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What’s The Best Place And Time To Approach A Lady? by binarymachine(m): 6:12am On Jan 27, 2022
Is there really a perfect time to approach the people you care about? Often, men ask these questions as a way to get answers to a problem which is how best to approach a lady. I am sure you have seen a man all anxious and sweaty because he wants to talk to a particular lady. They say, to do this requires extreme carefulness and tactical as one flop from you could result to a rejection from the lady.

So, how best can a guy approach a lady, is there a special place and time? Well, the answer is neither a yes or no question. Rather it is subjective to several things. Okay, reason it out. Can you categorically say that the best time for asking a lady out is in the afternoon? Absolutely not. Okay, let’s assume that a lady did accept you in the afternoon, still the time had nothing to do with her acceptance.

So, what exactly is the right place and time? The right place and time to approach a lady is subject to moods, atmosphere/ settings and the manner in which you approach a lady.

1. In Approaching A Lady, First Be Sensitive:
Observe a person’s outlook and demeanor before walking up to say hi! What do you expect from a lady who seems to have a worried frown which is quite obvious? Do you expect she will give you attention when she has got a lot of stuff crowding her mind? The thing is she will not even spare you a glance, some might just get provoked and might become antagonistic.

2. Dess The Part:
A whole lot of men get a rejection because of how they look. I mean before you approach a lady ask yourself, if I were in her shoes will I accept me? The fact is some men care less about their appearance, assuming it does not matter, then when they get to a lady and she ignores them, they just conclude it is pride or that she is trying to feel herself.
And I ask, really is that it? A shave is necessary, have your hair cut or put in the best way, have a bath, brush your teeth and smell nice. Your outlook could just give you all the attention you need.

Observe the ambience of the place;- some persons might just get the first two points but not this point. Agreed, a place can give you the energy you need or dissipate it. When you are trying to talk to a lady, ask yourself if the setting is alright for such conversations. Will the energy in this environment give you positive results or downplay your little efforts, think about it before you make a move.

3. Be Clear In Your Speech:
Have you seen people who walk up to a person they want to have a conversation with then end up saying a lot of gibberish?
I have maybe you have too. You do not want to walk up to a lady, and have her give you attention then you end up saying incomprehensible things. You talk about going to a country and how the dogs in your neighborhood are dying. Be clear, concise and say your mind. It is your opportunity, take it. You may not have another.

4. Be Respectful:
Of course, there is a high possibility that a lady might just reject you. However, upon rejection do not act unlearned and let out the uncouth part of you. Respect the fact that she does not want to listen to you or hear what you have to say or just like you. Respect it, respect yourself and then walk away.

Often, some ladies reject approaches the first time and then have a change of heart, being respectful might just give you a second chance.

In life, there is no such thing as the perfect place or time when it comes to approaching the people we love. We create the perfect time and place, we make things happen by our right actions. Doing what is right and necessary as at when due is what gives us the results we need.

Source: https://flipmemes.com/2022/01/01/whats-the-best-place-and-time-to-approach-a-lady/

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Re: What’s The Best Place And Time To Approach A Lady? by Totilopussylick(m): 6:15am On Jan 27, 2022
The headline asked what the perfect time to woo a lady, and the content has the answers as well.

Kudos bro for the enlightenment.

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Re: What’s The Best Place And Time To Approach A Lady? by Nobody: 6:20am On Jan 27, 2022
If it`s truly a serious relationship that can lead to marriage i think The best place to approach is Church. and it should be done after church service.

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Re: What’s The Best Place And Time To Approach A Lady? by Totilopussylick(m): 6:25am On Jan 27, 2022
YinkaOlusesi:
If it`s truly a serious relationship that can lead to marriage i think The best place to approach is Church. and it should be done after church service.
Wrong

Church is a place for worshipping and not a place for hook up tongue

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Re: What’s The Best Place And Time To Approach A Lady? by Nobody: 6:27am On Jan 27, 2022
Totilopussylick:
Wrong
Church is a place for worshipping and not a place for hook up tongue
go over again

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Re: What’s The Best Place And Time To Approach A Lady? by Totilopussylick(m): 6:31am On Jan 27, 2022
YinkaOlusesi:
If it`s truly a serious relationship that can lead to marriage i think The best place to approach is Church. and it should be done after church service.
People like you fall easily to an ogbanje mummy water in the church who are on a mission to fullfil their selfish interest with the pretence that they'll be your girlfriend/wife.

You don't go to church to woo ladies, you go to church to give an appreciation.

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Re: What’s The Best Place And Time To Approach A Lady? by MrCork: 6:31am On Jan 27, 2022
binarymachine:
Is there really a perfect time to approach the people you care about? Often, men ask these questions as a way to get answers to a problem which is how best to approach a lady. I am sure you have seen a man all anxious and sweaty because he wants to talk to a particular lady. They say, to do this requires extreme carefulness and tactical as one flop from you could result to a rejection from the lady.

