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Re: Signs That A Guy Is Never Going To Marry You by Lightened: 11:35am On Mar 15, 2022
Some guys don't know what they want, may still not do all these things and still not settle down...that's just the fact.
Re: Signs That A Guy Is Never Going To Marry You by francisisking: 11:35am On Mar 15, 2022
Ok
Re: Signs That A Guy Is Never Going To Marry You by timchogon81: 11:35am On Mar 15, 2022
Who even cares for a signs again this time when they see big bum bum and brezz

Re: Signs That A Guy Is Never Going To Marry You by Pele10: 11:35am On Mar 15, 2022
Joke signs
Re: Signs That A Guy Is Never Going To Marry You by Basicend: 11:35am On Mar 15, 2022
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Re: Signs That A Guy Is Never Going To Marry You by NaijaSumi: 11:35am On Mar 15, 2022
Get ya SNEAKERS @ affordable prize.

Don't dull

Re: Signs That A Guy Is Never Going To Marry You by seyz91(m): 11:35am On Mar 15, 2022
cheesy
Izprince:
When he plays virtual sport betting...
Re: Signs That A Guy Is Never Going To Marry You by Egbonbobo: 11:36am On Mar 15, 2022
Las las na cruise grin
Re: Signs That A Guy Is Never Going To Marry You by PrimadonnaO(f): 11:36am On Mar 15, 2022
This is what I think.

If you're with a guy who's of marriageable age, and well-off to get married but he isn't having those discussions or hasn't popped the question, please reevaluate that relationship.

He doesn't consider himself fit for marriage...

Or he doesn't consider you fit for him.

Both options aren't good.

If he comes back to you after all the wait, it may be because other girls have shown him pepper...

But then again, maybe you don't mind being the second option...

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Re: Signs That A Guy Is Never Going To Marry You by DSC7: 11:37am On Mar 15, 2022
Guy wey wan marry any girl no go loud am....
Re: Signs That A Guy Is Never Going To Marry You by Frank150: 11:37am On Mar 15, 2022
Man that will marry u will marry u.. just be responsible and meet a decent dude
Re: Signs That A Guy Is Never Going To Marry You by Nobody: 11:38am On Mar 15, 2022
That’s why you must take care of you until person wey go join you come… if you no help me when I drive Hyundai nothing in the Benz

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Re: Signs That A Guy Is Never Going To Marry You by Nobody: 11:43am On Mar 15, 2022
PalmsInTheSky:
Ladies are evil nowadays.

They will line up 8 guys and play with different heads and eventually end up with the useless one.

Marriage be like Ballon D Or



tongue tongue :- tongue
Re: Signs That A Guy Is Never Going To Marry You by NeoWanZaeed(m): 11:43am On Mar 15, 2022
Comrades


We will not talk..



Laughing..

Follow OP at your peril

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Re: Signs That A Guy Is Never Going To Marry You by emmyluizzz: 11:47am On Mar 15, 2022
iLegendd:
1. Your p*ssy smells
2. You're easily angry and you don't forgive easily
3. You're lazy and just wants food and sex, no exercise
4. You hate book — you can't teach children
5. You don't have a skill
6. You're using social media too much to chat with different guys you call your cousins or besties
7. You hate cooking or keeping the house clean
8. Feminism has eaten some parts of your brain and this makes you lack respect
9. You're arrogant
10. No sense of humor/boring in bed/in conversation
these are the real reasons
that nonsense op post up there are just big grammars

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Re: Signs That A Guy Is Never Going To Marry You by fergie001: 11:50am On Mar 15, 2022
paulolee:
when his friends always de call u dier wife bcox u sabi cook
You be suspect....
Re: Signs That A Guy Is Never Going To Marry You by trumpcoat(m): 11:51am On Mar 15, 2022
If he eventually remarrys you allow us to give you a nice painting on your walls
Re: Signs That A Guy Is Never Going To Marry You by honniemail(f): 11:52am On Mar 15, 2022
8. Feminism has eaten some parts of your brain

Illegend Eku ise anor I laughed all through the night and continued in my dreams... May the good lord forgive the murderous act you committed yesterday
Re: Signs That A Guy Is Never Going To Marry You by SimSonJu: 11:54am On Mar 15, 2022
Ksnnsns

Re: Signs That A Guy Is Never Going To Marry You by kayo8080: 12:01pm On Mar 15, 2022
Izprince:
When he plays virtual sport betting...

Lol
Re: Signs That A Guy Is Never Going To Marry You by Nobody: 12:01pm On Mar 15, 2022
This op is a dunce.No be money him go use do the marriage?
Re: Signs That A Guy Is Never Going To Marry You by Obyino: 12:21pm On Mar 15, 2022
grin grin watin go happen if he de too knack you well well
dayo23:
If he dey too knack u well well
Re: Signs That A Guy Is Never Going To Marry You by smile11s(m): 12:23pm On Mar 15, 2022
kellylacey:
You want him to commit to you and to marry you (plain and simple) but he seems oblivious of this desire of yours. You have waited hopefully for what seems like an eternity for him to pop the big but increasingly elusive question. You have dreamt about all the possible romantic ways and places that he could propose; you have found your mind wondering and fantasizing about it and you have even discussed it with all your gal pals BUT he seems to have no awareness of the need for a formal commitment to you. The puzzle for you is that he seems too really like you and everything between the two of you is great but he just seems clueless about marriage or commitment. You want him to commit to you and to marry you but you don't know whether he will ever marry you. What are the signs that a guy is never going to marry you?

