+18: We Have 4 Lives: Secret of Peace of Mind for Men — To Be Deleted Soon (A MUST READ)

As I man, I have found the secrets of peace of mind. This post is only for single men, but everyone will learn something new. It will be deleted soon. No matter how busy you are, read it right now and you'll thank me later — I promise.

There was a point marriages were peaceful and women didn't cheat on their husbands and this was why some of us said we must marry virgins who are well-groomed and don't nag.

Unfortunately, America, with their so-called liberation, decided to corrupt the world. The made waywardness and disobedience of the Bible and Quran famous.

They first of all started with clubbing, moved to stripping, to sex parties, and finally to porn and full-blown nákedness on the street or at least, extremely revealing clothes.

Before America did all these damages, there was moral values in Nigeria and other Christian and Muslim countries.

"Immorality/taboo is sweet and fun — enjoy it, but don't hurt anyone in the process," was the picture America painted.

Even though you don't like a new song at first, there is way everyone will keep playing it and everywhere you go, you keep hearing it, you'll end up liking it — especially when you realize people you like or respect also like it.

Some people started watching BBNaija when they realized the rich men/women/celebrities they admire and look up to also watch it.

This is exactly how immorality works. You'll be against it at first, but before you know it, you'll begin to like it behind closed doors as long as no one catches you. This is how hypocrisy starts.

You'll see a pastor or an Imam preaching against masturbation, but if only you have access to his private life, you'll realize some of them do more soapy than the entire congregation combined.

When I was a kid, my siblings and I used to steal our dad's money, the small 5 and 50 Naira change he regularly dumps in his pocket when he comes back from work.

Fifty Naira still had value then, so at times, he checks his pocket to use the money, but never finds them — his little rats, one of us, has taken it. He'll gather us and ask and no one will say he/she took it.

My mom likes all of us, but I noticed she likes more, but she tries not to make it obvious. She's always defending me and always tell my dad I was not the one who took the money, but in reality, I was the one — she didn't know.

One day, I vowed to make her proud and NEVER to steal and always be honest just to make her proud.

Till this day, I don't steal and I'm always honest to the point that some people hate/love me for being too honest or too blunt.

I don't even know how to lie again — even when the demon in me (everyone has a demon in them) tries to push me to lie, I feel guilty even before the lie comes out of my mouth and I give up and just say the truth.

Lying is too hard for me — I have built a big reputation offline with honesty since I was a teenager, so I don't want to ruin it. I'd rather not say anything than to lie.

I left Nigeria for my studies as a teenager to a 1st world country and all the foreigners and fellow students I met there were always honest just like me, so I forgot lies existed.

Though, some of the white and Asian girls I met love big black d*cks and some were honest about it while the shy ones keep to themselves. Yes, they do lie to their white boyfriends sha — especially when they left him at home to visit a black guy or lodge with him in a hotel.

One thing I noticed about these foreign girls is: they love sex and they love meeting new guys. You never can tell what will happen next — they're too spontaneous when they like you.

This leads to cheating. So, these foreign girls love to cheat on their fellow country's boyfriends with foreign black guys in hope that the black guy has a bigger d*ck, lasts longer, and f*cks better. As America painted it, "Immortality is sweet/fun."

If her expectation is met, she finds a way to dump there white/Asian boyfriend for you. Western media has painted blacks as poor, so these white and Asians girls don't ask for money, instead, they'll be the ones to spend on you — all they want is for you to drill them in bed like the whóre they are and never cheat on them. They love faithful men who are great in bed. They'll buy the entire world for you — they're possessive and easily obsessed when you're great in bed.

Years later, I came back to Nigeria with the mentality that everyone is honest just like me and those foreigners I met, but I was shocked when I discovered that you're a big FO.OL if you don't know how to lie in Nigeria.

I was almost depressed at the rate everyone was lying — if felt like if they don't lie, they'll die. Lie was the oxygen needed for them to survive. I thought this was only the men, wow, the women were worse.

When I left Nigeria as a teenager, I have NEVER seen a Nigerian woman smoke or with tattoo or a Nigerian man/boy with earring expect Hank Anuku in movies, but when I came back, even 15 year old girls were smoking weeds with their 17 year old boyfriend. All the male kids now have tattoos, earrings, dark lips, guns, stocking and palms slippers. Some now have Benz and Venza. Wow! How fast things have changed in Nigeria.

Yes, over there, in that foreign country, people from age 18 and above smoke cigarettes, draw tattoo, and party, but no weed. Here in Nigeria, people below 18 were into all the crazy sh!t and that was when I knew it is finish — we are finally in a new era

I went to my village and realized it was even worse — everybody now is a cultist or about to join. Those girls we used to see as small girls now have big asses and roll with big men and ritualists. The small ones are not bad b!tches — crazier than Angel of BBNaija.

At a point, my dream of having a virgin as a wife everporated. I knew it was no longer possible. Small kids now use big Android or Apple phone and there is always another teenager sending them money to buy data.

These small girls have almost watched all the porn videos on some porn sites and have practocalized some of the things they've watched. They don't even like sex with condom — they want it hard and raw at all time.

I don't blame the parents, because most of them have tried their best. I blame American media and the government now. When a principled father beats up a child merciless for bad behavior, the government says it's child abuse and arrest you. Parents are now fed up so they decided to leave their kids for God to take care of.

America preaches that God exists and at the same time, preaches he doesn't, so these kids prefer to listen to the later and do their own sh!ts the American way which is, "Immorality is sweet and fun as long as you don't hurt anyone."

With this mindset, these kids are having the best sweetest fun of their lives with numerous dicks. The more a woman has tried numerous d*cks and likes them differently, the more she'd want to try more until she finally marries one or them or gets infected.

After she has married one or them that is ready because age is not on her side or got infected by one of them, she'd still cheat on her husband with one of the exes that was better in bed during her exploration days.

If she got infected and not still married, she'll angrily start sleeping with everyone as a form of revenge for ruining her her. They will blame her situation on men who didn't use condom, but she was the one who said she doesn't like sex with condom. Aren't some women confused? Yes, they are.

