drnoel:


U have a good point. Still it's his money. Go and make Ur own

i havent made any point. i only asked questions which u couldnt answer: "He spent this money so Why is he complaining? Did he ask Twitter before he took d decision to transport a woman to another country for sex?"

okoroemeka:
no need for the insults,I just expressed my opinion and you can also say your mind without insulting others, absolutely no need for that,a man that takes a woman abroad for Vacation and shopping does not do that for sexual gratification alone,he likes the girl and probably has been in a relationship with her or wants to keep her as a side chick,so he could have tried to learn what caused the strange behavior and not trying to rape ,abuse and insult the girl,what if she is having her monthly periods with painful stomach cramps and you still want to fvck her,how insensitive can you be.

if she is having her monthly period then my money is having it’s monthly period too let her go back home when she is done then we try again it’s very simple

Kobojunkiee:
It's hers and she can give it to whomever she will. She had a right to refuse anyone she chooses.

The man na the mumu, who know this of women, still been think say him suppose merit am because him pay for vacation for her.

the money is also his so he can give it to anyone he chooses.
He say he no do again n the gal is offering him the sex then even walking around the airport n telling him to buy something she saw n liked
She no even happy say na flight she take cos if na me na Libya route she go take come back like migrants

Hei shut up, look at the miserable, single and bitter woman giving advice, you should be married now, useless women all over, men don change am for una, fish brains bi

post=107929268:
Respect is very important in a relationship, how can a guy give gift to a lady in exchange for sex, he was passing out an information to the lady but she did not get the hint, is it not prostitutes that get paid for sex? This is why we ladies have to observe any guy that approach us before accepting to date them. Don't be blinded by money, some guys are not psychologically okay.

Some ladies are accepting nonsense from their guys now but after marriage they will become feminists and start demanding the respect they can never earn. If you want your guy to respect you, this is the time to earn the respect. If you allow him to treat you bad now because of what you want from him, he will treat you worse in the future and by then, it will be too late for you to correct it. If you feel your guy does not respect you, it is better for you broke up with him before it is too late, if you don't, you will regret it later because you will end up not enjoying your relationship and his money will later become worthless to you, by then you will prefer your peace of mind.

Some guys don't need a real relationship, what they need is a lady that we play the role of a prostitute. As a lady, you have to think properly before you accept some type of gifts from guys, it is better to live in a hut and eat what you have while you are waiting for God to bless you than to allow somebody belittle you.

Rosement:

I won't force myself to date out of pity but if I fall in love with a struggling guy, I will date him and give him enough time to find his balance financially, I can support him in my own little way but I will not marry him until he is financially independent.

Easier said than done.. leme hear u last 3momths with him

Chochovini:
. Babe, calm down na....See as you fine finish come dey cast men on top. Wetin we do you?

I'm only allowed to cast men if I'm ' ugly'

Lol.

Kriss216:
But, some girls are foolish and wicked.


A guy took you for vacation outside the country, all expenses paid by him, not even a business trip... Are you not suppose to force the sex on him even when he's down and not in for any knacks?

Someone like me, she will not sleep in that same room with me.
"Suffer not the witch to sleep"

Kriss216:

If I begin talk about the foolishness of that SIMPle guy, this thread fit explode.

See the local dirty girl he took out of the country for vacation

I no go forgive myself if I lash this girl with meatpie and fanta.

See portruded belle

So much talk.

Do you know what the guy in question looks like? Or it is so much easier to abuse and run down women than consider that?

You will find life outside of porn videos has a lot more protruding bellies than you think. In fact, most of you who body shame women aren't even that good-looking yourselves.

toujurs:
i will empower my daughter with knowledge and educate her on how to think like a man and act like a lady. Because with the kind of ladies i see and read about on line, am even scared to give birth to a girl, so she doesn't get influenced by them. Please ask your self what she was expecting following a man on a vacation into a hotel room, long throat is bad, lack of contentment. Is bad, i am very sure her parents are not aware of where she went to. And she must have posted alot of pictures on social media on lies about how she sponsored her self for a one week vacation. As old as she is, some one took her from nigeria to another country. And she never thought of how she would pay for her room to sleep alone, with her own money. From the look of things she can't afford a room. How do you expect the guy to respect such a lady, she is lucky that dude is a nice guy,this is how these ladies get used for prostitution, slavery and rituals.

