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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Cutehector(m): 3:40pm On Mar 31
cheesy
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by vikithor(m): 3:40pm On Mar 31
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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Pacyrus(m): 3:41pm On Mar 31
Real money stops nonsense!

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by ablejesus26(m): 3:41pm On Mar 31
The tori resemble one yeye nollywood film wey I watch undecided

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Victorious12: 3:41pm On Mar 31
Proudpolygamist:


I hosted a few of her family members plus my own family members that came to my crib for dialogue unannounced. I asked them to give us 3months to reflect on whether or not we want to be together, they tried to cajole me to take her back immediately but I refused.
When that 3months expires, I won't call anybody for reconciliation. If her family returns then, I'll accept her back with conditions.
Topmost on the list being that
She won't move into my house immediately, I will rent a self contain apartment for her outside for the main time
Ajeh
You dey motivate me
I nvr marry but I’ll need ur advice

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by happney65: 3:42pm On Mar 31
Big boy doing Big boy things.. cheesy

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by MARKone(m): 3:43pm On Mar 31
One of the most stupidest post I've ever read here.

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by HardMirror(m): 3:43pm On Mar 31
Nonexisting:
Restrict this your account to politics section where you fight tribal wars. You can't use useless account to make a useful comment, the username negates every sense you are trying to make.
seconded. I hate tribalists

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by KazikageSama: 3:43pm On Mar 31
Proudpolygamist:


Will you take this nonesense preaching out of my thread?

It's a public platform. You posted your believe and he posted his.


Lemme re-echo him

Repent now of your sinful evil ways to avoid spending your eternity in hell fire after you die. Jesus Christ love and warns you to repent and convert now to Christianity to avoid hell fire. Only Jesus Christ can save you by his death on the cross and his blood which washes away your sins, any other ways ( Islam, paganism, Hinduism, atheism, etc) can not save you. Be wise while you still have the chance accept Jesus Christ now and save your soul from hell. Be wiser than Satan and follow the one true God. This is the eternal truth from the spiritual realm.

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Nobody: 3:44pm On Mar 31
arthurwillia:
Fake story
even if it is fake, I really appreciate it cause I might apply it soonest

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by greatiyk4u(m): 3:45pm On Mar 31
Intimidation at the highest echelon
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by roddick995(m): 3:45pm On Mar 31
This is also an indictment on yourself. A failed marriage is always about two persons that can't manage themselves not just one. YOUR child is now a product of a failed marriage and when he is old enough he can easily state :"my dad used police men to butt my mum out of the house and he was proud, he felt like a real man that day."
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by taneez(f): 3:45pm On Mar 31
Nadeol:


"...My first wife got pregnant for me when she was in the university and i had..."

"...left for home with 5 armed policemen.
In quick strides we searched for her and found her in her bedroom upstairs. She sat in the bed..."

"...Then I locked up the bungalow I bought for my 1st wife..."

I don't understand, please clarify.

Your first wife got pregnant.....she was in her bedroom upstairs.....you locked up the bungalow you bought for your first wife....

Does a bungalow has a bedroom upstairs?

grin don't mind him. See how others are cheering him.

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by oyinmykel: 3:46pm On Mar 31
Proudpolygamist:


Thank you, I have peace of mind now ah swear.
As for my second wife, she saw how my first wife left and she knows if she misbehaves I will show her the way out too.
But shes down to earth, humble, feminine and submissive.
This is how I like them to be, not the ones that are confused about gender roles



Just so curious

Are you not seeing a common denominator as to how your wives are behaving?

You

You might be the problem actually.

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by harmony75: 3:47pm On Mar 31
Very fake

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by DryMouth: 3:47pm On Mar 31
taneez:


grin don't mind him. See how others are cheering him.
You dnt know anything abt building and construction.

So shut up

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Parachoko: 3:48pm On Mar 31
TheWolfen:
Lol
Congrats!
You didn't give room for women manipulations. When she ask that you come give her the divorce paper cheesy..
That is a trap a lot of men falls for. cheesy


But I think you should forgive her if she comes begging with a promise that she will improve on herself.

She didn't cheat on you.
It is only when a woman cheat that i advice men not to haven't anything to do with her anymore
Why should she be giving a second chance? She had her chance.