Life is short, so she enjoyed it to the fullest based on American idiology.

I have finally realized we all have 4 lives

1. Public life (the one everyone knows)
2. Personal life (the one only you know and you don't talk about with a single soul)
3. Private life (the one our partner or clique knows)

4. Dark life (the one only our parners-in-crime know)

1. Public life (the one everyone knows)

Most humans are hypocrites, but they don't know. In fact, some humans don't even know they have 4 lives/lifestyles too. This is the life they show to the rest of the world. They present themselves as holy and innocent. This is a fake life.

It's not their fault — this is what the society wants — an exemplary life. In this public life, most people act morally right to appear mature and responsible.

2. Personal life (the one only you know and you don't talk about with a single soul)

This is where some secrets die because the person wants to keep it to himself or herself for life.

3. Private life (the one our partner or clique knows)

This is the life where people have partners, make love, get married and have kids or join secret organizations. In this life, Mr. James and Mr. Kevin belong to the occult group and their wives know about it or don't know.

This is the life most men/women are living with their partners, but unfortunately to the man or the woman, one of them has another life called the dark life.

4. Dark life (the one only our parners-in-crime know)

Here is where the unspoken demon lives and anything that exposes whatever happens here to the private or public life causes depression, betrayal, ill-health, and sometimes sudden death from shock of hearing the truth of what happened in the dark life.

This dark life is being protected by the people involved with all their lives. They never reveal to anyone because if anyone does, it will affect all the people involved in the dark life.

Example of a dark life is: Mr. James married Mrs Grace. James and Kelvin belongs to the same occult group and the wives of both know this, but behind Mrs Grace's back, she doesn't her her husband sleeps with Mr. Kelvin. They are gays. This gay life is their dark life. Mrs. Grace doesn't know about it neither does Kevin's wife.

Another example is: Mr. James sleeping with Kevin's son/daughter after promising him/her 5 million and they both loved and enjoy doing it often and they haven't been caught. In this case, James and Kevin's son/daughter don't just have a private life, but a dark life no one else apart from the two of them know. This dark life is riskier than private life, but way more fun and sweet. The thrill of doing something scary or taboo makes them want more. These two people in this dark life will always talk about the things happening in their private lives. At the end, they'll become partners-in-crime.

This is to say, Mr. James will tell Kevin's son some secrets about his wife and Kevin's son will tell him some secrets about his girlfriend and how she doesn't know he is gay/bi-sexual and he is only dating her to avoid making his parents, Mr/Mrs Kevin suspect.

These two people will reveal things they can never tell their partners in their private lives.

Another example is: Mr. James, sleeping with his friend's wife, Mrs Kevin and they can't stop doing it. Or, to make it worse, Mrs Kevin gave her daughter to her husband's friend, James, to sleep with for money when the husband became broke. In this case, the dark life is now a triangle. James, Kevin's wife and daughter.

They'll keep the secret of this triangle till eternity — until maybe, something bursts it and the rest of the people in their private and public lives will finally hear it and become shocked and feel betrayed for their secret adventures.

Now, let's talk about you, Mr. Man, dating that fine girl called Blessing. Do you know if Blessing has a dark life? Sometimes, it could be prostitûtion and there is this certain boyfriend that broke up with her, but they didn't part ways — they're become friends-with-benefits and partners-in-crime. Two of them are so open to each other and whatever she does, she tell him and he does the same too. Their friendship is sole about sex, food, gossip, and nothing more. She tell him everything about you, your character, if she truly likes you, how bad/good you are in bed, they size of your d*ck, if you're rich or poor, tall or short, handsome or ugly. She tells him everything about you. He is her confidant. She seeks advice from him and she doesn't ask him for money — except when she has no other option left. When she's around him, she feels relaxed, comfortable and they do go out and acts as couple, but it's all about the sex and nothing more (the girls wants more from him, but the guy only wants sex). Before, the guy may have wanted more, but after catching her in her dark life with someone else when they were officially dating, he decided to lose interest, but keep her as a intimacy gadget because her pussy is sweet or she is great in bed and she decided to stay too because he is great in bed.

This your girl tells his FWB everything about all the new guys disturbing her and the ones she has slept with, but she'll never tell you all these. Why? You belong to her private life circle while this FWB guy belongs to her dark life circle.

You have invested lots of money and emotions in her and she shows you a good girl's character — perfect. This FWB guy used to invest just like you, but after he caught her, he felt the pain, lost the love, but still love the sex, hence, they're still together even though he's now her ex. As in, ex with benefits.

So, I feel bad for you, Mr. I'm Madly In Love With Her. You only belong to her private like — you don't belong to her dark life.

I don't have a girlfriend, but I have female friends and I'm part of their dark lives. Until you belong to a woman's dark life circle, you don't know much about her — she's hiding a lot from you if you online belong in her private life.

The dark life is where all secrets are laid bare with confidence that it won't be used against her becuase she too has the guy's secrets and she won't use it against him either. Some of the members of her dark life may be her female besties or her male besties (whom she sleeps with on a regular basis with no string attached).

Note: There's a fake dark life. This is where she'll make you feel like you're in her dark life, but all she tells you are lies to make you fell you're the only one she tells secrets.

She'll tell you about guys disturbing her and how she doesn't like them, but you only. It's mostly a lie to make you happy and trust her. To be part of her real dark life, you must be smart and great in bed and you must be a good-bad guy with lots of other options. She must know that your life does not revolve around her and you're always ready to walk away strong and unbothered.

If you're a SIMP, you can never be in her dark life — she'll see you as weak and not qualified to know her dark life secrets. She wants somone who's emotionally strong — not a weak SIMP or a kiss-n-tell. She wants to man who doesn't have lots of male or female friends he goes out with regularly to drink or gist with.

She wants an introvert who is a bad boy, but has good personality and can smoke with her in his apartment and have mad sex afterwards. These are some of the things she wants from a man who wishes to enter her dark life.

It's not easy to penetrate a woman's dark life no matter how hard you try. It takes her years trust you, believe in you, and put you in that position.