So, how best can a guy approach a lady, is there a special place and time? Well, the answer is neither a yes or no question. Rather it is subjective to several things. Okay, reason it out. Can you categorically say that the best time for asking a lady out is in the afternoon? Absolutely not. Okay, let’s assume that a lady did accept you in the afternoon, still the time had nothing to do with her acceptance.

So, what exactly is the right place and time? The right place and time to approach a lady is subject to moods, atmosphere/ settings and the manner in which you approach a lady.

1. In Approaching A Lady, First Be Sensitive:
Observe a person’s outlook and demeanor before walking up to say hi! What do you expect from a lady who seems to have a worried frown which is quite obvious? Do you expect she will give you attention when she has got a lot of stuff crowding her mind? The thing is she will not even spare you a glance, some might just get provoked and might become antagonistic.

2. Dess The Part:
A whole lot of men get a rejection because of how they look. I mean before you approach a lady ask yourself, if I were in her shoes will I accept me? The fact is some men care less about their appearance, assuming it does not matter, then when they get to a lady and she ignores them, they just conclude it is pride or that she is trying to feel herself.
And I ask, really is that it? A shave is necessary, have your hair cut or put in the best way, have a bath, brush your teeth and smell nice. Your outlook could just give you all the attention you need.

Observe the ambience of the place;- some persons might just get the first two points but not this point. Agreed, a place can give you the energy you need or dissipate it. When you are trying to talk to a lady, ask yourself if the setting is alright for such conversations. Will the energy in this environment give you positive results or downplay your little efforts, think about it before you make a move.

3. Be Clear In Your Speech:
Have you seen people who walk up to a person they want to have a conversation with then end up saying a lot of gibberish?
I have maybe you have too. You do not want to walk up to a lady, and have her give you attention then you end up saying incomprehensible things. You talk about going to a country and how the dogs in your neighborhood are dying. Be clear, concise and say your mind. It is your opportunity, take it. You may not have another.

4. Be Respectful:
Of course, there is a high possibility that a lady might just reject you. However, upon rejection do not act unlearned and let out the uncouth part of you. Respect the fact that she does not want to listen to you or hear what you have to say or just like you. Respect it, respect yourself and then walk away.

Often, some ladies reject approaches the first time and then have a change of heart, being respectful might just give you a second chance.
In life, there is no such thing as the perfect place or time when it comes to approaching the people we love. We create the perfect time and place, we make things happen by our right actions. Doing what is right and necessary as at when due is what gives us the results we need.
Source: https://flipmemes.com/2022/01/01/whats-the-best-place-and-time-to-approach-a-lady/

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Bro...nairaland romanse & foood section.....best places to catch womens...i gots 8 all ready sir..truss me!!(no oofenese) cheesy

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Re: What’s The Best Place And Time To Approach A Lady? by Aboks(m): 6:32am On Jan 27, 2022
Understanding english is a problem in naija

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Re: What’s The Best Place And Time To Approach A Lady? by Nobody: 6:35am On Jan 27, 2022
Totilopussylick:
People like you fall easily to an ogbanje mummy water in the church who are on a mission to fullfil their selfish interest with the pretence that they'll be your girlfriend/wife.

You don't go to church to woo ladies, you go to church to give an appreciation.
that`s how most of you end up with street girls or club girls who are in pretence

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Re: What’s The Best Place And Time To Approach A Lady? by Totilopussylick(m): 6:37am On Jan 27, 2022
YinkaOlusesi:
that`s how most of you end up with street girls or club girls who are in pretence
To be honest club girls and street girls turned out to be the best wife you could ever imagined tongue

And not sister Ngozi who would bore you with night vigil and early morning evangelism tongue tongue tongue

When you need to change oil on your third legs, you have to wait till she comes back from vigil or early morning evangelism cheesy

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Re: What’s The Best Place And Time To Approach A Lady? by Nobody: 6:39am On Jan 27, 2022
Totilopussylick:
To be honest club girls and street girls turned out to be the best wife you could ever imagined tongue
really? Nah lie, u cant conviced me.
Re: What’s The Best Place And Time To Approach A Lady? by MufasaLion: 6:43am On Jan 27, 2022
On the trip to the MOON and MARS.

cool cool cool

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Re: What’s The Best Place And Time To Approach A Lady? by Goldbw122: 7:09am On Jan 27, 2022
You can get a girl anywhere, but it depends on her character and tolerance of your own character that's will determine if the relationship will last.

