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Re: "I Texted Him First" A Nigerian Lady Narrates HowShe Met Her Husband On Facebook by DSC7: 8:18pm On Dec 02, 2021

I love KD south babes......

Dem no dey form.....

Dem dey down to earth......

Maybe i will marry from KD south....

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Re: "I Texted Him First" A Nigerian Lady Narrates HowShe Met Her Husband On Facebook by McEphiks(m): 8:19pm On Dec 02, 2021

At least he was kind enough not to have taken advantage of her unlike what many nairalanders would have done in the name of being an alpha male.

I cum in peace

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Re: "I Texted Him First" A Nigerian Lady Narrates HowShe Met Her Husband On Facebook by Nobody: 8:19pm On Dec 02, 2021

achymmania:
be hoeful

Corrected!

Re: "I Texted Him First" A Nigerian Lady Narrates HowShe Met Her Husband On Facebook by AfonjaConehead: 8:19pm On Dec 02, 2021

God bless her and her home.

Re: "I Texted Him First" A Nigerian Lady Narrates HowShe Met Her Husband On Facebook by Ademola47(m): 8:20pm On Dec 02, 2021

Kuriosmynd:
Most Nairaland girls will prefer to be single till 50 than slide into your DM unless they see evidence that u have money through ur stories..lol
.

You seem to be talking from experience. No insult is meant whatsoever sir.

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Re: "I Texted Him First" A Nigerian Lady Narrates HowShe Met Her Husband On Facebook by Quantized92(m): 8:20pm On Dec 02, 2021

That was a very BOLD move she made and it actually paid off.

Very untypical of 9ja ladies.

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Re: "I Texted Him First" A Nigerian Lady Narrates HowShe Met Her Husband On Facebook by AfonjaConehead: 8:21pm On Dec 02, 2021

Magnoliaa:
Okay.

Congratulations.

I have shot my own in quite a few guys' DMs too. Lemme just sit back and wait for the returns on my investments. Hopefully they get hit and bleed back to me. mmmmwwwwwaaaahhhh

Re: "I Texted Him First" A Nigerian Lady Narrates HowShe Met Her Husband On Facebook by faithfull18(f): 8:21pm On Dec 02, 2021

ImoleNaija:

Are you married?

Lol, why

I am not a feminist because that's the obvious conclusion of most Nigerian men once you don't say what they want to hear undecided

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Re: "I Texted Him First" A Nigerian Lady Narrates HowShe Met Her Husband On Facebook by dmbb: 8:21pm On Dec 02, 2021

If she didn't text him first, who is going to marry her?

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Re: "I Texted Him First" A Nigerian Lady Narrates HowShe Met Her Husband On Facebook by JayB11(m): 8:22pm On Dec 02, 2021

Answer my prayers o God of infinite goodness...

Re: "I Texted Him First" A Nigerian Lady Narrates HowShe Met Her Husband On Facebook by ImoleNaija: 8:23pm On Dec 02, 2021

faithfull18:

Lol, why I am not a feminist because that's the obvious conclusion of most Nigerian men once you don't say what they want to hear

Are you married? A. Yes B. No

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Re: "I Texted Him First" A Nigerian Lady Narrates HowShe Met Her Husband On Facebook by Nobody: 8:26pm On Dec 02, 2021

Uyai you better slide in now

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Re: "I Texted Him First" A Nigerian Lady Narrates HowShe Met Her Husband On Facebook by ImoleNaija: 8:26pm On Dec 02, 2021

McEphiks:
At least he was kind enough not to have taken advantage of her unlike what many ~~nairalanders~~ would have done in the name of being an alpha male.

I cum in peace

Call them scammers & they are not only on NL but everywhere.

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Re: "I Texted Him First" A Nigerian Lady Narrates HowShe Met Her Husband On Facebook by faithfull18(f): 8:28pm On Dec 02, 2021

ImoleNaija:

Are you married? A. Yes B. No

I go with C. Can you make your point

Let's hear what you have to say undecided

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Re: "I Texted Him First" A Nigerian Lady Narrates HowShe Met Her Husband On Facebook by Loreettaa: 8:29pm On Dec 02, 2021

kurupt1:

Dem don fvck this one womb enter her chest for kuramo beach

Stop mistaking me for your sister.