Luckily, some smart guys know how to create that dark life, then brings the lady into it instead of waiting for her to put you in hers. (This requires some advance psychology and mental manipulation.) That's a topic for another day.

Let me tell you a story of one of them so that you'll understand what the dark life is all about.

I likes her and he's fine. Lots of other guys likes her. Even though I liked her, I didn't fall in love. The first day I had sex with her, she went out to fix her nails and slept with someone — a guys she has known before me.

When she came back, I looked deep into her eyes and told her she slept with someone where she went to, but she denied. I looked deep into her eyes again and applied some psychology. I placed my hand on her chest while we talk and she knew I was way ahead of her in mind games.

Few minutes later of toying with her brain, she started crying and confessed. She said she know him before me. It seems they've been doing it.

By the way, she isn't my girl, but I always feel after I have slept with a woman, she's mine and if she sleeps with someone else, she has cheated on me and I punish such behaviors by friendzoning you and keeping you as a sex slave.

I we had sex a month after knowing her — I wasn't after sex or relationship — I even told her I'm a heartbreaker, but she loved me and said she doesn't mind that I'll change my mind as we progress. So, I banged her after a month and that same day, she banged another guy when she went to fix her nails.

When she came back, I could see guilt written all over her face and as someone who knows women, no matter how innocent, churchy, and beautiful they look shouldn't be trusted, I just smiled and dug the truth out of there mouth since my instinct has already told me she got f*cked where she went to.

She confessed and promised not to do it again, but I wasn't bothered — afterall, it's all cruise and friendship, not relationship for me. I removed her panties and banged the second time for that day. That means, in a day, I f*cked, another man f*cked, and I f*cked again and again the same day. Wow! Women are really whóre.

This that day, I told her I'm now her partner in crime and she started opening up and confessing how I'm the best and how she's not joking and how she can never leave me.

I told her we'll still be friends, but she's allowed to get another boyfriend and I'll be the one to access them for her. She has been my friend for 2 years and never she wanted a relationship with other guys, but me.

Since I refused, she finally gave two guys a chance. As a fine girl she has too many options and doesn't even reply her hundreds of Facebook messages from her hundreds of admirers. She gave me her Facebook, Instagram, email, and phone password — so I have access to them. Funnily, all her messages with all the guys she has dated or chatted with since 2014 are still in her inbox. I do dig them out once in a while to read and wow, too many past adventures and she's only 23.

The funny thing is: she's even a learner compared to most girls that look more innocent and even younger or older than her.

This and many experiences made me to finally realize we humans have 3 lives and the dark life is the one a man should know before marrying a woman.

If you don't know it, don't cry when she starts exhibiting her dark lifestyle in your private lifestyle with her in the relationship or marriages. Some people say what you don't know can't kill you, but that is a lie.

You'll begin to say she has changed, she's a liar, she's a cheat, etc. My brother, she isn't a NEW liar or a NEW cheat — she has been there before she met you, but kept it in her dark life diary to please and trap you, but now, she's begining to show it because she's tired of pretending to be a good girl.

When you've had a taste of being a bad girl and you enjoyed it, being a good girl can be boring. This is why some girls show the good girl personality in their public and private life (to please people), but show their naughty and whôre side in their dark life with another man who's equal to the dark side lifestyle.

As a wise man, after you've had a taste of the dark life of a beautiful woman, you'll never trust beautiful women again (you'd mostly use them for sex or baby mama only) — you'd rather settle with an average or below average-looking girl whose dark life isn't as terrible as these beautiful girls.

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So, she agreed to date a guy called Richard after almost 2 years of persuading me to make our friendship an official relationship, but I refused.

Even without the cheating, I wasn't even interested in a relationship despite her beauty, brain, sweet p*ssy, and endowed body, so it's worse now that she has cheated.

Two of them started dating and two months later, they had sex. When she came back, she told me everything that happened — as her partner-in-crime.

The young man wants a serious relationship and marriage, but his character is what she doesn't like. She said he's arrogant, not romantic, and tries to act too commanding like a father figure. He cautions her easily and acts as if everyone is below him.

When they go to a restaurant, he tells them to told the water for him while he washes his hand. He loves perfection and wants to be worshipped. She cooks indomie, he condenms it that she didn't cook it the way he likes and he's too controling in everything.

So, she said she can't cope with him because whenever she's with him, she's always scared of talking to avoid offending him. His temperament is scary and so on.

While she agreed to date this guy, there was a guy wooing her on WhatsApp for months but she bluntly told him she can never have anything with him because of where he's from and all that.

When she's asleep and always go through her chat to see what she's up to and damn, the number of men SIMPing and shooting their shots is too many. It's hard to resist all of them and she's trying her best to.

I made told her to always be comfortable picking calls in my presense even though I know she gets jealous when other girls call me. So, as her bestie and partners-in-crime, she is 99% open in our dark life, but has 1% info hidden in her personal life. I don't blame her — it's normal.

A month later, she said Richard is coming to town and he wants them to go do checkup to know their status, genotype, etc. and she agreed. She left my house to go see him and they lodged in a certain hotel.

When she came back 24 hours later, the next day, and left her phone on the table, I jumped on it while she was in the bathroom and realized the person she went to see at the hotel wasn't Richard, but the guy she bluntly told she doesn't have interest in and all that.

Tips: Women don't mean what they say and they don't say what they mean. They work based on emotions. A woman's no now will end up being a yes 9 minutes or 9 days later.

They talk based mood/emotions. If a woman rejects you, it's not you she rejected, but the circumstance of that moment. The circumstance could change at any moment.

As a man, I already know more than 95% of women are whóre and liars, so I wasn't shocked. Afterall, she isn't my girlfriend — just one of my female friends.

I smartly brought the topic up without her knowing I read their chat and she nervously said, " Yes, it's not Richard and she has been meaning to tell me, but was waiting for the right time."

She first of you denied, but I applied psychology and she confessed. "I only approved Richard," I said, but she objected that Richard has a bad character and this new guy is better and all that.