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Nobody: 3:48pm On Mar 31
roddick995:
This is also an indictment on yourself. A failed marriage is always about two persons that can't manage themselves not just one. YOUR child is now a product of a failed marriage and when he is old enough he can easily state :"my dad used police men to butt my mum out of the house and he was proud, he felt like a real man that day."

So he should suffer and condone her excesses?

When people don't want to change, best you can do is to cut them off.

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by phkka1(m): 3:48pm On Mar 31
You did not do well. You made no effort to talk sense into her. The summary of it all is that you paid them back with their own coin just because they were not happy you put their daughter in the family way when she was not yet married with you.

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Somebody13: 3:49pm On Mar 31
Are you sure this is not an unreleased blockbuster.

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by taneez(f): 3:49pm On Mar 31
DryMouth:

You dnt know anything abt building and construction.

So shut up

When foolish people don't have any reasonable thing to say, they throw insults-
Real quote

Get off my mention.

PS: You can't pick fight with other males that said it is fiction. But you can prey on a female grin smh at your frustration.
If you are this angry now, what will now happen when you see my COREN certification grin

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by AliyuMahdi9: 3:50pm On Mar 31
But on what grounds did you arrest her with Law enforcement officers?

Proudpolygamist:
My first wife got pregnant for me when she was in the university and i had just newly secured a job with a high paying firm. She was the daughter of a big businessman at the time and we were from a conservative society, so we had to sharply perform the marriage rites and settle her family handsomely because they accused me of impregnating their daughter before marriage and sought compensations.
Fast-forward to our marriage life, she started making life hell for me after the birth of our first son.
Hadiza was a real trouble maker and I was beginning to think I made a mistake marrying her, she would nag all day when she was pregnant and won't cook meals at home or do domestic chores. In fact I spent most of the nights on empty stomach, my consolation being that she would put to bed one day. She would only have sex when she felt like doing it and it must have been after a good treat.

Things got worse after she put to bed. She complains that she spends the whole day caring for our young son that she can barely think about anything else.
She prefers to watch TV all day and spend her whole time on social media instead of cooking, doing dishes, , domestic chores or getting a job. She once asked me to prepare breakfast in bed for her on a Monday morning when I was supposed to get to work early for an appointment. I returned home that day hungry but she had refused to prepare food because I didn't make her breakfast in bed. She was so engrossed in telemundo fantasies that she thought she could dictate what direction our marriage swings.
I got tired and decided to teach her a lesson
On this fateful night, she snored irritatingly like a pig in my room and accused me of snoring like a pig, stressing that I need urgent medical check up . I told her she would know who was snoring like a pig, and who needs medical checkup after i'm done with her.I left my room and went to sleep in the guest room.
The following day i left home for work without taking breakfast afterwhich i went to see my lawyer. I issued a court summon to my wife through a court clerk.
I was told, She couldn't believe her eyes after she read through and discovered that i was seeking a divorce
She Refused to sign the papers and told the court clerk that i should kom and tell her with my mouth, stressing that she didn't marry me through a letter. She said i should kom and give her the papers myself if I was man enough.
The court clerk said he tried cajoling her into signing the papers peacefully but she screamed "He is my husband, I can't divorce him" and ran away with hot tears rolling down her cheek.
You know what happened next, i went straight to area command where my good friend works and left for home with 5 armed policemen.
In quick strides we searched for her and found her in her bedroom upstairs. She sat in the bed looking morose and jumped up fearfully when she saw us.
I pointed to her and told the men to escort her out of my house. Before she could say pim, one of the policeman a corporal, clamped handcuffs on her hand and told her to be cooperative as to follow them to the station. She protested very loudly and struggled to free herself, but it was too late, my mind was already made up. She ended up in tears making strong appeals to me but I kept a stony face. The policemen dragged my wife into the waiting van.

One of them came to me and asked to take her things along with her. I was shocked, because I bought everything in the house with my money. The sergeant kept his mouth shut when he saw the look on my face.
I gave him an address and asked him to drop my former wife in that address where her father lives.
Then I locked up the bungalow I bought for my 1st wife and joined my second wife in the estate.

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Fatale: 3:51pm On Mar 31
We Should Clap For You Or What?
If What You Wrote Up There Is True, The Woman No Try At All.

Well, Whether You Send Her Packing Or Not, Life Continues.

Learn To Differentate Between Your Ego And Peace Of Mind. Peace Of Mind Matters A Lot.

