soundOsonic:
Seduce him? I doubtt he will fall. If you were that good looking the wife wouldn't invite you for dinner. The wife feels less intimidated because she has a better look.
On a serious note I am saying the truth. Like it or hate it, you know the truth

EnzoShieffo:
You try ooo
So na advice you feel say you give so abi... ��‍♂️

MemeRoyal:


I don't blame you, I blame the innocent woman that brought a low life, pig like you into her home, cos if she did not bring you close, there is some level of familiarity you won't have with the husband.
This is why I don't bring many people into my home.
Useless girls association....untrained she-goat.

NovesaTillie:

You sound so bitter.
Healing will come your way soon.
Get well

What can I do to stop this feeling?
I don't want someone else man or to destroy a cute family

schoolboymatt:
all of you insulting the op calling her a 'home wrecking bitch'
she said...


no body saw that, na to insult person una sabi.
even the once wey dey date married men follow they insult her.
shame on u all.

advanceDNA:


Bible...??
U and toks have the same problem??
U jump into conclusion and spill fallacy all over the place.... what has this conversation got to do with the Bible...

Have we even discussed Bible here??...what is this one saying??
My first point to toks was that polygamous settings promotes strife, jealousy and conflict... but you pompous self ddnt want to see that just as toks concluded only only Christians clamor for monogamy...

Look, It’s hard talking with people like you that feel you are superior because,
Your reasoning is basically flawed because anything that doesn’t agree with your opinion is foolish... so enjoy your knowledge on polygamy and polygamous lifestyle .....you want to have multiple wives, go ahead, but tagging people that are not in the same both with your foolish is just irritating..

I don’t have to read books on culture, history, philosophy, anthropology, or psychology to know polygamy has its flaws and I don’t support it....

Toks2008:


I thought you were against him talking down on you. Is it not obvious that you lack manners when it comes to purposeful communication.

I have a problem because im in support of an age long culture that has been in existence before the generations of your fore fathers even came into existence but you don't have problem for foolishly arguing the matter. The Bible and Quran supports polygamy but in your ignorance you spew nonsense endlessly rather than calm down to learn so who has a problem?

Please rest this matter and continue in your delusion.

NovesaTillie:


Honestly I regret posting my issue here. Even people who have no standing where I am are opening their mouth to talk nonsense to me.

NovesaTillie:
I moved to this city because of my new job and my neighbors have been very homely and helpful to me especially the ones next flat,a young man and his wife with a kid . They have been very kind to me, sometimes when I get home late from work his wife calls me to join them for dinner and hangouts. M
My issue now is I am beginning to grow fond of the man because of how gentlemanly he treats his wife and how dotting he is of their son. He ticks all the qualities that I dream of and sometimes I just feel like inviting him over to my place when his wife is out to tempt him a little
What can I do to stop this feeling?
I don't want someone else man or to destroy a cute family

Please don't insult me. I am in a relationship though very young relationship. I'm just human admiring someone else.

NovesaTillie:
I moved to this city because of my new job and my neighbors have been very homely and helpful to me especially the ones next flat,a young man and his wife with a kid . They have been very kind to me, sometimes when I get home late from work his wife calls me to join them for dinner and hangouts. M
My issue now is I am beginning to grow fond of the man because of how gentlemanly he treats his wife and how dotting he is of their son. He ticks all the qualities that I dream of and sometimes I just feel like inviting him over to my place when his wife is out to tempt him a little
What can I do to stop this feeling?
I don't want someone else man or to destroy a cute family

Please don't insult me. I am in a relationship though very young relationship. I'm just human admiring someone else.

NovesaTillie:


Honestly I regret posting my issue here. Even people who have no standing where I am are opening their mouth to talk nonsense to me.

MemeRoyal:

You have no standing at all. Ashewo.
Standing ko! Do you know the people replying you??!
Low life ashewo claiming standing!! If you have any class or if you were cultured in the least bit you wouldn't even bring such issues out in public, you will kill that immoral and wicked feeling the minute it begins to develop.
Stay the hell away from that family
Shameless thing!

advanceDNA:


Toks, what exactly is the topic of this dialogue?
I don’t support polygamy..
You love it... that’s fine by me...I respect your opinion

What I ddnt like was you calling me foolish for my presence, saying I have to lean from your, calling women that want monogamy foolish. You were cocky and arrogant. U have a right to your opinion but it’s not the standard

Whats’s more, u jumped into conclusions by saying it’s only Christians that clamor for monogamy.. you also said all women will rush at polygamy for the money...
now your assistant came to insult me and also jumped into conclusion bringing the Bible from no where into the discussion... u both kept jumping into the conclusion that’s why I said u have the same problem...

But clearly u see everything as an insult.. a classic behavior of pre-millennials.. you seem to be older than everyone and expect everyone to learn from you...even if your opinion is bunch of fallacy...

You are not teaching me anything.. there’s nothing to lean from you... polygamy is trash no matter how old the practice is... and no woman is happy about it...

even from your point.. money is what will make some do it... even you confirmed that money is what will make you give your Virgin daughter to an old man with 100 wives... so in reality no one will gladly or happily go into polygamy unless they were bought with money....

advanceDNA:


U seem to reason in a weird way...if I don’t know you on this forum, I would have thought you are 14 years old....how can you assume everyone will choose polygamy over monogamy because of money..... is money the only thing driving your faculties.??cos it’s surprising how you would automatically think so if others

I guess you will shout for joy and gladness when you 22 year daughter comes home with a man with multiple wives as her husband to be?
Of course you won’t be happy...because You are the hypocrite here..

men like you think other people’s daughters should gladly accept going to a polygamous home because U feel its a natural for community penis like yourself to jump from one pvssy to another..

u are so driven with the polygamous idea that u advised a single young woman with a moment of weakness, lusting after someone else’s husband that polygamy would have solved her problem..
you ddnt even mind that she would be hurting and destabilizing a peaceful family....nigga...it’s not everytime a man should think with his penis..

There is no hypocrisy from my part...I state facts...and it’s simple... no woman is happy sharing her man with other women... women who do it only do so out of desperation or lack of choice...

.if you doubt it, you can take a survey of just 200 women and see their response

Toks2008:


Now ask yourself if this post does not deserve a harsh response..

Learn to communicate without sounding condescending or insulting people.

NovesaTillie:

You are bitter. You lack senses of feel and I can see that.

Qualer:


if no be say you dey Abuja, I for gonye gi 5 plates of nkwóbi di very okay!!

soundOsonic:
Seduce him? I doubtt he will fall. If you were that good looking the wife wouldn't invite you for dinner. The wife feels less intimidated because she has a better look.
On a serious note I am saying the truth. Like it or hate it, you know the truth

Edit: husband that sleep with women less attractive than their wife are looking for sex, so the woman must either have good booty or nice bust. The OP has neither, I am telling you the wife feels no threat. Even housemaid a wife easily suspect the husband. The OP is just plain like all those girls, you will say na manage, I manage sleep with her self.

Vwoman200:
Do not covert your neighbors wife/husband.

NovesaTillie:

You sound so bitter.
Healing will come your way soon.
Get well

NovesaTillie:


Thank you for being real with your response. I will reduce my going there. Their baby is so cute and his wife is very nice

NovesaTillie:

Thank you.............. I will look carefully and decide what to do