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Re: I Ruined My Relationship, by ashawopikin(m): 8:39am On Dec 12, 2021
posty56:
fake story, nairaland mods go push this sh*t to front page, let's assume it's real, who runs away match close to home? your sister friend for that matter.
fake or not, try and enjoy , it, u no dey tire for bad news for this country?

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Re: I Ruined My Relationship, by ukaface(f): 9:21am On Dec 12, 2021
So??
I no understand,Wetin you come want again?

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Re: I Ruined My Relationship, by luizpippo(m): 9:36am On Dec 12, 2021
Men dey para because you enjoy the head game alone.

cheesy

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Re: I Ruined My Relationship, by Hayee(f): 10:18am On Dec 12, 2021
mikezuruki:


Reading through this, it occurred to me how men complicate their lives. Your life was going well until you wanted to have a fling.
anybody that tells you that men want peace of mind is a big liar lol grin grin grin

When I keep saying Nigerian men don't like good women you think I'm being stupid abi look at OP cheesy cheesy cheesy

Thank God the girlfriend left him ASAP cheesy cheesy grin

Nigerian men are addicted to heartless gold diggers grin tongue tongue tongue

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Re: I Ruined My Relationship, by Michelle55: 10:21am On Dec 12, 2021
Hayee:
anybody that tells you that men want peace of mind is a big liar lol grin grin grin

When I keep saying Nigerian men don't like good women you think I'm being stupid abi look at OP cheesy cheesy cheesy

Thank God the girlfriend left him ASAP cheesy cheesy grin

Nigerian men are addicted to heartless gold diggers grin tongue tongue tongue

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Re: I Ruined My Relationship, by Nobody: 10:30am On Dec 12, 2021
Hayee:
anybody that tells you that men want peace of mind is a big liar lol grin grin grin

When I keep saying Nigerian men don't like good women you think I'm being stupid abi look at OP cheesy cheesy cheesy

Thank God the girlfriend left him ASAP cheesy cheesy grin

Nigerian men are addicted to heartless gold diggers grin tongue tongue tongue

Some do. Some disciplined ones do. The flesh can be deceiving... wanting so stupid gratification. I really feel bad for Op for his wrong decision that landed him where he is.

He'd have to live with it. And when the baby comes, that's another dimension.

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Re: I Ruined My Relationship, by Ishilove: 11:14am On Dec 12, 2021
I don't understand this story. Na so so "my sister my girlfriend my sister says my girlfriend says my new girl".

You, your sister, your pregnant girlfriend and your girlfriend should all geddifok. Koshi danu

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Re: I Ruined My Relationship, by Nobody: 11:29am On Dec 12, 2021
Michelle55:

Babe don't say that thing again....o.We need peace.....o.That guy is an idiot for doing that stuff to his real girl. He doesn't deserve her. The thing is that good ladies most times date bad guys who don't deserve them. And by the time they are done with the bad guys, their perception of men would change. When the good guys come eventually, they begin to make them pay for the sins of the bad ones.

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Re: I Ruined My Relationship, by Rickmann: 11:40am On Dec 12, 2021
Smoketight:
Good Day everyone I need your thought and advice and some bashing too,

I have been dating my girlfriend for about 3 years, we have had our ups and down, she is helpful in every way, she has her own job and doesn't ask much from me, she helps me financially when ever I am broke,

Trouble started when I met my sister's friend I told my sister that I liked her friend and she should help me talk to her just for the flings oh nothing serious because of my girlfriend at home please, she said no problems she did her job and the friend agreed, we started talking and getting to know each other, she comes to visit me over the weekends ( we live in different town but not so far from each other) I will lodge her in a nice hotel room while I sneak out from the house when my girl is probably sleeping or sometimes I just make up stories, anything for me to get out of the house just to be with my new babe.

