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Terrier99:
This lady insulted me and broke-shamed me on some other thread, I just laughed. She obviously didn't know who she was talking to. I didn't even know that she's a beggar in real life.

Go and look for the idiot who impregnated you and stop disturbing us here. You can't get a job or skill but you can collect pennis and you can insult people. Foolish thing.

AutoChick4U:
Me? Definitely not

AutoChick4U:
Got bsc and not B.Ed but thanks for d info I'll look it up. Following up teaching autistic kids, it will take huge patience but I'm ready.

Homeboiy:
Op no be your mates dey Do Ashawo


Drop your baby one corner go run short time


2 hours you fit make 5k plus

AutoChick4U:
Sorry I cant do such. Thanks

KiNg0G:
OG we know say you be scammer.

Go bomb match or plenty of fish.



EVEN THE WAY you dey write, na guy man dey talk.





you Just won cashout this early morning..... untop our male name.



come outside tell me say you be guy manh, I GO PERSONALLY SEND YOU GREEN instantar.


nor be by to form female.... to spoil our manosphere.

Homeboiy:
Op no be your mates dey Do Ashawo


Drop your baby one corner go run short time


2 hours you fit make 5k plus

2braithe:
I feel so sad for this lady right now.
Imagine what you guys are saying to her cos of her situation.

Life no balance.If to say I get money,I for help.Na widows,single mothers, orphans my mind want to dey help.Money no just dey yet.
Funny enough,people wey get money sef no help.

AutoChick4U:
Its fine,they can call me a scammer. But I'll definitely open a testimony thread some day and do giveaway. Someday

Terrier99:
I have helped ladies without any string attached, they called me a maga behind my back. Now, I don't help ladies. Let them Bleep off.

Homeboiy:
And you dey find free money

Ok you go learn bombing make I put you through?

AutoChick4U:
digital marketing, admin jobs, I can also teach as well. I hope to improve on more skills.

luvmijeje:
That's men for you. A man that wants to help you must Bleep you. And they are the same people that will come online to call women prostitute.

Anyway, what skill do you have? What can you do? When you are asking for help, you need to be specific. Na you cause all this whahala.

SenecaTheYonger:
Where are the feminist?

Women supporting women. Where are they in times like this? What do they even exist for?

Anyways, sorry about your predicament. I felt with the strong presence of feminism on Nairaland, people like OP shouldn’t lack care and support.

Reach out to family, church etc. if your child is no longer breastfeeding, maybe consider letting them stay with your parents while you search for a job and think about how to balance your schedule so you can get your child back.


Please don’t rely on this method of asking strangers on Nairaland for long. I’m sorry about your predicament.

AutoChick4U:
that will make me a scammer na

Justbehave:
See dem. You can't even help her solve her financial problems even after telling you that her kid is starving but you were so fast to help her fight me on this forum.Smh.

ChiefSosa:
Madam, not all men are like that o. If the one that fúcked her didn't help her, why then do you conclude that any man that wants to help her must want to fúck her?
P.s. Your moniker 'luvmijeje' reminds me of
one old Nigerian song like that.

eldega:
Did you just call me a liar?

If you check my profile very well you did realize I have been on this platform for a very long time if not before you started using a mobile phone, so you know I'm not a kid moreso I've been on the street for a while and that's where I grew up from.

Because of the nature of scammers on this platform I tried as much as possible to limit my interaction and all, what made me develop interest in your case was because of the innocent baby you claim to presently have. My motive in life has always been no kid deserve to suffer for whatever decision their parent made. Either your story is real or not, I decided to contact you to see way (s) which I can help your situation, even though this economy is not friendly to all of us, we still have to thank God for where we are and continue the hustle.

So I contacted you & made you understand I'm willing to help but I need to confirm the authenticity of your claim first before rendering any help, when I asked where you were staying in Abuja, the location you mentioned was where I've never been to before so I requested if you could come to anywhere in town, the purpose of this was for me to hear you out physically and chart a positive sustainable way for you that won't made you to come online or anywhere to beg anymore.

I asked if you were ready for business which you said yes, we fixed Friday for you to come to town so we could see. After we agreed, so many thought came up on my mind, I discussed your issue with a friend and explained that my intention was to give you 10k & transport when you come to town, if your story & situation is genuine maybe I can make the 10k a monthly thing for the sake of the baby till you are back on your feet.

Then my friend call my attention to the fact that why not see if you can be set up for a business since there is a connection which we can pull for federal government intervention fund (Covid-19) loan which can be secured for you. This we know most people have enjoyed and be able to start something. So if you were able to secure 500k you should be able to start a sustainable business that will be able to take care of your immediate needs and future one. Moreover the repayment of this loan won't start until after 12 months at 5% interest rate per annum. This I even sent a nairaland link of it to you for you to confirm as I made you understand that so many people are looking forward to this kind of offer which is not coming their way but I'm giving it to you free of charge.

This I discussed with you for this option that instead of you coming online to beg people for money every now and then, this option is there for you to take since you somehow claimed in one of your post that you were into business before all this issue started which gulp all your capital and you can still do business.

