I know I will definitely receive some bashing here on romance section but wetin man go do?

A quick one!

I have this babe I met few(6) months ago, very gentle looking and an introvert. Sincerely I really love her and she's reciprocating and also she's very supportive and attentive.

We aren't really sexually active in d relationship, as we only had sex twice since we met.

But just yesterday, while we were chatting she complained of being tired always, and she concluded she is pregnant which I tried to overlook during the conversation because I'm sure she is not.

So after telling me about the pregnancy, and she noticed I kept snubbing her, then she went to her status to post a video of her smoking a weed. Immediately I saw this video, I replied and ask if she truly smokes then immediately she went offline.

Immediately, I called a friend of mine who also talks to her and explained d situation, then he said he also saw d video but thinks it might be edited with Snapchat.

I called her this morning, she confirmed she was truly smoking it, because it was in d past.

Swears, this really pained me because over six months she should have at least told me she has done something like that in d past. I'm now finding it hard to trust her

And me I don't care oo, but I don't wanna break person pikin heart, because already I'm thinking of dumping her, but yet, I love her.

Please is there any tendency she still smokes? Though she said she has stopped long ago. I don't wanna marry a sango wife in my house. as in come and see as this babe was puffing with her mouth and nose and ears.

Chaii!!!!

Bola146:

Wetin happen? You sef nor dey smoke IGBO!

Dropme:
I know I will definitely receive some bashing here on romance section but wetin man go do?

A quick one!

I have this babe I met few(6) months ago, very gentle looking and an introvert. Sincerely I really love her and she's reciprocating and also she's very supportive and attentive.

We aren't really sexually active in d relationship, as we only had sex twice since we met.

But just yesterday, while we were chatting she complained of being tired always, and she concluded she is pregnant which I tried to overlook during the conversation because I'm sure she is not.

So after telling me about the pregnancy, and she noticed I kept snubbing her, then she went to her status to post a video of her smoking a weed. Immediately I saw this video, I replied and ask if she truly smokes then immediately she went offline.

Immediately, I called a friend of mine who also talks to her and explained d situation, then he said he also saw d video but thinks it might be edited with Snapchat.

I called her this morning, she confirmed she was truly smoking it, because it was in d past.

Swears, this really pained me because over six months she should have at least told me she has done something like that in d past. I'm now finding it hard to trust her

And me I don't care oo, but I don't wanna break person pikin heart, because already I'm thinking of dumping her, but yet, I love her.

Please is there any tendency she still smokes? Though she said she has stopped long ago. I don't wanna marry a sango wife in my house. as in come and see as this babe was puffing with her mouth and nose and ears.

Chaii!!!!

Life sentence for all scammers . . . including paternity fraudsters!

Every saint got a Past...
Every sinner got a Future...
Take this to the Bank...
ay ay ay

Guy you done Bleep up na only two times you lash her,girl can hide their past like mad

Cruseder:
Guy you done Bleep up na only two times you lash her,girl can hide their past like mad

that's true bro. She's not d type that really opens up. I guess there are lot of things she's hiding from me. And about lashing, na my decision jare. I tire for sex matter, I can't remember my body count. Trust me

silvoclaira:
Wetin happen? You sef nor dey smoke IGBO!

I know that the sambisa weed is seriously affecting your brains

XXXXTENTACION:
Every saint got a Past...
Every sinner got a Future...
Take this to the Bank...
ay ay ay

u are right. But yet I guess she's hiding worse

HOLLY GRAM SEEEE TOPIC OOO. D BEST TOPIC EVER ON NAIRALAND. WTF MAN. WTF MAN WTF MAN. ABEG KNW GET TIME TO READ EVERYTHING BCUS OF OVER HAPPINESS.. ABEG LINK ME UP WIT DAT UR GF. WE GO BEST FRIENDS. I SWEAR DOWN. ME N HER GO DE KUSH 24sc.. I GO TEACH HER SOME NEW KUSH AND SHE GO TEACH ME D ONCE WEY SHE KNW. GUY ABEG LINK ME UP. DIS IS GREAT NEWS MAN. BE PROUD OF DAT GIRL MAN. IT'S HARD TO FIND SUCH GIRLS.. WTF MAN

Dropme:
I know I will definitely receive some bashing here on romance section but wetin man go do?

A quick one!

I have this babe I met few(6) months ago, very gentle looking and an introvert. Sincerely I really love her and she's reciprocating and also she's very supportive and attentive.

We aren't really sexually active in d relationship, as we only had sex twice since we met.

But just yesterday, while we were chatting she complained of being tired always, and she concluded she is pregnant which I tried to overlook during the conversation because I'm sure she is not.

So after telling me about the pregnancy, and she noticed I kept snubbing her, then she went to her status to post a video of her smoking a weed. Immediately I saw this video, I replied and ask if she truly smokes then immediately she went offline.

Immediately, I called a friend of mine who also talks to her and explained d situation, then he said he also saw d video but thinks it might be edited with Snapchat.

I called her this morning, she confirmed she was truly smoking it, because it was in d past.

Swears, this really pained me because over six months she should have at least told me she has done something like that in d past. I'm now finding it hard to trust her

And me I don't care oo, but I don't wanna break person pikin heart, because already I'm thinking of dumping her, but yet, I love her.

Please is there any tendency she still smokes? Though she said she has stopped long ago. I don't wanna marry a sango wife in my house. as in come and see as this babe was puffing with her mouth and nose and ears.