My new girl is sweet, her head game is scecond to none, she gives me Olosho vibes
When ever we do the other things,
I kept her in that hotel for 3 weeks,
When our little vacation was over she went back to her home and called me to tell me she is pregnant for me, I did my calculations and I might be the father of the unborn baby,

My girlfriend at home has never been pregnant for me before now,
While my new girl is full of drama since she got pregnant, she calls me every night, I asked her not to call she refused to listen, she said I can't get her pregnant and stay far from her she is suggesting she moves in with me or I relocate to her town and that is impossible because if my business and my girl.

My sister that introduced her to me is not helping at all she is fighting and pushing her friend to me, she doesn't like my girl, my sister said my girlfriend insulted told her that her hair smells(women) She also said my girlfriend told her she wont have a baby until I her dowry, my sister also said my girlfriend has been pregnant in the past and had an abortion without my knowledge. My sister my mother want this new girl all my mother wants is a child from me because I am her only son.

One day my sister brought the pregnant girl to my house this happened this Monday I lied to my girlfriend that she is a family friend, my girl been the nice person she is she made food for her to eat. I didn't even sleep that night.
Things has not been the same for me I I stress alot I can't function like I used to I have lost alot of weight, I managed to open up to my girl tho, I am willing to pay her dowry now if she gives me the concenst, I don't want to lose her, the pregnant girl is willing to keep the baby while I make plans for a new apartment, right now she is in a new hotel, my girl has left me and and her number is not connecting, Dear friends please what do I do? Help

Really?
You need some bashing?
Trust me you don't want that, bro.

You just confirmed that ur girl friend is/was everything to you..now the question is, wasn't she enough for you?

Ur eye don clear abi?

A lot of guys out there are wishing they'll one day find a girl that will love and support them the way ur girl does but you threw all that away just for 3weeks pleasure..

Would have taken it out on your sister while trying so hard not to bash you but I soon realised that she intelligently made you a father..

Well, who wouldn't want to see her brother become a father and her (ur sister) an aunt grin

Your got what you deserved bro, it infuriates me when I see stupid guys.

It's your cross mate, carry it.

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Re: I Ruined My Relationship, by TheRealOwner(m): 1:27pm On Dec 12, 2021
Kriss216:



It's like you're mad. undecided

After enjoying the head game and olosho vibes for 3 weeks, you're now asking us for help.

Seems you don't have respect.

No respect and home training �
Re: I Ruined My Relationship, by SonofGod231: 1:30pm On Dec 12, 2021
qtguru:


I used to think this was common sense, but alot of men dey prove me wrong, I can't imagine sitting down and talking to a lady within nothing upstairs it won't last
Exactly, Basically these are the things we are faced with these days. I have a chic that is everything, pretty and hard working but the little things are the ones that bothers me the most.For instance,I've been playing chess game for a long time now and really love playing the game whenever I can even online.Eversince I started dating this babe,each time I try to teach her how to play the game she sleeps off on me,at a point she told me she was no more interested in learning the game but this is someone that whenever she comes over to my place I would have to gave up my sitting room for her because she can watch Zeeworld series til thy kingdom comes not minding we have just one telly in the whole house...Some times she even forces me into watching the shiit with her.When I should be watching football, playing video games or watching something more interesting I would be forced to watch "Jordah and Abhka" every day and she's not bothered how I feel about it,I should just sit down with her and swallow it...I mean,I dare not change the station when she's on ZeeWorld....
I believe relationship is all about compromise and sacrifices but there's never a time I would tell this babe let me just watch one match half-time only that she would agree,then we talking about marriage and Love?!If we can't make sacrifices and compromise then why are we in the relationship?!
Women can use mind games to get the result they wish from a man and a man has no defence to this. A relationship should be about what you can give, not what you can take from it. As soon as it is the latter, it is as good as dead. As for the visual effects and bedmatics of a woman,there must be a balance.The curves of a womans body,tight head and sex game all attracts a man but If they are not all in balance with a variety of other things,it is completely rubbish.

