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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Nobody: 4:25am On Jan 27, 2022
Ajimusty2:
She did two abortions for two different niggars when we were in a relationship, since then na f**king machine she be till today.shishi no dey join me and her.rather na she go give me money.

After abortion for two different guys while you were dating and you can still stand her sight, still sleep with her in the name of fcking machine. Na guys when dey smoke igbo fit do this kind thing

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Nobody: 4:29am On Jan 27, 2022
CapitalBank:
YES but the feelings for me wasn't always like that. She was the one that lured me by her actions. At a point, she said "Are you trying to withdraw from me"?

What does that tell you? It simply means I was not giving her as much access or attention. Women know these things...

However, when I let my guards down, she withdrew, changed and started acting like I am desperate and had some other attitude.

Another sickening observation is she is an energy zapper. She is the kind of girl that just wants to keep you there to feed her attention tank if you know what I mean. A lot of bullshit happened sha...

So why did she buzz me? Shebi e don end now, make she rest and enjoy the one making her head swell.

You go sabi judge o. All this explanation just bcuz you break up with babe
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Nobody: 4:32am On Jan 27, 2022
Solofresh2:
Spots on!
You say what
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by UwaMmebii(m): 5:16am On Jan 27, 2022
Richy419:
Hmm,,this question bring back memories I did love once back then in university but she wasn't reciprocating rather when I put her first and did all she wanted even going with her to her church cos she was a churchy girl,,she rather prefared my close friend to me she used her opportunity as a class rep to get handout and useful info from lecturer and give it to me best friend who stays out side school but me that stayed in the school hostel with her will be side lined I did all to please her but mu best friend go all the whole attention I had to kill that part of me that loved her..but it Hurt tho this days I care less I don't love any more ..

Na wa oh hmmm, that gal no love you at all, how can u be doing all this and she will be sidelining u and giving the attention to ur friends wholeheartedly wow,
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by UwaMmebii(m): 5:18am On Jan 27, 2022
Psalmy2cute:
She told me I’m not caring… and all I know how to do is send money

Wow speechless grin
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by nedekid: 6:43am On Jan 27, 2022
Ficient:


Forget all this things bros, you miss that kpekus. Na wetin dey record be that
Hmm, yeah for records I miss am, but those days kpekus no be problem.
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by pansophist(m): 7:18am On Jan 27, 2022
stano2:
She depended heavily on me.
A time came things were down a bit for me, and i also used this opportunity to test her.

She was expecting a sum of money from me, so during a phone call, i told her i would be sending a lesser amount for now. She flared up, saying rubbish on the phone.
I broke up with her immediately, feelings died instantly. This is someone that has never given me 1,000 naira gift. After some weeks she came begging, I no send am.

Mehnn, i have no business with broke and self centered ladies again.

The broker the individual, the more ungrateful and self-centered they are likely to be. Those that are actually in the meat grinder trying to make money will appreciate even 1k, but give it to someone that went through life on easy mode, with gifts coming from all angles just for existing, then you're more likely to be scorned for not meeting her impression, same impression she can't even meet herself.

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by pansophist(m): 7:28am On Jan 27, 2022
Thinking because I have feelings for her somehow immune her from treating me right. Trying to exploit my mumu button, acting unreasonable, making unnecessary demands, and relegating me to an indentured servant just because I committed an offence of loving you. Basically the more I accept her stupid behaviours, the more convinced she is that i love her.

What girls that acts like that fail to understand is that such behaviour is a confession of their character. It simply portrays one as a shitty person, that should be avoided. It is weakness of the soul to look at something as pure as love, which hardly comes genuinely, and treat it with disdain. That's a crime against nature and you may end up not finding such love anymore. So yea, this one.

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by pocohantas(f): 9:17am On Jan 27, 2022
iamL:


Years later when he became well-off and wanted to get married he started looking for sincere love, he found out I was still single reconnected with me but I acted up and turned him down. He even wanted to be just friends but I refused. Nonsense and ingredients...

They always do this once they get to that point where they don’t want games anymore. Try to reconnect with an EX or old female friend. I think it saves everyone time. Win win for both parties if they are single.

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by princeadeshina7(m): 9:21am On Jan 27, 2022
love
(smiles)
vibes for two weeks, always checking on each other and boom
qualms comes up and both will be thinking diff.
after a while the love gradually dies...
i dont think there's true love even for peeps that do marry too.
they've got no choice, they stick together because there are married not because they love each other
buh for the whites its easy for them to get a divorce, buh we blacks will scared of the shame instead of telling your spouse your heart you end up enduring. what for......the same mistake our parents did that lead most of us to single parenting today.
you endure for years and still find out that your husband doesnt truly loves you. by then you be fed up and all you can think about then is to leave your husband, and take the children away with you, start a new life and all we get is either we have a mom and no dad or a dad and no mom. this life is just so complicated.

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by TechSpecialist(m): 9:24am On Jan 27, 2022
Sandrafy:
Infidelity, insecurity, verbal and emotional abuse
isn't this too much?