Chaii!!!!

No be talk de lead to talk, have you ever asked her about her past or come up with topics that will let her tell you some so called bad things she has done?
someone like me can not just come and be telling stories, you hear what you asked for.

This is just an opportunity for both of you to tell each other about your past.

Dropme:
u are right. But yet I guess she's hiding worse

Everybody has flaws...
Nobody is damn perfect...
If you want to love someone you should be ready to deal with their flaws.. If you can't just let her go...
modified: They is a male smoker above (Boogyman557) he is looking for a fellow female smoker you can hook him up if you no wan do again...

Boogyman557:
HOLLY GRAM SEEEE TOPIC OOO. D BEST TOPIC EVER ON NAIRALAND. WTF MAN. WTF MAN WTF MAN. ABEG KNW GET TIME TO READ EVERYTHING BCUS OF OVER HAPPINESS.. ABEG LINK ME UP WIT DAT UR GF. WE GO BEST FRIENDS. I SWEAR DOWN. ME N HER GO DE KUSH 24sc.. I GO TEACH HER SOME NEW KUSH AND SHE GO TEACH ME D ONCE WEY SHE KNW. GUY ABEG LINK ME UP. DIS IS GREAT NEWS MAN. BE PROUD OF DAT GIRL MAN. IT'S HARD TO FIND SUCH GIRLS.. WTF MAN

thunder! Where art thou?

NOC1:



No be talk de lead to talk, have youever asked her about her past or come up with topics that will let her tell you some so called bad things she has done?

This is just an opportunity for both of you to tell each other about your past.

she's not that type that always wants to talk, bro it took her months before we started having heart to heart talk, she was too gentle for my liking. No one would expect she does such things aswear

XXXXTENTACION:
Everybody has flaws...
Nobody is damn perfect...
If you want to love someone you should be ready to deal with their flaws.. If you can't just let them go...

ok bro. Understood

Bola146:


I know that the sambisa weed is seriously affecting your brains

Na me you dey type this trash for?

This thing no be new thing for our societies again na . Even the babes wey guyman think say na dem holy pass,na dem dey even sabi position guyman diick during lashing....You go cor dey think for your mind like--"abi dem dey hold Sunday school lashing session for these holy holy girls? .

But NO, That ain't it, because in most cases,na the rubbish wey many of dem dey smoke dey motivate dem to ginger guyman diick for bed.....

A royal Highnes!

better be a stoner than a drunk!

nothing morally bad about smoking, but if you want to talk ...do yourself the favour

Sonnobax15:


This thing no be new thing for our societies again na . Even the babes wey guyman think say na dem holy pass,na dem dey even sabi position guyman diick during lashing....You go cor dey think for your mind like--"abi dem dey hold Sunday school lashing session for these holy holy girls? .

But NO, That ain't it, because in most cases,na the rubbish wey many of dem dey smoke dey motivate dem to ginger guyman diick for bed.....

bro this my babe own matter shock me. D girl too gentle

Candidlady:
A royal Highnes!


better be a stoner than a drunk!

spotted

WickedPisa:
nothing morally bad about smoking, but if you want to talk ...do yourself the favour

bro I don't smoke, though I'm not against d fact she smokes, but at least she should have told me. And rn she said she's pregnant, and I wished she had stopped

Dropme:
bro I don't smoke, though I'm not against d fact she smokes, but at least she should have told me. And rn she said she's pregnant, and I wished she had stopped

Wait first,na you get the pregnancy?

Sonnobax15:
Wait first,na you get the pregnancy?

how I wan take know?

Dropme:
how I wan take know?

Why you no go know? . Abi una never lash before?

Bola146:


I know that the sambisa weed is seriously affecting your brains

HABA NA JUST QUESTION HE ASK BOLA

Boogyman557:
HOLLY GRAM SEEEE TOPIC OOO. D BEST TOPIC EVER ON NAIRALAND. WTF MAN. WTF MAN WTF MAN. ABEG KNW GET TIME TO READ EVERYTHING BCUS OF OVER HAPPINESS.. ABEG LINK ME UP WIT DAT UR GF. WE GO BEST FRIENDS. I SWEAR DOWN. ME N HER GO DE KUSH 24sc.. I GO TEACH HER SOME NEW KUSH AND SHE GO TEACH ME D ONCE WEY SHE KNW. GUY ABEG LINK ME UP. DIS IS GREAT NEWS MAN. BE PROUD OF DAT GIRL MAN. IT'S HARD TO FIND SUCH GIRLS.. WTF MAN

SLAWORMIIR DA

Sonnobax15:
Why you no go know? . Abi una never lash before?

chai! I don enter one chance

All I will say is, most girls who smokes in Nigeria are not decent and that pregnancy, hmmmmmmm.

Dropme:
she's not that type that always wants to talk, bro it took her months before we started having heart to heart talk, she was too gentle for my liking. No one would expect she does such things aswear

see bro in my circle, people thàt don't smoke. I think it's only my younger bro..................the rest of us smoke various things......but I don dey stop shaaa....


Judging from your write up,I think depression lead her to smoking.........since you said she hardly open up .


I have females too that smoke....the seem pretty normal.

seriousness or ease of quitting smoking is tribe related, what tribe is she?

Lilsameey:
All I will say is, most girls who smokes in Nigeria are not decent and that pregnancy, hmmmmmmm.