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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Qatar2022: 7:54pm On Mar 31
Proudpolygamist:
My first wife got pregnant for me when she was in the university and i had just newly secured a job with a high paying firm. She was the daughter of a big businessman at the time and we were from a conservative society, so we had to sharply perform the marriage rites and settle her family handsomely because they accused me of impregnating their daughter before marriage and sought compensations.
Fast-forward to our marriage life, she started making life hell for me after the birth of our first son.
Hadiza was a real trouble maker and I was beginning to think I made a mistake marrying her, she would nag all day when she was pregnant and won't cook meals at home or do domestic chores. In fact I spent most of the nights on empty stomach, my consolation being that she would put to bed one day. She would only have sex when she felt like doing it and it must have been after a good treat.

Things got worse after she put to bed. She complains that she spends the whole day caring for our young son that she can barely think about anything else.
She prefers to watch TV all day and spend her whole time on social media instead of cooking, doing dishes, , domestic chores or getting a job. She once asked me to prepare breakfast in bed for her on a Monday morning when I was supposed to get to work early for an appointment. I returned home that day hungry but she had refused to prepare food because I didn't make her breakfast in bed. She was so engrossed in telemundo fantasies that she thought she could dictate what direction our marriage swings.
I got tired and decided to teach her a lesson
On this fateful night, she snored irritatingly like a pig in my room and accused me of snoring like a pig, stressing that I need urgent medical check up . I told her she would know who was snoring like a pig, and who needs medical checkup after i'm done with her.I left my room and went to sleep in the guest room.
The following day i left home for work without taking breakfast afterwhich i went to see my lawyer. I issued a court summon to my wife through a court clerk.
I was told, She couldn't believe her eyes after she read through and discovered that i was seeking a divorce
She Refused to sign the papers and told the court clerk that i should kom and tell her with my mouth, stressing that she didn't marry me through a letter. She said i should kom and give her the papers myself if I was man enough.
The court clerk said he tried cajoling her into signing the papers peacefully but she screamed "He is my husband, I can't divorce him" and ran away with hot tears rolling down her cheek.
You know what happened next, i went straight to area command where my good friend works and left for home with 5 armed policemen.
In quick strides we searched for her and found her in her bedroom upstairs. She sat in the bed looking morose and jumped up fearfully when she saw us.
I pointed to her and told the men to escort her out of my house. Before she could say pim, one of the policeman a corporal, clamped handcuffs on her hand and told her to be cooperative as to follow them to the station. She protested very loudly and struggled to free herself, but it was too late, my mind was already made up. She ended up in tears making strong appeals to me but I kept a stony face. The policemen dragged my wife into the waiting van.

One of them came to me and asked to take her things along with her. I was shocked, because I bought everything in the house with my money. The sergeant kept his mouth shut when he saw the look on my face.
I gave him an address and asked him to drop my former wife in that address where her father lives.
Then I locked up the bungalow I bought for my 1st wife and joined my second wife in the estate.
Congratulations man
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Emmanuel30a: 7:57pm On Mar 31
blinking001:

He did the right thing. If all most men behaved this way I'm sure the level of stupidity and entitlement displayed by Nigerian women will drastically decrease.
Is it only Nigeria women? By the way, she is the second wife to the man... If things are happening to a man with one wife or between a man with one wife and his wife, what do you expect to happen to a man with two wives? This life can't be balance until JESUS come and the funny or maybe painful thing is that, it is the man that would ask for the woman hand in marriage. It is now like ' olowo fowo raku'. When you are not with GOD, you would be with gods and when you are with gods, you are not far from the dogs. Dogs are for the gods... Story for the gods...
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by InsanePsycho(m): 8:10pm On Mar 31
MarryWhiteasap:
What about your son?

He disappeared from the story undecided

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by perryy(m): 8:30pm On Mar 31
This is a poor fiction. Your wife was arrested in her room upstairs in a bungalow you bought for her ? How kom? Upstairs in a bungalow? Abi na me no Sabi house matter ?
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by enonche85(m): 8:41pm On Mar 31
Proudpolygamist:
My first wife got pregnant for me when she was in the university and i had just newly secured a job with a high paying firm. She was the daughter of a big businessman at the time and we were from a conservative society, so we had to sharply perform the marriage rites and settle her family handsomely because they accused me of impregnating their daughter before marriage and sought compensations.
Fast-forward to our marriage life, she started making life hell for me after the birth of our first son.
Hadiza was a real trouble maker and I was beginning to think I made a mistake marrying her, she would nag all day when she was pregnant and won't cook meals at home or do domestic chores. In fact I spent most of the nights on empty stomach, my consolation being that she would put to bed one day. She would only have sex when she felt like doing it and it must have been after a good treat.

