Nairaland pls help a brother i recently meet a lady, has a guy nw we had a conversation and i ask her that can we be dating. She said she has someone she is dating that we should start frm friend....my problem now is that i dont knw how 2 play the game cos i dont want to Bleep up. Insult is allow

Be hopeful op . Chebi if Club wey dey for championship play well,dem go promote am go Premier league?

Na so.......When girl jam mugu,e no dey hard her to easily manipulate am

pele

Sonnobax15:

Be hopeful op . Chebi if Club wey dey for championship play well,dem go promote am go Premier league?

Na so.......When girl jam mugu,e no dey hard her to easily manipulate am

so na who be the mugu nw?

Be yourselve.

Most of u guys fvck up cos u want to impress us.

If u fvck up, u won't get past that friendzone, no lady wants a clown

makavellidon:
Nairaland pls help a brother i recently meet a lady, has a guy nw we had a conversation and i ask her that can we be dating. She said she has someone she is dating that we should start frm friend....my problem now is that i dont knw how 2 play the game cos i dont want to Bleep up. Insult is allow

It's a trap. Never be her friend, if she can't date you then you can't be her friend SIMPle

Crunchyg2:

It's a trap. Never be her friend, if she can't date you then you can't be her friend SIMPle

thanks pal

Richywiz:
Be yourselve.

Most of u guys fvck up cos u want to impress us

you mean i should just be cool.

Lmao.

No be new thing, na normal format.
But let me tell you this, being the best friend she has ever had doesn't guarantee anything.

Most Ladies don't even know how to recognize a good thing.
They just have this fixed mindset of how things are supposed to be
Which most times doesn't help.

Back to your matter,
If you agree to be friends with her, only reciprocate her energy. Don't do too much !!!!!

If possible don't even spend a dime on her
Don't transfer any thing.

Let the friendship build slowly.

She wants to be friends right, please put her in the friend zone and go and look for someone that can give you what you want.

Remember , it's not about how good you're to her, it's not bout what you did and didn't do

Ladies have one innate desire for problem and difficulty. Almost like they enjoy enduring..as if it makes them feel holy or better

They rather stick to that their useless boyfriend that has brought them nothing but pain and Shame, than consider any body else.


Some of this ladies are just big and bold looking but deep inside insecurity and low self esteem is dealing with them.

Guy, just be yourself . Don't expect much from her, don't see it as any stupid test ( that babe would still do whatever she likes )
Keep your options available and be ready for something better .


Don't commit If she doesn't !!
She wants friendship, treat her like your friend


No do pass yourself.
You can't impress her o


Have said my own.
May it be well with you

Akpurampubem!

Remember what goes around, comes around. If you steal another man's girl, another man will steal her from you.

Scam. She wants to friend zone you and be billing you. Old format for simps

[quote author=slickycee post=106975558]Lmao.

No be new thing, na normal format.
But let me tell you this, being the best friend she has ever had doesn't guarantee anything.

Most Ladies don't even know how to recognize a good thing.
They just have this fixed mindset of how things are supposed to be
Which most times doesn't help.

Back to your matter,
If you agree to be friends with her, only reciprocate her energy. Don't do too much !!!!!

If possible don't even spend a dime on her
Don't transfer any thing.

Let the friendship build slowly.

She wants to be friends right, please put her in the friend zone and go and look for someone that can give you what you want.

Remember , it's not about how good you're to her, it's not bout what you did and didn't do

Ladies have one innate desire for problem and difficulty. Almost like they enjoy enduring..as if it makes them feel holy or better

Bro thanks i really appreciate

So you want to be by the side waiting for her relationship to scatter so you can step in?

Lol

Since you have made yourself available, when her relationship scatters she will choose another guy while you remain friends.

Friendship with a woman cannot start after you have expressed romantic desire towards her. Both of you will be deceiving yourselves. And one of you will perpetually heartbroken.

Leave her alone and look for another babe. That’s the best way your friendship with her can work.

Assistant in the making

Sonnobax15:

Be hopeful op . Chebi if Club wey dey for championship play well,dem go promote am go Premier league?

Na so.......When girl jam mugu,e no dey hard her to easily manipulate am

Op you gar this, if you don't garrit forget barrit.

You want to date someone without going through the process of friendship ( Knowing more about each other)?

Na your likes dey create threads on how a lady broke their hearts

makavellidon:
so na who be the mugu nw?

You're..
You're the backup or one of the backups. Or a cash cow assuming u have money.

You guys are funny! You just met someone, the next thing na "dating"!
it is a "phase" something! One step at a time!
be friends with her! You be "auxiliary gear"

Candidlady:
You guys are funny! You just met someone, the next thing na "dating"!

it is a "phase" something! One step at a time!

be friends with her! You be "auxiliary gear"

gbam true talk

helinues:
You want to date someone without going through the process of friendship ( Knowing more about each other)?

Na your likes dey create threads on how a lady broke their hearts

Can someone please push this simpleton out of here before I lose my temper.

makavellidon:
Nairaland pls help a brother i recently meet a lady, has a guy nw we had a conversation and i ask her that can we be dating. She said she has someone she is dating that we should start frm friend....my problem now is that i dont knw how 2 play the game cos i dont want to Bleep up. Insult is allow

Bro, na small, small. were u expecting her to start carrying u on her head like oshuka? No. She hasn't known u well, so as to know whether she can trust u or not. She might want to see how serious u are abt it. Bro, If u want to win her heart, chat with as if she is ur Gf, not as if she is ur friend. Have an online fun with her.

Richywiz:
Be yourselve.

Most of u guys fvck up cos u want to impress us

Ahan mama, you look quite scrumptious. Shall I send a pm?