If I had asked her if she slept with him or not and with condom or not, she may end up saying no, she didn't sleep with him. If she had even agreed, she would've said yes, but they used condom, so I didn't bother asking that.

Since I already know women are determined liars (worse than Lai Mohammed) even in their death bed, I had to use psychology to bypass the lying section of her brain.

What I asked her was, "I hope you have drank Pos.tinor 2 already?" This question assumes I already know they banged raw (even though I didn't — it was all psychology) and she said no, she hasn't drank it. With this, I knew they banged raw. I gave her Posti.nor 2 to drink.

Unfortunately, the new guy seems to be a playboy, but he's less stingy, needy, and desperate than Richard. Two days later, I was drilling her when Richard called.

The rod was inside stroking her slowly while she answers his call and told him she was sleeping when he asked her her voice was like that.

Richard is madly in love and can't do without her — she likes him too, but doesn't like his ego and 80% of his character. That was the reason all his past relationships crashed.

Tip: Men, work on your ego and anger. Be in control, but don't be controlling. Be confident, but don't overdo it and think everyone is below you. Even if you think so, don't show it in character. Too much pride or being too authoritative is a turn off to women. Sense of humor, naughtiness, humility, fun, mystery, unpredictability, and great in bed are way better attributes to attract and keep a women.

That same day, while playing with her nîpples, the new guy called and told her to come back to that hotel they lodged the other time and she got angry and replied him with, "What did you take me for? A prostituté? After I left the hotel for two days now, you only checked on me once. So, you only need me when you want sex?" She queried him and he denied being a user, but wants something serious with her.

He's contesting for a political position and he, the new guy, wants to marry her, but she refused. She told me she doesn't want to die early. She's scared of politics and politicians — there too deadly for her. She fears an opponent killing her husband or vice versa.

That position requires a man to have a wife before you can be eligible and he wants her to be his wife as fast as possible.

By the way, as a good mentor, I have taught her (with practical) how to tighten her p*ssy and f*ck/ride a man like a pro until he loses his senses and falls madly in love with her. That's Advanced Kayamata — no jazz required, but skills. I guess, she used the skills perfectly. Yes, I know, I'm a bad person, so don't remind me.

In her WhatsApp, I read some other naughty chats she had with other guys. She blames me for everything — that if I had agreed to date her after two years of begging me, she wouldn't have bothered about other guys.

Truly, she loves me more than anything, but for cheating on me when I was still considering friendship, not even relationship, dating her is now impossible. I don't like it when a woman cheats on me. In that department, I have pride.

I prefer when a woman cheats on her man with me and not cheats on me with another man. I know, I'm being greedy and selfish here, but that is what life has turned us into. Everyone is now self-centered.

Tip: A woman will never take blames — she'll find a way to blame you or lie about the reason she did what she did or in most cases, she'll totally deny it and swears with her great grandmother's grave that she didn't do it. In fact, some will say: if I lie, let me never see good in my life.

Don't be decieved — (Nigerian) women of this recent generation don't believe in curses/cusses and this is why they swear with even accident and death.

As long as you believe their lies, the curses they cursed themselves don't matter to them. They believe curse doesn't work anymore (thanks to American culture), but they use it a lot to appear innocent and make you believe they weren't lying.

With my story above, you'll finally realize humans have 4 lives. Even though I belong to her dark life, did you notice she wants to start a new semi-dark life behind my back (personal life), but psychology helped me bring her back into being open to me?

The lesson there is: The American media has re-colonized African women and they are finally "more loose' than their foreign counterparts because these African women hate sex with condom. They want it raw at every time.

They're not scared of infection. All they care about is: pleasure, pleasure, and more pleasure. F*ck me harder and last for hours until I c*m. Afterall, the American media has indirectly told them "Immorality is sweet and fun." Truly, immorality is sweet and fun while morality is bitter and boring. No single Nigerian woman likes bitter or boring things.

I'm a morally good person, but at times, when in Rome, do as the Romans for the mean time.

One way I stopped my foreign girlfriend from smoking when I was dating her was to pretend I smoke, then the next day, I told her I want to stop and she must stop with me.

Instantly, she agreed — who wouldn't? If she had refused, she knows her punishment — I would've deprived her of that sweet African d*ck she craves every single second.

Tip: Be so great in bed and have a sense of humor / don't be a pushover if you want a woman to be addicted to you and respect you like a god.

So, after her third visit to Richard, she dumped him, or at least, she is gradually withdrawing, but the guy is still calling and begging while she does their usual feminine shakara.

I really pity him. He has tasted the sweetest and tighest vag*na of a beautiful girl, so he has lost his senses even with all the ego and arrogance he showed her earlier. He has become soft.

He calls her too much even before they had their first sex and she doesnt like it. She feels he's being to desperate. She just doesn't like 80% of his personality and character.

For the new guy, she likes his personality, but she complains he doesn't call or care and he's acting like a player. She likes him more than Richard, but she has ran away from both of them for now. She needs some space.

Tips: Give a girl some space like this guy, unlike Richard. The less you chase, you more it comes to you. So, attract a woman, don't chase her.

At the moment, there are two new cute guys desperately calling her on a regular basis. I told her to give one of them a chance, but she doesn't want to yet. She's still blaming me for her explorations and adventure that I caused it because I refused to date her.

You see, a woman will also blame you for everything — they hate taking blames.

She talks about how she doesn't want to flatter me, but I'm the best in everything. Characters, sex game, personality, wisdom, honesty, etc. I will just laugh and say, "Dey whyne me sha." And she'll say, "No, I no dey whyne you. I'm f*cking honest."

I do believe her because I already believe in myself — I don't really need anyone to remind me. #CockySmile.

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She sucks my d*ck and swallows everything to prove how much she loves me and how she doesn't do it with anyone. (Trues, but lies are normal to them).

She gave me an.al once, but said it's too big for her ass and how she has never done it with anyone.

All these just to make me start a relationship with her, but NEVER. I have already told her I don't fall in love — I can only like somone, not love anyone — I love only myself. I protect my heart with my life and my life with my actions.