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Ajimusty2: 9:44am On Jan 27, 2022
Ficient:


After abortion for two different guys while you were dating and you can still stand her sight, still sleep with her in the name of fcking machine. Na guys when dey smoke igbo fit do this kind thing
yea unfortunately for u I don't do weed.
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by NACE13: 10:03am On Jan 27, 2022
Met this chick in NYSC camp, we bonded like cement glue. The feelings/chemistry was electrifying. We really liked each other like crazy but she had to redeploy because her employers requested her to.
We kept the communication going with calls and texts. She had to openly tell me she had feelings for me and I confessed mine to her as well. Problems started when I noticed I was catching too much feelings for her, I had to slap myself back to reality. I don't do LDRs- So cut off all form of communication with her. She got the message and did same. Las Las we dey alright.

Another one happened to a friend of my female friend. Babe catch feelings for me sharp sharp but homeboy wasn't feeling her to relationship levels. I didn't want to take advantage of her so I proposed a FWB package but she wanted a straight-up relationship. She understand I just wanted sex, so she picked her bag and left. We are still cool till date but just platonic. I respect her for cutting our history and starting afresh as just friends.

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Yadid(m): 10:41am On Jan 27, 2022
CapitalBank:
Well, she was beginning to feel distant and somehow felt too important. The same girl that was once worried that I was withdrawn..., We didn't talk for most of December and so I messaged her a few days a new year and wished her Happy New Year. she never replied to the SMS.

I had to buzz her on whatsapp 4 hours later to make sure she is fine considering we hadn't talked for almost a month... the weyrey come reply say she see my sms and wished me happy new year ... when someone is feeling too important, the signs were there. Prior to that I had been getting the signal.

I was tired of her subtle attitude and boldly told her that I have gotten her message and it is time for me to move on. I even told her to delete my numbers from here phone... she begin tell me calm down blah blah..

2 days ago she buzzed me to ask how I am doing... I didn't reply her on time but did when I could. after replying and responded. I had to delete the chat afterwards cos I didn't want anything to remind me of her again. A girl that stopped initiating convos or chats 8 months ago suddenly buzzing because you complained and stopped initiating chat is not worth it. Let's not talk about the subtle and indirect insult she threw around October.

It is well. There are more ladies out there willing to have me... and I have moved on.

This your girl is almost the same with a female friend I just put my feet on the ground for. Everything you said up there is just true for this one too.

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Nobody: 11:04am On Jan 27, 2022
Ajimusty2:
yea unfortunately for u I don't do weed.

Whatever. meth or whatever you took or didn't take really messed you up
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Britain4(m): 11:23am On Jan 27, 2022
Solutiontipsb5:
ehhh chinekemooo

Na sooo love dey sweet u reach.
My man
Ije love adiro n 'fe

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Solutiontipsb5: 2:40pm On Jan 27, 2022
Smuthx33413736:
It's easy to have your post make front page on the forum

Mehn the site is too small and time consuming
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Solutiontipsb5: 2:42pm On Jan 27, 2022
Isupaefugbemi0012345627:
Stretch marks

That is not a good reason bruv
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Solutiontipsb5: 2:43pm On Jan 27, 2022
Moji12:
Unrequited love, I just detached myself jeje n accepted my L in peace.


What is L ??
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Solutiontipsb5: 2:48pm On Jan 27, 2022
Krexpah:
Wen she won use billing kill me
like say she no get brothers?
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Solutiontipsb5: 2:48pm On Jan 27, 2022
badboyTee:
She doesn't love me back grin
why she no love u back?
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Chno: 2:49pm On Jan 27, 2022
Life lesson
Solutiontipsb5:



What is L ??

Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Solutiontipsb5: 2:51pm On Jan 27, 2022
badboyTee1625:
She doesn't love me back grin
is it like u are not fine??
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Solutiontipsb5: 2:54pm On Jan 27, 2022
Hassan88:
LIES
i love gurls that can lie.
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Solutiontipsb5: 2:54pm On Jan 27, 2022
Lordofalmajiri:
She joined the olosho gang cool cool. And I hate olosho with passion. angry angry


Every man have olosho spirit in them.

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Solutiontipsb5: 2:55pm On Jan 27, 2022
petite626:
shyness.....................

the guy is so shy that he cant even communicate well except when he is chatting.


That is not a good reason to leave him na
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Solutiontipsb5: 2:55pm On Jan 27, 2022
ukafaceqwerty:
you're a nincompoop.
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Solutiontipsb5: 2:56pm On Jan 27, 2022
merits:
When she refuse to reciprocate.
did u let her knw?
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Solutiontipsb5: 3:06pm On Jan 27, 2022
oke201819202122:
They're coming here to bash ladies

Lol
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Solutiontipsb5: 3:15pm On Jan 27, 2022
Cisca2022:
stingyness, dude hardly drop.
grin grin grin grin
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by CheedyJ(m): 3:54pm On Jan 27, 2022
ApostlePaul14:
Attitude. Any little misunderstanding, her statement is always "I no do again".
I can relate cos I'm presently in such relationship but my mind , body & soul is already out of d relationship..
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by CapitalBank: 4:30pm On Jan 27, 2022
Ficient:


You go sabi judge o. All this explanation just bcuz you break up with babe
lol drop ur own story and leave mine alone. If you get, read and waka pass.

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