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Re: Help: My Girlfriend Is Suffering From Post Traumatic Stress Disorder by TheOnlyUyai(f): 10:00pm On Nov 03, 2021
Na she dey your DP?

An addendum, why do you attract troubled girls? All the relationships you have shoved in our faces has been from one problem to another. Well, as the popular saying goes, like attracts like. You can figure the answer on your own.

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Re: Help: My Girlfriend Is Suffering From Post Traumatic Stress Disorder by Nobody: 10:01pm On Nov 03, 2021
You for no just post this matter here...most people here are very insensible and don't even want to learn...
Any little thing they take it as a joke..never serious...some don't even know what PTSD mean..
Now one weird pastor on the group is saying stop fornication as in ehn give solution he is quoting the Bible.. God that created us knows what he's doing but some decided to carry the work as if they are God...
My advice be say make she join PTSD group you get?and also make her feel happy around you..take her out just make her happy..play games with her..don't stress her..and lastly man if possible free her from sex for some time make she gain confidence in you..don't mind all these unnecessary comments in the section.. enjoy

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Re: Help: My Girlfriend Is Suffering From Post Traumatic Stress Disorder by Oceanblaze(m): 10:01pm On Nov 03, 2021
If you're having girl problems I feel bad for you son,I gat 99 problems but a bitch ain't one.

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Re: Help: My Girlfriend Is Suffering From Post Traumatic Stress Disorder by Hathor5(f): 10:01pm On Nov 03, 2021
Help her get professional help.
Re: Help: My Girlfriend Is Suffering From Post Traumatic Stress Disorder by iezeiyida(m): 10:02pm On Nov 03, 2021
The issue need urgent attention. I think a very good Psychiatric doctor or a Clinical/Cancelling Psychologist can help remove her fears by making her understand that you are not the person that raped her, and that she need to heal her inner wounds, by accepting to love and to be loved, and also accepting a romantic or body-based relationship before marriage and during marriage.
Re: Help: My Girlfriend Is Suffering From Post Traumatic Stress Disorder by JustforMen: 10:02pm On Nov 03, 2021
Creativeace:
Bro !
Rebels are taking the surrounding areas in the capital of ethiopia, which could incite civil unrest

And even the presidents of china, russia and india refused to attend the united nations conference on global warming earlier on !

My point exactly ?
We've got better pending issues to deliberate on than your inability to fornicate with your new girlfriend, whom you'll soon jump for another !

wicked pipo... can't you be nice small? grin grin grin grin

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Re: Help: My Girlfriend Is Suffering From Post Traumatic Stress Disorder by iLoveYouToo(m): 10:02pm On Nov 03, 2021
Righteousness2:
Let me Strike the Nail in the Head!

You can help her and also help yourself by Making JESUS Christ your LORD and SAVIOR and fleeing away Immorality, Fornication and Evil Vices.

After he marries her nkò?
Re: Help: My Girlfriend Is Suffering From Post Traumatic Stress Disorder by Nobody: 10:02pm On Nov 03, 2021
Abfinest007:
Must you have sex with her

I Taya o.
He wants to agravate the trauma again.

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Re: Help: My Girlfriend Is Suffering From Post Traumatic Stress Disorder by jaxxy(m): 10:05pm On Nov 03, 2021
Less than a month and u want to strike. Lolx
Re: Help: My Girlfriend Is Suffering From Post Traumatic Stress Disorder by Danbridge(m): 10:05pm On Nov 03, 2021
[color=#990000][/color] ogba sakwaranu romanus
Re: Help: My Girlfriend Is Suffering From Post Traumatic Stress Disorder by Nobody: 10:07pm On Nov 03, 2021
She dey whine your nipple with stories remember na naija you dey no be abroad.

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Re: Help: My Girlfriend Is Suffering From Post Traumatic Stress Disorder by AbujaCitiBlog: 10:10pm On Nov 03, 2021
Omicron007:
Greetings wink

Let me hit the nail on the head.
I have been searching for a girl I can build a relationship with. I don't really fancy one night stands.

