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Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by Karleb(m): 6:08pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
All those brothers that are waiting for sexx after marriage her in for a very rude shock! The problem is not with women being selfish, it's with the society and social media helping women to be selfish. 3 Likes |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by GGirll: 6:08pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
DriverX: You funny o |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by Jman06(m): 6:13pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Y'all are trying so hard to strip men of the little things they enjoy in this life. Even to get some soothing warm touches and sex from his wife after the day's hustle is now a big deal and a subject of debate! As if y'all will accept it if the reverse is the case. No wonder many married men now roam the streets in search of sugar girls to satisfy them. |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by Nobody: 6:13pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
bukatyne: As long as the husband owes the wife care, affection, understanding,love, etc. She owes him submission which includes and not limited to her hot cake. Men, love your wife... Wives, submit to your husband. So says the scriptures. Now, the prayer is to marry someone who understands and will respect our body situations. Man or Woman alike. 1 Like |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by Nobody: 6:15pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
tobechi20: My man I understand where you're coming from. I've reasoned this over and over again and clearly see the huge problem and irregularity here. I will only tell you this matter is extremely complex: 1. Sex drive of most men by nature is difficult to control and most times happens regularly. So a man's sex organs usually has a mind of its own to the extent some people have erection and ejaculate even when they're sleeping. So a man's sex organ is a man's biggest flaw. It never listens to the wife's needs for a break unfortunately. 2. Second complexity is that the Christian faith simply seems to support a man's inflated sexual needs by clearly telling wives to submit always except on some conditions like "when they're in a situation of fasting and prayers. 1 Corin 7:5 3. Wives are afraid that if they fail to submit to sex, husbands will get it elsewhere. On the other hand too even the men that try to discipline themselves to wait for their wives to be ready (especially regarding pregnancy) struggle a lot when its prolonged and sometimes succumb to pressure and get it outside not because they don't love their wives but because their wives are not ready and they are under pressure. 4. Even the women you're trying to protect their interest will fight against your perspective because sometimes their hormones run wild and they also constantly want sex even when the man is not ready or willing. A lot of men have equally complained about this including on Nairaland here. Also other times they need stuff urgently from a man like money and if he doesn't have it they force him to go and borrow and sometimes even steal to meet their demands. So the men equally retaliate by wanting no excuses when they ask for the one thing most women have as a bargaining chip which is sex. So because all these factors are mitigating and when it even appears the Bible seems to support yielding to the man's demands then it will only take those men that have conscience and can control themselves to do the right thing and let the woman be when she's not in the mood. Unfortunately they're extremely few 2 Likes |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by Jidegaf(m): 6:16pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Men are polygamost in nature.We have all over time try to speak or work against this natural process.Imagine why should a married man be accused of raping his wife?.When a wife is not ready for sex for whatever reasons he can quickly meet the other one.Sex and many other reasons is why nature condition men for wives .Ordinarily every man is supposed to be married to at least two wives at a time. Mother who has just gave birth is supposed to be given adequate time to be healed and not be forced to have sex, and man who need to have sex should be abled to do it legally without forcing anbody. |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by OgwuEgo: 6:17pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
No |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by Nobody: 6:19pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Boss13: Ok thanks. |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by Austeeenxx: 6:21pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
There's a reason polygamy or sidechics exist. |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by tnerro1(m): 6:22pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
DriverX: It’s the northerners that keeps fvcking and breeding like rabbits, that’s why we need state police to keep their useless population out of southern lands cause such unskilled over population is just going to cause problems for everyone in the future. |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by addictiv(m): 6:22pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Lol... You want to man to commit his time, resources and energy and hustle for you, provide and support you, give you a roof and make sure you are comfortable, risk his life to protect you in the face of danger, help with chores etc, You want a man to forsake the numerous women of the world and be loyal to you and the very thing that gives the man joy you deny him based on sentiments that you are not in the mood. After he has kept his own end, he still has to beg and cajole you to do your part. The same thing he can get for free elsewhere if he decides to give in to the whims of his mood. How about men start telling their wives that they are not in the mood the next time she needs him to perform his role as a husband. Let men just pay bills and start doing things based on how they are feeling and only do what they are in the mood to do and see how many women will enjoy the marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by Eriokanmi: 6:24pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
DriverX:Abeg tell them@yahoo.com. hope dem go listen. See as this thread reach 20 pages in less than 24 hours |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by Adakintroy: 6:25pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Many women are unreal with reality. Giving all a man does for you. feed a woman, shelter pay medicals and all ..that he is not your father.. a husband meaning stranger you met. sex is the last sacrifice you should carry out and complain. What can you give him if you withhold sex. If he wants sex at that time, you could manage, Not everything men do we actually feel like doing. Certainly not giving you our hard earn money .it's sacrifice. The problem with women many women is they are too pretty with thought and self absorbed with it. Not everything is about you. If we men think of ourselves alone half you women will be dead from starvation or something worst. Learn sacrificial trade offs. 2 Likes |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by LogicnReason: 6:26pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