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Re: I Ruined My Relationship, by goodlife4good(m): 2:02pm On Dec 12, 2021
face your matter abeg, don't you know bandit have kidnap Gumi brother grin grin grin grin

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Re: I Ruined My Relationship, by Hayee(f): 2:05pm On Dec 12, 2021
SonofGod231:

Exactly, Basically these are the things we are faced with these days. I have a chic that is everything, pretty and hard working but the little things are the ones that bothers me the most.For instance,I've been playing chess game for a long time now and really love playing the game whenever I can even online.Eversince I started dating this babe,each time I try to teach her how to play the game she sleeps off on me,at a point she told me she was no more interested in learning the game but this is someone that whenever she comes over to my place I would have to gave up my sitting room for her because she can watch Zeeworld series til thy kingdom comes not minding we have just one telly in the whole house...Some times she even forces me into watching the shiit with her.When I should be watching football, playing video games or watching something more interesting I would be forced to watch "Jordah and Abhka" every day and she's not bothered how I feel about it,I should just sit down with her and swallow it...I mean,I dare not change the station when she's on ZeeWorld....
I believe relationship is all about compromise and sacrifices but there's never a time I would tell this babe let me just watch one match half-time only that she would agree,then we talking about marriage and Love?!If we can't make sacrifices and compromise then why are we in the relationship?!
Women can use mind games to get the result they wish from a man and a man has no defence to this. A relationship should be about what you can give, not what you can take from it. As soon as it is the latter, it is as good as dead. As for the visual effects and bedmatics of a woman,there must be a balance.The curves of a womans body,tight head and sex game all attracts a man but If they are not all in balance with a variety of other things,it is completely rubbish.
a woman can have all these things and she will still not be appreciated and be treated like trash the thing is you can't dictate or determination all what men or women want cheesy grin

I will; shock that some men will willingly drop an hard-working woman for a liability like this Op grin grin grin


It is their life let them live it undecided

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Re: I Ruined My Relationship, by Nobody: 2:36pm On Dec 12, 2021
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Re: I Ruined My Relationship, by Nobody: 2:54pm On Dec 12, 2021
Jeremani:




[/b] you fvck, come still fvck up.

what you did was wrong my nigga,
good girls are difficult to come by,
I know many don't like condom,
apart from pregnancy, diseases are plenitude,

am concern that you losing flesh,
let the issue slid by,
go beg your main babe to forgive,
Damn it's really hurt,

if you going to beg her play this song to her,

Come move your waist to the bass you boomin
Metro touch with the swag it was good as a music
Fire little mami you embracing the movement
'Cause that bad ache in your waist makes mums feels stupid
I won't lie
And tell you that I won't bite
'Cause I can make you fall in love with me
That's if I get it alright, alright
Go on move your waist to the bass of the movement
I'm not done stalking you, it's a shame you're moving
I settle so way I can reach you
I keep your whole number if you need to
Now I say I love you cause I need you
I still need you
I still need you bae and you know I do
I'm mad over you
I still need you bae and you know I do
I'm mad over you
I still need you bae

Are you normal?
Re: I Ruined My Relationship, by frozen70(f): 3:19pm On Dec 12, 2021
Smoketight:
Good Day everyone I need your thought and advice and some bashing too,

I have been dating my girlfriend for about 3 years, we have had our ups and down, she is helpful in every way, she has her own job and doesn't ask much from me, she helps me financially when ever I am broke,

Trouble started when I met my sister's friend I told my sister that I liked her friend and she should help me talk to her just for the flings oh nothing serious because of my girlfriend at home please, she said no problems she did her job and the friend agreed, we started talking and getting to know each other, she comes to visit me over the weekends ( we live in different town but not so far from each other) I will lodge her in a nice hotel room while I sneak out from the house when my girl is probably sleeping or sometimes I just make up stories, anything for me to get out of the house just to be with my new babe.