Do Not Trade Your Peace Of Mind For Anything, Be You A Male Or Female.

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by TrebleChamp(m): 3:51pm On Mar 31
Proudpolygamist:
My first wife got pregnant for me when she was in the university and i had just newly secured a job with a high paying firm. She was the daughter of a big businessman at the time and we were from a conservative society, so we had to sharply perform the marriage rites and settle her family handsomely because they accused me of impregnating their daughter before marriage and sought compensations.
Fast-forward to our marriage life, she started making life hell for me after the birth of our first son.
Hadiza was a real trouble maker and I was beginning to think I made a mistake marrying her, she would nag all day when she was pregnant and won't cook meals at home or do domestic chores. In fact I spent most of the nights on empty stomach, my consolation being that she would put to bed one day. She would only have sex when she felt like doing it and it must have been after a good treat.

Things got worse after she put to bed. She complains that she spends the whole day caring for our young son that she can barely think about anything else.
She prefers to watch TV all day and spend her whole time on social media instead of cooking, doing dishes, , domestic chores or getting a job. She once asked me to prepare breakfast in bed for her on a Monday morning when I was supposed to get to work early for an appointment. I returned home that day hungry but she had refused to prepare food because I didn't make her breakfast in bed. She was so engrossed in telemundo fantasies that she thought she could dictate what direction our marriage swings.
I got tired and decided to teach her a lesson
On this fateful night, she snored irritatingly like a pig in my room and accused me of snoring like a pig, stressing that I need urgent medical check up . I told her she would know who was snoring like a pig, and who needs medical checkup after i'm done with her.I left my room and went to sleep in the guest room.
The following day i left home for work without taking breakfast afterwhich i went to see my lawyer. I issued a court summon to my wife through a court clerk.
I was told, She couldn't believe her eyes after she read through and discovered that i was seeking a divorce
She Refused to sign the papers and told the court clerk that i should kom and tell her with my mouth, stressing that she didn't marry me through a letter. She said i should kom and give her the papers myself if I was man enough.
The court clerk said he tried cajoling her into signing the papers peacefully but she screamed "He is my husband, I can't divorce him" and ran away with hot tears rolling down her cheek.
You know what happened next, i went straight to area command where my good friend works and left for home with 5 armed policemen.
In quick strides we searched for her and found her in her bedroom upstairs. She sat in the bed looking morose and jumped up fearfully when she saw us.
I pointed to her and told the men to escort her out of my house. Before she could say pim, one of the policeman a corporal, clamped handcuffs on her hand and told her to be cooperative as to follow them to the station. She protested very loudly and struggled to free herself, but it was too late, my mind was already made up. She ended up in tears making strong appeals to me but I kept a stony face. The policemen dragged my wife into the waiting van.

One of them came to me and asked to take her things along with her. I was shocked, because I bought everything in the house with my money. The sergeant kept his mouth shut when he saw the look on my face.
I gave him an address and asked him to drop my former wife in that address where her father lives.
Then I locked up the bungalow I bought for my 1st wife and joined my second wife in the estate.
So where was your baby while the arresting and escorting was taking place? Looks like a made up story sha...

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by kingyakos: 3:52pm On Mar 31
Chop knockle Bros....abeg give me ur address I want send u cow and a truck load of beer and spirit make u take celebrate your freedom from Jezebel

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by benzine: 3:52pm On Mar 31
You're wicked. I am a make divorcee like you, but could never put my ex in handcuffs. That was her matrimonial home for God's sake. Plus the reasons u have given ate trivial man. You no know wetin men dey see for marriage

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by APOPTOSIS(m): 3:52pm On Mar 31
roddick995:
This is also an indictment on yourself. A failed marriage is always about two persons that can't manage themselves not just one. YOUR child is now a product of a failed marriage and when he is old enough he can easily state :"my dad used police men to butt my mum out of the house and he was proud, he felt like a real man that day."
By then same son would have known women too. grin grin grin
In Fact, his son may not marry women by then, because if the situation is like this now, how will it be in his era?

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Babastrong(m): 3:53pm On Mar 31
Your sickness is totally different from my own. any way, congratulations!