I have been rather unfortunate so far. I have posted about two girls I met on this forum. The posts hit front page and you can check them on my profile.
The first girl told me she was fickle minded while the other one told me she can't date any guy that has a body count of three and above.


Fast forward to my current episode. I met this girl in October. Fine babe. All the curves in the right proportion and she has a high sense of humour.

We connected and started hanging out. The problem is that she is suffering from PTSD because she was raped at age seven.
Whenever we are together, we cannot have penetrative sex because she often remembers what she passed through at the hands of the evil man years ago.

She is afraid of sex all because of the Post Traumatic Stress Disorder she developed during the ordeal.

Fellows, how can I help her overcome this situation.
I really like her a lot.
She is a coded lesbian. She is just manipulating you!

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Re: Help: My Girlfriend Is Suffering From Post Traumatic Stress Disorder by zealous2121(m): 10:13pm On Nov 03, 2021
Mugu
Re: Help: My Girlfriend Is Suffering From Post Traumatic Stress Disorder by FutureIsFemale(f): 10:14pm On Nov 03, 2021
Omicron007:
Greetings wink

Let me hit the nail on the head.
I have been searching for a girl I can build a relationship with. I don't really fancy one night stands.

I have been rather unfortunate so far. I have posted about two girls I met on this forum. The posts hit front page and you can check them on my profile.
The first girl told me she was fickle minded while the other one told me she can't date any guy that has a body count of three and above.


Fast forward to my current episode. I met this girl in October. Fine babe. All the curves in the right proportion and she has a high sense of humour.

We connected and started hanging out. The problem is that she is suffering from PTSD because she was raped at age seven.
Whenever we are together, we cannot have penetrative sex because she often remembers what she passed through at the hands of the evil man years ago.

She is afraid of sex all because of the Post Traumatic Stress Disorder she developed during the ordeal.

Fellows, how can I help her overcome this situation.
I really like her a lot.
Must everything be sex? You are no different from the man who raped her.

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Re: Help: My Girlfriend Is Suffering From Post Traumatic Stress Disorder by Mrlouis: 10:16pm On Nov 03, 2021
JUST TWO FOOLS.
Re: Help: My Girlfriend Is Suffering From Post Traumatic Stress Disorder by Szilard: 10:16pm On Nov 03, 2021
Omicron007:


Who told you I am not keeping tabs on situations around the world.
So because Prime Minister Abey and his government are having issues with Tigray region, I should go and enlist in the army to defend Ethiopia or I should travel to Ankara and ask why the Turkish president did not show up at COP26. Should I also go to Kremlin and ask Putin also?

You don't even know what is happening around the world, the Indian president was at the climate change conference.
If you don't have anything to say, just kindly get out.

Holy sh*t

The best MFking reply ever...


Damn

I owe you two bottles....


A real niggar is always current! cool

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Re: Help: My Girlfriend Is Suffering From Post Traumatic Stress Disorder by Probz(m): 10:19pm On Nov 03, 2021
I’m yet to read your O.P. but I know that P.T.S.D. can be nasty. Feel free to drop me a message if you want to discuss further (I might be able to give you medical advice within certain limits).
Re: Help: My Girlfriend Is Suffering From Post Traumatic Stress Disorder by 3isbetter: 10:20pm On Nov 03, 2021
Re: Help: My Girlfriend Is Suffering From Post Traumatic Stress Disorder by poiZon: 10:20pm On Nov 03, 2021
Righteousness2:
Let me Strike the Nail in the Head!

You can help her and also help yourself by Making JESUS Christ your LORD and SAVIOR and fleeing away Immorality, Fornication and Evil Vices.
So how will this sermon help them if they get married?
Re: Help: My Girlfriend Is Suffering From Post Traumatic Stress Disorder by Goodnews007: 10:25pm On Nov 03, 2021
Just one month of dating and u have tried several times to sleep with her. U are one Hot morrafucker angry grin
Re: Help: My Girlfriend Is Suffering From Post Traumatic Stress Disorder by Nobody: 10:28pm On Nov 03, 2021
Oga, 95 percent of Nigerians are suffering Post and Present Traumatic Stress Disorder as a result of Buhari's governance since 2015. And considering the fact we're all yet to get prompt solutions, we've resigned ourselves to waiting out his tenure while struggling to stay alive every blessed day.