My new girl is sweet, her head game is scecond to none, she gives me Olosho vibes
When ever we do the other things,
I kept her in that hotel for 3 weeks,
When our little vacation was over she went back to her home and called me to tell me she is pregnant for me, I did my calculations and I might be the father of the unborn baby,

My girlfriend at home has never been pregnant for me before now,
While my new girl is full of drama since she got pregnant, she calls me every night, I asked her not to call she refused to listen, she said I can't get her pregnant and stay far from her she is suggesting she moves in with me or I relocate to her town and that is impossible because if my business and my girl.

My sister that introduced her to me is not helping at all she is fighting and pushing her friend to me, she doesn't like my girl, my sister said my girlfriend insulted told her that her hair smells(women) She also said my girlfriend told her she wont have a baby until I her dowry, my sister also said my girlfriend has been pregnant in the past and had an abortion without my knowledge. My sister my mother want this new girl all my mother wants is a child from me because I am her only son.

One day my sister brought the pregnant girl to my house this happened this Monday I lied to my girlfriend that she is a family friend, my girl been the nice person she is she made food for her to eat. I didn't even sleep that night.
Things has not been the same for me I I stress alot I can't function like I used to I have lost alot of weight, I managed to open up to my girl tho, I am willing to pay her dowry now if she gives me the concenst, I don't want to lose her, the pregnant girl is willing to keep the baby while I make plans for a new apartment, right now she is in a new hotel, my girl has left me and and her number is not connecting, Dear friends please what do I do? Help

Since you love your girlfriend, you can keep her as a baby mama while you reconcile with your girlfriend

Watch the both relationships and you will get to pick one out of the two irrespective of who have a child for you

By the time you decide on who yo marry, you take your family to her family and pay her bride price

You brought the problem yourself, so don't allow any one influence your choice of wife
Re: I Ruined My Relationship, by SonofGod231: 4:15pm On Dec 12, 2021
Hayee:
a woman can have all these things and she will still not be appreciated and be treated like trash the thing is you can't dictate or determination all what men or women want cheesy grin

I will; shock that some men will willingly drop an hard-working woman for a liability like this Op grin grin grin


It is their life let them live it undecided
Why wouldn't she be appreciated.
Our mothers were treated with honour and respect because they first respected themselves and their men.
Today women are just ignorant into what men really think.
The last thing a man wants is an aggressive self-centered forceful air-head whose only concern is her looks, clothes, shoes, jewellery and make-up.
Re: I Ruined My Relationship, by Truvelisback(m): 5:42pm On Dec 12, 2021
Kukuma marry their 2 na!
Re: I Ruined My Relationship, by Jeremani: 11:38pm On Dec 12, 2021
AlhajiBitcoin:


Are you normal?
Yes but you can
Proof me otherwise
Re: I Ruined My Relationship, by shantti(m): 5:50pm On Dec 13, 2021
Shellsploit:
Amazing Olosho vibe...

So what do you want to hear from us biko nu?
Ogbeni, carry your cross. He who pays the piper calls the tone.
Gold circle Condom is as cheap 3 for 50naira, but u chose to watch it flow like a boss sad sad sad

Sha when you wan do your naming ceremony dont forget to invites us!

Bro Gold circle now nah #110, 3 for #110
Re: I Ruined My Relationship, by Shellsploit: 9:44pm On Dec 13, 2021
shantti:


Bro Gold circle now nah #110, 3 for #110

shocked shocked shocked shocked
Re: I Ruined My Relationship, by Nobody: 10:04pm On Dec 13, 2021
Its said that any man whos diickk didnt put in trouble wil most likely live a long life. u couldnt control ur apetite for sex nw see where your have landed yourself. u might even be in in for bigger trouble with a new hiv infection from her.
Re: I Ruined My Relationship, by ImaIma1(f): 10:14pm On Dec 13, 2021
You haven't even married her yet and you are already cheating and bringing baby mama drama.

Allow your ex-girlfriend move on and focus on your new family. You wanted to have your cake and eat it but it backfired.

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