Onepointfiveodds:
Now i see whr the problem is, you probably must have misinterpreted one or two of my words. What i meant by that statement is YES, no one is without flaws, i don't have a problem with hers. Buh as couples, i expect us to have a way to work around those flaws. Sadly In my own case she isn't always ready to reason with me on how to go about it.

This isn't a case of dogmatism at all.

Is your mind made up as far as ending the relationship?

Kobojunkie:
But how are red flags to be "ironed out"?

As for the marriage lamentation threads, let's be honest with ourselves here. The vast majority of those threads are created by individuals who went into marriage believe they had power to correct red flags to begin with.

Again, every relationship that involves human beings has red flags - there exists no relationship without them. So the question is are we meant to correct those red flags or find a way to negotiate the red flags/issues instead or find other partners whose red flags we can better tolerate.

Another issue I note is how people tend to generalize as far as red flags are concerned. What may be a red flag/issue for one person may not be for another. To the OP, the salty food isn't his issue here. He made it quit clear that his big problem is she does not take correction from him. His expectation is that his partner must llsten and be corrected by him.

And what's wrong about this? Are you above correction? Or does the word correction hurts you because it's coming from a male to a female?

Please how else do you change someone who's used to adding excess salt to food? Take her out for a boat cruise?

Please drop some of these senseless arguments in 2022. No one is above correction. You don't always have to be on the opposing side every time. If the word hurts you, go and delete it from the English dictionary.

Kobojunkie:
Is your mind made up as far as ending the relationship?

Ending the relationship keh... I don't want that

Onepointfiveodds:
Ending the relationship keh... I don't want that

Ok, so she does not want to quit her terrible cooking habit, and you don't want to quit her, how then do you plan to move forward in the relationship?

You need to handle this as soon as possible.

Treat as urgent

If its too salty, don't eat it. Drink garri instead, Then she will start taking it seriously