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Re: What My Brother Is Doing To Me. Is It Fair? Please Advise by ImaIma1(f): 1:42pm On Jan 27, 2022 |
Kriss216: And especially a Nigerian girl. By now, I'm sure everyone on this platform knows that already. 5 Likes |
Re: What My Brother Is Doing To Me. Is It Fair? Please Advise by Justkatty(f): 7:57pm On Jan 27, 2022 |
Picktrust:Not showing Put it here |
Re: What My Brother Is Doing To Me. Is It Fair? Please Advise by cayorday89(m): 8:50pm On Jan 27, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1:Seems you like and enjoy seeing people in pain, you are kinda odd with what you support most times... 2 Likes |
Re: What My Brother Is Doing To Me. Is It Fair? Please Advise by cayorday89(m): 9:06pm On Jan 27, 2022 |
This is hard to judge, there is a stage a person will get to and the only means of survival is to care about you and you alone, hoping that himself/herself and the other person gets his/her breakthrough. The OP really tried by filling the gas and has no option, guess it's also tough for the elder Bro and he had to focus on himself. |
Re: What My Brother Is Doing To Me. Is It Fair? Please Advise by Pipefitter: 9:33pm On Jan 27, 2022 |
Picktrust: Bear with him. It's not that rosy for him too, otherwise he won't watch you suffer. Just pray God bless you both |
Re: What My Brother Is Doing To Me. Is It Fair? Please Advise by MrMcJay(m): 9:35pm On Jan 27, 2022 |
Picktrust: You need food not advice. Practical over theory. Cheers. 6 Likes |
Re: What My Brother Is Doing To Me. Is It Fair? Please Advise by Candidlady: 9:36pm On Jan 27, 2022 |
Kriss216: Were you going to borrow her cylinder or what ? |
Re: What My Brother Is Doing To Me. Is It Fair? Please Advise by Kriss216: 9:41pm On Jan 27, 2022 |
Candidlady:Not your business! |
Re: What My Brother Is Doing To Me. Is It Fair? Please Advise by money121(m): 9:43pm On Jan 27, 2022 |
Picktrust: |
Re: What My Brother Is Doing To Me. Is It Fair? Please Advise by money121(m): 9:44pm On Jan 27, 2022 |
MrMcJay:God bless you brother 1 Like |
Re: What My Brother Is Doing To Me. Is It Fair? Please Advise by SolaScrivens: 9:45pm On Jan 27, 2022 |
Kriss216: Funny, I understand the blood is thicker than water is actually "the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb" meaning bonds made by choice are more important than familial bonds 2 Likes |
Re: What My Brother Is Doing To Me. Is It Fair? Please Advise by Britishcoins(m): 9:45pm On Jan 27, 2022 |
Some brothers are wicked, I wish my younger ones will love me the way I so much care for them, last year from September to December, I single handedly built house for my young brother to live with his new wife since my both parents are late, I bought from matress, plasma, new generator and many gadget just to make him feel comfortable.... That 3m I spent would have nearly complete my own house in Township but because of love I don't want them to suffer like I did during my time of apprenticeship. My brother don't ever hate ur brother, instead work harder as if though u don't have any brother. That was the spirit that I used to escape poverty, I don't believe that I have helper, except God 6 Likes |
Re: What My Brother Is Doing To Me. Is It Fair? Please Advise by ERockson: 9:47pm On Jan 27, 2022 |
I can say categorically you from SE. 2 Likes |
Re: What My Brother Is Doing To Me. Is It Fair? Please Advise by tradepunter: 9:48pm On Jan 27, 2022 |
Romanoff: You lack reasoning and emotional intelligence.... You listing things out as if majority of family train their children without love. I thank God for my family and those families that they were trained in love and never to have entitlement to someone else thing. No matter the misunderstanding I have with family, I resolve it because that's what a wise person does... And I use the bible as standard for my life. |
Re: What My Brother Is Doing To Me. Is It Fair? Please Advise by nickyj19: 9:48pm On Jan 27, 2022 |
sorry OP e go soon turn to stories one day take heart |
Re: What My Brother Is Doing To Me. Is It Fair? Please Advise by SeriouslySense(m): 9:52pm On Jan 27, 2022 |
well said InTheCloudySky: 1 Like |
Re: What My Brother Is Doing To Me. Is It Fair? Please Advise by Xerum(m): 9:53pm On Jan 27, 2022 |