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Re: What’s The Best Place And Time To Approach A Lady? by chatinent(m): 7:24am On Jan 27, 2022
On board.
Re: What’s The Best Place And Time To Approach A Lady? by pansophist(m): 7:55am On Jan 27, 2022
All the above only works if a girl already likes you. If she doesn't, even if you do all the above perfectly, the answer will still be rejection. But if she does, you may not abide by any of them. If you can just observe women like a scientist without judgment, cross checking their behaviours with your experiences, they will reveal themselves and their codes of conducts to you. They ain't that complicated.

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Re: What’s The Best Place And Time To Approach A Lady? by ceede2: 8:02am On Jan 27, 2022
...inbtwn 6:7am.



Thank me later
Re: What’s The Best Place And Time To Approach A Lady? by Torosk1(m): 8:06am On Jan 27, 2022
At ATM point and she will say yes without delay

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Re: What’s The Best Place And Time To Approach A Lady? by BuyAndSellStuff: 8:17am On Jan 27, 2022
This guy is always creating threads about impressing women.

Don't you have anything meaningful to do?

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Re: What’s The Best Place And Time To Approach A Lady? by zed7: 9:33am On Jan 27, 2022
This is outdated. People now slide into DM's. That's the modern way of 'toasting' a woman.
If she doesn't agree,you slides into the next ladies DM.

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Re: What’s The Best Place And Time To Approach A Lady? by womenareapess: 9:47am On Jan 27, 2022
binarymachine:
Is there really a perfect time to approach the people you care about? Often, men ask these questions as a way to get answers to a problem which is how best to approach a lady. I am sure you have seen a man all anxious and sweaty because he wants to talk to a particular lady. They say, to do this requires extreme carefulness and tactical as one flop from you could result to a rejection from the lady.

So, how best can a guy approach a lady, is there a special place and time? Well, the answer is neither a yes or no question. Rather it is subjective to several things. Okay, reason it out. Can you categorically say that the best time for asking a lady out is in the afternoon? Absolutely not. Okay, let’s assume that a lady did accept you in the afternoon, still the time had nothing to do with her acceptance.

So, what exactly is the right place and time? The right place and time to approach a lady is subject to moods, atmosphere/ settings and the manner in which you approach a lady.

1. In Approaching A Lady, First Be Sensitive:
Observe a person’s outlook and demeanor before walking up to say hi! What do you expect from a lady who seems to have a worried frown which is quite obvious? Do you expect she will give you attention when she has got a lot of stuff crowding her mind? The thing is she will not even spare you a glance, some might just get provoked and might become antagonistic.

2. Dess The Part:
A whole lot of men get a rejection because of how they look. I mean before you approach a lady ask yourself, if I were in her shoes will I accept me? The fact is some men care less about their appearance, assuming it does not matter, then when they get to a lady and she ignores them, they just conclude it is pride or that she is trying to feel herself.
And I ask, really is that it? A shave is necessary, have your hair cut or put in the best way, have a bath, brush your teeth and smell nice. Your outlook could just give you all the attention you need.

Observe the ambience of the place;- some persons might just get the first two points but not this point. Agreed, a place can give you the energy you need or dissipate it. When you are trying to talk to a lady, ask yourself if the setting is alright for such conversations. Will the energy in this environment give you positive results or downplay your little efforts, think about it before you make a move.

3. Be Clear In Your Speech:
Have you seen people who walk up to a person they want to have a conversation with then end up saying a lot of gibberish?
I have maybe you have too. You do not want to walk up to a lady, and have her give you attention then you end up saying incomprehensible things. You talk about going to a country and how the dogs in your neighborhood are dying. Be clear, concise and say your mind. It is your opportunity, take it. You may not have another.

4. Be Respectful:
Of course, there is a high possibility that a lady might just reject you. However, upon rejection do not act unlearned and let out the uncouth part of you. Respect the fact that she does not want to listen to you or hear what you have to say or just like you. Respect it, respect yourself and then walk away.

Often, some ladies reject approaches the first time and then have a change of heart, being respectful might just give you a second chance.
In life, there is no such thing as the perfect place or time when it comes to approaching the people we love. We create the perfect time and place, we make things happen by our right actions. Doing what is right and necessary as at when due is what gives us the results we need.
Source: https://flipmemes.com/2022/01/01/whats-the-best-place-and-time-to-approach-a-lady/

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Mukina2
simp! Keep chasing baboons and don't go and chase after money undecided

No woman on planet earth is worth chasing! Keep this at the back of your head undecided

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Re: What’s The Best Place And Time To Approach A Lady? by Mophor: 11:29am On Jan 27, 2022
Issokay!!!
Re: What’s The Best Place And Time To Approach A Lady? by Nobody: 12:02pm On Jan 27, 2022
Best place:Hell. Time: Enternity
Re: What’s The Best Place And Time To Approach A Lady? by Premiumwriter: 12:31pm On Jan 27, 2022
YinkaOlusesi:
If it`s truly a serious relationship that can lead to marriage i think The best place to approach is Church. and it should be done after church service.
so people that don't go to church can't marry again.

