stano2:
She depended heavily on me.
A time came things were down a bit for me, and i also used this opportunity to test her.

She was expecting a sum of money from me, so during a phone call, i told her i would be sending a lesser amount for now. She flared up, saying rubbish on the phone.
I broke up with her immediately, feelings died instantly. This is someone that has never given me 1,000 naira gift. After some weeks she came begging, I no send am.

Mehnn, i have no business with broke and self centered ladies again.

GuyWise101:
Nna mehnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

I was having feeling for one girl lately but I am about to quit because it is not reciprocal, I can't just call you and you busy my call but didn't call back and expect me to call you again! No way,


I can't send you a msg and you read it but didn't reply and you expect me to be sending you love messages like Sec. Sch Student.


If I feel you and shown it but you said you are feeling me and can't show it, I will just take a walk..... No time for BS.

Solutiontipsb5:
So what kil*ed your feelings for someone you were madly in love with?

playapayaski:
Like you said, FEELING.
Love is not real, it's just a temporal feeling, like hate, happiness, sexual urges etc.. influenced by hormones..

Those quoting me talking about finding love someday n spending forever or whatever with the person.
Wake up
1. There is no forever, we all are going to die today or tomorrow
2. For the religious people, God loved n created the world including Lucifer, hell n all? His feelings never changed when Lucifer disobeyed, she he made hellfire? Oh it's just punishment for disobedience yes, but for ETERNITY?
LIKE I SAID, MY OWN OPINION, MY THOUGHTS. OH AND UNCONDITIONAL LOVE OF A MOTHER YET WE SEE ABANDONED DAY(S) OLD BABIES EVERYDAY? UNCONDITIONAL LOVE BUT YOU WANT TO MAKE EXCUSES FOR THE MOTHER NOW, BUT ITS SUPPOSED TO BE UNCONDITIONAL.
NO FEELING IS REAL ENOUGH TO BE CLOSE TO PERMANENT, MY OPINION.
Drop the EMOTIONS n think, reason with the BRAIN, GOD GAVE US FOR A REASON.
PEACE

nedekid:

Ok. If you say so.
But as I said the Ac was on and so the windows closed.
The only window opened was in the toilet.
So all the beans, edikaikong, iru, chilli, efo, rice well famented in her tommy and extruded as shit had a very overwhelming aroma in my room.
Not her fault? Guess so.
But if she had told me she was pressed, I would have switched of the Ac, opened the windows for her to do her thing. It wount have been a shocker to me.
The turnoff was the shock.

ironheart:
She told me her phone was bad, while she traveled to another stake for hook-up, blocked me on WhatsApp and was busy posting her hook-up escapades on her WhatsApp status. The muuumu didn't know i saved my second line on her phone.

ironheart:
She told me her phone was bad, while she traveled to another stake for hook-up, blocked me on WhatsApp and was busy posting her hook-up escapades on her WhatsApp status. The muuumu didn't know i saved my second line on her phone.

Hassanmaye:

Fear that gender

Michelle70:
She told me, "I see u as my younger brother"

Dliquidmetal:
The feelings weren't reciprocal,so I gradually detached myself. I don't care how strong the feeling is, once I figure she doesn't feel the same way I move the Bleep on.

SmartPolician:
It happened during my NYSC days many years ago. I met a girl in our place of primary assignment and told my friend (who later became my corper roomie) about it. Surprisingly, he started threatening me, saying he saw her first.

I told him that I couldn't fight over a girl and asked him to have her to himself.
After series of attempts, the babe showed no interest in dating him because he's not her kind of guy.

When she asked me why I stopped getting close to her, I told her it was personal. Ever since, I cannot explain how I don't even feel anything for her and she is still single.

Solutiontipsb5:



Chai what a pity.

I feel for the lady/girl.

GuyWise101:
Nna mehnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

I was having feeling for one girl lately but I am about to quit because it is not reciprocal, I can't just call you and you busy my call but didn't call back and expect me to call you again! No way,


I can't send you a msg and you read it but didn't reply and you expect me to be sending you love messages like Sec. Sch Student.


If I feel you and shown it but you said you are feeling me and can't show it, I will just take a walk..... No time for BS.

stano2:
She depended heavily on me.
A time came things were down a bit for me, and i also used this opportunity to test her.

She was expecting a sum of money from me, so during a phone call, i told her i would be sending a lesser amount for now. She flared up, saying rubbish on the phone.
I broke up with her immediately, feelings died instantly. This is someone that has never given me 1,000 naira gift. After some weeks she came begging, I no send am.