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Re: "I Texted Him First" A Nigerian Lady Narrates HowShe Met Her Husband On Facebook by McEphiks(m): 8:30pm On Dec 02, 2021

ImoleNaija:

Call them scammers & they are not only on NL but everywhere.

Lemao

The hustle to become an Alpha male. Just as many ladies don’t even know what being a feminist mean, many chaps don’t know what being an alpha male mean.

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Re: "I Texted Him First" A Nigerian Lady Narrates HowShe Met Her Husband On Facebook by xeju: 8:35pm On Dec 02, 2021

fasho01:
Our resident feminists will not like to hear this one.. I personally see nothing wrong in a woman making the first move

You're drunk. It's actually this kind of thing feminism supports

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Re: "I Texted Him First" A Nigerian Lady Narrates HowShe Met Her Husband On Facebook by Newboss(m): 8:36pm On Dec 02, 2021

You texted him first to come and be paying your bills and funding your lifestyle?

Abeg face front

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Re: "I Texted Him First" A Nigerian Lady Narrates HowShe Met Her Husband On Facebook by ImoleNaija: 8:36pm On Dec 02, 2021

faithfull18:

I go with C. Can you make your point Let's hear what you have to say

In other word, you chose option (B). Most married NL ladies don't hide their status & they are always proud to say it.

If you have a crush, don't hesitate to go for him. Ladies who text first are not forced into marriage. You can always withdraw if you feel he's not worth it. Thanks for the patience though

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Re: "I Texted Him First" A Nigerian Lady Narrates HowShe Met Her Husband On Facebook by Tannhauser(m): 8:36pm On Dec 02, 2021

She forgot to mention the hundreds of other guys she shot her shot at who screwed her sensele6and still dumped her...so afterall the womb shifting facks, and abuse from badboyz she WON. She finally got a comfortable well off simp to call hers...welldone.

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Re: "I Texted Him First" A Nigerian Lady Narrates HowShe Met Her Husband On Facebook by Danhumprey: 8:40pm On Dec 02, 2021

Magnoliaa:
Okay.

Congratulations.

I have shot my own in quite a few guys' DMs too. Lemme just sit back and wait for the returns on my investments. Hopefully they get hit and bleed back to me.

This lie is really expensive. undecided

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Re: "I Texted Him First" A Nigerian Lady Narrates HowShe Met Her Husband On Facebook by faithfull18(f): 8:40pm On Dec 02, 2021

ImoleNaija:

In other word, you chose option (B). Most married NL ladies don't hide their status & they are always proud to say it.

If you have a crush, don't hesitate to go for him. Ladies who text first are not forced into marriage. You can always withdraw if you feel he's not worth it. Thanks for the patience though

Lol, IYM, it's a choice to share personal details. Texting a Nigerian man first isn't advised. I can't say about other nationalities.

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Re: "I Texted Him First" A Nigerian Lady Narrates HowShe Met Her Husband On Facebook by femi4: 8:42pm On Dec 02, 2021

Magnoliaa:
Okay.

Congratulations.

I have shot my own in quite a few guys' DMs too. Lemme just sit back and wait for the returns on my investments. Hopefully they get hit and bleed back to me.

Do you have money?

Re: "I Texted Him First" A Nigerian Lady Narrates HowShe Met Her Husband On Facebook by dmgr(m): 8:42pm On Dec 02, 2021

Most Nigerian Girls, DM first or go to jail?

Nigerian Girls jail

Re: "I Texted Him First" A Nigerian Lady Narrates HowShe Met Her Husband On Facebook by myke92(m): 8:44pm On Dec 02, 2021

playapayaski:
Bondage

Haba!

You could have used the same energy to type "congrats" instead.