Things got worse after she put to bed. She complains that she spends the whole day caring for our young son that she can barely think about anything else.
She prefers to watch TV all day and spend her whole time on social media instead of cooking, doing dishes, , domestic chores or getting a job. She once asked me to prepare breakfast in bed for her on a Monday morning when I was supposed to get to work early for an appointment. I returned home that day hungry but she had refused to prepare food because I didn't make her breakfast in bed. She was so engrossed in telemundo fantasies that she thought she could dictate what direction our marriage swings.
I got tired and decided to teach her a lesson
On this fateful night, she snored irritatingly like a pig in my room and accused me of snoring like a pig, stressing that I need urgent medical check up . I told her she would know who was snoring like a pig, and who needs medical checkup after i'm done with her.I left my room and went to sleep in the guest room.
The following day i left home for work without taking breakfast afterwhich i went to see my lawyer. I issued a court summon to my wife through a court clerk.
I was told, She couldn't believe her eyes after she read through and discovered that i was seeking a divorce
She Refused to sign the papers and told the court clerk that i should kom and tell her with my mouth, stressing that she didn't marry me through a letter. She said i should kom and give her the papers myself if I was man enough.
The court clerk said he tried cajoling her into signing the papers peacefully but she screamed "He is my husband, I can't divorce him" and ran away with hot tears rolling down her cheek.
You know what happened next, i went straight to area command where my good friend works and left for home with 5 armed policemen.
In quick strides we searched for her and found her in her bedroom upstairs. She sat in the bed looking morose and jumped up fearfully when she saw us.
I pointed to her and told the men to escort her out of my house. Before she could say pim, one of the policeman a corporal, clamped handcuffs on her hand and told her to be cooperative as to follow them to the station. She protested very loudly and struggled to free herself, but it was too late, my mind was already made up. She ended up in tears making strong appeals to me but I kept a stony face. The policemen dragged my wife into the waiting van.

One of them came to me and asked to take her things along with her. I was shocked, because I bought everything in the house with my money. The sergeant kept his mouth shut when he saw the look on my face.
I gave him an address and asked him to drop my former wife in that address where her father lives.
Then I locked up the bungalow I bought for my 1st wife and joined my second wife in the estate.

Lol...but oga u went too far with the handcuffs, that was too much.
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Sijo01(f): 8:51pm On Mar 31
arthurwillia:
Fake story

Obviously, story is just a product of his imagination.

He's trying to act what he's being feed with on the Redpillers thread.

If members have taken time to go through his posts, they wouldn't have wasted their time commenting.
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Sijo01(f): 8:52pm On Mar 31
enonche85:


Lol...but oga u went too far with the handcuffs, that was too much.

It's a friction. embarassed
Read his previous posts.
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by lalalista: 8:57pm On Mar 31
You're sick in the head
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Proudpolygamist: 9:06pm On Mar 31
DryMouth:

You dnt know anything abt building and construction.

So shut up

Thank you my brother may God bless you
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Proudpolygamist: 9:09pm On Mar 31
AliyuMahdi9:
But on what grounds did you arrest her with Law enforcement officers?


I did not arrest her...
They simply excorted her to her father's house
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Proudpolygamist: 9:14pm On Mar 31
antibullshit:

You're lucky that most people don't know their rights in nigeria. In some countries you have no right to just throw your wife out of the house unless by court order and if she must go , if you have children she will be likely to be given the house so she can live there with the kids . You would also be required to pay for the kids upkeep and pay her enough money to live at the same standard as when she was married to you. .Similar laws apply in nigeria but most people don't know . Ive seen a case where a man took his wife to court and told the court that he wanted her out so he could be with his girlfriend . That was his biggest mistake . The court ordered him not to go less than 100 metres from the house and to continue to pay the rent for the wife and their 2 kids. He wasn't even allowed to go back to the house to take his clothes . He ended up with whatever the wife chose to give him. This happened in Lagos .
Stop saying nonesense, all you've said there can't happen in the north where I'm from.
And if I happen to marry anyone from the south and she does any of those things to me, I go knack her with jazz straight
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Ishilove: 9:17pm On Mar 31
Believe this shït, you'll believe anything.

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Mindlog: 9:18pm On Mar 31
emmanuelbrown26:

I'm not even after boosting his ego or not, mine is that he did d best thing needed to be done.

Did the right thing in that tales by moonlight?