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Re: What’s The Best Place And Time To Approach A Lady? by Qatar2022: 12:43pm On Jan 27, 2022
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YinkaOlusesi:
If it`s truly a serious relationship that can lead to marriage i think The best place to approach is Church. and it should be done after church service.
Very wrong, if you have this mindset please get ready to marry the worst woman in Nigeria because they're inside church pretending to be what they're not

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Re: What’s The Best Place And Time To Approach A Lady? by Qatar2022: 12:44pm On Jan 27, 2022
binarymachine:
Is there really a perfect time to approach the people you care about? Often, men ask these questions as a way to get answers to a problem which is how best to approach a lady. I am sure you have seen a man all anxious and sweaty because he wants to talk to a particular lady. They say, to do this requires extreme carefulness and tactical as one flop from you could result to a rejection from the lady.

So, how best can a guy approach a lady, is there a special place and time? Well, the answer is neither a yes or no question. Rather it is subjective to several things. Okay, reason it out. Can you categorically say that the best time for asking a lady out is in the afternoon? Absolutely not. Okay, let’s assume that a lady did accept you in the afternoon, still the time had nothing to do with her acceptance.

So, what exactly is the right place and time? The right place and time to approach a lady is subject to moods, atmosphere/ settings and the manner in which you approach a lady.

1. In Approaching A Lady, First Be Sensitive:
Observe a person’s outlook and demeanor before walking up to say hi! What do you expect from a lady who seems to have a worried frown which is quite obvious? Do you expect she will give you attention when she has got a lot of stuff crowding her mind? The thing is she will not even spare you a glance, some might just get provoked and might become antagonistic.

2. Dess The Part:
A whole lot of men get a rejection because of how they look. I mean before you approach a lady ask yourself, if I were in her shoes will I accept me? The fact is some men care less about their appearance, assuming it does not matter, then when they get to a lady and she ignores them, they just conclude it is pride or that she is trying to feel herself.
And I ask, really is that it? A shave is necessary, have your hair cut or put in the best way, have a bath, brush your teeth and smell nice. Your outlook could just give you all the attention you need.

Observe the ambience of the place;- some persons might just get the first two points but not this point. Agreed, a place can give you the energy you need or dissipate it. When you are trying to talk to a lady, ask yourself if the setting is alright for such conversations. Will the energy in this environment give you positive results or downplay your little efforts, think about it before you make a move.

3. Be Clear In Your Speech:
Have you seen people who walk up to a person they want to have a conversation with then end up saying a lot of gibberish?
I have maybe you have too. You do not want to walk up to a lady, and have her give you attention then you end up saying incomprehensible things. You talk about going to a country and how the dogs in your neighborhood are dying. Be clear, concise and say your mind. It is your opportunity, take it. You may not have another.

4. Be Respectful:
Of course, there is a high possibility that a lady might just reject you. However, upon rejection do not act unlearned and let out the uncouth part of you. Respect the fact that she does not want to listen to you or hear what you have to say or just like you. Respect it, respect yourself and then walk away.

Often, some ladies reject approaches the first time and then have a change of heart, being respectful might just give you a second chance.
In life, there is no such thing as the perfect place or time when it comes to approaching the people we love. We create the perfect time and place, we make things happen by our right actions. Doing what is right and necessary as at when due is what gives us the results we need.
Source: https://flipmemes.com/2022/01/01/whats-the-best-place-and-time-to-approach-a-lady/

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It doesn't have time, if you see a girl you like just go for her, two things is involved, either she will agree or disagree

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Re: What’s The Best Place And Time To Approach A Lady? by slawormiir: 1:14pm On Jan 27, 2022
Damnnn niggar

There is no rules to approaching a lady

The only thing I noticed is that we niggarrrrs should not approach them when they are with their friends

It reduces the chances of them flowing well with you

Even if a woman likes you .....she can not communicate with you well when her friends are around

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Re: What’s The Best Place And Time To Approach A Lady? by Randal: 1:14pm On Jan 27, 2022
As the spirit leads

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Re: What’s The Best Place And Time To Approach A Lady? by INTEGRITYA1(m): 1:14pm On Jan 27, 2022
Okay

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Re: What’s The Best Place And Time To Approach A Lady? by bilo1(m): 1:14pm On Jan 27, 2022
boring

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Re: What’s The Best Place And Time To Approach A Lady? by FRANKOSKI(m): 1:15pm On Jan 27, 2022
OF ALL THE PROBLEMS THAT NIGERIA IS FACING ?
Re: What’s The Best Place And Time To Approach A Lady? by tillaman(m): 1:15pm On Jan 27, 2022
sad

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