'who is bankrolling you?'

As we approach the end of 2021, please you should stop asking women this question. And I noticed it's only women who are asked this question. Please stop it.

Them use problem swear for this toto gender?

No be true Before? Can any good looking banny stand in front of ogun shrine and swear that no man is bankrolling her?

I don't know why these things don't even offend me.

When are you getting married?

How old are you?

What tribe are you?


Sometimes, depending on who's asking, it may seem forward, but I've never really been offended by the question.

siofra:
When a Nigerian girl starts spending her money people are quick to ask this question 'who is bankrolling you?" Especially men. I find this question very offensive.

A woman works hard for her money and she uses it to pamper herself and the question that comes out of your mouth is 'who is bankrolling you?'

As we approach the end of 2021, please you should stop asking women this question. And I noticed it's only women who are asked this question. Please stop it.

Which gender use toto to make money? Get car? Get job?

PrimadonnaO:
I don't know why these things don't even offend me.

When are you getting married?

How old are you?

What tribe are you?


Sometimes, depending on who's asking, it may seem forward, but I've never really been offended by the question.

That's good .....Your peace of mind should be your utmost priority in life,no be any mumu question.

PrimadonnaO:
I don't know why these things don't even offend me.

When are you getting married?

How old are you?

What tribe are you?


Sometimes, depending on who's asking, it may seem forward, but I've never really been offended by the question.

When are you getting married is a good question? So as make you no go dey fuck_ people's husband and people's innocent son.

Only oloshos will get offended when asked question like this.

Wahala

Nairaland boys are already attacking me

What kind of insensible people are these?

PrimadonnaO:
I don't know why these things don't even offend me.

When are you getting married?

How old are you?

What tribe are you?


Sometimes, depending on who's asking, it may seem forward, but I've never really been offended by the question.

I'm offended by it. Most times, when you tell them it's your money, they will not believe you.

Sonnobax15:

No be true Before? Can any good looking banny stand in front of ogun shrine and swear that no man is bankrolling her?

I can, no man has ever bankroll me

All these vagina creatures with zero IQ.

siofra:
Nairaland boys are already attacking me

What kind of insensible people are these?

OP, you should not have come here looking for decent, sensible answers. You won't find them on NL. But to your original post, it's very rude in any circumstance to ask a person how they're making their money. For women, it's hard for many to believe that she's made the money on her own or through legitimate means, hence the question. In fact, a lot of people are incapable of seeing that some of the questions they ask women (e.g. how old are you?, when are you getting married?, how many kids do you want?, when are you having kids?, don't you want to lose weight?) are inappropriate and very rude. But they genuinely believe they have the right to know. OP, you can always give a non-sensical answer.

siofra:


I'm offended by it. Most times, when you tell them it's your money, they will not believe you.

Their cup of tea.

debbydams:
I can, no man has ever bankroll me

please you're too precious,that I can't afford to see you facing the consequences

Sonnobax15:
please you're too precious,that I can't afford to see you facing the consequences

yeye I'll do it over nd over again

debbydams:
yeye I'll do it over nd over again

Because I care for your well-being,you say I be yeye

Sonnobax15:
Because I care for your well-being,you say I be yeye

orisirisi

Flexing money without having a clear source makes people wary.

If it is a guy who is doing that, they may be scammers, if it is a woman, she may be a scammer or a 'hospitality expert'.

There are also many people who have eventually been found out, so...

siofra:
When a Nigerian girl starts spending her money people are quick to ask this question 'who is bankrolling you?" Especially men. I find this question very offensive.

A woman works hard for her money and she uses it to pamper herself and the question that comes out of your mouth is 'who is bankrolling you?'

As we approach the end of 2021, please you should stop asking women this question. And I noticed it's only women who are asked this question. Please stop it.

rubbish! Who are you to tell us what is sexist or not?

hucknall:
rubbish! Who are you to tell us what is sexist or not?

Idiot! Who am I not to?

Most women are not equipped in making money legally...they will always need men to do their bidding, even in business...just look at mo abudu ...4kin politicians and top business men for her business to survive...the moment she was dropped, her TV station shut down

In 9ja girl's 30/100%


Case closed

I don't wanna hear pim again


Outta yea...

Well the truth of the matter is that some girls are doing well for themselves

siofra:
When a Nigerian girl starts spending her money people are quick to ask this question 'who is bankrolling you?" Especially men. I find this question very offensive.

A woman works hard for her money and she uses it to pamper herself and the question that comes out of your mouth is 'who is bankrolling you?'

As we approach the end of 2021, please you should stop asking women this question. And I noticed it's only women who are asked this question. Please stop it.

In most cases, it's men that foot the bills for them.

I sometimes find it rather offensive.
Just because some ladies do runs etc doesn't mean there aren't ladies who work or run businesses to finance their lifestyle.
It's more offensive when the question comes from yahoo boys/loaders/pickers/funds wirers/ dubious people/guys, those ones wey their hands no pure follow dey misyarn!

siofra:
When a Nigerian girl starts spending her money people are quick to ask this question 'who is bankrolling you?" Especially men. I find this question very offensive.

A woman works hard for her money and she uses it to pamper herself and the question that comes out of your mouth is 'who is bankrolling you?'

As we approach the end of 2021, please you should stop asking women this question. And I noticed it's only women who are asked this question. Please stop it.

I think you should make more money so it will pepper them. Lots of women out there are making great exploits.

Okay we won't ask again....

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That is actually very rude of people to ask such and I've come to know that it's not just the male folks that do it..

First of, it doesn't deserve any answer(from me) cos I'm not sure how the information will affect the interrogator in any way.. If at all I were to give an answer and same time being civil while at it, why on earth will I care if you'd believe me or not? It changes nothing so by all means, believe whatever you want.. I go even tell you dah thing wey I know sey you wan hear infact add jara and fisi just to pull your strings, abi na mek we dey whine ourselves dey go laslas na you go tire and everybody go dey alright

How can a single girl in her early twenties be earning good money but nothing to show for it.
She doesn't have a car, not with the last electronic gadgets, no investment in properties/ estate, not wearing the lastest fashion trend, that is the story of a young lady in my organization.
We were force to ask such question before she open up, hand to meet her so badly.
Sometimes such question is an eye opener.