OP is not MARRIED! cheesy
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Proudpolygamist: 9:20pm On Mar 31
Oddfinder:

U brutal bro. Redpill overdose! But i like your approach cool
To me,allowing that woman back is suicidal, you humiliated her bro. You bruised her ego damn. She's scorned man. Hell hath no fury like a scorned woman..she might wanna get at u man. She fit poison u sef. I'm afraid for u man..don't let ur guards down please

You're right about that, but if she poisons my food, I'll know. The rabbits hole is deeper than you think
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Mindlog: 9:21pm On Mar 31
Proudpolygamist:

Stop saying nonesense, all you've said there can't happen in the north where I'm from.
And if I happen to marry anyone from the south and she does any of those things to me, I go knack her with jazz straight

You are a kid seeking useless validation reason you have to come up with the false story, when you know very well you are still a STUDENT! cheesy

Seek psychotherapy, a lot need to exhale.
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Femi8586(m): 9:21pm On Mar 31
StDonE:
Clap for yourself! How come you already have a second wife so quick? Could it be that you have been sleeping and messing around that made your wife put up those attitudes. Mr Perfect, you exonerated yourself from any wrong doing in your umarriage. You must be a bad ass overgrown baby.

You have comprehension issues. He had two wives.

The divorced wife stays with him, while the other one lives in another house.
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Proudpolygamist: 9:22pm On Mar 31
Mindlog:


You are a kid seeking useless validation reason you have to come up with the false story, when you know very well you are still a STUDENT! cheesy

Seek psychotherapy, a lot need to exhale.

At what age does one stops being a student?

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Mindlog: 9:25pm On Mar 31
Proudpolygamist:


At what age does one stops being a student?

A student still seeking redpill mentorship from fellow Nairalanders on how to relate with female students on campus! cheesy

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Proudpolygamist: 9:26pm On Mar 31
Mom007:
I'm guessing you are a Hausa Muslim...
grin
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by ststyreal(f): 9:37pm On Mar 31
Father Lord, I thank you so much for making me a Christian. I appreciate you for my parents and in my next life, may you still give me the grace to be a christain, including my generation after me, I make this request through Jesus Christ your only begotten son in whom you are well pleased amennnnnnn.....
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by GooodHardDick: 9:39pm On Mar 31
Proudpolygamist:


Thank you, I have peace of mind now ah swear.
As for my second wife, she saw how my first wife left and she knows if she misbehaves I will show her the way out too.
But shes down to earth, humble, feminine and submissive.
This is how I like them to be, not the ones that are confused about gender roles

Comrade. Go to any store and restaurants around you and collect 2 crates of Heineken in my name. I will pay.

This is exactly how a sane man should behave. The level of entitlement mentality among these Nigerian girls is getting out of hand. I love the actions you took bro. Way to go! Your peace of mind must come first before anything else. I'm so proud of you bro!

I urge all men to be like this OP. I swear Nigerian girls go get sense by force. The rate of entitlement mentality among them will reduce.

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by We4all: 9:40pm On Mar 31
siofra:
Who is this one

I'll not be surprised if it's one stupid redpiller fantasising his future life.

You are very smart and funny . I nearly choked with laughter reading your witty comment.

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Proudpolygamist: 9:43pm On Mar 31
APOPTOSIS:

It's your inalienable right to kick out as many as possible.
You wear the shoe, only u can say where it pinches.
But bringing HANDCUFFS is not necessary except in cases where a ?madwoman needs to be restrained.
You stated clearly that the apartment was there before your wife arrived, meaning she contributed nothing towards such project, however, using Handcuffs and involving the POLICE now was not necessary except when indicated.

You said it already...
My former wife is a MAD WOMAN. How do you evacuate a mad woman from ones house without first cuffing her?
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by cmikel: 9:44pm On Mar 31
Women are a bounch of problems

They don't have anything to offer to family life

But they are always quick to claim kids they never spent a dime for






.
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Proudpolygamist: 9:44pm On Mar 31
Mindlog:


A student still seeking redpill mentorship from fellow Nairalanders on how to relate with female students on campus! cheesy

I don't see how you have a case for your proposition
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Proudpolygamist: 9:48pm On Mar 31
MyPoint:


Apart from the possibility that she may be angry because you already have a 2nd wife, sometimes, women behaviour during pregnancy and after birth are triggered by hormones.

Sometimes, they could even be so depressed to the extent of being suicidal.

So her attitude may be majorly due to those hormones. You can research about it(high Progesterone).

When she comes back to her senses, please reconsider her.

