Mariangeles:


Kobo, e feel like say you be woman today.
I never still fit decipher you.

karli4nia:


Lol. Yes, it was actually in a movie, i saw it too..

otikpoko:


Your brother has probably been locked inside Bottle.

I may not feel your pains but I understand what you're saying.

People who don't have close Family Bonds will never understand this.

I've cut off two of my siblings due to something like this.

In about 8 to 9 years, we've not spoken more than 7 times.

Neither will I ever visit them or will they know where I'm staying.

Some women are worse than DEMONS!

They will enter a family and instead of helping the family bond stronger and increasing the number of people in the family, the reverse is the case.

For my own sanity, I gave my own siblings space.

I don't need you, your money, or need your children or any of your in-laws for me and my own children to surge ahead in life since you've allowed your wife to destroy our bond, I match.

aboyaji:
Wait let me tell you what you don't know. I may have made a mistake quoting you. You don't sound learned in this discourse.

He is my brother. I am closest to him. I am not the type of adult that sits around doing nothing when things are going out of hand. I am very much responsible in his life because he is my brother. Get it?

Munzy14:

Nani gi ka na ahu ya as nwoke o....

O wu nu nwaanyi na..

Mariangeles:


Really?

Munzy14:

O shi nini?

Really...okwu ji a dabara gini ya...

Mariangeles:


Ndidi ka a na e ji a so Kobo o.

Ya jukata gi ajuju nga ehn…ishi a gbawa gi.
Aside that, o nwehu nsogbu.

iamL:


Exactly my kind of person.

Sometime last year a friend's wife gave me attitude because I passed the night at their place due to a contract lapse I was handling with the husband who was owing me some cash till date which she didn't know abt.

When she gave birth the husband called asking when I will come by, after sometime she called saying they are suprised I haven't come to see their child and all that, knowing am a busy person and don't like visiting all the time I just used that as an excuse.

Since then I haven't stepped my legs there I only chat them up online.

If someone give want u to give them space stay away completely na Dem go find u.

@Op should respect your boundaries and stay out of their issues since there is no alarming issues.

Rachel98:
Good morning everyone. Hope we're having a wonderful week.

My Elder brother is doing well, no doubt he's the breadwinner in our family But his wife is so rude, too authoritative, she's full of pride and she looks down on people. She see everyone as her employee, she does not care if her actions or words hurts you, she's quick to slap at any slightest provocation. She's an event planner, please are event planners this rude??

She's the main reason why we barely visit our brother, despite we all live in the same city, we feel like a total stranger in our brother's house. Probably she's using "jazz" on him, I don't know But everything she does seems cool to him.

I managed to spend the weekend with them, since on friday she act like my presence irritates her. The maid prepared semo and vegetable soup, i don't eat swallow that like, so she saw me cooking noodles, she rudely said why're you not eating semo? Why are you people so selective? Then she left the kitchen. I just maintained my cool.

Yesterday she slapped her maid just because the plantain she told her to fry wasn't brown enough (maybe she wanted burnt sacrifice plantain). My elder brother calmly said honey you shouldn't have slapped her just becus of plaintain. The next she told my brother was "Defender!! go and marry her nw"

This morning, I jejely packed my belongings on my way to work, I entered my brother's car so he can drop me at the bus-stop, I just told him I won't be coming to his place anymore, once I'm done with work today I'm going home straight. And the annoying part, he would be asking me why? As if he's blind, he can't see how rude and ill-mannered his wife is.

His wife has really separated my brother from us, his own family. We don't even know what to do.

Rachel98:
I can't be rude to my in-laws when I get married, becus i'm not ill-mannered, ill-bred and rude... So I can't.

Kobojunkie:
If you care about someone, the first thing you do is respect that person, this regardless of age, relationship, rank etc. This ought to be commonsense but unfortunately most Nigerians don't realize even this little nugget of wisdom has been in existence long before they came into being.

Next, you ensure you don't invade the person's space without permission from that permission. Forcing your opinion, ideas and ways on other is indicator that you care less about that more and more about your opinion to the point of ridiculing the others existence to impose your will on them.

Anyways, the guy already admits to advising his brother who he admits is a serial babamama-boy, yet the brother continues in the same path. So what does he gain from continuing to blame the women for his brother's lifestyle?

tunjilana:
Your tot pattern isn't the way life really works...you don't respect people who are close to you by letting them stray away and go at variance with the good values with which you' all were nurtured.
1. I dont know your religion but as Christians the bible admonishes us to check on eachother and let no one stray...So, until you have 3xhausted all reasonable options, you don't watch your family member fall into a ditch....While I agree that sometimes the admonisher may think that he is right while he is really wrong, that is not the case here...

2. A badly behaved partner, who puts financial pressure on her partner, treats his family members with disdain and threatens to leave at every attempt at correction/alignment is not an ideal partner and likely doesnt have his interest at heart...If he is blind cos of love, his brothers shouldn't close their eyes and watch things go wrong just to be called "woke"....when things go wrong, they are still the ones he will run to, to help him get back on track with life...so there is no harmful they try to prevent such recklessness from the onset

Munzy14:

Lol....You really do give her audience..

