Simran94:

LOL. Incase you do not know, there are many women who were promiscuous in that 20s and are now happily married with children, Lol continue deceiving yourself if you think all men would think like you Nairaland boys

Ur right sha.....

follow your heart man but 32 years is not bad for you though. you have studied her and found that she is good so there is no problem there.

Olayetan:



Op, for you to even have this thought, I wouldn't advise you to go for the 32yr old lady, if you go ahead to marry her, you may regret you didn't follow what your mind thought.

Chances of you getting a younger lady is high with that quality but have it in mind to face some infantile behavior from her...

You people exaggerate the so called infantile behavior! Read through posts on this forum from the supposedly matured ladies, you'll find out that many of them are worse than the younger girls you like to underrate.

Ladies attitudes boil down largely to upbringing. There are many younger girls who are better behaved than the older ladies.

Go for any that suits you, but first put your PEACE of mind into consideration.. The 32yr lady would have seen it all big, thick, fat, long, short and she has reset her factory settings to settle down.. U see the youngies lol it is well

iamL:


And why are you still not married to any after dating 3? Am just curious though.

Engaged

Jman06:
This is nonsense generalization! Not every young girl in her prime has bad attitudes. As a matter of fact, there are many of such girls who are better behaved than some evening newspapers

it is normal and natural that every human being must sow his or her wild oats. it is a phase in our human lives, a time when we explore either secretly or openly. we pray that our wives don't do it in our houses but in their father's house. so if you like decieve yourself. bad attitude does not only mean having sex before marriage. it means other things too. I have seen a virgin girl that is more corrupt character wise than lebechi the witch.

Acidosis:


So?

At some points in their lives, many of the young ones who married too early also wish they had waited for a better man. Ask 10 married women who got married in their early 20s, at least 8 will tell you they wish they had waited a little longer before getting married. So if you're the man feeling like a super star for getting married to a 21 year old girl, you just might turn out to be her life's greatest regret. This is a fact based on first hand knowledge.

Bottom line is to leave people with their choices. If you were good enough for them, they'll stay.

On point. When I was a volunteer worker 70% of married women I encountered said this. They advised us to pursue our ambition and avoid early marriage.

oldienavie:
If you are wondering why I am not married at 36 years old, I was abroad studying and did not want to marry Oyinbo.

If you currently seeing both of them. Put them through submission test (both in the bedroom and outside the bedroom) and when under pressure.

Determine what kind of relationship they have with their father (submissive to her father or talks over her father)

Put them through money management test, whom among them can manage little money and forgo impulse purchasing.

Then finally

The fertility test.

Marriage should be the last thing after baring you a child and if possible, Ignore marriage and stay in a co-parenting relationship then establish a business for the lucky girl.

pocohantas:


But I am serious o. I don’t know why you people think I am joking.

It's a good feeling. I don't see any reason why anyone should villainize old age or older people. Na all of us they grow old las las

But you worry their lives too much sha Today, you're 40, tomorrow you're evening newspaper.

ImoleNaija:
Women don't know what they want in relationships

Shey we (men) know what we want bayi?

Even @31, if I see a 40-year-old lady who is working, decent & conservative, I would put the age aside & marry her.

Peace of mind is all that matters.

Hmmmmm!! Infidelity issue. girls tempts to decline from late 20s. At 40yrs they are already declined. Not that a girl of 40yrs can not get pregnant but 4\10 with difficulty. Be wise.

Her number( age ) will increase but her stature will still remain fresh if you choose to be happy and make her happy too.
Even the sweet 16 can grow older than you when no peace in the marriage.

iamL:


On point. When I was a volunteer worker 70% of married women I encountered said this. They advised us to pursue our ambition and avoid early marriage.

Exactly

Confirm!

blackaxe78:


Smh….


You are lucky you have a matured lady who has all the qualities you looking for.

If you talking about age, the younger ones will get you to depression! They are only good on bed, maturity they lack.

BigBashiru:


But how can the man be with the 32 yr old all his life?? That's the problem... expecting monogamy at 32 isn't fair to men....

Oga Bashiru,
monogamy is fair to jeje men... not big boss

Those younger God fearing Lady Op Claims he's looking for

Walai, e no go see them, not even in nigeria

I've noticed younger girls below 28 or 25 still have eyes outside and still wanna see street, they are the ones you see outside making colorful hairstyle, wearing colorful jean or trouser carrying small bag accross their shoulder to go visit guys or hookup with guys

This OP don get good thing already kon dey look for bad thing

oldienavie:
So I am 36 years and looking to settle down.
I have a lady friend who I have know for a while and is a really decent lady.
She is the type of person I would like to marry (I like conservative ladies and she is the conservative type no makeup which is what I want).
She is 32 years old.

A part of me feels it is better to wait for a while and try and get a younger "god fearing" lady.

To the men, what would you advise ?

I am kinda traditional and feel like a man should avoid marrying a lady in her 30s and also have a gap of atleast 7 years with the wife but I think I love her, I have been thinking about her lately.

Edited: A lot of people asking why I am not married at 36 years old, I was studying abroad, I just got back to naija to try and marry.

My question is :
Is there a younger good girl again..??

Simran94:
This life ehn, just be you and you will be fine in the end.

Men feel they can be promiscuous in their 20s and settle down in their 30s but they come for ladies who do the same. Imagine a so-called 36 years old man asking if he can marry a lady that is 32 years old, truly age doesn’t define your intellectual capacity.

As a lady never feel bad abt your age, just be yourself and don't settle for less because u feel time is running out. Someone out there Will do anything to be with you at the right time.

Don't be moved by what these NL boys and women-hatters are spreewing.

