Is it women generally?

Perhaps you should have specified "African Women"based on how most of us view things in this part of the world.

This is because in the West, all the burden are shared by both parties to the union.

Doing the dishes or laundry, dropping or picking the kids to/from school, settling the bills etc aren't gender-based responsibilities.

That's why it's called MARRIAGE!

Dybala11:

They are only feminists when it doesn't involve them to make a meaningful contribution.

Yes .. as the man you need to provide however as the woman you become useless if you think it's a patnership, if you're a babymama and bring bastards attached and not able to safely carry kids YOURE USELESS... IF YOURE OVERWEIGHT ...sorry no hope . Unfortunately women are struggling jobs with men now and this is affecting you women. Let men provide and women nurture. You will be happier.

I agree with you to a great extent. Just that times have changed. Before we had just working fathers and supporting wifes. Now it's working parents and even husband support there wife's (I know I do). So calm down.the way you de vex now. E bi like say you won scattered the "Table"


Note: am not holding brief for irresponsible man that live their responsibilities to there wives.

elantraceey:


Yeah. I don't mean making money is easy tho, it's certainly not but if I could choose between providing money for the home and every other thing including child bearing, I'll certainly choose money.

I see.

Boland:
Hello ma'am,

I think those guys are confused.

I get your point.

You can't claim masculinity and still hold on to the idea of women being equal providers with regards to finance.

I think the Op is right.

"Fathers are the source, basically (source of direction, knowledge, security and impact), while the mother nurtures."
I believe this is the fundamental structure of the family as ordained by God. ( I stand to be corrected).

The modern day system of the family is as a result of men and women's failure to play their respective roles.
Men became dogs and women retaliated by being feminists (the modern day feminist).

It's just sad!

Hey, sir,

You made a lot of sense too. Yup. That's the point. They are very confused people who want to eat their cakes and have it. Reap the benefits of equality, but squashing its uncomfortable side.

I have no problem as to what you believe - long as it ain't detrimental to women in any way.

It's you that called the men dogs o. Even though you attempted to juxtapose it by calling the women feminists, I don't consider that an insult.

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

I'm a very traditional man and while your opinion might be considered outdated by some, I think I respect it.
That's the original order of things.
A man provides and a woman organizes the provision.

Workch:
The Bible is a rubbish book written by bronze age nomads, I don't take anything written there seriously as they are myths and fictions just like Spiderman comic.

Just get your religious stuff outta this thread. Religious African expert

The ONLY thing I feel for you is PITY, sorrowful PITY.
The Bronze Age nomads cooked Garri and Amala, and you didn't reject the rubbish foods they invented or discovered how to cook.
Why don't you reject and despise the ways they did things that you Modern Age atheists now embrace and copy?
Can you see why atheists are called fools?
They don't think straight and deep.
If you reject the Bible that Bronze Age nomads wrote, you MUST reject also every other thing that Bronze Age nomads did that you now imitate and copy.
Stop using hot water to cook food.
Stop digging wells to get drinking water.
Stop roasting meat.
Give us your own modern sophisticated ways of doing what those ancient folks you so much despise bequeathed to us.
I like to see fools advertise and publicize their folly.
It's not too late to humble yourself, repent from your foolishness and receive Jesus into your life.
Shalom.

Gospel2Day:


The ONLY thing I feel for you is PITY, sorrowful PITY.
The Bronze Age nomads cooked Garri and Amala, and you didn't reject the rubbish foods they invented or discovered how to cook.
Why don't you reject and despise the ways they did things that you Modern Age atheists now embrace and copy?
Can you see why atheists are called fools?
They don't think straight and deep.
If you reject the Bible that Bronze Age nomads wrote, you MUST reject also every other thing that Bronze Age nomads did that you now imitate and copy.
Stop using hot water to cook food.
Stop digging wells to get drinking water.
Stop roasting meat.
Give us your own modern sophisticated ways of doing what those ancient folks you so much despise bequeathed to us.
I like to see fools advertise and publicize their folly.
It's not too late to humble yourself, repent from your foolishness and receive Jesus into your life.
Shalom.