Thanks alot
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by HaneefahRN(f): 9:50pm On Mar 31
Proudpolygamist:


Yes and I will still Mary more women.. My religion allows me to marry up to 4

Does your religion permit fornication and adultery too?
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Sailor007: 9:51pm On Mar 31
You are the man �
Forget about this afojas on Nairaland
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by VicM6: 9:52pm On Mar 31
Dey pursue them comot from ur house now u hear, u try well well. infact i like ur courage......But when them go pursue you too, abeg no come here come change moniker dey seek for advise nd help o if not all gods of afonja go scatter ur head. Tit 4 tat
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by JJSAYO: 10:00pm On Mar 31
You are a strong man as people said. Congratulations! May I ask you, how many wives do you plan to marry? Hope you are prepared for the third wife soon. This is your problem. You are dating someone outside your marriage. You already have an alternative. You believe you have money and can do anything you like. You went to the extent of embarrassing your wife. You handcuffed her, sent her back home and you are glad. You think you have moved on. You are inexperienced in marriage. Be rest assure that this second wife will teach you more sense very soon. Go and write it down.
There is only one solution left, quickly run and apologise to the family. This is the last grace you have before it is too late. You can't have a side chick and expect your marriage to work.
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by lekani4real(m): 10:03pm On Mar 31
Proudpolygamist:
My first wife got pregnant for me when she was in the university and i had just newly secured a job with a high paying firm. She was the daughter of a big businessman at the time and we were from a conservative society, so we had to sharply perform the marriage rites and settle her family handsomely because they accused me of impregnating their daughter before marriage and sought compensations.
Fast-forward to our marriage life, she started making life hell for me after the birth of our first son.
Hadiza was a real trouble maker and I was beginning to think I made a mistake marrying her, she would nag all day when she was pregnant and won't cook meals at home or do domestic chores. In fact I spent most of the nights on empty stomach, my consolation being that she would put to bed one day. She would only have sex when she felt like doing it and it must have been after a good treat.

Things got worse after she put to bed. She complains that she spends the whole day caring for our young son that she can barely think about anything else.
She prefers to watch TV all day and spend her whole time on social media instead of cooking, doing dishes, , domestic chores or getting a job. She once asked me to prepare breakfast in bed for her on a Monday morning when I was supposed to get to work early for an appointment. I returned home that day hungry but she had refused to prepare food because I didn't make her breakfast in bed. She was so engrossed in telemundo fantasies that she thought she could dictate what direction our marriage swings.
I got tired and decided to teach her a lesson
On this fateful night, she snored irritatingly like a pig in my room and accused me of snoring like a pig, stressing that I need urgent medical check up . I told her she would know who was snoring like a pig, and who needs medical checkup after i'm done with her.I left my room and went to sleep in the guest room.
The following day i left home for work without taking breakfast afterwhich i went to see my lawyer. I issued a court summon to my wife through a court clerk.
I was told, She couldn't believe her eyes after she read through and discovered that i was seeking a divorce
She Refused to sign the papers and told the court clerk that i should kom and tell her with my mouth, stressing that she didn't marry me through a letter. She said i should kom and give her the papers myself if I was man enough.
The court clerk said he tried cajoling her into signing the papers peacefully but she screamed "He is my husband, I can't divorce him" and ran away with hot tears rolling down her cheek.
You know what happened next, i went straight to area command where my good friend works and left for home with 5 armed policemen.
In quick strides we searched for her and found her in her bedroom upstairs. She sat in the bed looking morose and jumped up fearfully when she saw us.
I pointed to her and told the men to escort her out of my house. Before she could say pim, one of the policeman a corporal, clamped handcuffs on her hand and told her to be cooperative as to follow them to the station. She protested very loudly and struggled to free herself, but it was too late, my mind was already made up. She ended up in tears making strong appeals to me but I kept a stony face. The policemen dragged my wife into the waiting van.

One of them came to me and asked to take her things along with her. I was shocked, because I bought everything in the house with my money. The sergeant kept his mouth shut when he saw the look on my face.
I gave him an address and asked him to drop my former wife in that address where her father lives.
Then I locked up the bungalow I bought for my 1st wife and joined my second wife in the estate.
You don see second wife now, first one don turn devil Abi.
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Nobody: 10:11pm On Mar 31
Proudpolygamist:
My first wife got pregnant for me when she was
The following day i left home for work without taking breakfast afterwhich i went to see my lawyer. I issued a court summon to my wife through a court clerk..
In quick strides we searched for her and found her in her bedroom upstairs . She sat in the bed looking morose and jumped up fearfully when she saw us.
I pointed to her and told the men to escort her out of my house. Before she could say pim, one of the policeman a corporal, clamped handcuffs on her hand and told her to be cooperative as to follow them to the station. She protested very loudly and struggled to free herself, but it was too late, my mind was already made up. She ended up in tears making strong appeals to me but I kept a stony face. The policemen dragged my wife into the waiting van.

I gave him an address and asked him to drop my former wife in that address where her father lives.
Then I locked up the bungalow I bought for my 1st wife [b] and joined my second wife in the estate.
Story is filled with so many inconsistency and lies. I can’t be bothered to point all of them out but I’ve put in bold the most ridiculous.
You got her pregnant in school yet you wanted her to get a job while nursing an infant.
You are either learning to write or just a blatant liar. Either way, get it right, this is amateur. I can’t believe the amount of id1ots that fell for it. Tells you the level of people on this forum

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