First I guess you are a woman. Second, if you are actually a man then you must be an unmarried man and writing due to the pain a sister or lady friend of yours bared to you. Plus you already came in with a biased answer to your question. But here's the thing. Forget all the "it's a man's world" or "women liberation stuff", let's look at something you obviously didn't consider. Biologically, testosterone makes men want sex everyday. And women in their own right biologically are not designed to be ready for sex every day. So the reasonable way to solve this problem is as follows... 1. Allow the man to marry more than one wife so that if one is not in the mood, the husband will allow her rest or heal (like after child birth, etc) and when she is ready again she can then enter her husband's 'chamber'. Note I don't mean having baby mamas here and there, I mean having wives who accept and are ready to manage with your financial status and luck in life. And you being ready to work your bum out to provide for your family. 2. Reach an agreement with your husband how many times a week he can have it and that you will open up whether you are tired or not and in return he can have only you as wife. A man who has a trusted timetable will have something to look forward to and can adjust. But it will be unreasonable to tell a man that his wife cannot be available whenever his gbola needs it and at the same time ask the man not to have another woman to meet his biological needs. You can't have it both ways. It's not ego, it's a biological survival need. Note, the woman don't always have to be in the mood to give sex. Just open the leg and let oga enter, 2 mins he don finish. And then on the day you are in the mood he can give you any how you want it until you climax. Marriage is a give and take. But if you feel he is unreasonable to ask you when you are not in the mood, then you don't know what marriage means tobechi20: 5 Likes |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by sharone21(f): 6:27pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
I go with what Klass99 said. For men with wives who have an ailment what do they do?....I have seen a 70 something yrs old man trying to divorce his mid 60 something year wife( frustrating her in many ways) due to the sex palava even when the woman has an ailment which she sustained during her younger years while birthing her kids. My question for men who want to cheat on their wives for not having sex with them is:" what will you tell your maker if during the act with a prostitute or side chick, you die untop her?? Just wondering because, the sex thing na serious business for men , i also wonder why men usually bash women on body counts and sex when they are landlords in this domain.... |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by lwisee: 6:27pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
tobechi20: Most ladies of this generation will either end up being single for life, divorced or married to a didlo if they keep having this kind of mindset. Marriage is a union between 2 adult with different upbringing and lifestyles. You need to strike a balance for you to let it work. Tolerance is the key word here. What if the lady is hony and the guy is not in the mood. The two might not be in the mood at the same time to have sex in a whole year. It's about finding what turns your partner on without forcing him/her. All the talk about I own my body, I will do what pleases me alone as a married woman/man won't make a marriage WORK, NEVER 4 Likes |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by IJEYdiamond(f): 6:29pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
The Sex matter wen i do read for narialand eheeeee.. If its not becoming worrisome then i am lieing.. ..... for those who didn't open their eyes well to know themselves high and low libido, high sex drive..... big and small D...... wish una the best oooo...!!!... all i know if no solution dey for house.... hmmm... well u know the ans!! |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by Owopariola01: 6:29pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
InTheCloudySky: I like you, but the woman should not complain when the man start knacking other women. |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by tnerro1(m): 6:32pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
InTheCloudySky:Are you saying if the man is hot and the wife says no not because of some medical conditions but just she is not in the mood,he should go and sleep with a paid olosho, that it is better than to “RAPE” his wife ,and mind you, not all men get satisfaction from mastubating. |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by Sleekfingers: 6:32pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
tobechi20: Anytime, when wife says, she is not in the mood....I no dey follow her...... Na to call my side chick.....and the day she is the mood.....me self dey say , I am tired 1 Like |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by Faber(m): 6:34pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
budaatum: "I no send anybody" dey work in marriage. Kanye West left Kim and his kids and is living with his childhood friends in Wyoming. Kim threatened divorce, Kanye West said he no send anybody, anything can happen. The thing reset Kim's brain. Today Kanye West don change his name to Ye. |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by lwisee: 6:36pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Owopariola01: Exactly, I own my body, I own my body, don't you know that before you tied the knot. If a lady is not in the mood, the husband need to know the things and how to turn her on. She may be tired though and there might be reasons why she's not willing to have sex. Sit her down, let her open up to you, discuss the situation and before you know it her leg is wide open. But if a lady keep saying she owns her body and she can only open her legs whenever she feels like, such lady shouldn't complain when the husband start fornicating. |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by nallypaul(m): 6:36pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Please any cable professional? I need help for my gotv |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by Tickles001(m): 6:37pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Favfables1: Good to know there's still ladies like you out there. If you meet a reasonable man with this approach, he will do the impossible to keep you happy. SO HUMANE and FEMININE! 2 Likes |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by eventainment(m): 6:39pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
You deprive him of sex he sees a young lass that makes him happy in bed you'll say he is cheating. You get bored from getting rejected and you stop asking she complains to others that she is sex starved. You try to force it sometimes so you won't go out it is called rape. Make Una just de like me leave woman and their wahala na them go de give you sign say them want am . Lol if you chase something the thing go the run from you but if you chill e go waka come meet you. Lol if you don't make sex your priority you go get peace of mind and you'd checkmate a woman's best weapon. 2 Likes |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by ConqueredWest: 6:39pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
InTheCloudySky: Hope you will not complain that your husband is cheating on you.? Hope you will not complain when your husband goes into polygamy.? Think in all directions before you talk. |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by JudeAfoo(m): 6:40pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
All these *woke, unmarriagable, homeless writers will make you fail. Follow their words at your own marital peril 1 Like |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by bjtinz: 6:41pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Btw I've always wondered how women are so tired taking care of children that they can't meet husband's needs. Height of selfishness, if you ask me. Moreover is not the man doing all the work? |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by RPG2020(m): 6:43pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
tobechi20:
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Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by Nobody: 6:44pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Do husbands owe their wives money? Silly question. It’s not matter of “owe” it is just your obligation/responsibility/duty to do certain things in a marriage. |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by Benwallt(m): 6:45pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Yes na. What is her work there? Cook, clean, bring ideas and fvck him at all time. If she feeding well and taking the money she has to open her legs without stress. |
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