I don't know if this is normal. I've never had a relationship in my life
I just find it difficult and feel it is a disturbance to my life and career. Although I'm the introverted type,I can stay indoor for as long as possible in as much as there is food ,water and internet. And even if I go out I frown to make me look unapproachable.
For example if someone ask me out today, I will block him on all social media platforms coz I think he's going to disturb my life.
Been the first child of the family, my mom is stylishly asking about my relationship life, infact she wants me to introduce my boyfriend to her since I've graduated from school but I've not opened up to her abt it.
Nairalanders, Do you think this is normal?
You can also help me on tips to stop this act coz honestly I'm tired[right][/right][left][/left]

its not normal

It is normal, you need to arrange your lifestyle, to fit your relationship, simple.

Baby girl. It is normal but hope you don't have any traumatizing experience with any males, it could be your father, brothers or male friends.

Also it seems you're more focused on your career, very good my friend. Men don't really have anything to offer you, only you can give yourself happiness

Tell your mum to pray for your success rather than asking for your boyfriend but I get your mum, maybe she thinks you're not attractive enough.

Focus on yourself and your career. When is time to date, you'll know.

I'm just like you too

It is normal not to have a relationship at 22 but what's abnormal is not having the feeling to have one at 22.

you and I are on same boat
even my friends are disturbing me, gossiping behind my back.
one of them made this statement earlier this week "me no understand you ooh, get into relationship and you will be mature " I JUST GAVE HIM/ER THE FEARFUL DEAD LOOK.




Nigerian men are cheap

Mennnnnnn,I support the fact that your mom is kinda pestering you to introduce the man who's in your life to her.....E good like that.....Na momsy wey value her pikin go act like that..

Well, Op,i think you should stop blocking your potential future suitors...Na people like una dey make FB and other social media platforms dey dey difficult for us to find wife Material these days...How can you just block a guy simply because he expressed his feelings for you?

Grow up babe .

Omo bro me and you dey rock the same boat oo

Feeyarh:
I don't know if this is normal. I've never had a relationship in my life
I just find it difficult and feel it is a disturbance to my life and career. Although I'm the introverted type,I can stay indoor for as long as possible in as much as there is food ,water and internet. And even if I go out I frown to make me look unapproachable.
For example if someone ask me out today, I will block him on all social media platforms coz I think he's going to disturb my life.
Been the first child of the family, my mom is stylishly asking about my relationship life, infact she wants me to introduce my boyfriend to her since I've graduated from school but I've not opened up to her abt it.
Nairalanders, Do you think this is normal?
You can also help me on tips to stop this act coz honestly I'm tired[right][/right][left][/left]

Sister u mean u HV not started collecting dick
Haa u r a late commer

It's normal

Preserve your CRYPTOCURRENCY account now , so that your Husband would be proud of you...


Don’t give any rugrat access to you account, if you try it , they would drain your account till it becomes wrinkled

Sonnobax15:

Mennnnnnn,I support the fact that your mom is kinda pestering you to introduce the man who's in your life to her.....E good like that.....Na momsy wey value her pikin go act like that..

Well, Op,i think you should stop blocking your potential future suitors...Na people like una dey make FB and other social media dey dey difficult for us to find wife Material these days...How can you just block a guy simply because he expressed his feelings for you?

Grow up babe .

Wife material just to heap responsibilities on her head.

Judging from your write up, 'you are an Introvert' that sums it all up. It's normal not to have had any relationship before, some people deliberately take the decision not to btw. If you want to change your relationship status you have to change your lifestyle too, go out more, grant healthy chats and explore the country more. May you find the one who keeps your heart at bay. Wish you all the best.

BlaqJosh:
It's normal

No it's not..
She's never had a boyfriend before, not even one. c'mon.

I'm sure the OP knows within herself that it's not proper.
@OP Try to loosen up and mingle. you can always bear your mind to any guy that shows interest in you, he'll likely understand and not pester you much. Infact most guys would prefer a lady that is stress free.

Dey there....Ur mate don born 3, u dey here dey ask Jamb Question.

Justice4Toto:




Sister u mean u HV not started collecting dick
Haa u r a late commer

Abnormal being spotted..

You should be place in a can close to a fire..

Truvelisback:
Dey there....Ur mate don born 3, u dey here dey ask Jamb Question.

Don't tell me you are Yoruba ?

Feeyarh:
I don't know if this is normal. I've never had a relationship in my life
I just find it difficult and feel it is a disturbance to my life and career. Although I'm the introverted type,I can stay indoor for as long as possible in as much as there is food ,water and internet. And even if I go out I frown to make me look unapproachable.
For example if someone ask me out today, I will block him on all social media platforms coz I think he's going to disturb my life.
Been the first child of the family, my mom is stylishly asking about my relationship life, infact she wants me to introduce my boyfriend to her since I've graduated from school but I've not opened up to her abt it.
Nairalanders, Do you think this is normal?
You can also help me on tips to stop this act coz honestly I'm tired[right][/right][left][/left]

First of all, can you suck a big dick very well for long?