I understand u perfectly well
A lot of times we blame the female forgetting that it is the male gender that spoils them

For people who are obsessed with body count, y’all sure do pressure women into having sex with you.
Which one is it? Do you want women who are experienced at sex or do you want virgins? Because the stupidity and lack of coherence that you guys display when it comes to sex matters is mind boggling

cococandy:
For people who are obsessed with body count, y’all sure do pressure women into having sex with you.
Which one is it? Do you want women who are experienced at sex or do you want virgins? Because the stupidity and lack of coherence that you guys display when it comes to sex matters is mind boggling

Why did she follow the guy, if she knew she wasn't ready to have sex, She is a thief. Does the man look like father Christmas to her. Since she couldn't afford it. She could have stayed behind, she followed a man on an all expense paid trip and slept in a hotel, and not willing to have sex, then she must be mad. She is lucky that dude is a nice guy, she would have gotten it hot hot, this is how women reduce them selves to commodities due to long throat

she is lucky...if it was me i would have cancelled the ticket and throw her out in the street... ungrateful jezebel!

ladies: if a man pays for an all paid trip to anywhere, where you guys have to stay at a hotel together, you best believe that you are getting fukced that day (whether you have your period, your father's period or jesus period).

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KillJoy62:

Guy whch country u na go abi na village u carry person pikin go do holiday, with that kind of village hotel u go lodge with plenty mosquito net and the Z door wey dey like the one for my grandpa house.

Wisest and most clever comment on the post..
Baba you dey observe wella...
I had to go back to look again, the "Z" door must have turned her off..
P

When there are many girls that will sex the man for just meat pie, he should locate those girls

The guy get hope self some guys would chase u out with nothing

Edusouls:
Hei shut up, look at the miserable, single and bitter woman giving advice, you should be married now, useless women all over, men don change am for una, fish brains bi

It seems like this one wants to beat me. Why are you trying to show off your personal parenting skills here? Go and scold your own kids, stop coming to a public forum to scold people.

Anyway, let me encourage and advice you, if you don't have kids yet or your kids are still young, be patient, don't rush fatherhood, your time will come but before then don't go around pressuring other people's children into marriage.

You are not my father, why are you trying to pressure me, why can't you wait for your turn, then you can pressure your children the way you want.

Beyonce-like mzungus

This is not a Nigerian. This is an East African. Nigerian bloggers are trying their best to claim this one. A Nigerian will use the word oyibo instead.

No amount of poverty-riddled comments will change the fact that the man did the right thing. The man has the money so such spending is pocket change. He can Bleep any Nairalander and their female relatives since cash is you people’s problem.

Not every man is moved by sex. When they get older their priorities change to more important things. Still a man who wants a smash and dash will make it known. I tried lodging one idiot Nigerian girl as a visitor not a lover for one of my travels. By the time I loaded it on her that we’ll sleep in different rooms plus we’ll handle our individual bills she blocked me on all forms of social media. I don too old for woman to use sex as bargaining chip for my actions.

BOUNTYDOG:
And girl called the airline she cannot meet the date to travel pays airline to extend the ticket and remains in the hotel with another man in d room opposite the guy's.

Guy for commit murder
Or suicide

It all depends on relationship u have with her before inviting her on an all paid expense trip.
Girl no show u green light at all u begin reason I can enthice her with luxury.
If she even succumb will be like a rape .
I expect the trip to be romantic enough that sex is d least enjoyment to look up to

That isn't the whole story but as usual with certain persons to create sensations, they post half truths, I'm talking about the OP.

Man stated clearly what the role of the lady is, i.e., he said "I WANT AN ESCORT TO ACCOMPANY ME ON A OME WEEK VACATION TRIP" and paid for the advert. He doesn't care if they go out for sightseeing but when he calls, you satisfy him. Some ladies indicated interest and finally, she was the last pick after sending those he found interesting to the doctor for a test. He paid for all and when he wanted going down, she refused (she knew what she was doing but prolly wanted throwing in one or two requests when he becomes Hot and a Hot man without control will agree to almost any requests). He RESPECTED her decisions and her NO and did not bother with her, booked her flight back to their country and sent her the ticket on Whatsapp, including giving her Über money. That was when she realized she has lost out and wanted seducing him with the numerous images you are seeing.

Heck, he invited another but that one came with Shisha and he did not want someone implicating him in what is wrong. He finally got a third person and did his thing.

Putting up the image is wrong but then, if she claims she was raped, he has his evidence of not touching her.

And he's Kenyan, not a Nigerian.

MrBrownJay1:
she is lucky...if it was me i would have cancelled the ticket and throw her out in the street... ungrateful jezebel!

ladies: if a man pays for an all paid trip to anywhere, where you guys have to stay at a hotel together, you best believe that you are getting fukced that days (whether you have your period, your father's period or jesus period).

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A lady took me out on a week vacation, all expenses paid including hotel and flight. I refused to sleep with her.

IamSalt:


It is truly a "get behind me Satan" thing.

This kinda lady will act the same way as the other lady who absconded with 2M from this fool https://www.nairaland.com/6863362/lady-blocks-boyfriend-disappears-after who was trying to be a helper in the name of friendship.

Buhaha

CuriousMynd:
A Nigerian man has revealed what she did to a lady whom he flew out of the country for a vacation in another country, Igbere TV reports.