Mehnn, i have no business with broke and self centered ladies again.

nedekid:
Beautiful chick I met working at the bank many years ago ( she work at the bank not me) . The complexion like oyinbo. Almost like a white chick. (I be sucker for light skined chicks).
Back then I stayed in a shared bungalow with my 2 Bros. My room was ensuite.
First time this beauty came to visit me of which lamba was expected, as she entered my room, she relaxed on the bed, I said let me get some refreshments for her, the shocker happened.
I did not spend up to 5min, as I entered the room, the stink was unimaginable!
The smell in the Ac of shit! This lady had entered the loo and fired heavy shit and the smell was thick in the room in less than few munites I stepped out! There was one oriyomi sef still in the loo! As how naa? How possible?
Omo, that just killed my interest. Unfortunately that was the last time I saw her. She called a couple of times. Next I heard was she relocated. This gist na 20 years ago.

stano2:
She depended heavily on me.
A time came things were down a bit for me, and i also used this opportunity to test her.

She was expecting a sum of money from me, so during a phone call, i told her i would be sending a lesser amount for now. She flared up, saying rubbish on the phone.
I broke up with her immediately, feelings died instantly. This is someone that has never given me 1,000 naira gift. After some weeks she came begging, I no send am.

Mehnn, i have no business with broke and self centered ladies again.

CapitalBank:
Well, she was beginning to feel distant and somehow felt too important. The same girl that was once worried that I was withdrawn..., We didn't talk for most of December and so I messaged her a few days a new year and wished her Happy New Year. she never replied to the SMS.

I had to buzz her on whatsapp 4 hours later to make sure she is fine considering we hadn't talked for almost a month... the weyrey come reply say she see my sms and wished me happy new year ... when someone is feeling too important, the signs were there. Prior to that I had been getting the signal.

I was tired of her subtle attitude and boldly told her that I have gotten her message and it is time for me to move on. I even told her to delete my numbers from here phone... she begin tell me calm down blah blah..

2 days ago she buzzed me to ask how I am doing... I didn't reply her on time but did when I could. after replying and responded. I had to delete the chat afterwards cos I didn't want anything to remind me of her again. A girl that stopped initiating convos or chats 8 months ago suddenly buzzing because you complained and stopped initiating chat is not worth it. Let's not talk about the subtle and indirect insult she threw around October.

It is well. There are more ladies out there willing to have me... and I have moved on.

stano2:
She depended heavily on me.
A time came things were down a bit for me, and i also used this opportunity to test her.

She was expecting a sum of money from me, so during a phone call, i told her i would be sending a lesser amount for now. She flared up, saying rubbish on the phone.
I broke up with her immediately, feelings died instantly. This is someone that has never given me 1,000 naira gift. After some weeks she came begging, I no send am.

Mehnn, i have no business with broke and self centered ladies again.

Emjace:
She told me about a guy who got her an Iphone sometime ago. The guy asked her to be his girlfriend, she didn't give a reply yet, but she was gonna say yes anyway

The guy stopped calling and texting her... She tried reaching him, wasn't possible...

After some months she was told that the guy was robbed and all that...

Then I asked her if the guy calls her and gives her a genuine and justifiable explanation of his reason for not being available, then requests to get her back, what will be your reply? Then she replied to me "I don't know"... Asked again yet she gave the same reply

I walked out angrily... Never answered her calls since then...

The above happened yesterday... And she's my girlfriend.... Infact I need advice

kingsman66:
Nothing kill my love for opposite sex than tell me you are from owerri...... Owerri bae[color=#006600][/color]

michresakidjo:
I was told we are not spiritually compatible
Like three different people

Solutiontstipsb5:
So what kil*ed your feelings for someone you were madly in love with?

CapitalBank:


Now, you did the right thing. It means she would give in to him with a little push. Get yourself someone else and move on. Women are opportunists in nature and always looking for the next shinny object.

It was a phone issue(someone bought her a phone) that made a girl I was interested in to go cold on me... I endured it for 8 months as she stopped initiating convo...

The few weeks ago, I told her boldly that I have gotten her message and I will move on from here. I even told her to delete my number from her phone. she started telling me to calm down. I told her I have heard but within me, I had made up my mind...

2 days ago is the first time in 8 months that she would initiate a chat... I just responded and never did beyond that. If it took her 8 months to initiate convo, something she does before, because I took a tough stand to end everything, then she is not worth my time.

Shalommy:
I don't do love but like. If you start acting up, you're on your own.