Take my advice, we have no solutions to offer you. Be like us, wait it out. Everything go dey alright. No come add your konji problem ontop our many other issues.

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Re: Help: My Girlfriend Is Suffering From Post Traumatic Stress Disorder by Omicron007: 10:30pm On Nov 03, 2021
TheOnlyUyai:
Na she dey your DP?

An addendum, why do you attract troubled girls? All the relationships you have shoved in our faces has been from one problem to another. Well, as the popular saying goes, like attracts like. You can figure the answer on your own.

I am tired.
I've been rather unfortunate with relationships.
Re: Help: My Girlfriend Is Suffering From Post Traumatic Stress Disorder by Feelings79: 10:31pm On Nov 03, 2021
What's body count? will really appreciate your answers
Re: Help: My Girlfriend Is Suffering From Post Traumatic Stress Disorder by Nobody: 10:32pm On Nov 03, 2021
FutureIsFemale:
Must everything be sex? You are no different from the man who raped her.

You're mad!
For calling a brother who genuinely brought his relationship challenge here for possible solutions a rapist, You're very mad! If the future is this kind of toxic female, I'd rather have China and Russia nuke the world to oblivion.

Unintelligent societal misfit!

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Re: Help: My Girlfriend Is Suffering From Post Traumatic Stress Disorder by Saintmary(f): 10:33pm On Nov 03, 2021
Telegram234:
Wait shey na all the girls for this world, na em dey rape.
Any girl I flow out with, tell me the same shit.
"I was raped when I was little"

It shows you that sexual abuse is very common. In fact, a lot of people don't say it because of the shame. But it's so common.

Please watch over young children around you.
Re: Help: My Girlfriend Is Suffering From Post Traumatic Stress Disorder by Omicron007: 10:33pm On Nov 03, 2021
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FutureIsFemale:
Must everything be sex? You are no different from the man who raped her.
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Just look a delusional and frustrated individual spewing rubbish from both sides of the mouth.

Carry your bitter soul and swerve off my mention.
If you gat nothing meaningful to say, don't open your mouth and spew trash from both sides.

Just get out.
Re: Help: My Girlfriend Is Suffering From Post Traumatic Stress Disorder by Goodnews007: 10:33pm On Nov 03, 2021
Three things are involved in second thought angry

1) she might be a closet lesbian

2) she might simply not be attracted to u sexually

3) she might be really suffering from PTSD.

Some of us dont suffer from PTSD for more than 6 months but there are people that are really soft that life never flog like that.

She has maybe not experienced more painful things in life, like losing of parents or siblings or one's baby .
If she has , she would have forgotten that pain years ago.

Also, lookout she might be one of those people that doesn't forget things easily. For her to still remember something that happened to her when she was 7, and still recall it as if it happened last week, grin grin hmmmm, be careful u dont hurt her in any way cos if u do, forgiving and forgetting might not be an option.

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Re: Help: My Girlfriend Is Suffering From Post Traumatic Stress Disorder by Tosee4real(f): 10:35pm On Nov 03, 2021
U can medically help her out not by sleeping with her.

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Re: Help: My Girlfriend Is Suffering From Post Traumatic Stress Disorder by FutureIsFemale(f): 10:36pm On Nov 03, 2021
Omicron007:
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Carry your bitter soul and swerve off my mention.
If you gat nothing meaningful to say, don't open your mouth and spew trash from both sides.

Just get out.
Can't you date a lady without sex?

You met a Lady less than a month and you are already talking about sex.

You men are just evil.

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Re: Help: My Girlfriend Is Suffering From Post Traumatic Stress Disorder by francismuslim: 10:36pm On Nov 03, 2021
Hello my fellow naira Landers, good day to you all. The future is truly female. Abeg mk una help me out o. I got a job and they are urgently asking for guarantors (2) . It's. A career job. Please if you can help me out I would definitely appreciate it. My WhatsApp number is +2349156274067 for the guarantor form. Abeg mk una help o.

God bless.

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