1. He is completely content with the way things are and he says so. A guy that is never going to marry you will let you know. You will have discussed the possibility of marriage and he will have clearly told you that he does not think that a piece of paper will change the love and commitment that he has towards you. He will vilify marriage and work at convincing you that your relationship is great as it is and that marriage will not add anything to your relationship. The bottom line is that he simply does not want to marry you and you must deal with that fact. If marriage is critical to you then you must be prepared to call his bluff and demonstrate to him how serious this issue is to you by letting him know that if he doesn't marry you within a specific period then you will leave him... and you must be prepared to leave him if you make that ultimatum otherwise you shouldn't make it at all as it will just weaken your position even further and will ensure that he never marries you.

2. He tells you that you are not 'wife' material. A guy that is never going to marry you keeps telling you about the kind of gal he is expected to marry and how you just don't fit the specifications given. He makes it seem like it is other peoples fault. He will tell you that he really likes you BUT his mother or friends or culture or boss or 'whoever it is' expects him to marry a specific type of gal (which you clearly are not) and he just cannot disappoint these people or person. He paints himself as a victim of family or culture or career or whatever it is that he says 'prevents' him from marrying you. He repeatedly lets you know what a great gal you are and how unfair it is for his mother or boss or society or culture or whatever it is to forbid a marriage with you. He may or may not be a victim of powerful forces but clearly he is never going to marry you.

3. He show you that he is in love with another type of woman. A guy that is never going to marry you has settled for you. You are not what he really wants but you are better than nothing. He is with you because he doesn't want to be alone but you are not what he wants for a long term commitment or marriage. He is therefore never going to marry you until he losses all hope of ever getting the kind of gal that he wants. He will hold on to you as a backup plan but he will be extremely reluctant to move the relationship forward into marriage as he will be waiting for 'her'...the one he really desires and wants. Facing the reality that he is waiting for another can be extremely painful but if this is your situation then denial just hurts you and keeps you in a dead relationship with someone who doesn't think you are worthy. Facing reality helps you decide whether to break it off with him so as to give room for the possibility of another man to come into your life or to continue with him and to reduce the expectations you have of him.

4. He lets you know that he has made certain wrong assumptions about you. A guy that is never going to marry you may have certain preconceptions about you. He may believe that you want to do other things with your life instead of marrying him or he may think that you would never marry someone like him or he may not know how important marriage is to you. You need to clearly communicate with him so that he knows exactly what you want from life and from your relationship with him. If you do not make it clear then you will grow increasingly angry and he will go about blissfully ignorant of what it is that you want. Do not assume that he knows that you want him to marry you; be clear and precise and don't hint at it as he may never understand your hints and suggestions. Be clear and forthright!

A guy whose commitment you want but who seems to be on a different commitment channel from you must be faced honestly and candidly. You must take an honest look at your guy and your relationship to understand what it is that is prompting his lack of commitment so that you can deal with it appropriately.

very true.

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Re: Signs That A Guy Is Never Going To Marry You by BItt: 12:32pm On Mar 15, 2022
If you can assist him in funding the wedding he'll marry you.
The economy is not friendly and that's why men are running from commitment
Re: Signs That A Guy Is Never Going To Marry You by luminouz(m): 12:36pm On Mar 15, 2022
seunlayi:
If you are into any serious relationship, beware:-

When he only prefer to answer your call at some particular time of the day.

When he blocks any unannounced visit to his place home/office

When he refuses to discuss his future, your future and the future of the relationship

When he refuses to allow your free interaction with his real friends

When he refuses to introduce you to his family members or give you free access to them.

When he allow you to stay away from his family functions

When he only talk sense before having (illegal) sex with you

When he frequently prevent your interaction with some of his colleagues.


And many more
You know nothing....and you be guy o grin
Re: Signs That A Guy Is Never Going To Marry You by Nobody: 1:13pm On Mar 15, 2022
Adesina18111:
And When He listens to his Mom often more than he listens to you...When He prefers his mom foods over your own food...Aunty you need to be careful... anything can happen anytime smiley grin

A classic case of a lady that cannot cook, why would a man not prefer his mothers meals if all he sees when you prepare food for him is fingernails and hair.
Re: Signs That A Guy Is Never Going To Marry You by Slurity(m): 1:15pm On Mar 15, 2022
setobaba:
i won’t marry if I don’t have a plan A B and C source of income.
Why will I be talking about marriage when I can’t feed 5 or more people comfortably.
by the time you are 45 you will have a rethink.
Re: Signs That A Guy Is Never Going To Marry You by Oturatetuala(m): 1:23pm On Mar 15, 2022
If your bf friends they call you our wife, abeg sister run o because you are not the real one in his life.

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