BigDawsNet:


Engaged

Gud for you. Just try to make this one works out.

Bros marry this lady
The best thing to do when you see what you want is to take action.

Don't think she will wait if you delay. Other guys wey get eye near her may be watching you. Any little chance they will take her.

I got my wife when one guy dating her was thinking as you do. A little space of laxity by him, I attached myself, solidified my ground and took full position.

He regretted it. He kept chatting my wife till I told her to block him. It's not wickedness, it's called protecting what you love.

oldienavie:
So I am 36 years and looking to settle down.
I have a lady friend who I have know for a while and is a really decent lady.
She is the type of person I would like to marry (I like conservative ladies and she is the conservative type no makeup which is what I want).
She is 32 years old.

A part of me feels it is better to wait for a while and try and get a younger "god fearing" lady.

To the men, what would you advise ?

I am kinda traditional and feel like a man should avoid marrying a lady in her 30s and also have a gap of atleast 7 years with the wife but I think I love her, I have been thinking about her lately.

Edited: A lot of people asking why I am not married at 36 years old, I was studying abroad, I just got back to naija to try and marry.

oldienavie:
So I am 36 years and looking to settle down.
I have a lady friend who I have know for a while and is a really decent lady.
She is the type of person I would like to marry (I like conservative ladies and she is the conservative type no makeup which is what I want).
She is 32 years old.

A part of me feels it is better to wait for a while and try and get a younger "god fearing" lady.

To the men, what would you advise ?

I am kinda traditional and feel like a man should avoid marrying a lady in her 30s and also have a gap of atleast 7 years with the wife but I think I love her, I have been thinking about her lately.

Edited: A lot of people asking why I am not married at 36 years old, I was studying abroad, I just got back to naija to try and marry.

Now that you have seen what you want in a 32 year old lady, why not go for her.
You are aging too, you need to be strong to train your children, you may be getting your desire in a younger lady when you have clocked 40 already.

I no wan abuse... say u no get sense... but what do i know...

I guess u dont know what u want... secondly u r not inlove with the chic in question..

Dont come bk here and cry.. like the married men on this platform.

With either sex issue problems and all... younger ko older ni...

pocohantas:


I am 44. Any other question?

Evening newspaper.

liveyourlife007:
I will never settle for less IJN

1. A lady of 30 will definitely look older than a guy of the same age
2. Her reproductive cells are weak at that stage
3. Sex with a lady in her 30s can't be compared to one in her 20s
4. Menopause is getting close at this age, let's say Ten years after.
5. That stench of old age. Can you keep up with that?

Stench of old age are you normal or you don't want to live long at all. You just stated nonsense what do you mean by stench of old age.

Nawa for una oo make una dey reason properly before una dey talk rubbish even if you are teenager don't make it too obvious.

Look for a younger girl between 22 and 24 to marry... Thank me later...

oldienavie:
So I am 36 years and looking to settle down.
I have a lady friend who I have know for a while and is a really decent lady.
She is the type of person I would like to marry (I like conservative ladies and she is the conservative type no makeup which is what I want).
She is 32 years old.

A part of me feels it is better to wait for a while and try and get a younger "god fearing" lady.

To the men, what would you advise ?

I am kinda traditional and feel like a man should avoid marrying a lady in her 30s and also have a gap of atleast 7 years with the wife but I think I love her, I have been thinking about her lately.

Edited: A lot of people asking why I am not married at 36 years old, I was studying abroad, I just got back to naija to try and marry.

Baba leave these young girls alone. Marry person wey u know o. Dem never finish their hoeing phase. But if u think you a scientist, you can experiment. Body go tell u how far.

Simran94:

And yet when your GFs in their mid 20s start pressuring you guys about marriage, it is you same guys that will keep saying you are not ready for marriage yet until your Gfs turn 30, then you dump them and start another relationship with another girl in her 20s and the cycle continues till you guys are in your 40s abi? LOL

i guess that's the excuse you people give for hoeing around. You bleep every guy on the block just to get back at the one who broke your heart.

oldienavie:
So I am 36 years and looking to settle down.
I have a lady friend who I have know for a while and is a really decent lady.
She is the type of person I would like to marry (I like conservative ladies and she is the conservative type no makeup which is what I want).
She is 32 years old.

A part of me feels it is better to wait for a while and try and get a younger "god fearing" lady.

To the men, what would you advise ?

I am kinda traditional and feel like a man should avoid marrying a lady in her 30s and also have a gap of atleast 7 years with the wife but I think I love her, I have been thinking about her lately.

Edited: A lot of people asking why I am not married at 36 years old, I was studying abroad, I just got back to naija to try and marry.

Go for what you like since you prefer a young girl like you stated here

Ladyhippolyta88:


Stench of old age are you normal or you don't want to live long at all. You just stated nonsense what do you mean by stench of old age.

Nawa for una oo make una dey reason properly before una dey talk rubbish even if you are teenager don't make it too obvious.

ouch! Did I strike a nerve?

liveyourlife007:
i guess that's the excuse you people give for hoeing around. You bleep every guy on the block just to get back at the one who broke your heart.

Comprehension is really important…

Go and read again and see how my post relates to your previous post, this one is out of context sir

iamL:


As a lady never feel bad abt your age, just be yourself and don't settle for less because u feel time is running out. Someone out there Will do anything to be with you at the right time.

Don't be moved by what these NL boys and women-hatters are spreewing.

My sister, God will help us oo. I’m not even bothered about these boys on NL, they say one thing online but reality is always a different story entirely

iamL:

Gud for you. Just try to make this one works out.

You sound like the past crashed are my fault