The Bible is myth like other religious books.
Deal with it and stop acting like a brainwashed dude.

If you want to talk about the topic, do it without injecting your self-deluded religious beliefs into it.

UnusualEmissary:
People ask what a woman is bringing in terms of finance; as if finance is all that is needed to run a successful union

A woman does bring her share to the table. What she does in the home, the efforts she takes, the sacrifices she makes to ensure the well-being and happiness of the husband and the children is worth as much or maybe even more than finance.

My Lady, the future of women who think like you do is bright in The New Era. Keep it up.

This is however not to mean that a woman cannot be educated or shouldn't have to work. But it's not her primary role to provide in terms of finance. Of course, there's nothing wrong if she supports in that regard. That's the point.

Don't forget that there's no guarantee in this life. A woman should be ready to support her family financially in case anything happens to the husband

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

Don't forget that there's no guarantee in life. Some women end up losing their husbands along the way. Women are better off being able to support their family financially if need be

ProphetofOdin:
Una like trouble for this forum ehn!!!!
Where una dey even get power for these online quarrels?

after eating the food their parents foods, dey go On AC or fan and come online

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

this your statement hit me, your money is our money, my money is my money

Sekoni003:
K

Princess80:
thanks dear, at least there is someone who understands. Not the wannabe redpillers who has redefined redpill to suit their own narratives

Hmmm so you have also known the redpill tueehhh

Phaantom22:
I thought what a man can do a woman can do better? You better wakeup from your slumber.

namiji2598:
after eating the food their parents foods, dey go On AC or fan and come online

Obviously.

Magnoliaa:


Hey, sir,

You made a lot of sense too. Yup. That's the point. They are very confused people who want to eat their cakes and have it. Reap the benefits of equality, but squashing its uncomfortable side.

I have no problem as to what you believe - long as it ain't detrimental to women in any way.

It's you that called the men dogs o. Even though you attempted to juxtapose it by calling the women feminists, I don't consider that an insult.

It beats me that males would think like these guys, it's just against masculinity and logic.
Masculinity embraces logic and truth and not emotions. These guys are practically playing the emotional game they claim to hate. These things are core symptoms of weakness; men who can't embrace truth because it hurts their feelings. It's just so sad!

By the way, ma'am, if you have no problem with what I believe then you can't claim to be a feminist, though you chose to be the fundamental one but the whole idea of feminism has failed.
Women have become men hater in the process and have refused to embrace the truth about the differences between the male and female gender to suit their narative.

You may claim that your own belief is different, but know that as long as you call yourself a feminist, you are in the same clan and it's just a matter of time till you embrace the "updated" idea of feminism especially when your belief is tested with spotlight.

Boland:


It beats me that males would think like these guys, it's just against masculinity and logic.
Masculinity embraces logic and truth and not emotions. These guys are practically playing the emotional game they claim to hate. These things are core symptoms of weakness; men who can't embrace truth because it hurts their feelings. It's just so sad!

By the way, ma'am, if you have no problem with what I believe then you can't claim to be a feminist, though you chose to be the fundamental one but the whole idea of feminism has failed.
Women have become men hater in the process and have refused to embrace the truth about the differences between the male and female gender to suit their narative.

You may claim that your own belief is different, but know that as long as you call yourself a feminist, you are in the same clan and it's just a matter of time till you embrace the "updated" idea of feminism especially when your belief is tested with spotlight.

K

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

totally supported . Na only broke guys dey scream what are bringing to the table. For me, I totally believe that the woman is not even suppose to work or stress herself for money. This is why all the women in my family no dey carry me play. I give them the option of not working if they don't want to and I still provide all they need

NOTE, THIS IS ONLY FOR WOMEN, NOT FOR OLOSHOS , OKPOS , OR SOME USELESS FEMINIST. I do not classify any of the groups I mentioned as women.

