Greetings

Let me hit the nail on the head.
I have been searching for a girl I can build a relationship with. I don't really fancy one night stands.

I have been rather unfortunate so far. I have posted about two girls I met on this forum. The posts hit front page and you can check them on my profile.
The first girl told me she was fickle minded while the other one told me she can't date any guy that has a body count of three and above.


Fast forward to my current episode. I met this girl in October. Fine babe. All the curves in the right proportion and she has a high sense of humour.

We connected and started hanging out. The problem is that she is suffering from PTSD because she was raped at age seven.
Whenever we are together, we cannot have penetrative sex because she often remembers what she passed through at the hands of the evil man years ago.

She is afraid of sex all because of the Post Traumatic Stress Disorder she developed during the ordeal.

Fellows, how can I help her overcome this situation.
I really like her a lot.

One of the very few sensible comments wey don ever come from Righteousness2 dey for up....So you wise like this?

Must you have sex with her

Bro !
Rebels are taking the surrounding areas in the capital of ethiopia, which could incite civil unrest

And even the presidents of china, russia and india refused to attend the united nations conference on global warming earlier on !

My point exactly ?
We've got better pending issues to deliberate on than your inability to fornicate with your new girlfriend, whom you'll soon jump for another !

Creativeace:
Bro !
Rebels are taking the surrounding areas in the capital of ethiopia, which could incite civil unrest

And even the presidents of china, russia and india refused to attend the united nations conference on global warming earlier on !

My point exactly ?
We've got better pending issues to deliberate on than your inability to fornicate with your new girlfriend, whom you'll soon jump for another !

Who told you I am not keeping tabs on situations around the world.
So because Prime Minister Abey and his government are having issues with Tigray region, I should go and enlist in the army to defend Ethiopia or I should travel to Ankara and ask why the Turkish president did not show up at COP26. Should I also go to Kremlin and ask Putin also?

You don't even know what is happening around the world, the Indian president was at the climate change conference.
If you don't have anything to say, just kindly get out.

U dey try seek advice on top say u wan sex d girl.

She needs a psychologist ooo... No be dick she need... She never heal from that incident.. Dicksoning her will only make it worse. Get a a counselor to help guide her back to sanity.

You say you met in October. October was just last month. You just met and you're already sleeping with her? Smh.

As for her, if she really was raped and has PTSD as a result, the last thing she would be doing is sleeping with someone she just met.

Am also having PTSD, due to sapa.

Omicron007:
She is afraid of sex all because of the Post Traumatic Stress Disorder she developed during the ordeal.

Fellows, how can I help her overcome this situation.
I really like her a lot.

correction, she has ptsd as a result of the ordeal, nor the other way around.

Your job is not to cure her so barnish the thought that you can help her overcome it. You can instead help her manage it, and overtime she will overcome the experience.

If you like her a lot, then wait for her instead

Omicron007:
Greetings

Let me hit the nail on the head.
I have been searching for a girl I can build a relationship with. I don't really fancy one night stands.

I have been rather unfortunate so far. I have posted about two girls I met on this forum. The posts hit front page and you can check them on my profile.
The first girl told me she was fickle minded while the other one told me she can't date any guy that has a body count of three and above.
Fast forward to my current episode. I met this girl in October. Fine babe. All the curves in the right proportion and she has a high sense of humour.

We connected and started hanging out. The problem is that she is suffering from PTSD because she was raped at age seven.
Whenever we are together, we cannot have penetrative sex because she often remembers what she passed through at the hands of the evil man years ago.

She is afraid of sex all because of the Post Traumatic Stress Disorder she developed during the ordeal.

Fellows, how can I help her overcome this situation.
I really like her a lot.

Damn!
Baby girls are waking up

Since when your preeq don dey do the job of a psychiatrist. Oga, if you can't get her medical help, then let her go.

You'll have to give her enough time to heal PTSD is not a disorder that just heal like that....build her confidence to trust you enough,communicate with her deeply and if possible a psychotherapist will do,na herbs be my own job

muheeb01:
You'll have to give her enough time to heal PTSD is not a disorder that just heal like that....build her confidence to trust you enough,communicate with her deeply and if possible a psychotherapist will do,na herbs be my own job

Build her confidence? What is she, his child?

Abegi! She is an adult and one of the worst things that could happen to her is for her to develop dependence on another human at this point in her life.

A psychologist would be of benefit here.





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Get her a therapist...

Guess I'm the only one that will support you here,get her a therapist, after the dust is settled, remember I'm the best plug for everything sexual enhancement.
Don't go and disgrace us in bed oooo

Op may erection depart from thee.

Lalasticlala, what's your advice?

Creativeace:
Bro !
Rebels are taking the surrounding areas in the capital of ethiopia, which could incite civil unrest

And even the presidents of china, russia and india refused to attend the united nations conference on global warming earlier on !

My point exactly ?
We've got better pending issues to deliberate on than your inability to fornicate with your new girlfriend, whom you'll soon jump for another !

Some of you are just so stupid on this forum. If you're so concerned about potential civil unrest, why not stick to the political and crime sections? What are you searching for in the romance section? All contents here are romance-related, yet you dumbasses will open the threads and start criticizing the poster

In summary, Op is trying to ask how to get a girl with PTSD to bed..

I met one like that at ospoly, she was always looking at the man pics on Facebook with his family now living abroad, she always cry during sex but I bang am well sha, had to let her go after like 15 sex meetings cos it was getting irritating the cries, and she wanted to cast herself to my main GF then

but what if its a trick, cos some of these girls don too use rape lie

Wait shey na all the girls for this world, na em dey rape.
Any girl I flow out with, tell me the same shit.
"I was raped when I was little"

It's funny how one person can make you never to trust anybody�...

Okay

That is not a sickness

Give her plenty doses of Vitamin "S". Thank me very much later.