pansophist:
Human nature by default is selfish, but what softens it is love. Think of the most selfish sentient you know, be it humans, animals, insects, or birds, you'll observe that they may be selfish to others but give freely to those they love. Politicians steal from the masses to give their families a good life. Lions kill other animals to feed their cubs, etc.

My point is that in order to know who truly loves you, you must be a recipient of their benevolence, and they should find happiness in making your life better. So to know if a girl loves you, she should be able to give you the bounty of her resources. If a girl is only receiving without giving, then it's not love but a relationship of convenience.

YOGA MAN...l love this quote

If you can’t share you can never love because there’s love in sharing