Candidlady:


Abnormal being spotted..

You should be place in a can close to a fire..



Don't tell me you are Yoruba ?

This has nothing to do with any tribe. It's just the reality. Some ladies below her age are mothers. My point is that, she isn't too young.

Feeyarh:
I don't know if this is normal. I've never had a relationship in my life
I just find it difficult and feel it is a disturbance to my life and career. Although I'm the introverted type,I can stay indoor for as long as possible in as much as there is food ,water and internet. And even if I go out I frown to make me look unapproachable.
For example if someone ask me out today, I will block him on all social media platforms coz I think he's going to disturb my life.
Been the first child of the family, my mom is stylishly asking about my relationship life, infact she wants me to introduce my boyfriend to her since I've graduated from school but I've not opened up to her abt it.
Nairalanders, Do you think this is normal?
You can also help me on tips to stop this act coz honestly I'm tired[right][/right][left][/left]

Its normal considering you being an introvert..
Start getting out of ur shell n talking to girls bout ur feelings

Truvelisback:
This has nothing to do with any tribe. It's just the reality. Some ladies below her age are mothers. My point is that, she isn't too young.

Bance komaiba

Candidlady:

Bance komaiba

Ayeibe ekerimini ehn!

Feeyarh:
I don't know if this is normal. I've never had a relationship in my life
I just find it difficult and feel it is a disturbance to my life and career. Although I'm the introverted type,I can stay indoor for as long as possible in as much as there is food ,water and internet. And even if I go out I frown to make me look unapproachable.
For example if someone ask me out today, I will block him on all social media platforms coz I think he's going to disturb my life.
Been the first child of the family, my mom is stylishly asking about my relationship life, infact she wants me to introduce my boyfriend to her since I've graduated from school but I've not opened up to her abt it.
Nairalanders, Do you think this is normal?
You can also help me on tips to stop this act coz honestly I'm tired[right][/right][left][/left]

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it's very much normal...as you said you're are focusing on your career for now...my only advise is for a to be a little more friendly,interact a little though I understand you're an introvert but you could still relate with people you share similar interest with...and when a guy is wooing you and you ain't ready...tell him NO .. frowning to put off people or blocking guys ain't too good...so just relate more and always keep an open mind...YOUR CAREER IS MORE IMPORTANT AND TRUST ME;LOVE WILL DEFINITELY FIND YOU..wish you all the best

OP! DO NOT REPLY EMAILS FROM NAIRALAND MEN!!!! I REPEAT DO NOT REPLY EMAILS FROM NAIRALAND MEN!!!!!
Else if dem catch u dem go sample u like this guy

It is very normal.
Continue blocking them and focus more on your career.
Marriage is not for everybody.

Am 23, barely go out and never been in a relationship. There's nothing wrong with that. If not being in a relationship makes you happy, you are not doing anything wrong.
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It is your life and you get to decide what you want to do with it. You don't have to get into a relationship because everyone else is doing it, you have to do it because you want to do it. It's not do or die.

ops pls pardon me for my grammatical blunder, if any, it's perfectly normal not to be in a relationship at your age, don't let anybody tell you otherwise, when it's come to issue relating to love, it's can be find at anytime and it's as no age limit, sure you most have heard of people who find love in their 60's
For now just try to work on yourself and focus on your career, I am not saying you should put all your egg in one basket, you can grow with love, pls don't fall in love, cause you might not get up , try to work on your personality be friendly to people more especially stranger, how do you do these you may ask? try to give a lovely smile, cause smiling is indeed contagious.
That's the little I have to add, I don't want to talk too much on these here.

I don't need anything in relationship, just hit and go

We're very similar

Feeyarh:
I don't know if this is normal. I've never had a relationship in my life
I just find it difficult and feel it is a disturbance to my life and career. Although I'm the introverted type,I can stay indoor for as long as possible in as much as there is food ,water and internet. And even if I go out I frown to make me look unapproachable.
For example if someone ask me out today, I will block him on all social media platforms coz I think he's going to disturb my life.
Been the first child of the family, my mom is stylishly asking about my relationship life, infact she wants me to introduce my boyfriend to her since I've graduated from school but I've not opened up to her abt it.
Nairalanders, Do you think this is normal?
You can also help me on tips to stop this act coz honestly I'm tired[right][/right][left][/left]

Where are you, I'm single wanna mingle,,but are you bitiful?

Woh! It's normal
Don't disturb your head with relationship,no be child's play

I am 25 and am not in any relationship, did I die?

Most of the girls I thought I had a thing with, well friend zoned me so, I decided I will build up myself and be a better person.

You can't have a meaningful conversation with an average Nigerian girl, especially 23 down to 16 that's if you have tried dating them. You talk sense to them and its like you are talking to a brick wall.

That's why I wish I will date someone older than me sef. I don't blame naija guys bashing Nigerian girls upandan.

Sorry for my bad writing. Na naija we dey.