The takeaway of this post is

1. Immorality is sweet and fun and women can't do without it no matter how you try to imbibe morals in them — in fact, the more you try to be morally right around them, the more they see you as boring, old-fashioned, and begin to distance themselves from you; they'll friendzone you

2. Women lie more than they say the truth in relationships no matter how rich, handsome, smart, great in bed you are or how much they love you (they'll tell you lots of truth if they love you, but you'll get more info if you're part of her dark life, else she's still hiding 10% from you)

3. Beautiful women lie/cheat even more and people easily believe them because they're beautiful and look innocent like saints, so it's easy to always believe them when they make those cute and innocent face

4. She'll never tell you about her dark lifestyle and will make you believe she doesn't even have it no matter how many million times you ask her and at the end, you'll end up believing her — you have no choice and you have no trace

5. Even though she's dating you and you're the best, she's still banging her ex who knows a lot about her dark life, but it'll take you ages to find out and as a bad guy, the ex already knows you're the new guy, so he will play along to make sure you don't catch her — she's only his spe.rm dumping site while she's your angel and queen

7. Yes, she loves you and you love her, but she's still secretly admiring lots of new tall, rich, chiseled, and handsome guys online and offline and chatting dirty with them as a backup plan should you disappoint and at times, sleeps with some even while dating you

8. Any day you have a misunderstanding with her and have a partial breakup, just know that another guy is taking care of her hole on your behalf — she sees it as being single for 24 hours before you guys reconcile again and if you ask her if she cheated within these 24 hours, she'll say no because she doesn't see it as cheating, but a window of freedom for free pleasure (she'll tell herself you caused it)

9. A day before your wedding, she's going to sleep with her dark life ex boyfriend and your first child may end up not being yours — it's a 50/50 thing and that's why a DNA is important

10. She told you she doesn't suck d*ck, give an.al and swallows c*m doesn't mean she hasn't done it or she doesn't give it to her dark life partner(s) at times, as they call it, besties

12. When she says she prefers only male friends and doesn't like female friends because they gossip too much, know that almost all the male friends sleep with her or at least, 50% of them, but if you accuse her, she'll deny with every drop of blood in her body

14. A woman hates rejection more than infection — if you reject her her world and ego will shatter and she'll feel depressed and less attractive and she'll do everything possible to make you like her and if it doesn't work out, she'll then do anything possible to hurt you back just to make you feel as bad as you made her feel — it's all about emotions because they're emotional creatures

16. A girl/woman from age 15+ to 27 wants to recklessly taste as many sweet d*cks from fine or rich guys as she can get now that she's still young and before she realizes it, she has become addicted to pleasure orgásms / variaties give and will want more and end up extending this behavior in her marriage life, so, you as the husband, will end up being insufficient for her except you're great in bed and you're lucky

17. Trust me, every new generation girl/woman now is a total whóre — if she's still acting like a good girl, it means she's either pretending, hasn't gotten her way yet, or she truly part of the 0.00% good girls left

18. So, the summary is: consider every girl from age 15+ to 27 a whóre (even is she's a pastor's daughter), then use psychology on her to find out her level of whórism.

19. Las las, all of us that are single will marry a whóre in one way or the other. Her level of whórism will be the only difference. If you have been hoping a marry a virgin, forget about it — it's no longer possible.

20. Yes, even if you were the one that deflowered her and went straight to marry her, be watchful — she'll start her whórism in your house as your wife with one of her old classmate crush or a new guy at the workplace, etc. This one hurts more. You may end up commiting sui.ci de the day you'll find out

Why did she cheat for the first time in her life after marriage? Because you married her as a repressed teenager and from the porn or movies she has watched all these years, she knows varieties is natural to compare and contrast to finally decided if you're missing something or if what you already have is enough.

So, the 5 ways to have peace of mind as a single man is

1. Honesty
2. Money
3. Good health
4. Space
5. Like, don't love

1. Be honest in all you do and with women and she'll start being honest with you as long as you both are partners-in-crime and have things in common in your dark lives.

2. Have money and don't ever lack money, but don't waste it on a woman — invest it and replenish it.

3. Exercise and stay healthy because health is wealth.

4. Give yourself some space and be unavailable at times — allow humans and the world miss you sometimes.

5. Like women, don't love women. With this, when they betray you or break your heart — which they'll surely do, you'll bounce back in few hours and act as if nothing happened without hating on women in general unlike most guys who have invested emotions and lots of money in it.

If you must invest, invest only great sex, good memories, 10% emotions with small money. Invest the remaining 90% emotions or 99% money in your dreams and businesses.

Finding a good woman in Nigeria is the hardest thing on Earth right now. I feel sorry for good guys — bad guys, ritu.alists, frau.dsters, cul.tists, fake uncles/pastor/cousin/brother in Christ, politicians, etc. have taken and damaged all the good girls.

We are now left with 99% whóres who love only sweet d*cks, orgásms, and money even though only 2% of them will boldly agree. (It's all about pleasure, pleasure, and more pleasure with some money).

Love is still on their list, but it's the last thing on the list. Sad, but that's the new reliability and I have finally adjusted to this new world.

So, I'm finally ready to pick one of these whóres with a good character as a wife in the future. I have no choice anyone — they're all damaged or about to be damaged. This is the new reality and "we" must face it.

I'm not a saint, but I'm not damaged — I only act damaged to get access into their dark lives and gather info to educate myself on what is happening in that realm and what's the next step to take.

So, the above is just 5% of the info I have in mind to share with you today.

Ninety nine percentage of this new generation girls/women are whòres or about to be whóres and men are the cause — one man wants to sleep with 50 different girls in a week or month and some of these girls don't really have much power or control to resist.

So, if a woman is a whóre, don't hate her. It's better she's a whóre and she's sleeping with men than losing her to her fellow women — lesbians. I hope you get what I mean.

It's still a plus for us as men that she's not a lesbian. Yes, she's a whóre, but at least, your fellow man is smashing her. Be happy for your fellow man — it's his turn. Your turn is coming and when you're done, another man's turn will come.

