dominique:
There I was thinking your so-called fiance had some sort of terminal illness till I got to the part where some pastor predicted death on a person he has never met before. And you believed him? It's either that "anty" of yours doesn't want you to marry your fiancee or she wants you to remain single. Better use your head, a strange pastor predicted death on your fiancee and you were so quick to believe. That shows the kind of shallow minded person you are. If I was your fiance and I find out that you're visiting strange pastors because of me, I would never want to have anything to do with you again.

funshint:

Pls screenshot this comment...in some years to come you'll laugh at your naivity.

dominique:
There I was thinking your so-called fiance had some sort of terminal illness till I got to the part where some pastor predicted death on a person he has never met before. And you believed him? It's either that "anty" of yours doesn't want you to marry your fiancee or she wants you to remain single. Better use your head, a strange pastor predicted death on your fiancee and you were so quick to believe. That shows the kind of shallow minded person you are. If I was your fiance and I find out that you're visiting strange pastors because of me, I would never want to have anything to do with you again.

Judybash93:
I don't blame you. I blame the stupid government that enabled corruption thereby disenabling quality education. If not, people like you would be writing quality research papers on how to move this nation forward in different fields and not running to different pastors to find different answers to crap.

Ghostreader13:
If this your story is really true.. There are two red flags in your fiancé..

How come some who has been disturbing you to pray about the supposed marriage, suddenly told you not to go to the pastor again??

How come he knew you still went to the pastor even without you telling him
According to your write up, you said he called you "iyawo mi, have u seen what you wanted to see"...??

To me I feel he is hiding something from you about his life... I won't tell you to marry him or not, the choice is yours.

AdesewaAde:
I’m really heartbroken and I don’t know how to go about this,I’ve been feeling cold since then.

I will make it brief,we are set to pick our wedding date,so we were having a discussion on phone last week and he asked me why I haven’t even prayed about our relationship,it was then I remembered that it never crossed my mind to do so,I just told him I’m not a kind of person who move from one pastor to another but I believe in my dreams,meanwhile I haven’t dreamt about him since we’ve been dating which is unusual,he insisted I must go and after lot of talkings,I told him I have an Anty who I’m sure will take me to somewhere but since then we did not talk about it .

Three days ago,he messaged me and told me that won’t I go to the place again,it was then I decided to call my anty and she said we will go to a place today,I immediately told him what she said and he said no problem.

This morning,he messaged that I shouldn’t go there again,I told him my anty will think i took her for granted,I insisted I will go,so I called my Anty and she said we should suspend it till evening,I immediately messaged him that we are not going again and he was happy .

This evening,I called my Anty and she said I should meet her at home and we headed to church,on getting there,the pastor prayed and he said,I shouldn’t marry him cause he came with a very short life ,that he will soon die and there is nothing I can do to help the situation,I wasn’t satisfied and my Anty said we should try two more places,they all said the same thing.
I just summoned up courage to get home and meditate on everything,I was still on it when he called,and the first thing he asked was that “Iyawo,you’ve seen wetin you wan see and wetin you wan hear now,wetin you go do now? I was dumbfounded cause I didn’t tell him I will later go,now he has been asking what I was told there,I don’t know how to tell him the truth and I’ve been afraid sitting alone in the house since then,I suddenly started having this feeling that a ghost is sitting next to me. Can’t even stand the chance of visiting him cause I don’t know how I will feel looking at him and knowing he will soon die.

He is a good man,he’s caring ,hardworking and romantic,don’t want such a handsome guy to die just like that,I’m really sad right now .

immortalcrown:
Madam, if you do not marry him and he surprisingly lives long, you will regret it.

If you marry him and he dies soon, you will not be so traumatized because you already anticipate his sudden death.

If you do not marry him and he dies soon, you will regret not being his wife when he was alive.

Therefore, you will be more at peace if you marry him, irrespective of whether he dies or lives. But the big question is does he want to marry you. Is he interested in marriage? It might be that he is just getting a good romance from a lady who mistakenly expects marriage as her reward. Do not be the one to talk about marriage again. Let him be the one to push for it. If he does not, then you will come to a clear understanding of his mission in your life. Stop being foolish.

But all those pastors are not helpful at all. None of them told you what is most important. The most important thing is to know who he is and which spirit operates in him. Ask yourself how he knew you visited pastors. Find out if he possesses a bad spirit and if the spirit has affected you negatively.

AdesewaAde:

And who is holding you from writing your own research?

Judybash93:


If you need links to my published articles, please dm me

Nathyezz:
Well my own contribution is "ladies of these days has forgotten the days of little beginning, all they want is the guys that is made it". That guy that has it made is somebody else partner that they are about to snatch away from her. In these contemporary world we priotize MONEY above LOVE, no wahala in years to come I pray we all live to share the testimonies. From your writeup, he's doing well. Aunty there are guys loitering around your neighborhood with LIFE, stop these GOLD DIGGING and concentrate on your FUTURE

dominique:
There I was thinking your so-called fiance had some sort of terminal illness till I got to the part where some pastor predicted death on a person he has never met before. And you believed him? It's either that "anty" of yours doesn't want you to marry your fiancee or she wants you to remain single. Better use your head, a strange pastor predicted death on your fiancee and you were so quick to believe. That shows the kind of shallow minded person you are. If I was your fiance and I find out that you're visiting strange pastors because of me, I would never want to have anything to do with you again.

