I have this girl have being dating for like 6 months now and have always show her I do care for her and all…but so far I noticed that she hardly call me first unless I call her and if I asked why she didn’t bother to call she will make excuses like she is busy or don’t have card..she makes it feel like it my duty to care and call all the time without her doing any..it just seems weird and all..seems she doesn’t really care or take me to heart like I do..and she ain’t changing the only time she call is when she probably needs help from me…what do you think is wrong m,should I give her more time maybe she might change or something…just don’t feel comfortable about the whole thing

no one can be too busy to call someone they love... calling should be a two way thing...if you don't call and she doesn't call too..then the love is one sided.. these days... calling,texting or even voice note should come naturally between two lovers....truth be told...a woman that loves you, calls more than a man that loves her...women call more...*don't take my word for it,try it*..try it by finding a woman that loves you...you go see call,na you go run



he works hard to give her all he thinks she wants But it tears her apart 'cause nothing's for her heart He pulls in late to wake her up with a kiss goodnight If he could only read her mind, she'd say...

[CHORUS] Buy me a rose, call me from work Open a door for me, what would it hurt Show me you love me by the look in your eyes These are the little things I need the most in my life

The level of each partner's commitment defines how they act in a relationship.

wfjimmytobby:
I have this girl have being dating for like 6 months now and have always show her I do care for her and all…but so far I noticed that she hardly call me first unless I call her and if I asked why she didn’t bother to call she will make excuses like she is busy or don’t have card..she makes it feel like it my duty to care and call all the time without her doing any..it just seems weird and all..seems she doesn’t really care or take me to heart like I do..and she ain’t changing the only time she call is when she probably needs help from me…what do you think is wrong m,should I give her more time maybe she might change or something…just don’t feel comfortable about the whole thing

She doesn't love you. Always listen to your instincts. A girl who loves you must call. Not waiting for you always. Try not calling her,see how long that will last. See if she will call ,if she doesn't oga,start withdrawing.

No.

So Felicia told me that she doesn't have airtime, I called her till I became fed up. That time, I was asking her out and she was dating one boy like that. When the boy broke up with her, and we started dating, Felicia was calling me everyday and she was even sending me airtime. That was when I realized that if a girl is into you, she will call you always.

Cynthia never called, I was the only one doing the call, when I complained, she said she was not the calling type. Then I stopped wooing her and moved on. When she started dating my coursemate. She was calling him non stop. The guy was even complaining about her regular call. I still realized that girl will call you if you mean a lot to her.

Khadija never had airtime to call me, but when she finally accepted to date me, she made sure she call me everyday.

Miracle see me everyday except weekend because we are taking the same computer classes. But she is calling me everyday, even today she called twice. Because she has fallen in love with me, but I am still playing ignorance.

Sincerely, these are my personal experience. Don't beg for love and never allow someone love you out of pity. They will always create time and make sacrifices for you if they really care about you.

The callings have to be mutual...

We both need each other now

wfjimmytobby:
I have this girl have being dating for like 6 months now and have always show her I do care for her and all…but so far I noticed that she hardly call me first unless I call her and if I asked why she didn’t bother to call she will make excuses like she is busy or don’t have card..she makes it feel like it my duty to care and call all the time without her doing any..it just seems weird and all..seems she doesn’t really care or take me to heart like I do..and she ain’t changing the only time she call is when she probably needs help from me…what do you think is wrong m,should I give her more time maybe she might change or something…just don’t feel comfortable about the whole thing

no, any lady that does not reach out to you during a relationship it men's she's not interested in you and you have been dating yourself for the past six month, no yourself man, no call am ,if she no they reach back , dissolve that sh*t you call relationship and go for person that will appreciate you.

What do you expect when you date a 9ja babe??
Dem think say na their right for a man to always call, take them out, give them gifts, show them unconditional love, flex them wella, all because dem be women and dem get toto. When you date a foreign girl, you won't even like to have anything to do with these leeches wey we get for here. If you wan know say most 9ja babes no get plan/vision for themselves eeh, ask them say "what's your goal for the next 5yrs?" . You go see dem talking about getting married with kids, but no personal growth. The average 9ja babe see marriage and childbirth as her ultimate dream, hence na make dem dey become single mothers and abortion specialist.
But another side of this theory be say, if "some" babe loves you, the calls go dey come in from her. But for majority, even if dem love you or not, na you must call them and do the major things. Their own growth/contribution for the relationship na bedroom E dey. Na make you go dey hear "after giving you my body". My dear body giver, why you no keep your body and give am something else?? Body wey 10+ guys don chop tire previously na you dey talk like say E still tight. Date a regular 9ja babe, at your own peril


I don talknam before and I go talk am again, "the average 9ja babe has nothing to offer aside her community toto wey alot of people don chop before you"

6 months relationship and you are the one doing the calling all the time. You have been dating yourself, bro. No cap.
A girl who likes/loves you will look for the tiniest excuse to talk to you, even she's out of airtime, she'd use her friend's phone to call or even use whatsapp call
Before my ex and I went our separate ways, (broke up due to LDR) even if she's at work, she'd still beep me. Send me pictures and blah blah blah. If I don't call her in a day, na quarrel.

Holly Gram

Ask ur SELF dis question!

Na ur DUTY to always COME 1st wen NACKING her KUNTUS!


I just CLEAN my old KALA finish now...

no make me TEST am 4 ur left leg..

LITE UP my WEED in peace

WTF MAN!

Damnnn!!! LoL
On God!

Na mumu guys dey outside this days, is there a virus turning guys into mumu cos i dont understand all this whinning and crying of dudes over their girlfriends

I learnt from some comments here.