Saintinoo:

I don't care how you spend your money, but I hope you also spend this much for your mother and female siblings.

hmmmmm most of them don't

989900:
It's not even about the money -- it's about her mentality and her parent's!

That's just it

yinkaOdutuyo:
Pls I need your advice on this.

Since have being dating my fiancee going to 3 years now, I have being doing almost all her parent responsibilities.

I was the one that sent her to school -ND1 and ND2, I paid all the semesters school fees.

I also paid her 2 years rent, when she was in the school. All her handouts and school bills were paid by me. Even till feeding.

Her parent are just to poor, that they can't even provide what they'll eat for themselves.

I did almost everything within my power to provide for her and help her parent atimes with some little I can afford.

Now she's done with her ND programme, am planing to enrol her for a professional Catering Job, which is amount to almost 250k.

At times she come to my place and spent like 2weeks, 3 weeks or even 1 week with me.

So of a recent her mom asked her to come home and spend some days with them.

She now called and ask me for feeding money, but I was angry and I asked her, Can't your parent provide basic needs? Like feeding, clothes etc. You'll be in my house I'll provide what you'll eat and when you're in your parent too, I'll still be the one to provide what you'll eat. Didn't your dad go out every morning to go and work?

I just told her, that if her parent can't provide basic needs, I don't think is proper.

And again she's the type that want to wear what other ladies are wearing and want to up to standard.

And I didn't send any money to her.

I just want to know if am wrong for asking her that. because her dad is alive and mom is healthy, but they're always broke and no money, that they hardly feed 3 square meals.

There's a friend of mine that has the same issue with his babe , it's weird because you have similar names Ibiyinka But maybe just a coincidence

Iyaebe:
Shebi you've been having sex with her so stop complaining and do your responsibilities in peace or didn't you know she has parents before you start parting her legs endlessly and asking her to come spend weeks, months with you?there's nothing like free sex,even the married one's are directly and Indirectly paying for the sex,let's all stop deceiving ourselves

So does this mean the only meaningful thing you have to offer in your life is sex?? same sex that both of them are enjoying? abeg dont make it sound like the sex is a favor.

InTheCloudySky:
You've no one to blame but yourself. I'm sure you were waving your car keys and wallet in her face when you met her, trying to show her you've money. Some of you Nigerian men think you can buy a woman's love with money, not knowing you're setting the precedent for how the relationship will unfold. When you've been carrying all her financial responsibilities for 3-years like one big shot, why won't she continue to expect it and see you as her 24/7, accessible atm?

Waving car keys? This is just a struggling man for God sake.
Using money to buy Love? Are you kidding me? Is there any Love to buy in the first place? Whether a rich man or poor, is there any Love women have in store to sell in the first place?

Iyaebe:
But it's ok to be having sex with someone's daughter that he hasn't pay dowry on abi? you all can downplay sex all you want but I IYAEBE STILL MAINTAIN WHAT I SAID WITH MY FULL CHEST. My posts are for people with deep wisdom, those are the people that understands where I'm coming from,I'm too old to be speaking like a child.

Please just keep mute, your comments are mostly annoying and an eyesore.

It's because of your back-dated mentality that makes most men see ladies as mere sex objects, because you gratify and commercialise sex like it's a commodity in exchange for money. Rubbish!

Both parties enjoyed the act, so please redefine your mentality and stop making a foolery of yourself on this forum all the time

Iyaebe:
Useless men everywhere, I pity ladies that give you people free sex all in the name of expression of feelings, even Adam couldn't touch Eve till God asked him to do something which serves as the bride price before he was allowed to touch her but some ladies wey nack head for ground will begin parting their legs over nonsense expression of feelings. Its unbibilical to have free sex,go and find out.So Oga Op if you can't feed her then leave her for her parents and go your way,you did not complain when you were winning your pelenge waist on top of her.

Naira landers would not kill me!

yinkaOdutuyo:


Her parent can't just do anything, but just at least to help her.

Stop calling her parents.
You're the cause of your problems..
..
..
If you think you need more explanations from me..
Then, tell me whether it was her parents that yoked you into that relationship with their daughter.
What exactly is their fault other than living their normal life which doesn't yield enough money.? But it is their life.
You're always free to leave their daughter alone for them.

yinkaOdutuyo:



It's not too late, at least trying to push her to press her parent to be at least a bit responsible

Useless venture in my opinion. It is too late.

yinkaOdutuyo:
Pls I need your advice on this.

Since have being dating my fiancee going to 3 years now, I have being doing almost all her parent responsibilities.

I was the one that sent her to school -ND1 and ND2, I paid all the semesters school fees.

I also paid her 2 years rent, when she was in the school. All her handouts and school bills were paid by me. Even till feeding.

Her parent are just to poor, that they can't even provide what they'll eat for themselves.

I did almost everything within my power to provide for her and help her parent atimes with some little I can afford.

Now she's done with her ND programme, am planing to enrol her for a professional Catering Job, which is amount to almost 250k.

At times she come to my place and spent like 2weeks, 3 weeks or even 1 week with me.

So of a recent her mom asked her to come home and spend some days with them.

She now called and ask me for feeding money, but I was angry and I asked her, Can't your parent provide basic needs? Like feeding, clothes etc. You'll be in my house I'll provide what you'll eat and when you're in your parent too, I'll still be the one to provide what you'll eat. Didn't your dad go out every morning to go and work?

I just told her, that if her parent can't provide basic needs, I don't think is proper.

And again she's the type that want to wear what other ladies are wearing and want to up to standard.

And I didn't send any money to her.

I just want to know if am wrong for asking her that. because her dad is alive and mom is healthy, but they're always broke and no money, that they hardly feed 3 square meals.

Sadly all this this you are doing to upgrade this girl is only increasing her value. Soon she would realize she can attract higher and better than you. Then the problems would begin.
My God na wah oooo.

Terrier99:


You must be a pauper like her. Leeches United.

Guy you get strength, just check her topics, on her profile, first of all.

Iyaebe:
Shebi you've been having sex with her so stop complaining and do your responsibilities in peace or didn't you know she has parents before you start parting her legs endlessly and asking her to come spend weeks, months with you?there's nothing like free sex,even the married one's are directly and Indirectly paying for the sex,let's all stop deceiving ourselves

are u for real,wot has sex got to do with dis,who enjoy sex more BTW a man n a woman...........@op you were sleeping on a moving bicycle, u woke up late......

endsarrrs:
Entitled mentality


BTW This pounded Yam is practising Polygamy

Inbox me where I can find this in case it’s for real!

I'm wondering why you have become silly to come into my private chat on WhatsApp to call me a scammer meanwhile I have never done business with you or anyone you probably even know physically or online sef..

What did I scam you of ?

Failure to respond to this just means you're nothing but a joke or better still, your parents didn't teach you well never to accuse people wrongly or for fun.... That's if parenting and Parenthood means anything significant to you at all

Bellerophon:


Funny enough you have been modestly civil in conversation save for veering off to include my sisters, an action demanding of commensurate response and I am not sorry i served you back sizzling hot! Just try to curtail your greediness