Abfinest007:
Entitlement mentality.good girls in the house please don't listen to this trash cuz d bible says woman be submissive to ur husband .it also say woman is a helpmate to the man

you typed pure trash

richPHAROAH:
totally supported . Na only broke guys dey scream what are bringing to the table. For me, I totally believe that the woman is not even suppose to work or stress herself for money. This is why all the women in my family no dey carry me play. I give them the option of not working if they don't want to and I still provide all they need

NOTE, THIS IS ONLY FOR WOMEN, NOT FOR OLOSHOS , OKPOS , OR SOME USELESS FEMINIST. I do not classify any of the groups I mentioned as women.

Good for you. You will die before your time though....that's just the only thing.... while your "wife" that you labor so hard for watches TV all day and eventually shares your property.

alphaNomega:
You are a punishment to mankind

mad oh, you mean she is useless, After her parents spent their hard earned money to send her to school

BigBashiru:


Good for you. You will die before your time though....that's just the only thing.... while your "wife" that you labor so hard for watches TV all day and eventually shares your property.

typical naija broke ass guy mentality. I am rich to a point where carrying the burdens of all the females in my family can't affect my lifespan. I just bought a 5million naira cuban Gold in my sister's name. All my properties are bought with the name of the females of my family. And yes the goal is that if I accidentally die before my time, non of the females will be poor like the richest in your broke ass family. Go and hustle legally bro

richPHAROAH:
typical naija broke ass guy mentality. I am rich to a point where carrying the burdens of all the females in my family can't affect my lifespan. I just bought a 5million naira cuban Gold in my sister's name. All my properties are bought with the name of the females of my family. And yes the goal is that if I accidentally die before my time, non of the females will be poor like the richest in your broke ass family. Go and hustle legally bro

Ur not rich. Rich men don't come to a public forum to brag about it.

It will eventually affect your lifespan even if rich. Watch and see.

BigBashiru:


Ur not rich. Rich men don't come to a public forum to brag about it.

It will eventually affect your lifespan even if rich. Watch and see.

you mean rich men like obi cubana or emoney or cubana chief no dey come online to brag abi?
Don't go and hustle . Keep sucking from women

richPHAROAH:
you mean rich men like obi cubana or emoney or cubana chief no dey come online to brag abi?
Don't go and hustle . Keep sucking from women

They dont. Ur non virgin wife go use u tire sha....

Sonnobax15:

Wahala for any Guyman wey go mistakenly put you for house in the name of wife . No punishment go fit big pass that one

Haha

dontrulee:
You're not created to bring anything to the table abi ? but you want to collect everything from the table including the table itself, continue!

Haha in the table

toujurs:
mad oh, you mean she is useless, After her parents spent their hard earned money to send her to school

she is the type of woman your mother prays you don't meet

alphaNomega:
she is the type of woman your mother prays you don't meet

Why do you think, mother in laws, always have issues with the wife, it's definitely because women know what they are capable of doing. Exploiting and taking advantage. So the groom mother out of love, won't like her son, going through such manipulations. Most of these girls don't have worth, just have money, you will use them however you like and they will come still bck to you at your mercy. If u see the way these ikoyi and v.i big boys Bleep these girls and dispose, my heart was bleeding. Because my future wife could be one of these girls, these boys are treating this bad, Most ladies lack contentment, thats why they are easily taken advantage of, by these big boys, even the Said big boys don't know what it means to make money from scratch, its their father's that made the wealth, and won't have been lavishing the way they do

richPHAROAH:
typical naija broke ass guy mentality. I am rich to a point where carrying the burdens of all the females in my family can't affect my lifespan. I just bought a 5million naira cuban Gold in my sister's name. All my properties are bought with the name of the females of my family. And yes the goal is that if I accidentally die before my time, non of the females will be poor like the richest in your broke ass family. Go and hustle legally bro

See this broke animal, claiming wealth he doesn't have, i am working for a billionaire at parkview estate. He is as prudent as a someone starting a business, and very very carefull, spending money. I can bet, with this shit you typed, you don't have anything, you are just a wanna be.