Why bad belle just too much lipsrsealed

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Re: "I Texted Him First" A Nigerian Lady Narrates HowShe Met Her Husband On Facebook by femi4: 8:44pm On Dec 02, 2021

faithfull18:
Okay, doesn't work for most, not advised esp. our Nigerian men.

Naija girl mentality...so stereotype

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Re: "I Texted Him First" A Nigerian Lady Narrates HowShe Met Her Husband On Facebook by Kingofhoes: 8:45pm On Dec 02, 2021

Omo na my church member be this o

Re: "I Texted Him First" A Nigerian Lady Narrates HowShe Met Her Husband On Facebook by cbrass(m): 8:47pm On Dec 02, 2021

pocohantas:

When you spend all day insulting them. Which sane woman would slide into your DM?

don't kill me with a laugh here ooo....Oya slide into my DM I won't insult you.

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Re: "I Texted Him First" A Nigerian Lady Narrates HowShe Met Her Husband On Facebook by cbrass(m): 8:48pm On Dec 02, 2021

faithfull18:

Lol, IYM, it's a choice to share personal details. Texting a Nigerian man first isn't advised. I can't say about other nationalities.

how many Nigerian men have you texted first and you regretted it sad

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Re: "I Texted Him First" A Nigerian Lady Narrates HowShe Met Her Husband On Facebook by stamapro(m): 8:49pm On Dec 02, 2021

Risky venture, this is not the standard ooh, those that slide into the hands of ritualist and kidnappers never lived to share the story. Be guided, what worked for Chika may not work for Chioma, what worked for Safiya may not for Saadiya. I wished she shared the whole story.

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Re: "I Texted Him First" A Nigerian Lady Narrates HowShe Met Her Husband On Facebook by Abemy(m): 8:52pm On Dec 02, 2021

Soljaboi44:
A Nigerian lady identified as Annabella Joseph has taken to a Facebook group known as Rant HQ Extension to narrates how she slided to a guy's DM, calling him her crush and subsequently get married to him

Read her story below

Congratulations

https://www./157878258376995/permalink/1111714859659992/

That's how a lady slided into my DM last week Wednesday, I thought she was interested in my ERONASTIC ALPHA STONE that treat contagious diseases, but no, she was looking for love.

She didn't do her checks very well and was wooing a married man with three kids. I took her for a Yahoo guy, using a lady's picture to confuse errotic men. She never asked where I am from, in short, she never asked me anything about me. That made me suspicious.

To Know her intentions I played along, I asked her if we met in a group, she said she saw me from "people you may know"
I enquired if she was in a relationship she said no. I asked her what she would want from her man, she said "fear of God, love and care" I asked what she can offer, she said "peace" I pressed further, what if the man already have peace, she couldn't answer any of my questions satisfactory.

In the second day of chatting, I asked to visit her in the school she claims to be a teacher, she agreed but later refused to be visited in the school or her home, I suggested a hotel and she hurriedly accented. My Yahoo suspicion grew bigger, when I fixed 5pm but she said 9pm was better as she would come after Friday evening church program. Hmmmmmm.

To confirm if she was a man or a lady, I video called, she claimed not to have data to answer my call, I asked for her full picture photograph from hair to toe, she refused. I confronted her that she was fake, she tried all she could to prove me wrong, but refused video calls, and insisted I call her using the number she sent me, or add her on WhatsApp, I didn't want her to get my number and I refused. The video calls I send her were on messenger.

She started professing love I told her I am a married man who had never cheated and never intends to cheat on his wife.
I advised her to try her luck else where. I also encourage her to serve God if she wants to, or leave it if she doesn't want to, but visiting a man after church program, a man you never see or know in a hotel room, not in an open resturant, is not godly.

Op, your girl in the story made me believe the lady in my DM was real, but she was in a wrong place.

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Re: "I Texted Him First" A Nigerian Lady Narrates HowShe Met Her Husband On Facebook by Munzy14(m): 8:52pm On Dec 02, 2021

MufasaLion:

Who will slide in my DM?

So you will smash and pass... grin

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