Lately my girlfriend is no longer comfortable leaving her phone around me, she is so close to her phone even when we are eating or early in the morning when she's supposed to start doing morning activities....
I am someone who hate the idea of partner checking each other phone and i always advise others not to look on their partners phone. Pls I just can't take it any more it's just as if am being thrown away in my relationship and there's this force that keeps pushing me. Pls if u where in my shoes will u start check on her phone or let go to prevent BP

pele

Firstandonly:
Lately my girlfriend is no longer comfortable leaving her phone around me, she is so close to her phone even when we are eating or early in the morning when she's supposed to start doing morning activities....
I am someone who hate the idea of partner checking each other phone and i always advise others not to look on their partners phone. Pls I just can't take it any more it's just as if am being thrown away in my relationship and there's this force that keeps pushing me. Pls if u where in my shoes will u start check on her phone or let go to prevent BP

Stay away from Nigerian ladies, they won't hear.
Look here, OP is vomitting series of trash .
You deserve such

Nigerian ladies are always useless, He who has ears will surely listen

Leave her phone alone

She is with u all day yet u still suspect her

Pls if u where in my shoes will u start check on her phone or let go to prevent BP

Omo, it's more noble to check now and chest the BP with utmost good faith than not to check and be played like a fool by a vagina.

Pesin wey yu neva marry yet, yu don drag her to come live with yu.. How yu expect her to take yu serious or even gather respect give yu.?
FYI, na girlfriend yu label her no be wife; so kuku allow the babe cruise her single live.. Whenever yu ready for courtship with her, let us know... Ba-Bye

Is this not the same girl that you want to invest in?


People wey get gf , una dey suffer o.

She is obviously managing you...

SanctifiedSista:
Leave her phone alone

She is with u all day yet u still suspect her

Obviously, you're not sanctified with wisdom.

Firstandonly:

I am someone who hate the idea of partner checking each other phone and i always advise others not to look on their partners phone. Pls I just can't take it any more it's just as if am being thrown away in my relationship and there's this force that keeps pushing me. Pls if u where in my shoes will u start check on her phone or let go to prevent BP

Does your girlfriend currently check your phone? Is that why you feel you need to check her phone now?

If you believe she is cheating on you, then it may be best to confront that feeling and find out the facts rather than have that rat run around in your head. Process what you are thinking and confront her about it all, not in a harsh manner of course.

Firstandonly:
Lately my girlfriend is no longer comfortable leaving her phone around me, she is so close to her phone even when we are eating or early in the morning when she's supposed to start doing morning activities....
I am someone who hate the idea of partner checking each other phone and i always advise others not to look on their partners phone. Pls I just can't take it any more it's just as if am being thrown away in my relationship and there's this force that keeps pushing me. Pls if u where in my shoes will u start check on her phone or let go to prevent BP

You're seeing the glaring red flags, why do you choose to further torment yourself by checking her phone?

Just call her and talk to her, and point out the changes you've observed, then listen to her defence.

If after expressing yourself to her, you notice she doesn't change and keeps acting all spooky around you whenever her phone rings, then for your mental and emotional health, initiate the withdrawal process from the relationship in a gradual manner until you don't feel anything for her anymore then you can cutoff completely.

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What colour of BP do you prefer?

It will end in premium tears

Kobojunkie:
Does your girlfriend currently check your phone? Is that why you feel you need to check her phone now?

If you believe she is cheating on you, then it may be best to confront that feeling and find out the facts rather than have that rat run around in your head. Process what you are thinking and confront her about it all, not in a harsh manner of course.

yes, she checks my phone and question my calls. I have always confronted her and her answer is the same (just my friend) am thinking i should take a step further

The question is, what price are you willing to pay? To violate her privacy by checking her phone but have peace of mind, or respect her privacy and be permanently troubled? Having said that, if I were you, I'll check her phone.

My formula is simple. And it is that if you give me reason to distrust you, then you better accept the burden of making me trust you back, and if you don't, then checking your phone is justified. In the word of Ronald Reagan, you should "trust, but verify".

Are you guys married?

If no, then why going all out for some random d*ck sucker?

9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them!

Firstandonly:
yes, she checks my phone and question my calls. I have always confronted her and her answer is the same (just my friend) am thinking i should take a step further

Ok, so by taking it a step further do you mean to check her phone in her presence or behind her back?

Bola146:
pele

The mumu want privatised the toto, whereas toto na public goods. Women cant sleep with one man all their life. It is impossible in this generation.

Firstandonly:
Lately my girlfriend is no longer comfortable leaving her phone around me, she is so close to her phone even when we are eating or early in the morning when she's supposed to start doing morning activities....
I am someone who hate the idea of partner checking each other phone and i always advise others not to look on their partners phone. Pls I just can't take it any more it's just as if am being thrown away in my relationship and there's this force that keeps pushing me. Pls if u where in my shoes will u start check on her phone or let go to prevent BP

Better do once in a while. This saved me because I was able to decipher her hidden motive

Which I could write long epistle but make I short am for you. You are alone in this relationship. I can assure you that that her phone is onion and once you tried opening it..you will surely cry

Firstandonly:
Lately my girlfriend is no longer comfortable leaving her phone around me, she is so close to her phone even when we are eating or early in the morning when she's supposed to start doing morning activities....
I am someone who hate the idea of partner checking each other phone and i always advise others not to look on their partners phone. Pls I just can't take it any more it's just as if am being thrown away in my relationship and there's this force that keeps pushing me. Pls if u where in my shoes will u start check on her phone or let go to prevent BP

once you show you Care, your fûcked.

Mennnnnnnn,must you pass through all these stress just Because of a woman? . Una dey try oh...

These efforts wey some of una dey put for woman matter,I believe say if una convert am into playing virtual,una lives for don change tay tay

Firstandonly:
Lately my girlfriend is no longer comfortable leaving her phone around me, she is so close to her phone even when we are eating or early in the morning when she's supposed to start doing morning activities....
I am someone who hate the idea of partner checking each other phone and i always advise others not to look on their partners phone. Pls I just can't take it any more it's just as if am being thrown away in my relationship and there's this force that keeps pushing me. Pls if u where in my shoes will u start check on her phone or let go to prevent BP

You'll see what you're looking for

Yes na

Firstandonly:
Lately my girlfriend is no longer comfortable leaving her phone around me, she is so close to her phone even when we are eating or early in the morning when she's supposed to start doing morning activities....
I am someone who hate the idea of partner checking each other phone and i always advise others not to look on their partners phone. Pls I just can't take it any more it's just as if am being thrown away in my relationship and there's this force that keeps pushing me. Pls if u where in my shoes will u start check on her phone or let go to prevent BP

Once you Notice a sign of cheating in your girlfriend or wife, don't ask her, don't look for evidence, don't think further and don't worry yourself. Just end the love in your mind. Fvck her until you're tired while you find another girl.
A woman who loves you will NEVER give you a reason to doubt her loyalty!

pansophist:
The question is, what price are you willing to pay? To violate her privacy by checking her phone but have peace of mind, or respect her privacy and be permanently troubled? Having said that, if I were you, I'll check her phone.

My formula is simple. And it is that if you give me reason to distrust you, then you better accept the burden of making me trust you back, and if you don't, then checking your phone is justified. In the word of Ronald Reagan, you should "trust, but verify".

thanks bro, this made my day!

Kobojunkie:
Ok, so by taking it a step further do you mean to check her phone in her presence or behind her back?

behind her back

Firstandonly:
behind her back

I would recommend against that because then rat in your mind will only continue to have a field day with you.