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Re: Bored In Marriage by realstars: 11:20am On Oct 16, 2021 |
shedybaba44:He who found a wife have found goodthing as they said. then why lammenting? |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Champneys: 11:20am On Oct 16, 2021 |
shedybaba44: Eeeyah |
Re: Bored In Marriage by foleskay(m): 11:20am On Oct 16, 2021 |
Lol. The tought of you banging only one pucci for life is your major worry I know. . That's what happens if one runs into marriage majorly cos of sex. After three months one go get tired. Marry ur friend,one who u can fist with continously without getting bored. I hope ur marriage is not d indian style of arrangee marriage cos u sound like your wife was arranged for you. 4 Likes |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Benoxvals(m): 11:20am On Oct 16, 2021 |
Pls note that people go through a lot in life. If someone air their problems on this platform,advice them if you’ve got a possible solution that will help them and if you’ve got nothing and cannot proffer a solution to their problems,pls do not insult or throw tantrums at them. The psychological effects of these insults might hurt their feelings or worse.. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Semaj77(m): 11:21am On Oct 16, 2021 |
femi4: No shame in that , there are people who aren't even ready for marriage their whole lives , so what would you say about that 8 Likes |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Nobody: 11:21am On Oct 16, 2021 |
AmericanDad: Exactly what he wants.... so he should stop saying she's a hindrance to his business and all 1 Like |
Re: Bored In Marriage by anukulapo: 11:21am On Oct 16, 2021 |
Married and bored, single and lonely 1 Like |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Ebukacute(m): 11:21am On Oct 16, 2021 |
Oga akpan... I go report you to your wife I swear. |
Re: Bored In Marriage by moneyissweet(m): 11:21am On Oct 16, 2021 |
Your feelings is spiritual..seek for spiritual help Asap. At 29, this is the only time you can enjoy your wife and marriage to the fullest. Something is definitely wrong with you, is either you married your wife by mistake or your wife is too urgly. Marriage wey dey sweet like agege bread. |
Re: Bored In Marriage by advanceDNA: 11:21am On Oct 16, 2021 |
Octopusssy: Why is it so hard for you to overlook an unimportant sh!t on a faceless forum.... 3 Likes |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Goldiness: 11:21am On Oct 16, 2021 |
shedybaba44: You are the one doing yourself, my dad married my mum at age 28 years back then, my mom was I think 20 or 21 and from the pictures I saw of them, they enjoyed their lives, why am I saying this ..... Create an enjoyable life in your marriage with your wife,it's not all about sex alright, you let the boredom get to you because you pay so much attention to it, it's not bad marrying at that age, some men even marry earlier than you, so you batter wise up and don't put any blame on the marriage but you. Thank God you did not condemn your wife, meaning she is a good lady. See marriage is work, hard work for that matter, the better you understand that and work towards it, for your your peace of mind. As a married man, stay commited, you will and can still do the fun things you want to do as a guy, but make sure it doesn't affect your marriage negativity. Communication is key, talk things over with your wife and see how you can set out time to enjoy your youth, and she will understand, avoid devoice, because it will not get you anywhere. I know some guys will mock you, about your marriage, don't mind them, they are not happy that you are married, they have failed to stir up their relationship positively, so they feel others to should fail like them in relationship or marriage. Be wise at this point and don't let your emotions get the best of you. I wish you well in your marriage. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Bored In Marriage by frozen70(f): 11:22am On Oct 16, 2021 |
shedybaba44: What you will understand is that, you can still be married and still live any kind of life style you want since your eyes are still outside Am glad you married your choice of woman So, I will assume you married early because you are the only son, good and fine Now that you are married try and pregnant your wife while you still play away By the time your first child comes and you see the challenges that are involve, you will bring in those your legs and eyes that are out Just rock in and out, after all your pocket is loaded Even if you like have kids outside they are all yours, just be ready to be very responsible 2 Likes |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Unruly7(m): 11:23am On Oct 16, 2021 |
E go even worst if na churchy person you marry oh No outing Na only fellowship and midweek service una go de go 1 Like |
Re: Bored In Marriage by EyeTaspirant(m): 11:23am On Oct 16, 2021 |
