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Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by majorbravo: 3:07pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
This is a sad story indeed. OP you need to get in touch with your well behaved and progressive friends that have made something out of their lives, so they can put you in line. You have to seek help from people who aren’t connected to your mama. When you hammer your mama would become your greatest supporter. But for now, take this for courage “There is a big bright light at the end of the tunnel”. |
Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by shawante(m): 3:09pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
Qatar2022:That guy is probably high on something.. Not only has the mother not sowed she is even blocking other people from sowing and you want her to reap. You need go check up 1 Like |
Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by jrusky(m): 3:11pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
Pls can you ask your dad a very serious and straight question. Pls ask him or investigate properly if that woman is your biological mother? Pls don't dump my words I'm talking from experience pls find out first because for your biological mother to be that mean to you hhmm....then something not right somewhere. 1 Like |
Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by shawante(m): 3:13pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
ayobamiJR:And where is he today.. Now that he needs them most they are frustrating him. Is not better to not have parents at all than to have parents that can help you but wont |
Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by AfroKnight: 3:15pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
Franktom247: Bro, that part nearly finished me. Driving tyre naked and blowing banger. OP should check well. She might not be his biological mother. There are some responsibilities you just can’t carry when you are not buoyant. If he insists on bearing those responsibilities, it will affect his growth. |
Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by shawante(m): 3:16pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
pansophist:Bro you are a wise man.. I wish OP would take your advice seriously 1 Like |
Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by Justice4Toto: 3:17pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
I feel it pain bro Pls pls bro if you keep thinking about this issue you may never get focus in life. I beg you in the name of Jah Just park her one side and face it life Pls At the end she will realize her mistakes by the time she is retired lonely and needy of attention from her kids Then she will report u to Pastors and Imams They will now cajole u to forgive and forget For now pls he mental health is a priority to our country |
Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by VULCAN(m): 3:17pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
This may go down as being one of the best responses on Nairaland to a complex issue this year. pansophist: 2 Likes |
Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by Munzy14(m): 3:18pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
Jamest162:Let me join my mouth here to ask.. Though I learnt recently that some mothers are from hell... They make life miserable for the kid they bonded with right inside their womb..smh. OP' s case is intensifying my curiosity... But then how come, some things here, I don't even experience it...Maybe I and my siblings are one of those who have angels as mothers... Mine just want the best for her children, And doesn't stress anyone..... 1 Like |
Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by Ogunleti01: 3:20pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
I have passed through this before! it was never a pleasant experience! despite d fact that my mum was earning considerably well as a level 15 officer with the state government yet am a wicked for not bringing returns from my #13000 salary and later Npower allowance. Now that she has retired and am gainfully employed she is now the one looking after the investment i made with my npower allowance(almost 4 acres of plantain farm with cocoa). There was a day the person i shared boundary with on my farm approached her and said "iya okunrin meje ati abo ni omo yin oo) What i observed from her action was that she listened too much to misleading advise from her fellow woman and she would want to act based on that 1 Like |
Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by Mariangeles(f): 3:24pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
maxkia: Na wah o! Ufodu ndi nne shikwara ike o! |
Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by NOETHNICITY(m): 3:25pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
DispatcherLagos:Do you sincerely mean this? |
Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by Munzy14(m): 3:27pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
Mariangeles:Ike gwuru o...Nwaanyi i bu nwa ya onu maka choice...Anyway o wu onye na amahu way udodu ndi nne a. Akuko kariri...Ajo nne wu ihe ojoor. |
Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by Mariangeles(f): 3:27pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
topoftheworld: Even not being his biological mother does not justify her wickedness towards him. |
Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by shawante(m): 3:29pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
Isaacpromise1:What in GOD,S earth would you do to your mother to warrant this kind of treatment from her.. Someone that carried you for 9 months.. I've racked my brain thoroughly and can find any reasonable reason |
Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by NOETHNICITY(m): 3:29pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
maxkia:Better be careful. Mother's curse are as potent as anything. Secondly, yoruba women are some how. I pity you if you trust any yoruba person. Third, you must at all cost make peace with ur mum. They are like ur god on earth |
Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by Aflix(m): 3:29pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA:You must find way to bring gender inside every issue 1 Like |
Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 3:30pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
[sub][/sub] MrHenryFord:if she's my biological mother, it's simple, I will do her strong thing and run, like I will sell the house she dey live in |
Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by enonche85(m): 3:30pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
Jamest162: Exactly what I was thinking as well. |
Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by enonche85(m): 3:31pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
ALLNIGERIANSMAD: LOLs!... evils!! |
Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by Munzy14(m): 3:32pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
Ogunleti01:Women influence eachother a lot... A good woman can turn bad, A bad one can improve...All a case of influence. Most are Impatient, they want things to happen with speed of light...But forget life is a process... Kudos to the ones who understands life from a different perspective...And thumbs up to calm, bolf and confident men out there...Especially some of our Dads..They passed through a lot without complaint. |
Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by Mariangeles(f): 3:34pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
Munzy14: Many mothers do it, but they always come around when you stand your ground. One of my mum's friend, her son wanted to marry a Yoruba lady, ya si kama ya nwuo. Ha e megide, the guy a luo onye o bu n'obi. Now, the mother is enjoying her. She says of all her daughters in-law, the Yoruba one makes her feel the most welcomed when she goes visiting. Akuko kariri...Ajo nne wu ihe ojoor. Ajo nne apughi onwunwe! 2 Likes |
Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by Gunayo(m): 3:38pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
Yours is even better. Mine don't support financially while growing up and don't want me to marry. Your mum might not be doing the right thing but thank God for having a mother that wish you well. Don't listen to all those asking you to distance yourself from her. No matter what, your mother is still your mother and no woman can take her place. I pray that things get better between the two of you and you will not miss it maritally. |
Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by TheMostComplex1: 3:43pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
Ahmed0336: OP make use of this advice |
Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by Acidosis(m): 3:45pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
If the OP had used "My Father's Wife", instead of "My Mother", some of the senseless comments we have on this thread, especially from overly emotional touts, wouldn't have suffice at all. At the mention of "Mother", some of you lose your senses to the dogs, but at the mention of "Female", "Lady, "Woman", "Girlfriend", "Wife", or "Fiancee", y'all remember your various red pill groups Dem no dey give sense for maternity ward or antenatal. If you don't have sense as a girlfriend, you won't have sense as a mother. If you can't give your man money, you will starve and curse your child someday when he fails to meet your financial or career expectations. |
Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by NOETHNICITY(m): 3:47pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
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Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by Acidosis(m): 3:49pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
Gunayo: Yours don't support you financially, but when your fiancée decides to act like your mother, you call her names and curse her generation, right? Now is the time to correct your mother but you're acting all defensive? You people are hypocrites. 1 Like |
Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by ChybuzzDD(m): 3:51pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
Mac12: Yes, there are wonderful mothers, but there are also terrible ones A woman in my village hated one of her daughters who had a small stature so much that she was always looking for for a way to kill her...her own daughter who did her nothing. And she finally achieved it. She felt the girl's small stature was an embarrassment to her family. You know what she did? She started by instigating the girl's siblings to equally hate and avoid her. She then manipulatively asked the girl to go stay with her siblings in lagos, whle at the same time, convincing those siblings to hire someone who would throw the girl into any river in lagos once she arrived. And they eventually did it. That girl is nowhere to be found today, after leaving for lagos in 2005. The mother succeeded in eliminating her own daughter, a very free, friendly and always-smiling girl. How did i know this? I learnt this from my mother(who's very close to this particular woman and her family) when i visited village in November last year. Unfortunately, that wicked woman/mother has recently died with this wicked act she committed against her own innocent daughter with seeking for forgiveness. So, if you haven't seen wicked mothers, i have seen one who killed her own daughter. However, she's a big contrast from my own mother, who can sacrifice her own life for her children, no matter their stature/physical appearance, mental state or financial conditions. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by Thatssobeyonce(f): 3:55pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
My mom died when i was a kid, i grew up wishing to have a mom no matter how nasty or bad she was. I just wanted a MUM, what u have and dislike is someone else's biggest wish in this life so sort things out with ur mom. She'll listen 1 Like |
Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by Dfr0: 3:57pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
Why |
Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by Acidosis(m): 3:57pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
NOETHNICITY: Do you realize that his wife is also a mother? 1 Like |
Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by Thatssobeyonce(f): 3:57pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
Aflix:Lol |
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