On Twitter, the man identified as Mullah said he paid for the lady's flight and booked a hotel for them to stay in while they enjoy their vacation. However, when the said lady wouldn't sleep with him in the same bed, he had to fast forward the lady's return to the country.

Read the full gist;

https://twitter.com/MullahCo/status/1458896477523165185

What do you think about this whole situation?

Adamu and Musa don see something for nairaland oo

stuidity at its peak.that guy doesnt need a commendation but a flogging

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But I will leave you with this short yoruba proverb..
Oun ti o ko ba ni je MA fi run mu[/quote]

Oka re.. Omo Odua

Emaprince:
Your post is hypocritical.

Can you even be in a relationship without spending a guys money? I mean YOU!!!

Its women instinct to go after what a guy can offer them materially first before they even think of love.

Its also a man's instinct to be sex inclined towards a relationship first before we even talk about her manner or the fake love they bring.

Don't always generalise, there are always exceptions. I have never opened my mouth to ask a guy for money, if I have a problem I will rather discuss it with my parent.

I'm not the kind of lady that shows off, I don't buy things my money cannot buy. If I wanted to marry for money, I would have married a long time ago, I prefer to climb the ladder gradually so that I don't fall all of a sudden.

My present bf did not even demand sex from me, all he wants is a serious relationship, these has made me so fond of him and even respect him more. Everybody cannot think the same way. To some people, money is everything and to some, values are more important.

Haven't you learnt anything from nature? Don't you have any personal experience to learn from? My grandpa was a very strong man, he was very agile but I saw this strong man on his death bed unable to move his body and I cried bitterly but then I understood that everybody's time will come.

A time is coming when we will not be able to carry this beautiful body that we have always cherished by then all our money and achievements will be worthless.

Iyaebe:
The man is all wrong here,when did paid vacation=sex?was it in their agreement? You can agree to go on a vacation with someone and still not have sex and the man has no right to be angry or forceful about it,it's like asking her to trade her body for the vacation expenses and that is cheap and also an insult.

Rubbish talk, in the sanest climes it is not expected for a woman to go on an all expense paid trip with a man and not put out.
What was she expecting, she should have turned down the offer.

studentofTruth:
The truth is that women don't believe that the should be treated well. Treat them well, and you lose them.

I could remember one: we sexted all day that she literally came to my house after work to get the Dick. We've already discussed what we'd do to each other all day. I can bet she's wet all day at work because even when I leave the sexchat, she kept coming back to it).

She's probably expecting me to grab her from the stirs to the bedroom and treat her like a hoe she's. But as a gentleman I was trained to be, I welcomed her coolly into my simple apartment, put on the AC and the TV, and offered kola (softdrinks and groundnuts). After the usual welcome ritual and allowing her get comfortable, I initiated the main reason she came — sex — and to lead her to the bedroom. Surprisely, she changed disposition and refused.

After seeing her off that night, I texted her that it's over. I hate nonsense.

I later realized it's the way they're wired. They hate being treated rightly; they love to be treated like bitches. I should have grabbed her from the stirs and handled her like the bitch she is.

Guy, to buttress your point...many of them were wire like that..na ego..

It is deep..an average lady is positioned to dominate guy with their weapon.. sex.. and if you appear to be in control ( like you rightly did) to try to Calm down and probably do it right...Guy, you seem to offend their pride


Hence,need for her to change it for you..

Rosement:

Don't always generalise, there are always exceptions. I have never opened my mouth to ask a guy for money, if I have a problem I will rather discuss it with my parent.

I'm not the kind of lady that shows off, I don't buy things my money cannot buy. If I wanted to marry for money, I would have married a long time ago, I prefer to climb the ladder gradually so that I don't fall all of a sudden.

My present bf did not even demand sex from me, all he wants is a serious relationship, these has made me so fond of him and even respect him more. Everybody cannot think the same way. To some people, money is everything and to some, values are more important.

Haven't you learnt anything from nature? Don't you have any personal experience to learn from? My grandpa was a very strong man, he was very agile but I saw this strong man on his death bed unable to move his body and I cried bitterly but then I understood that everybody's time will come.

A time is coming when we will not be able to carry this beautiful body that we have always cherished by then all our money and achievements will be worthless.

You went from the initially point of discussion to preaching salvation.

Omo..I have had an experience that flashed my life infront of me not long ago. I had to start settling my differences with people. I even made a thread here to apologise to anybody I offended. Too bad MODs didn't push it to front page.

Anyway, I actually admire your way of life. But I don't admire that of your BF. I can't be in a relationship with a girl without sex?. Spanking that ass and squeezing it at every given opportunity is my forte. And I won't believe my babe isn't getting smashed by some one else? Hard to trust today women.

You seem like one that will make a good wife though. I wish you well.

enemmo:
He sounds so conceited. Na wah oh

Be fair, the girl's actions are not ideal