This is why you shouldn't fall in love to avoid feeling bad or jealous that another man has entered INSIDE your priced possession.

What you should do is just to train yourself to be great in bed so that when your turn comes, you hit better than everyone who has been there before you or will come after you.

With this, she'll always come back for you even when she finally has a serious man or married and it will be left for you to decline or smash.

As long as a woman has no infection, has the quality you want, and she has a good character, she's good to go as a wife material.

Forget her previous body counts (all of them are whòres), but after you've started dating her, if she cheats, end it and only make her your friend or sex slave — that's where she belongs.

Why? If you dump her totally and get a new girl, you'll be shocked to realize the new girl is just similar to her or even worse, but still in her pretentious stage just to appear as a good girl.

Don't hate women because they're whóres or heartbreakers — they're still humans and good people — it's just that they love sex and orgáms too much. That's the only difference and it's natural.

I'm not in favor of waywardness, but it's the new lifestyle now for the new generation girls/women and they're good at concealing that side of their lives.

Typing...

Do you know sweet orgásms trigger happiness and a blissful night sleep? If everyone is happy or sleeping at night — not stealing at night, the world will be a better place. Don't you think?

Yes, these young women are whóres, but try to find out her level or whórism and not just condemn her instantly because she gave her own (personal) p*ssy to another man. Is the p*ssy in your body? No — it's hers, not yours, so stop being attached to it.

It's only yours when you've married her, else it's hers. Even though you're dating her, her p*ssy still belongs to her and your d*ck is yours. Marriage is the only time a legitimate swap takes place.

So, as a wise man, even though you've engaged her, just don't feel at home with her p*ssy — she still owns it and can use it against you or behind your back and break your heart.

This is why I have warned you not to be too invested or in love, but only like and be ready for betrayal.

Invest less emotions and any amount of money you've spent on her head, see it as money for poverty alleviation for a charity organization.

Whatever you bought for her, don't take it back when she betrays you — and this is why wise men only spend what they can lose and not regret on women.

Her pleasure is more important to her than your happiness. Know this and know peace.

Don't get me wrong. Your happiness is important to her, but only at that moment two of you are seeing each other face-to-face. The moment she's out of your sight, her pleasure is more important to her than your happiness.

So, if you want to escape being hurt by women, have an ashawo or a great crypto trader mentality. That mentality is: Don't fall in love with one particular p*ssy or coin — just be levelheaded and have options — lots of options without emotional attachment.


The end







Modified/Updated: I read a post today (28/12/2021) of a guy whose girl left his hotel room to her house because she said her menstruation has started, but only to see her come back to sneak into another room in the same hotel.

People dropped their comments, but one particular comment by a lady caught my attention. She preached to him against fornication and finally said, and I quote:

"If someone can comfortably cheat God with you. Who told you they can't cheat on you with another?"

When I saw that, I nodded my head in agreement and immediately screenshot that line and replied her with:

@Bold. Put it in a book and sell it for 2 million even if the book is just a page.

That is the summary of everything. I have copied and saved it in my diary.

To put it bluntly, "If someone can comfortably cheat on God with you (fornication), who the f*ck are you that he/she can't cheat on?"

This is to say, God created her and told her to be faithful to Him. She knows God can see everything, even in the dark, but she went ahead to cheat on God with you — a man who sees everything. She couldn't fear a man who sees everything.

What do you think she'll do to you — a man who doesn't see everything? She'll murder you with betrayal or infections. PERIOD!

To my readers, read that quote aloud 3 times and you'll get the message better.

This is deep. You may not even realize how DEEEEEP it is yet until it happens to you. I pray it doesn't.


The end.

Interesting.

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iLegendd:
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God bless you for sharing....
Please are you the author of this? If yes, how can I contact you?

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I like some punchlines from this epistle

Omoh!!!!! I enjoyed this write up, with this info and little experience, a guy having this kind of knowledge, many women will hate to love you and love to hate you, but the willpower to do it is what they lack

This is one of the best piece by ilegend. A great read, really.
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Everything he wrote is 100% truth, argue it, and be a fool forever.
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At 21, I was at the verge of my first heartbreak with a lady who had been my confidant, friend and classmate since secondary schl. We started dating when I got admission. The point is, I was that naive young man with hopes and binary thought about the world, life relationship and love but, having started noticing strange behavior, I got curious to understand why a woman who was a good friend, playmate, and lover will want to hurt you in a relationship (I naturally always want to know 'WHY' of everything)
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That was the beginning of my adventure into game, and the cold brutal reality of female nature that the mainstream culture conceals from the average naive guy)
I'm in my 30s, my outlook about female nature took a U-turn since I was 21 cos I dabbled into game, PUA and all. In my mid 20s, I stumbled on Redpill and now, I can 100% vouch for everything ilegend wrote up there with similar experience.
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Being a SIMP is not a life, it's a miserable one that shortchanges you and put your emotional and financial health and happiness at risk. Ilegend has said everything about our era. And it's the fvcking truth. Take it or leave it.
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Regarding how women curse them selves to appear innocent and truthful, lol, it's a terrible and veritable tool in their arsenal of whôredom and manipulation. if you don't know this, a woman will manipulate you till Jesus come. And you will be the FOOL. you believe a woman's word? You are the biggest FOOL living. Better to always take her words with a pinch of salt. ALWAYS.
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My ex recently went ballistic on me, and started cursing her entire lineage and swore she will run mad if what I sarcastically tried to remind her abt her cheating with a guy on her status was a truth. ( I knew she cheated then, reason I decided to break up when she never expected cos she was emotionally invested in me)

I started laughing, she rained epistle of curses and swears and she blocked me. (she has block and unblock me like 10x since I jilted her.). But none of that removed from the truth.
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When it comes to swear and curses to appear innocent, a woman has no limit. Infact, as ilegend put it, she actually don't believe those curses he rained on herself will hurt her...it's just for manipulation most times to appear saint...instead of admitting wrong doings.
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Wow interesting.....i am not through reading all sha,i got tired while reading it...ilegend if you like delete it,i already saved it,and going to read the remaining,when i am less busy.

