Madam tell him that the children will hate him and he he get old the children won't take care of him

There was that man that loved you so much and treated you nicely but you left him for a rascal. Now you are enjoying the dividend of your decision congratulations!

dacblogger:
Quick question... Is he from Abia state?
Meanwhile, do you have brothers? If you do, let them gather and give him joint beating that will reset his head.

u are on point o, my yeye neighbor turned his beautiful wife into boxing bag until last year . The woman invited her brothers from warri to come n teach d husband some life lessons. If u c d beating chei d man run leave axe since den d yeye man don calm .

Please tell your family members to do something about it oo na who dey alive dey get husband.

I would ask u to get him arrested and sue him for Abuse and domestic violence.

But that's if u can pay ur bills.

Reason I always advise women to Hustle and make their money in case ur man becomes toxic, u walkaway and possibly treat his fuckup to reset his Brain.

wahala

SmellySperm:
He flogs you with cane? Is he a classroom teacher?

Very bad and it's like you guys didn't date or you saw the signs but you decide to make him change

franchasng:
Not true, there is no justification for the man's beastly attitude towards his wife and kids.



Before you say jerk, I am a happily married young man too and I cant imagine what my wife would do to warrant me raising my hands on her, ah, it is never possible even if they bewitch me, lailai.


Even my son, I cant raise my hands on him.


Growing up, I learnt that I had an annoying kiddie character and always selecting foods. Despite this, my parents didn't kill me cos of that, in fact only my dad used to flog me once in a while and it made me disliked him so much. Whereas my mother that hardly beat me but will give me one kind stern look, I feared and respected her even more than my dad that used to flog me.



Flogging or going physical against someone will never make the person respect you. The person might end up fearing and hating you for life

I am not in support of the man's action.
Don't forget, I have said it before that I have never and will never raise my hands against my wife. It depends on how one controls his emotion.

But wat did u do i dont like jumping into conclusion
Tell us wat u did

That ur husband must be stupid. What will ever make a man flog a woman you are married to. He is a shameful man.

fortuneerondu:


You call this a little misunderstanding? Wow. Now I really see what women mean when they protest against these things. There are certain lines you don't cross and one of them is physical harm. Once physical harm becomes the issue, you're safer and better off loving from afar, so pack your bags and leave. You haven't divorced him, you're giving him time to figure out his shit and if he decides to change then you come back and if he does it again then leave for good but most times perpetrators of physical violence never give their victims a chance to leave for good. The next time they beat you may be your last time on earth because they'll beat you to death knowing fully well that you might leave again


Some men can be cowards sha...

dacblogger:
Quick question... Is he from Abia state?
Meanwhile, do you have brothers? If you do, let them gather and give him joint beating that will reset his head.

please, why did you mention Abia state

From flogging, it will become punching....

When you're truly tired, you'll report to the police....

But it seems you're still trying to protect your marriage... Or avoid divorce...

When you they enjoy the man you no call us.

Maybe you no get value, no work, no school, category of women that wait for their husband for everything.

teddybarz:
Na here we go see our NAIRALAND LADIES


See them. . . if na other topic. They no go come up.


Nw wey dey don flog their female gender sas them dey display their behaviour
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bunch of weaklings (in fernandezisback voice)

sazzyyarns:
My husband flogs me with cane and belt whenever we have an altercation. We are not newly weds and by now we should have understood each other.

He never apologizes when we reconcile instead he says i should stop doing things that provoke him (which doesnt include me going physical, so its not even in self defence). At this point im really just frustrated!!!
He flogs me in the presence of the kids, sometimes he flogs them and then flogs me too.

What do you want?

Know that he can't change, so what do you really want?

What do you want us to do? If we say park out, you go gree park out? Keep doing what you know how to do best madam: BEAR AM. I just pray your body isn't sent back in a box soonest to your family.

sageb:


Senibo, be calming down oooo
You want cause vawulence for your sister's house/marriage.
Pasisi ye, dialogue with the man first
Diplomacy is better.