I was stunned by your response that you were not interested in the loan because you are scared of loan, scared of running a start up business with 500k which might fail and where will you get the monthly repayment from if the business fail. My mind was like, so you will be more comfortable if I said I want to dash you 100k or 200k to start up a business rather than you working for your money bah?.

After going forth and back on this, I was able to deduce that what you were only interested in was free money or manna from heaven. My instinct was that maybe your intention is trying to play on people's emotions to get cheap money from them, if you get like 2k from 20 people that's 40k without stressing yourself....well, I'm not in to help somebody who is not ready to help herself/himself somebody that will be comfortable begging rather than get herself up for business even when given the option of full funding.

After you said you weren't interested in the intervention fund, you still requested if our agreement to see in town by Friday is still in place and I responded in affirmative. So many thought kept creeping up on my mind that I needed to be careful for my safety & security, what if it's a guy that will want to use a lady as a decoy come Friday..I was ready to take the risk and waiting for you to beep me up on Friday to decide where you will be coming to in town for me to meet up with you but ALAS you NEVER chatted me or anything till late in the evening when you gave excuse that[b] "you forgot to meet me up due to some activities" [/b] please who will be in dire need as you claim & when she was asked to come and get help will suddenly forget to go due to activities? Na street we all dey nah...haba.

You suggested we can still see the following day which was yesterday but pending that, you said you were out of cooking gas and wouldn't mind if I can help, I had to ask you again if what you are requesting is for me to send you money which you answered in affirmative, I requested for your account number which you immediately send but I haven't send you any Kobo till now. This was the point that actually gave you out cos my instinct was that if I send you any money you might likely not see me yesterday, I also came online to check your profile on this platform, I realized you have edited some of your comments and posts you made earlier.

When you didn't see me send money, you chatted me up yesterday asking why I didn't send the money and I said I wasn't still convince you are who you claim to be, you suggested maybe we can do video call which I said yes, you called me immediately but I declined the call cos my street OT was that for you to have chatted me up to ask for the money, a lady who you might be working with might be beside you which will be the one to talk to me, I'm too wise to fall for this kind of cheap scam, meanwhile, when we started chatting you didn't have any picture on your DP but when you beep me up yesterday, what you have on your DP was a guy picture with a lady at the background which you removed immediately I responded to your chat...so I ex you and stop responding to your chat pending when I verify you are who you claim to be and for my safety.

I never even ask you for anything before proposing the help I wanted to render for you, the way you communicate gave you out to be a guy working together with a lady just to play on people's emotions, moreso actions speak rather than voice....
I leave you up to other people to judge my encounter with you as you claimed I'm a liar

Kindly note, if there's a lie in all I said, you can point it out or if I ever requested for anything in return for wanting to help you. Mind you, our chat history is still here for confirmation

luvmijeje:
I'm talking from experience. For you to see a man that will help without condition is rare sir. They are the exception. And an exception cannot be a norm.

It's one of the reason we need more women in the position of power.

pocohantas:
Autochîck again?

Justbehave:
Start the help with her here first and stop castigating men. Is she not your fellow woman?

luvmijeje:
I didn't castigate. I'm only stating a fact.

UndauntedYOCA:
Autocick4u, I know the likelihood of you being female is about 70% and I have my reason for saying that (unless the said guy has strong evidences to prove otherwise). As much as everyone needs help and it isn't bad asking to one, I strongly suggest that you learn from this, pull yourself together and save your face by doing everything possible to earn a living and when finances are sufficient, start from the people around you whom you know might be able to help you.
The first thing I do when I am in need is to pray, and God has been faithful and true to His word, He sends help through family members and sometimes through people I don't even know (strangers) but one thing is that it's status from me knowing what I want and doing the best I can to get them. Someone recently laughed at me (a guy) and said it's not possible to get help from men without sleeping with them when I told him God has a way of coming through for me.
Furthermore, I think you should tone down on the 'pity-me' way you write, more importantly by reducing the 'me, my child and baby daddy' threads you create. I know you need help but I say this because I only do not want people using you. Some will see it as an act of desperation and use that to want to manipulate you or have their way with you. You have to be concerned about the your safety and that of your child as there exist dangerous people here on Nairaland as well as in the real world.
I do hope things get better for you if your stories are true. Also, be careful with how you respond to requests. If you knew you wouldn't send the videos he requested for then you shouldn't have asked him to send money for. I do not start what I can't finish and do protect your image.
Also, find something to do.

Justbehave:
The only fact here now is for you to help her.

luvmijeje:
Oga, no be you go tell me the right thing to do. When I have the capacity, I love helping. Where I'm today is due the help of strong women. So why won't I pay it forward when and if I have the capacity to do it.

ChiefSosa:
Mention me and UndauntedYoca when you're doing give away. Thank you!

luvmijeje:
I'm talking from experience. For you to see a man that will help without condition is rare sir. They are the exception. And an exception cannot be a norm.

It's one of the reason we need more women in the position of power.

It's one of the reason we need more women in the position of power.