Just try to make your wife your best friend. It will be a difficult thing though but find a way to make her the source of the vibes you want and vice versa. Opinion from a bachelor, older than you but not well to do so I no fit try wetin you try shedybaba44: |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Nobody: 11:23am On Oct 16, 2021 |
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Re: Bored In Marriage by PrimadonnaO(f): 11:23am On Oct 16, 2021 |
What does marriage really restrict people from doing? Sometimes, people who shy away from marriage do so because they want to be irresponsible for as long as they can. Not be accountable to anyone... Hop from one relationship to another without a care in the world... Endless late nights and getaways. Not take up responsibilities for someone else, kids, spouse, sometimes extended family, etc. Because if the above aren't problems, then marriage isn't so much different from living in-house with your boo. Only difference would be having children, but isn't that so much more beautiful? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Nobody: 11:24am On Oct 16, 2021 |
I feel I entered marriage too early am just 29 although am well to do, with my own business and from a well to do home also... but am always feeling marriage is [color=#000000][/color]*slowing me down business wise* and exploring. This statement is bad Just say the truth |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Aganju849: 11:24am On Oct 16, 2021 |
shedybaba44: You're not too young bro, twenty year olds get and stay married successfully What you need to do is change your circle, give the wild bachelors some space and start moving with a more responsible crowd. 2 Likes |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Noblewealth(m): 11:24am On Oct 16, 2021 |
Will clock 30 this December, already have a spouse but struggling to get an apartment aftermath marriage and someone is here tired of 7 month old marriage.. with the attributes you attach to your wife, if you dare divorce her.. your life will become an equilibrium, forget about the money cos you bout to lose peace of mind... You better see a councilor or you think your unmarried friends are happy the way they are.... First thing pray, see a life coach and be happy aftermath... 2 Likes |
Re: Bored In Marriage by advanceDNA: 11:24am On Oct 16, 2021 |
realstars: He obviously didn't find a wife ...the wife found him 4 Likes |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Larrykaysail(m): 11:24am On Oct 16, 2021 |
shedybaba44:I understand you , call your wife let her understand that u need a lot of private time but 29 year is not too young , Marriage is sweet if you marry your friend tell her what you what and with time you will be use to seat at home |
Re: Bored In Marriage by foleskay(m): 11:24am On Oct 16, 2021 |
YungTemy:How is it a scam. If its a scam..your parents might have abborted ur pregnancy.. 1 Like |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Crochet: 11:24am On Oct 16, 2021 |
You are acting as if you were forced into the marriage, you can still ignite your marriage and make it how you want it to be. You need to have a one and one discussion with your wife, get to know her better. |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Nobody: 11:25am On Oct 16, 2021 |
PrimadonnaO: Fucking different pussies...it makes you cling to own toto... and OP no like am 2 Likes |
Re: Bored In Marriage by olaniyilukman(m): 11:25am On Oct 16, 2021 |
SonofGod231:My bro, pls take ur time before you finally settle down with your girl, marriage is not an easy institution at all as some people portrayed it, sometimes you will feel like going the single way throughout your entire life... I felt the guy pains because I am in his shoe right now. |
Re: Bored In Marriage by whitebeard(m): 11:25am On Oct 16, 2021 |
OP hope u know those your friends will soon get married..!!! 1 Like |
Re: Bored In Marriage by advanceDNA: 11:27am On Oct 16, 2021 |
PrimadonnaO: Fornicating without feeling guilty of hurting somebody .... Enterimg the house by 3am in the morning from club...without anybody's complain.... Basically...he wants to still be irresponsible without anybody to complain 3 Likes |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Bamzyriches451: 11:27am On Oct 16, 2021 |
Marriage!! Very overated institution 1 Like |
Re: Bored In Marriage by coolh3ad(m): 11:27am On Oct 16, 2021 |
shedybaba44: Don't worry, you will get used to it soon..I got married at 27. 1 Like |
Re: Bored In Marriage by PrimadonnaO(f): 11:28am On Oct 16, 2021 |
advanceDNA: Exactly. License to waywardness. 3 Likes |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Makschinchin: 11:28am On Oct 16, 2021 |
Bored already when you are still starting My guy, all these thinking are from within you.. Try and restructure your thoughts... You're already married so live like one.. Thank God the problem is not from your wife but you, so put all those bacheloric thoughts away and enjoy your marriage |
Re: Bored In Marriage by realstars: 11:29am On Oct 16, 2021 |
advanceDNA:Lol, |
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