Imbire, I don hear you. But when diploma fail to yield the required dividend, then the stick approach will be deploy in full force.

apple30:
wahala

Big wahala

When we were younger I and my two male siblings witnessed my pop hit my mom countless tones over mundane issues it happened for over a decade and we witnessed it all until we came of age one day he decided to strike again omooooo we gather hold am cos he’s a big man we held him and put him down he struggled but couldn’t overpower us we had become real strong men then we told him the next time he tried to hit moms he’d get beat lol and that marked the end

Thank him for floging you, now stop doing the shit that makes him flogs you.

You have a good husband

sazzyyarns:
My husband flogs me with cane and belt whenever we have an altercation. We are not newly weds and by now we should have understood each other.

He never apologizes when we reconcile instead he says i should stop doing things that provoke him (which doesnt include me going physical, so its not even in self defence). At this point im really just frustrated!!!
He flogs me in the presence of the kids, sometimes he flogs them and then flogs me too.

sazzyyarns:
My husband flogs me with cane and belt whenever we have an altercation. We are not newly weds and by now we should have understood each other.

He never apologizes when we reconcile instead he says i should stop doing things that provoke him (which doesnt include me going physical, so its not even in self defence). At this point im really just frustrated!!!
He flogs me in the presence of the kids, sometimes he flogs them and then flogs me too.

Ohhh no!
I am sorry to say this but you need to leave your marriage & take your kids with you asap!
A marital life where a couple would hit each other is not a healthy environment to raise children!
Please leave for your emotional well being and that of your children!
Its well!

You're very wick woman that's why your husband never apologized to you ..live now before its to late sorry for your kids

YinkaOlusesi:
husband house your foot, are you not going to get married atall?

The op is not in a husband’s house, she’s in a torture house.
Is that what marriage is about?

This is domestic violence and it always progresses and finally becomes deadly. It’s either he kills you or you blow his head off from the constant abuse. And those kids, please protect them until they are old enough to protect you.

sazzyyarns:
My husband flogs me with cane and belt whenever we have an altercation. We are not newly weds and by now we should have understood each other.

He never apologizes when we reconcile instead he says i should stop doing things that provoke him (which doesnt include me going physical, so its not even in self defence). At this point im really just frustrated!!!
He flogs me in the presence of the kids, sometimes he flogs them and then flogs me too.

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I am happy for you. I just pray you survive. This is the price you pay for when greed and age consideration was your factor when choosing him. Shalom let him beat the hell out of you , so that next time you will use your head well.

hmmmmmm

Wait o, you guys no dey think wella,
Her husband dey flog her and uns dey shout.
Flog her wit what? Fit be d man dey flog her wit cassava

Vivian16:
Don't call it fake story oo, worst things do happen nowadays, my next door neighbour does things worst than this to his wife, could u believe that this man has gone to the extent of commanding his wife to open her legs in their living room he plugged his clipper and shaved her vagina hair, he accused the wife of having a boy friend and the only way the wife could prove her innocence is to open her legs for him to shave her, beating the woman in the presence of the children and in the street is normal occurrence.

Nawaoo

sazzyyarns:
My husband flogs me with cane and belt whenever we have an altercation. We are not newly weds and by now we should have understood each other.

He never apologizes when we reconcile instead he says i should stop doing things that provoke him (which doesnt include me going physical, so its not even in self defence). At this point im really just frustrated!!!
He flogs me in the presence of the kids, sometimes he flogs them and then flogs me too.

If you can continue to endure the humiliation and trauma, pls do

But what he is doing is giving him a bad impression from the children

When the time comes which is around the corner, those children will frustrate him all days and you know what that means for hkm at old age

By then you would have outgrown his wickedness and the children would have been stable in life

Every thing is turn by turn

That's about the least she can do.

YinkaOlusesi:
what message are you trying to pass to her, she should packed out from her husband house

Nonexisting:
What kind of alterations? What do you normally do to warrant such. Don't come here with half baked information.

You are stupid!!! Nothing warrants a man flogging a woman not to talk of his wife. Madam you are raising your kids in a toxic environment. I bet your husband’s father flogged his mother. Get a job and get out of that place. Better still take your kids and go back to your father’s house before he kills you.