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Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Tgrey(m): 9:07pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Munzy14:Respect |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Tgrey(m): 9:12pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Ten06:Be like say u de whine yourself! |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by merits(m): 9:28pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Mybrotheralso:It happens everywhere.they should just leave him God may change him for good in no time. |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Tgrey(m): 9:41pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
frozen70:For a nuclear family I disagree with you. Family is family no matter what! Had it been its a polygamous family your advice is ok So you think that guy won't change? All he needs now is support and care else the story will end in irony. form my point of view you guys are not close or don't like him |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by XXXXTENTACION: 9:53pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Evercurious:Ever heard of empathy and forgiveness .... before you totally condemn someone atleast try to find out why and what motivates their actions... the world would atleast be a better place if we learn to empatise and forgive.... this is a matured man at least speak to him and he will get to reason... |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Makschinchin: 10:01pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
chatinent: Chai! Bros Chatinet, this one too harsh now Show him some love and more love until he has no other option than to return the love.. God help him sha.. Being hostile to such people could even worsen the case.. Na wah oo 1 Share
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Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Mybrotheralso: 10:35pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
houseontherock:Those problems didn't start today , thank you for your contribution |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Mybrotheralso: 10:36pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
nairabacks:We're easterners, thank you 1 Like |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Mybrotheralso: 10:38pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
XXXXTENTACION:He's my brother and my business. Thank you 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Mybrotheralso: 10:39pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Malawian:We're all genetically from parents , so that's not the case here |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Mybrotheralso: 10:40pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
victorazy:Exactly how he is, though he is understanding sometimes |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Mybrotheralso: 10:51pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
SimplyFacts:Amen , thank you for understanding 1 Like |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Mybrotheralso: 10:55pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
alexola20:We're genetically our parents, thank u 1 Like |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Mybrotheralso: 11:00pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Msjacy:Thank you |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Mybrotheralso: 11:03pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Evercurious:Thank you so much |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by victorazy(m): 11:10pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Mybrotheralso: Yes, they do understand sometimes |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Caleb91(m): 11:12pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
DaddyRochie1642:distance between u and common sense is raise to power 2 the distance between planet earth and the sun |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by XXXXTENTACION: 11:31pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Mybrotheralso:First he is an adult (35 years) matured enough to take care of himself he is not a puppet neither is he a little child ... It's not like he is in any deep trouble that needs you to rescue him... I don't seem to understand... a little explanation pls... |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Evercurious(f): 11:59pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
XXXXTENTACION: Lol... it's obvious you dont have anyone like this selfish ,self centred and entitled person in your immediate family. What makes you feel that all these measures you mentioned have nt been applied? There is something called TOUGH LOVE and that is exactly what such people need and deserve at that point to save them from further and total destruction As per what motivates their action is something we all know. ENTITLEMENT ATTITUDE/ SPIRIT has engulfed him. Hence that lousy behaviour 1 Like |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by frozen70(f): 5:18am On Oct 15, 2021 |
Tgrey: Pray not to have a brother that behaves like him That guy will not change because he has already fashioned his life He is just a bone in the neck I only pity their mother The only person that may change him, is if he gets married to a woman who is more organized than him and she is ready to pull the bull by its horn 1 Like |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by XXXXTENTACION: 6:03am On Oct 15, 2021 |
Evercurious:Yeah why won't he feel entitled when he is the first born son ... |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Evercurious(f): 8:13am On Oct 15, 2021 |
XXXXTENTACION: Lol... First born my ass.. First born that isnt ready to take up responsibility but wants everyone to bow to him? Him never start. He should try somewhere else and maybe in another lifetime. RESPECT IS EARNED AND NEVER GIVEN. |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Evercurious(f): 8:16am On Oct 15, 2021 |
Tgrey: It's obvious that that you have nt seen nor had any situation such as this in your immediate family |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by XXXXTENTACION: 8:49am On Oct 15, 2021 |
Evercurious:He already runs a business for himself and he is also pursuing an educational career for himself what other responsibilty do you want him to take again ... |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Evercurious(f): 8:59am On Oct 15, 2021 |
XXXXTENTACION: Lol.. Oga abeg shift... Didnt you see where the OP complains that he adds no value to the house but recks havoc destroying stuffs that he ends up not paying for while they the siblings do? What sort of responsible person does that? Infact, what's he even still doing in that house eating free food if he isnt irresponsibility personified ? Oga abeg I pray you have such person in your immediate family. How am I even sure you are nt one sef? Are you? |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Evercurious(f): 9:01am On Oct 15, 2021 |
Makschinchin: You re wrong... what such people need is called tough love and not what you re advocating.. That doesnt work |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by XXXXTENTACION: 9:07am On Oct 15, 2021 |
Evercurious:He is living with his parents and as he is their son and blood.... you can't just kick him out like that.... |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Janella1(f): 9:12am On Oct 15, 2021 |
My eldest brother is worst, sometimes I wonder if we are actually from the same womb, I regret being part of that family, always bringing tears to my eyes. |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Evercurious(f): 9:47am On Oct 15, 2021 |
XXXXTENTACION: Lol. You just wan find my mouth. Oga abeg go. Ebi like say naa your type we dey even talk about.. |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Evercurious(f): 9:49am On Oct 15, 2021 |
Janella1: My dear it's well. Dont bother yourself. Just cut him off and think of yourself only for now. You will be better and happier when you cut him off... Make sure you let them know their boundaries with you shld they want to come close. You wld be surprised that he wont try such rubbish when it comes to you. Thats all |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by XXXXTENTACION: 9:54am On Oct 15, 2021 |
Evercurious:Ok if you give birth to your own first son you can chase him away and see how it goes.... |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Evercurious(f): 10:43am On Oct 15, 2021 |
XXXXTENTACION: I can never train my own first son in such way. Infact all my children. How can I train my own son to be a nuisance ,irresponsible child cum MUMU? I no fit abeg. And if I see anyone around him encouraging such, I ll so throw such person so far away... I wld never be a failure in such aspect.even if it ll take me both spiritually , physically and otherwise as long as it isnt an illegitimate means of making them responsible people, oga I sure ll cos I trust myself 1 Like |
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