Wow.
Nice one

Kuriosmynd:
This is one of the best piece by ilegend. A great read, really.
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Everything he wrote is 100% truth, argue it, and be a fool forever.
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At 21, I was at the verge of my first heartbreak with a lady who had been my confidant, friend and classmate since secondary schl. We started dating when I got admission. The point is, I was that naive young man with hopes and binary thought about the world, life relationship and love but, having started noticing strange behavior, I got curious to understand why a woman who was a good friend, playmate, and lover will want to hurt you in a relationship (I naturally always want to know 'WHY' of everything)
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That was the beginning of my adventure into game, and the cold brutal reality of female nature that the mainstream culture conceals from the average naive guy)
I'm in my 30s, my outlook about female nature took a U-turn since I was 21 cos I dabbled into game, PUA and all. In my mid 20s, I stumbled on Redpill and now, I can 100% vouch for everything ilegend wrote up there with similar experience.
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Being a SIMP is not a life, it's a miserable one that shortchanges you and put your emotional and financial health and happiness at risk. Ilegend has said everything about our era. And it's the fvcking truth. Take it or leave it.
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Regarding how women curse them selves to appear innocent and truthful, lol, it's a terrible and veritable tool in their arsenal of whôredom and manipulation. if you don't know this, a woman will manipulate you till Jesus come. And you will be the FOOL. you believe a woman's word? You are the biggest FOOL living. Better to always take her words with a pinch of salt. ALWAYS.
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My ex recently went ballistic on me, and started cursing her entire lineage and swore she will run mad if what I sarcastically tried to remind her abt her cheating with a guy on her status was a truth. ( I knew she cheated then, reason I decided to break up when she never expected cos she was emotionally invested in me)

I started laughing, she rained epistle of curses and swears and she blocked me. (she has block and unblock me like 10x since I jilted her.). But none of that removed from the truth.
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When it comes to swear and curses to appear innocent, a woman has no limit. Infact, as ilegend put it, she actually don't believe those curses he rained on herself will hurt her...it's just for manipulation most times.
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Heaven knows I didn't read that epistle of Julius Czar u wrote up there. Go and do something useful with your life. You've been writing since 2005 yet u still can't afford one cup of a abakaliki rice

Great piece I must say

Kuriosmynd:
This is one of the best piece by ilegend. A great read, really.
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Everything he wrote is 100% truth, argue it, and be a fool forever.
.
At 21, I was at the verge of my first heartbreak with a lady who had been my confidant, friend and classmate since secondary schl. We started dating when I got admission. The point is, I was that naive young man with hopes and binary thought about the world, life relationship and love but, having started noticing strange behavior, I got curious to understand why a woman who was a good friend, playmate, and lover will want to hurt you in a relationship (I naturally always want to know 'WHY' of everything)
.
That was the beginning of my adventure into game, and the cold brutal reality of female nature that the mainstream culture conceals from the average naive guy)
I'm in my 30s, my outlook about female nature took a U-turn since I was 21 cos I dabbled into game, PUA and all. In my mid 20s, I stumbled on Redpill and now, I can 100% vouch for everything ilegend wrote up there with similar experience.
.
Being a SIMP is not a life, it's a miserable one that shortchanges you and put your emotional and financial health and happiness at risk. Ilegend has said everything about our era. And it's the fvcking truth. Take it or leave it.
.
Regarding how women curse them selves to appear innocent and truthful, lol, it's a terrible and veritable tool in their arsenal of whôredom and manipulation. if you don't know this, a woman will manipulate you till Jesus come. And you will be the FOOL. you believe a woman's word? You are the biggest FOOL living. Better to always take her words with a pinch of salt. ALWAYS.
.
My ex recently went ballistic on me, and started cursing her entire lineage and swore she will run mad if what I sarcastically tried to remind her abt her cheating with a guy on her status was a truth. ( I knew she cheated then, reason I decided to break up when she never expected cos she was emotionally invested in me)

I started laughing, she rained epistle of curses and swears and she blocked me. (she has block and unblock me like 10x since I jilted her.). But none of that removed from the truth.
.
When it comes to swear and curses to appear innocent, a woman has no limit. Infact, as ilegend put it, she actually don't believe those curses he rained on herself will hurt her...it's just for manipulation most times.

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Nice reply and you're really experienced. I like America and I may be permanently relocating there for online business reasons, but it's a terrible nation when it comes to sexuality and purity. They've ruined the minds of African women with their culture.

We are now left with whóres or about-to-be whóres and we have no choice than to manage them or stay celibate for life. Having a female child now is the second scariest thing on Earth.

No more tight p*ssy! We have to teach our women how to do Kegel exercise to tighten it for us.

Everything has been contaminated by the American media, but we go survive as long as we keep emotions out of it.

iLegendd:


Nice reply and you're really experienced. I like America and I may be permanently relocating there for online business reasons, but it's a terrible nation when it comes to sexuality and purity. They've ruined the minds of African women with their culture.

We are now left with whóres or about-to-be whóres and we have no choice than to managr them or stay celibate for life. Having a female child now is the second scariest thing on Earth.

No more tight p*ssy! We have to teach our women how to do Kegel exercise to tighten it for us.

Everything has been contaminated by the American media, but we go survive as long as we keep emotion out of it.

It's the bitter truth, American culture has destroyed many naive culture and everyone is more daring and sexually incontinent compared to former decades.
The media, Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, Tiktok have contributed to culture exchanges and imitation.
Young teenage girls and undergraduates love American films, u can imagine how much influence the sexual culture being projected will affect their psyche and outlook abt free and emotionally detached sex.
These days I no longer believe women attach emotions to sex as before. Emotions is dead, it's about personal interest, money and manipulations.

Chai!!
These daughters of Eve have shown our very own Ilegendd something.

