Harrykn:
Why y’all hating.
According to text, he is smart and intelligent and makes lot of money, A PhD student @35.
It’s still the parent’s responsibility to take care of him, other siblings can huge transformer if they don’t like it that way and besides you’ve forgotten to list his good deeds to portray that since you came to existence he has never done anything good.
Rest Jare, you don’t know what is going on and don’t disturb that guy again. If you can afford leaving the house for him please do and allow him stay there in peace.

Ten06:
Your own is good that he has business and he is also pursuing his PhD.
Mine has gotten his OND but doesn't know anything, he lives with my mom, he doesn't work and does not help in house chores. All what he does is to finish the pot of soup and watch TV or go out to drink beer.

If you try to advise him you will regret it because he will tell you that he knows more than you and will quote any half verse of the Bible to counter you

osazsky:
where them dey see all this kind people definitely not in edo..before guys even finish university for benin them don they calculate moves

Harrykn:
Why y’all hating.
According to text, he is smart and intelligent and makes lot of money, A PhD student @35.
It’s still the parent’s responsibility to take care of him, other siblings can huge transformer if they don’t like it that way and besides you’ve forgotten to list his good deeds to portray that since you came to existence he has never done anything good.
Rest Jare, you don’t know what is going on and don’t disturb that guy again. If you can afford leaving the house for him please do and allow him stay there in peace.

Ten06:
Your own is good that he has business and he is also pursuing his PhD.
Mine has gotten his OND but doesn't know anything, he lives with my mom, he doesn't work and does not help in house chores. All what he does is to finish the pot of soup and watch TV or go out to drink beer.

If you try to advise him you will regret it because he will tell you that he knows more than you and will quote any half verse of the Bible to counter you

KiNg0G:


Are you a male or female?

If you be guy and you dey bad-mouth your brother like so for public.
It no make sense.

You not be guy man at all.

Ten06:


We are 15 in my family and we are doing well except him.
4 of us are in abroad

Mybrotheralso:
He's the first born out of 5 children. He's doing his PHD and has his own business. He still lives with our parents. So he does not pay for house, food or water. But can you imagine this brother of mine who makes money from his business doesn't contribute to the house for the same food he eats, when he makes money he goes to hotels and sleep over with women and prefers to train and help outsiders than bring something to the family. Recently, he had the effontry to reject my mummy's food on the ground that it was served late. I simply asked my mom to stop putting food for him.

Honestly this brother of mine has never brought joy to my parents and siblings. He has had several accidents driving carelessly, yet my mom still takes care of it all and she has even stayed over in the hospital when he had the last accident and became unconscious.

They're just the kind of brother one will have and you wished you never had a brother , my brother is exactly that kind of brother anyone will wish not to have. Not to talk of his dubious nature, you can't do simple business with him without him cheating on you. I once was rearing one animal and had to send him money for feeds but can you believe he was billing me in excess. We also contributed money to renovate our father's house and he emphatically told us he bought something which he didn't actually buy.

I wonder why God gave us this kind of brother, he has been like this since we all knew something and hasn't changed for good.
He has been sat down and talked to severally yet he will repent and still go back to his old ways .

So pathetic!

kenzysmith:
Gerrout leave ur brother alone u re d main problem the fact he has his masters and PhD I think u should respect him and whereas he is the senior
He is d ist son so it is his birth right
Is your parents complaining? Y are u the one complaing better go and marry and leave your brother alone to enjoy himself. He is not a kid mind ur business

Mybrotheralso:
He's the first born out of 5 children. He's doing his PHD and has his own business. He still lives with our parents. So he does not pay for house, food or water. But can you imagine this brother of mine who makes money from his business doesn't contribute to the house for the same food he eats, when he makes money he goes to hotels and sleep over with women and prefers to train and help outsiders than bring something to the family. Recently, he had the effontry to reject my mummy's food on the ground that it was served late. I simply asked my mom to stop putting food for him.

Honestly this brother of mine has never brought joy to my parents and siblings. He has had several accidents driving carelessly, yet my mom still takes care of it all and she has even stayed over in the hospital when he had the last accident and became unconscious.

They're just the kind of brother one will have and you wished you never had a brother , my brother is exactly that kind of brother anyone will wish not to have. Not to talk of his dubious nature, you can't do simple business with him without him cheating on you. I once was rearing one animal and had to send him money for feeds but can you believe he was billing me in excess. We also contributed money to renovate our father's house and he emphatically told us he bought something which he didn't actually buy.

I wonder why God gave us this kind of brother, he has been like this since we all knew something and hasn't changed for good.
He has been sat down and talked to severally yet he will repent and still go back to his old ways .

So pathetic!

Mybrotheralso:

He will listen at that burning moment and after a brief period he will still go back to his old ways

Mybrotheralso:
He's the first born out of 5 children. He's doing his PHD and has his own business. He still lives with our parents. So he does not pay for house, food or water. But can you imagine this brother of mine who makes money from his business doesn't contribute to the house for the same food he eats, when he makes money he goes to hotels and sleep over with women and prefers to train and help outsiders than bring something to the family. Recently, he had the effontry to reject my mummy's food on the ground that it was served late. I simply asked my mom to stop putting food for him.

Honestly this brother of mine has never brought joy to my parents and siblings. He has had several accidents driving carelessly, yet my mom still takes care of it all and she has even stayed over in the hospital when he had the last accident and became unconscious.

They're just the kind of brother one will have and you wished you never had a brother , my brother is exactly that kind of brother anyone will wish not to have. Not to talk of his dubious nature, you can't do simple business with him without him cheating on you. I once was rearing one animal and had to send him money for feeds but can you believe he was billing me in excess. We also contributed money to renovate our father's house and he emphatically told us he bought something which he didn't actually buy.