2 @Picktrust, Ok. A million thanks. I have asked someone to send you 5k. Pls buy gas with it and manage it. I HATE to hear people suffer issues with feeding. It should be something basic. And avoid grudging your brother o. People have their reasons for doing whatever it is they do. We do not have to agree with their reasons. Focus on your hustle, work hard. Your time will come. 12 Likes |
Re: What My Brother Is Doing To Me. Is It Fair? Please Advise by Hychineson(m): 9:55pm On Jan 27, 2022 |
Picktrust:Why didn't you apply for police job since you are not up to 25 years? 1 Like |
Re: What My Brother Is Doing To Me. Is It Fair? Please Advise by deavicky(m): 9:56pm On Jan 27, 2022 |
I think he is teaching you how to keep to agreement. 2 Likes |
Re: What My Brother Is Doing To Me. Is It Fair? Please Advise by DEGABA(m): 9:58pm On Jan 27, 2022 |
The only thing I can say is that I will never eat alone while my brother is hungry without sharing the meal with him. 6 Likes |
Re: What My Brother Is Doing To Me. Is It Fair? Please Advise by freedomfloyd(m): 9:59pm On Jan 27, 2022 |
Most issues that erupt among siblings in the family is based on the upbringing, my views on siblings love changed the day i met a guy whose family communicate twice a day i mean from the first born to the last one they communicate morning and night and each time they call its always end with i love you This guy is 32 years old and they still do all that tell me why they would ever have a reason to hate each other, Bible was never wrong when its says charity (Love)begin at home 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What My Brother Is Doing To Me. Is It Fair? Please Advise by spartan117(m): 10:03pm On Jan 27, 2022 |
Kriss216:You just want the op to chop slap 2 Likes |
Re: What My Brother Is Doing To Me. Is It Fair? Please Advise by Maxxim: 10:04pm On Jan 27, 2022 |
op I can feel your pain bro, talk to em let em realize what he did was wrong cos you never expected that from em. You'll be good at the end of the day. 2 Likes |
Re: What My Brother Is Doing To Me. Is It Fair? Please Advise by Lapilolo: 10:04pm On Jan 27, 2022 |
Your bro no try at all but know that this chapter of your life will pass, yes! it will pass. My elder bro did likewise but today nko. No Condition is Permanent. Manage your little resources wisely, be honest and open to him. This time.will Pass. 2 Likes |
Re: What My Brother Is Doing To Me. Is It Fair? Please Advise by BleedTears: 10:04pm On Jan 27, 2022 |
Romanoff:Thank you very much. I've told people the same thing here on nairaland, is not a story I've seen it happen. Ans this people are biological brothers and sisters, with same father and same mother. But many has been blinded by the falsehood that only polygamy that beget such hatred among siblings. But I've seen polygamous family who live in peace love and harmony. 3 Likes |
Re: What My Brother Is Doing To Me. Is It Fair? Please Advise by MrMcJay(m): 10:05pm On Jan 27, 2022 |
money121: Bro, just saw your mention. Pls send me a WhatsApp message Don't quote the number pls. Cheers. |
Re: What My Brother Is Doing To Me. Is It Fair? Please Advise by Innobee99(m): 10:07pm On Jan 27, 2022 |
Sometimes I wonder the kind of relationship with keep with our blood. Same issue I discussed with my kid brother this morning. Am very close and friendly with my brothers which makes me so happy. Infact, the truth is I can die for any of my siblings (Am not making mouth). But some people will be treating their own blood like a stranger. My brother spoke to his friend about his challenges at the moment and boom, his friend wired 100k to him just this morning. This is someone my brother just met in school ooooo. Please, no matter what, u blood is ur blood. I just hate to see or hear siblings not in good terms. Op, I pray God brings back the love between u both
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Re: What My Brother Is Doing To Me. Is It Fair? Please Advise by MaverickA3: 10:08pm On Jan 27, 2022 |
Okay |
Re: What My Brother Is Doing To Me. Is It Fair? Please Advise by Nobody: 10:08pm On Jan 27, 2022 |
Chai! Anyway, that how it suppose to be. As both of u are hustlers, u can't grow under ur brother unless ur brother has made it already. U have to move on |
Re: What My Brother Is Doing To Me. Is It Fair? Please Advise by Mariangeles(f): 10:09pm On Jan 27, 2022 |
deavicky: I think so too. To be more responsible. |
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