Sometimes when i read some comments gi na ya, i will smh and laugh...I nwere ndidi o.

I can't be dragged back to an old comment, o ji agwu m ike...and Kobo is good with reverting to old stuffs...She appears like onye choro Ighota everything.

Mariangeles:


I just feel drawn to the energy behind that account.





With Kobo, you just have to know when to quit, otherwise, it goes on and on.

Munzy14:

Jisie ike... Until you get drained.

As in eeh...Imagine a wife like that, A ga m a hapuru ya ulo o...Or Ya rahu ura, ma alota...

Even o ka na eme argue above...Energy too filled up..

Mariangeles:


I know when to withdraw when it comes to her. (k'owudi him? o ka na a ra'm ahu I kweta n'owu nwaanyi o)




I ga a gbalahu ya?

Kobojunkie:
1. Jesus Christ, the Christ in the word "Christian", never said any of that to you. In fact, He said instead that if you want to become worthy of Him, you have to be willing to abandon Father, Mother, brother, sister, wife, husband, children, etc., in order to become worthy of Him. So I am not certain what makes you believe that you can be of Jesus Christ and hold such views as the one you do regarding your relatives there.

2. A badly behaved partner is the sole issue of the other partner. A third-party can complain to the one of the rudeness but in the end respect the ones right to partner with whomsoever he/she chooses to be with. If he is blind because of love, it would be selfish for his brothers to require he be denied love for their sake, don't you think?

There is nothing woke about these things but commonsense. Rather than attempt to control the lives of others, even your brothers, you respect that they are just as competent at living their lives as you are who hang in the background should the one require your assistance or advice.

Munzy14:

Lol...Another genderless nairalander like the one we have on BB thread.

I will get bored easily...Discussions or stories that comes on as repetition or continued dragging can get me bored easily.

Ya wuru my woman, A ga hum agba kwa oso sha...O wunu for better for worst...

Mana, i ma that ecstasy of rounding up from work quick quick to go pick her up and we return home, ga a bia di wa zie less...Or I will start avoiding conversations that will drain my energy.

Maybe ya wuru come back , bathe, eat, have fun, talk about how the day went and sleep..

He/she is intelligent though.

Probably when she gets the memo, she can improve for better...O wunu unintelligent people na di difficult to correct or Improve.

tunjilana:
1. Jesus tot us and he also used his many apostles to speak to us after he left...Galatians 6:2 said we should carry each other's burden...

2. As for love, If Samson had good brothers, will you rather prefer they leave him to perish under Delilah so that they can allow him enjoy his "Love" or they should have warned him and even find ways to prevent him from allowing her wreck him.

3. Love is a feeling and people can be wrong with whom they love...if a woman falls in love with an abusive man, will u rather her brothers leave her till she is pummelled to death so that they wont be selfish...A badly behaved man isn't the woman's problem alone cos when he kills her, it is someone's loss...If u agree to this then you will see clearly that a badly behaved woman isn't the man's problem alone too...but the problem of everyone who loves the man and who will be affected if the man is affected.

Rachel98:
Good morning everyone. Hope we're having a wonderful week.

My Elder brother is doing well, no doubt he's the breadwinner in our family But his wife is so rude, too authoritative, she's full of pride and she looks down on people. She see everyone as her employee, she does not care if her actions or words hurts you, she's quick to slap at any slightest provocation. She's an event planner, please are event planners this rude??

She's the main reason why we barely visit our brother, despite we all live in the same city, we feel like a total stranger in our brother's house. Probably she's using "jazz" on him, I don't know But everything she does seems cool to him.

I managed to spend the weekend with them, since on friday she act like my presence irritates her. The maid prepared semo and vegetable soup, i don't eat swallow that like, so she saw me cooking noodles, she rudely said why're you not eating semo? Why are you people so selective? Then she left the kitchen. I just maintained my cool.

Yesterday she slapped her maid just because the plantain she told her to fry wasn't brown enough (maybe she wanted burnt sacrifice plantain). My elder brother calmly said honey you shouldn't have slapped her just becus of plaintain. The next she told my brother was "Defender!! go and marry her nw"

This morning, I jejely packed my belongings on my way to work, I entered my brother's car so he can drop me at the bus-stop, I just told him I won't be coming to his place anymore, once I'm done with work today I'm going home straight. And the annoying part, he would be asking me why? As if he's blind, he can't see how rude and ill-mannered his wife is.

His wife has really separated my brother from us, his own family. We don't even know what to do.

flington4550:
So disheartening...you guys go be Yoruba be that...have got an uncle going through almost the same thing but you let the woman know sey if craze dey her head na madness dey ya own head...I gave it to her hot hot and she composed herself...But for the sake of peace I stopped going to their house.
After all the wahala wey he dey give my uncle we lost him to suicide this time last year....

Rachel98:
According to my brother, she has PhD in Sociology & Anthropology