AdesewaAde:
I’m really heartbroken and I don’t know how to go about this,I’ve been feeling cold since then.

I will make it brief,we are set to pick our wedding date,so we were having a discussion on phone last week and he asked me why I haven’t even prayed about our relationship,it was then I remembered that it never crossed my mind to do so,I just told him I’m not a kind of person who move from one pastor to another but I believe in my dreams,meanwhile I haven’t dreamt about him since we’ve been dating which is unusual,he insisted I must go and after lot of talkings,I told him I have an Anty who I’m sure will take me to somewhere but since then we did not talk about it .

Three days ago,he messaged me and told me that won’t I go to the place again,it was then I decided to call my anty and she said we will go to a place today,I immediately told him what she said and he said no problem.

This morning,he messaged that I shouldn’t go there again,I told him my anty will think i took her for granted,I insisted I will go,so I called my Anty and she said we should suspend it till evening,I immediately messaged him that we are not going again and he was happy .

This evening,I called my Anty and she said I should meet her at home and we headed to church,on getting there,the pastor prayed and he said,I shouldn’t marry him cause he came with a very short life ,that he will soon die and there is nothing I can do to help the situation,I wasn’t satisfied and my Anty said we should try two more places,they all said the same thing.
I just summoned up courage to get home and meditate on everything,I was still on it when he called,and the first thing he asked was that “Iyawo,you’ve seen wetin you wan see and wetin you wan hear now,wetin you go do now? I was dumbfounded cause I didn’t tell him I will later go,now he has been asking what I was told there,I don’t know how to tell him the truth and I’ve been afraid sitting alone in the house since then,I suddenly started having this feeling that a ghost is sitting next to me. Can’t even stand the chance of visiting him cause I don’t know how I will feel looking at him and knowing he will soon die.

He is a good man,he’s caring ,hardworking and romantic,don’t want such a handsome guy to die just like that,I’m really sad right now .

mediainc:
You believe in dreams, and your aunty believe in babalawo pastor. You no wan marry the paddy...if paddy man come with G wagon, you for don dream since

AdesewaAde:

Just leave me alone

AdesewaAde:

What scared me most was how he knew I later went there and the way he directed the question to me,even last night when he insisted I must tell him what I was told and I cooked up a lie for him,he told me that a person who is lying knows she is lying.

AdesewaAde:
I’m really heartbroken and I don’t know how to go about this,I’ve been feeling cold since then.

I will make it brief,we are set to pick our wedding date,so we were having a discussion on phone last week and he asked me why I haven’t even prayed about our relationship,it was then I remembered that it never crossed my mind to do so,I just told him I’m not a kind of person who move from one pastor to another but I believe in my dreams,meanwhile I haven’t dreamt about him since we’ve been dating which is unusual,he insisted I must go and after lot of talkings,I told him I have an Anty who I’m sure will take me to somewhere but since then we did not talk about it .

Three days ago,he messaged me and told me that won’t I go to the place again,it was then I decided to call my anty and she said we will go to a place today,I immediately told him what she said and he said no problem.

This morning,he messaged that I shouldn’t go there again,I told him my anty will think i took her for granted,I insisted I will go,so I called my Anty and she said we should suspend it till evening,I immediately messaged him that we are not going again and he was happy .

This evening,I called my Anty and she said I should meet her at home and we headed to church,on getting there,the pastor prayed and he said,I shouldn’t marry him cause he came with a very short life ,that he will soon die and there is nothing I can do to help the situation,I wasn’t satisfied and my Anty said we should try two more places,they all said the same thing.
I just summoned up courage to get home and meditate on everything,I was still on it when he called,and the first thing he asked was that “Iyawo,you’ve seen wetin you wan see and wetin you wan hear now,wetin you go do now? I was dumbfounded cause I didn’t tell him I will later go,now he has been asking what I was told there,I don’t know how to tell him the truth and I’ve been afraid sitting alone in the house since then,I suddenly started having this feeling that a ghost is sitting next to me. Can’t even stand the chance of visiting him cause I don’t know how I will feel looking at him and knowing he will soon die.

He is a good man,he’s caring ,hardworking and romantic,don’t want such a handsome guy to die just like that,I’m really sad right now .

AdesewaAde:

What scared me most was how he knew I later went there and the way he directed the question to me,even last night when he insisted I must tell him what I was told and I cooked up a lie for him,he told me that a person who is lying knows she is lying.

heniford2:
If he die good for some because the will cook Rice and Free drinks 4 locals stop this shit in new year

AdesewaAde:

You are not wise

Nathyezz:
Well my own contribution is "ladies of these days has forgotten the days of little beginning, all they want is the guys that is made it". That guy that has it made is somebody else partner that they are about to snatch away from her. In these contemporary world we priotize MONEY above LOVE, no wahala in years to come I pray we all live to share the testimonies. From your writeup, he's doing well. Aunty there are guys loitering around your neighborhood with LIFE, stop these GOLD DIGGING and concentrate on your FUTURE