I wonder why God gave us this kind of brother, he has been like this since we all knew something and hasn't changed for good.
He has been sat down and talked to severally yet he will repent and still go back to his old ways .

So pathetic!

helinues:
Why not enlightening him about his ways of doing things politely?

Candle can't see its own yansh

KiNg0G:


If person dey talk bad about you for your back you go like am?


So you won tell me say the guy brother not get any good side... well senseless fool like you nor go understand.

Trojan8:


So how's he being disrespected here? Na wa for your thought process

princeeze1:
Unfortunately the problem here is your mother! Not every child is meant to have common sense factory fitted. I have same issue with my immediate elder brother. Unmarried, 40, eating from my mother’s pot. Mind you I already have 2 kids. I agree life is not competition though. I never returned home, the moment I graduated, not because I would be chased out, but because I was ready to face life. He will not get serious because he does not want to leave his area of comfort and face the challenges of paying the attending bills life begins to throw at him, and your mother just like mine has aided and abetted him thinking it’s mother’s love. My mother cannot just stop. Your best bet is to encourage him to get married, which I intend doing for my bro when I arrive in December, I already asked him to introduce his fiancée to me when I arrive for Xmas. A wife would most prolly ensure they get their place, he has bills to shoulder hence he becomes financially responsible. As for dubious dealings, that maybe factory follow come.

Morgan9:


All this things u just mentioned wont change him ..
That is character is inbuilt
I have an elder brother that behave exactly like him in my family..

Everyone has given up on him we are just waiting to hear he has died so that we can bury him..

victorazy:


Calm down my brother, I know how disappointed and heartbroken you feel.

I must tell you! Is not his fault. Is called foundational powers, it falls on first sons. It would have affected you if your the first son.

The signs:
1. They womanize & women like them
2. They can never be trusted in business as they must cheat you.
3. You can not trust your money in their hands
4. They can owe
5. They can sell any sellable
6. They can be stubborn
7. They are intelligent but latent
8. Helpers always come their ways but never blend well with them. Etc

You have to pity him, he needs your prayers.

osazsky:
oga do u know the meaning of smart.u cant be smart and at 35 you are still leaving with your parents..na change oga dey make o..just rest..I already had friends back then who where very smart...efe..at 24 he was already earning 11m a month in Finland.. at 35 his first son was in jss1...he give girl bele before him move..and went tru sch with scholarship...same with me.but he made more money..doing your phd doesn't mean u are smart anyone can get a phd cuz its useless

vickydevoka:


Bros, this life no balance. Some people are praying for that kinda son n they didn't see. He is intelligent, smart n business minded.

My neighbor gave birth to 2 boys n one daughter, all are worthless. The boyss are over 35, the cultist, n de never graduated. The daughter is the worst, she didn't even pass waec, not to talk of going to uni. n she's a teacher, who has doctors n pharmacist as her students. As I'm speaking to u she has b.p n stroke due to over thinking.

kemjoe:
I am really wondering where all these opinions about first born sons are coming from?
I am a first born but I left my house while I was still in the university. I only visited during this period.
As the first born son, I was unable to rise to where I should be not because I did not try but because the demand from family from me was enormous.
If there is any contribution to make in the family, mine is always the highest while my younger siblings always give excuses why they cannot meet up with their contribution.
I was once out of job but I virtually did not get anything from my siblings. When the table turned, I was made to assist regardless of my own immediate family (wife and kids). One thing that is saving me is that I live in my own house which if I had listened to my mum, I wouldn't have built. She wanted me to divert the money for the house construction to assisting my siblings with their finances.
My father is late but I have never exercised my authority on my family. I allow them to make decisions that they deem reasonable without me forcing mine on them even if I hold a contrary opinion.
So, please change this your mindset about first born. That the writers brother is not behaving well does not make all first born the same.
I rest my case.

BeeBeeOoh:
Do know how long they must have prayed and advised his? Mind you we ain't talking about a kid or an adolescent here, we're talking about a 34-year-old man

Trueteller0147:
I didn't see any offense your brother committed here. He his even going for his PhD and has his own business. You just hate your brother for reason best known to you

kemjoe:
I am really wondering where all these opinions about first born sons are coming from?
I am a first born but I left my house while I was still in the university. I only visited during this period.
As the first born son, I was unable to rise to where I should be not because I did not try but because the demand from family from me was enormous.
If there is any contribution to make in the family, mine is always the highest while my younger siblings always give excuses why they cannot meet up with their contribution.
I was once out of job but I virtually did not get anything from my siblings. When the table turned, I was made to assist regardless of my own immediate family (wife and kids). One thing that is saving me is that I live in my own house which if I had listened to my mum, I wouldn't have built. She wanted me to divert the money for the house construction to assisting my siblings with their finances.
My father is late but I have never exercised my authority on my family. I allow them to make decisions that they deem reasonable without me forcing mine on them even if I hold a contrary opinion.
So, please change this your mindset about first born. That the writers brother is not behaving well does not make all first born the same.
I rest my case.

Evercurious:



YOU AND ALL THOSE THAT LIKED YOUR COMMENT ARE ALL PATHETIC FOOLS... Just imagine this type of stupid mentality...

XXXXTENTACION:
Posting this about his elder brother is enough disrespect....
* If you were the elder brother how would you feel if your younger brother posts this about you on a public forum....

Trojan8:



See talk

Truvelisback:
That talk na for people wey e concern. If u are the first born, u will relate to this. 1st borns usually faces tougher challenges in life than their younger ones. That's why u rarely see first borns make it in life or live a responsible life.