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In Your Thirties And No Valentine by TESS75(f): 3:55am On Feb 14, 2006 |
Hi all, tomorrow is valentines day for those in our thirties and single it could be a pretty difficult day . So, to celebrate loving life and independence at any age. i suggest this, those of us over 30 and single leave our stats as a form of introduction and wish each other a happy vals day. let me start status: single at 30, profession: health care and IT Location: USA Religionatholic education: masters Why i am single: i can be pretty independent, waiting on God HAPPY VAL'S DAY EVERYONE |
Re: In Your Thirties And No Valentine by lioness(f): 8:33am On Feb 14, 2006 |
Waitin on God for what [ |
Re: In Your Thirties And No Valentine by Seun(m): 9:18am On Feb 14, 2006 |
I'm single, but I still have 6.5 years to go to join your group. There is no shame in being 30 and single! It's probably better to be happily single than to be unhappily enslaved in a relationship with a man who sees himself as your Lord, Master, and father! |
Re: In Your Thirties And No Valentine by glodave(f): 11:30am On Feb 14, 2006 |
i dont understand waiting 4 God 4 wat! |
Re: In Your Thirties And No Valentine by lioness(f): 12:00pm On Feb 14, 2006 |
what is she waiting for God for? |
Re: In Your Thirties And No Valentine by lioness(f): 12:01pm On Feb 14, 2006 |
what is she waiting for God for? |
Re: In Your Thirties And No Valentine by bagoma(f): 10:25pm On Feb 14, 2006 |
@ lioness & glodave, she's waiting on God for the perfect partner., i think. |
Re: In Your Thirties And No Valentine by lioness(f): 1:40pm On Feb 15, 2006 |
1st of all, there is no "perfect" partner or person. And what happend to all those "near perfect" guys God brought across her way when she was 25 yrs, when she was 28 yrs, and even now that she's 30 yrs. |
Re: In Your Thirties And No Valentine by Seun(m): 1:47pm On Feb 15, 2006 |
Marriage is a lifetime commitment, so it's better to be safe than sorry. Better to be single and lonely than to be married and still lonely and unhappy. |
Re: In Your Thirties And No Valentine by lioness(f): 2:24pm On Feb 15, 2006 |
Single Married unhappy Unhappy lonely Lonely Which do you think is better |
Re: In Your Thirties And No Valentine by TESS75(f): 12:23am On Feb 16, 2006 |
Thank you, all for your comments. It is a pity that no one participated in the thread, rather gave unwelcoming comments irrelevant to the initial thread. The topic was just for fun and not for major analysis. Comment: Waiting on God for what. Reply: means looking forward to what ever God has in store for my future. Comment: And what happened to all those "near perfect" guys God brought across her way when she was 25 years, when she was 28 years, and even now that she's 30 years. Reply: well I guess they were not perfect enough for me and so I made the decision to remain single and to take chances with the faith than to be with someone that is not right for me. Being with the right person has nothing to do with the age you meet the person. Hence, when it is right it is right not when it is time it is right. Besides at 25 I was busy earning my masters in Information Systems Management at the top of my class. And at 28 I was busy working on my career securing a future for my self and those close to me. And I don’t think that is a bad thing. Comment: Single unhappy lonely or Married unhappy Lonely Reply: neither is better Don’t get me wrong I am not lonely, I have a life, wonderful family, great job, and most importantly I have God. But it will be nice to settle down, but only when it is right. |
Re: In Your Thirties And No Valentine by IAH(f): 12:54am On Feb 16, 2006 |
Nice reply,Tess. Lioness was just being unfeeling. |
Re: In Your Thirties And No Valentine by Seun(m): 12:59am On Feb 16, 2006 |
Single i.e. FREE Married i.e. man-slave. Unhappy - on Vals day More Unhappy - husband is a jerk Lonely and everyone understands Lonely but nobody understands why |
Re: In Your Thirties And No Valentine by TESS75(f): 1:51am On Feb 16, 2006 |
Thanks IAH |
Re: In Your Thirties And No Valentine by lioness(f): 11:46am On Feb 17, 2006 |
maybe i came up too strong. i was just angry with myself and not you TESS75 Am sorry . Lets get back to the purpose of the thread. |
Re: In Your Thirties And No Valentine by lioness(f): 11:51am On Feb 17, 2006 |
status: Single at 28 Proffession: Information Technology/ Software Designer Location : United Kingdom Religion: Christain Education: Masters Why am i still single : I honestly dont know |
Re: In Your Thirties And No Valentine by IAH(f): 12:05am On Feb 18, 2006 |
lioness: Oh, I see that you are indeed angry with yourself. |
Re: In Your Thirties And No Valentine by Seun(m): 1:16am On Feb 18, 2006 |
Is it compulsory to be married? |
Re: In Your Thirties And No Valentine by IAH(f): 1:58am On Feb 18, 2006 |
I have a friend who doesn't want to get married. Her reasons are bad though. She said she can't stay with one man for the rest of her life. So instead of getting married and divorcing or getting caught for infidelity, she prefers not to get married. She doesn't want kids too! What a weird girl! And she's Nigerian! I still think she's kidding me though. |
Re: In Your Thirties And No Valentine by lioness(f): 9:28am On Feb 20, 2006 |
Dont think she's kidding. People actually have different views about stuff these days. Personally, i wanted to be a single mother and just live that way without "man" wahala but recently am trying to change my views cos i realised i wont be able to stand the emotional stress of having men come and go in my life |
Re: In Your Thirties And No Valentine by Seun(m): 11:50am On Feb 20, 2006 |
If I don't find someone I feel I can live with and be happy, I simply won't get married. That'll just give me more time for my other goals. Women who are maybe picky or very independent-minded should consider that approach, too. I guess. |
Re: In Your Thirties And No Valentine by eveseh(f): 6:45pm On May 07, 2006 |
if u are single it dont mind nothing on valentine's day the only matter is that u should be happy |
Re: In Your Thirties And No Valentine by Nobody: 2:22pm On Jul 30, 2011 |
;d :d |
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