Lots of badass quotes to extract from this submission, will do that later, laminate, and paste it all over social media.

wow nice pieces
LIKE BUT NOT LOVE is what got my attention i always tell that to my female friends but surprisely they want my companion more where as i make my self scarce for no reason i got time for everything if you come to my place at the wrong time or call i will not answer u unless the matter is between death or live
even though I have a wonderful good girl but I don't trust her also i don't want her to think that i used and dumped her so am looking for a good reason to end everything I already have two options at my disposal which is set her or just let her be when she is tired she will leave even though I prefer the latter but I don't think i have much time guy needs to bang new pussy without having feeling of guilt

So long a letter! I thought am going to see pictures of your food, i came for the food.

Volksguys1985:
So long a letter! I thought am going to see pictures of your food, i came for the food.

And you get excited when hungry people abuse me, huh? Don't worry, I'll create a food thread for you in the evening. Cooking beans. When they arrive to abuse me, I won't reply them, but I want you to defend me.

Most of what you wrote are facts!
One thing I observed about most street prostitutes is that they dress more indecent compared to their brothel mates. They seem to "carry" whorism on their foreheads. No guilt. No shame. And God and His grace is always on their lips.

This is a generation that's largely not ashamed of sex, and by extension, all manners of evil.
#But it's well.

Ilegendd Omo you dey write o
I learnt a lot from this, thanks.

Permission to share on the redpill group?

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Oyin2212:
Ilegendd Omo you dey write o
I learnt a lot from this, thanks.

Permission to share on the redpill group?

You're welcome.

To avoid duplicate copies when I remove it and add it to a book, I'd prefer you only post the link of this thread than to copy and paste the content.

iLegendd:
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Alright champ. I'll do just that.

No p, i will defend you, abeg put chicken in that beans o

iLegendd:


And you get excited when hungry people abuse me, huh? Don't worry, I'll create a food thread for you in the evening. Cooking beans. When they arrive to abuse me, I won't reply them, but I want you to defend me.

Scientheosopher:
Most of what you wrote are facts!
One thing I observed about most street prostitutes is that they dress more indecent compared to their brothel mates. They seem to "carry" whorism on their foreheads. No guilt. No shame. And God and His grace is always on their lips.

This is a generation that's largely not ashamed of sex, and by extension, all manners of evil.
#But it's well.

i remember a day when i was in uni, a girl said 'Dele you no dey fu:Ckk?'

Sheesh! Everything spot on. Not one wack.

iLegend, anoint me with thy oil.

No matter how hard I try not to hate you but I must confess, you're very good at what you do Ilegend, you are indeed a legend

Quite a long piece but it's worth it.

I can relate with almost everything you shared.

Ilegend chat me up
09025252652

Do you have marriage plans, probably in the future.

As usual, anything from iLegendd is superb! Kudos!

In addendum:

1. The secret lives you explained can take different terms in different textbooks, however, it all boils down to survival. Hence, men and women must oscillate among these lives so that they can continue to exist or via their genes. It's just the game of life be it moral, immoral, amoral or a mélange of it.

2. Social media is a conglomeration of individuals from a plethora of different political, cultural, economic, social, religious, intellectual backgrounds. There is a quid pro quo of ideas on these media which serves as a template for learning. Notwithstanding, human nature is same anywhere or everywhere; the differences which contributes to these inherent nature(genetics) is as a result of the zeitgeist of that person's location or nation.

America or the Western nation might be pointed fingers at but their exposure and interaction with people from other indigenous nations helped in exposing human nature especially that of women. It is what it is.

Western nation has other good sides in which other second or third world countries ought to have mimic, but because humans first react to their basic needs: food, sex, pleasure, they tend to gravitate towards it, after all, America and other first world countries has a variety of it and are the best dealers.

Third world countries are able to copy and mimic these bad sides or corrupt part of western societies because it blends or overlaps with their low IQ state. Africa/Black communities has the lowest IQ among the major classified races!

3. Women has this dark nature, social media just helped in exposing it and bringing it to the awareness of all who are ready for it. As usual, it is an imperative, though, environment has really contributed to it. Religious and traditional restrictions which didn't came out as a result of conscious and deliberate thinking but by natural selection came into place in order to checkmate women's dark nature. The patriarchy was for a reason!

4. You subtly dropped it somewhere like kinda accusing men for women's misdemeanors, but understand: adult men are not responsible for the behaviors of adult women. Each has their own freewill and any decision not made under threat or coercion should not always paint one black or the man as the villain! Men want to fvck around; if women agree, they both will fvck. Man ought to have restraint upon his libido, however, when it calls and wants to respond and women are available, he will definitely bolster his notch counts.

In these era where more women are claiming independence, feminism, egalitarianism, "what a man can do, a woman can do it more better", you don't expect men not to follow suit and respond with game or machiavellianism. Men can only be responsible for women when women agree or come to the awareness that they are just little above adolescence and teenagers or better still, that they are 'adult children', and that they require masculine wall to guide, protect and lead them. Anything beyond this makes the game continue; and every man or woman wants to win.

5. Getting virgin women or women with lower body counts is extremely rare in our contemporary age. It is advisable for men to continue with their game rather than commit to a used wh0re! He has nothing to gain from a used wh0re except to fvck.

If he must commit, it must be a virgin or nothing regardless of the zeitgeist of that place he is, and must vet her to be true. It all depends on where he's looking at and the amount of time and energy he's ready to put into in order to get these kind of woman. Not that this will guarantee an interminable relationship, but at least, while the ship sails before it finally capsized, he enjoyed the melodious voices of the beautiful sirens from the hollows of the woman he committed to. All materials don't last forever, however, starting with a quality one ensures work success. This is better rather than struggling with past memories and ghosts of ex fvck mates.

These kind of women starts manifesting as from the age 13, the ones coming of age to be used and dumped after their passage rites. He must keep his eyes on this circle. Though many will fall on the way side, but at least a good number still make it to the age of consent: 18yrs, and here he must clutch her and take her for his own and possessed her. If he waits for her to gain more experience and become more mature, then, the woman he finally wants to commit to has been rammed, used and dumped by various sizes, colours and lengths of d!cks.

Thanks.

God bless.