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The counselor is damn lucky he's a man. So lucky

ANON333:
The relationship between a woman and her mother in-law is instinctive. Women recognize they're all opportunists. The mother knows this new woman in her son's life could only truly love her own offsprings and is only with her son cause of what he has.

You may be right

Juanmike:
Onyi22 is that you?

No!

pquaver:


Talk wey mumu

And you are the mumu here. If you are not a sentimental fool, you should be tackling the original progenitor of the talk,not me.

on the contrary be nice to help your case with your in-laws, you're taking their son/daughter away from them

Oblongata:
Fear women!

I am sure all women want their husbands to treat their mothers as their mother, but for them to treat the husband’s mother as their mother mba!

That gender!

DirtyGold:
Grammar - Use of words is something one needs to play attention to.

He didn't say don't be nice to your MIL, he said you don't have to.
Just like you don't have to like your boss but, respect and reverence must be constant.

Replace the word "friend" with "playmate" and it will make better sense.


Not foolish but, unnecessary.
I understand that this is an emotional topic and sentiments abounds. I bet that majority of the people commenting did so in reaction to the sensationalized headline... Not the content.
To you

Why not? A lot of people don't realise that they spend majority of their waking hours at their jobs even more than with their spouses! It is unusual for a MIL/FIL to be part of your day - everyday! While your boss is inescapable virtually everyday except on Sundays.
And that employer-employee relationship directly provides you tangible and intangible benefits besides finance. At best, your MIL/FIL will only provide you indirect intangible benefits.

To reiterate the initial point of this thread with a different analogy, you don't have to be friends with your neighbours but, maintain a cordial relationship such that you can greet each other good morning without either of you squeezing your face.
What's tha business?

Well you tried in clearing your point, but I still do not agree wt you on your two analogies.

MIL/FIL relationship is more knitted than that of Employer/Employee or neighbour neighbour relationship.
You can chose who to be your boss or who to be your neighbour.
You can decide to quit any at anytime without having to answer many questions from anyone.
Once you chose to marry your partner, the MIL/FIL becomes permanent. You can't quit them from that status.
So you need to be more friendlier to either MIL/FIL for you to have a more saner or peaceful life.
You can quit a troublesome neighbour or get off a job with troublesome boss. You can't do same with MIL/FIL even if you chose to live far away from them, you will still feel their echo especially wen their child is more attached to them. MIL/FIL is blood linked.

Onyiiobi7735:

No!

Ok

That would be an issue if she's nice to me and treats me as she would her daughter.

If she's troublesome, I'll love her from far.

Psoul:


Well you tried in clearing your point, but I still do not agree wt you on your two analogies.

MIL/FIL relationship is more knitted than that of Employer/Employee or neighbour neighbour relationship.
You can chose who to be your boss or who to be your neighbour.

You can choose your MIL/FIL too. Haven't you heard girls say they don't want to marry a guy whose mother is still alive? Haven't you heard of relationships ending because parents are enemies?

You can decide to quit any at anytime without having to answer many questions from anyone.
Once you chose to marry your partner, the MIL/FIL becomes permanent. You can't quit them from that status.

Wrong! There's always a choice and divorce is very popular now. Thanks to the feminist movement. It isn't a permanent arrangement and if there isn't that option of separation, it is bondage in which case, the spouse/MIL/FIL is an actual lord and saviour.

So you need to be more friendlier to either MIL/FIL for you to have a more saner or peaceful life.

Wrong! You NEED to show them reverence and respect. Friendliness is optional

You can quit a troublesome neighbour or get off a job with troublesome boss.
You can't do same with MIL/FIL even if you chose to live far away from them you will still feel their echo especially wen their child is more attached to them.

You can quit any relationship or marriage at any time and for whatever ridiculous reason you choose to do so

MIL/FIL is blood linked

Biggest fallacy! You're not even blood linked to your spouse. Blood relationship is biological, not emotional or sentimental. What you share with your spouse and his/her family is family ties which can be severed at any time too. Nothing is absolute or cast in stone.

What's tha business?

Hmmm


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nothing ryt about D's statement..... it's allowed to bond with your mother-inlaw.... just as ur husband has become one flesh with you,his family becomes yours and vise-versa

If you don't know what to say, say nothing

Home breaker

Sorry to shock u... Me n my mother in-law are best of friends

Anything, no matter how outrageous and senseless, to stupidly trend. Enjoy your one week fame.

Deceitful counselling! Why did you not start with 'son in laws, do be nice to your father in laws,You cannot be his friend' What goes around comes around!!!!

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
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As in ehnnn
Stupid talk from stupid relationships counselor
Me personally ehnnn....before I marry any woman I will rent an apartment for my mother and the woman....and they are going to stay in that apartment together for nine months....if during that nine months they don't get along then ain't gonna marry that woman

Don’t stop there. Take your mom along to the hotel room on your wedding night too so she can measure your wife’s vagina before sex.

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