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by sammirano: 3:54pm On Mar 31
Typical flatbrian.
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Lepon02: 3:55pm On Mar 31
Proudpolygamist:
My first wife got pregnant for me when she was in the university and i had just newly secured a job with a high paying firm. She was the daughter of a big businessman at the time and we were from a conservative society, so we had to sharply perform the marriage rites and settle her family handsomely because they accused me of impregnating their daughter before marriage and sought compensations.
Fast-forward to our marriage life, she started making life hell for me after the birth of our first son.
Hadiza was a real trouble maker and I was beginning to think I made a mistake marrying her, she would nag all day when she was pregnant and won't cook meals at home or do domestic chores. In fact I spent most of the nights on empty stomach, my consolation being that she would put to bed one day. She would only have sex when she felt like doing it and it must have been after a good treat.

Things got worse after she put to bed. She complains that she spends the whole day caring for our young son that she can barely think about anything else.
She prefers to watch TV all day and spend her whole time on social media instead of cooking, doing dishes, , domestic chores or getting a job. She once asked me to prepare breakfast in bed for her on a Monday morning when I was supposed to get to work early for an appointment. I returned home that day hungry but she had refused to prepare food because I didn't make her breakfast in bed. She was so engrossed in telemundo fantasies that she thought she could dictate what direction our marriage swings.
I got tired and decided to teach her a lesson
On this fateful night, she snored irritatingly like a pig in my room and accused me of snoring like a pig, stressing that I need urgent medical check up . I told her she would know who was snoring like a pig, and who needs medical checkup after i'm done with her.I left my room and went to sleep in the guest room.
The following day i left home for work without taking breakfast afterwhich i went to see my lawyer. I issued a court summon to my wife through a court clerk.
I was told, She couldn't believe her eyes after she read through and discovered that i was seeking a divorce
She Refused to sign the papers and told the court clerk that i should kom and tell her with my mouth, stressing that she didn't marry me through a letter. She said i should kom and give her the papers myself if I was man enough.
The court clerk said he tried cajoling her into signing the papers peacefully but she screamed "He is my husband, I can't divorce him" and ran away with hot tears rolling down her cheek.
You know what happened next, i went straight to area command where my good friend works and left for home with 5 armed policemen.
In quick strides we searched for her and found her in her bedroom upstairs. She sat in the bed looking morose and jumped up fearfully when she saw us.
I pointed to her and told the men to escort her out of my house. Before she could say pim, one of the policeman a corporal, clamped handcuffs on her hand and told her to be cooperative as to follow them to the station. She protested very loudly and struggled to free herself, but it was too late, my mind was already made up. She ended up in tears making strong appeals to me but I kept a stony face. The policemen dragged my wife into the waiting van.

One of them came to me and asked to take her things along with her. I was shocked, because I bought everything in the house with my money. The sergeant kept his mouth shut when he saw the look on my face.
I gave him an address and asked him to drop my former wife in that address where her father lives.
Then I locked up the bungalow I bought for my 1st wife and joined my second wife in the estate.









































Ok.
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Forgodsgrace: 3:56pm On Mar 31
If you can do this to a woman that gave birth to your biological son,then you are wicked and might regret your action later
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by antibullshit: 3:57pm On Mar 31
Proudpolygamist:
My first wife got pregnant for me when she was in the university and i had just newly secured a job with a high paying firm. She was the daughter of a big businessman at the time and we were from a conservative society, so we had to sharply perform the marriage rites and settle her family handsomely because they accused me of impregnating their daughter before marriage and sought compensations.
Fast-forward to our marriage life, she started making life hell for me after the birth of our first son.
Hadiza was a real trouble maker and I was beginning to think I made a mistake marrying her, she would nag all day when she was pregnant and won't cook meals at home or do domestic chores. In fact I spent most of the nights on empty stomach, my consolation being that she would put to bed one day. She would only have sex when she felt like doing it and it must have been after a good treat.

Things got worse after she put to bed. She complains that she spends the whole day caring for our young son that she can barely think about anything else.
She prefers to watch TV all day and spend her whole time on social media instead of cooking, doing dishes, , domestic chores or getting a job. She once asked me to prepare breakfast in bed for her on a Monday morning when I was supposed to get to work early for an appointment. I returned home that day hungry but she had refused to prepare food because I didn't make her breakfast in bed. She was so engrossed in telemundo fantasies that she thought she could dictate what direction our marriage swings.
I got tired and decided to teach her a lesson
On this fateful night, she snored irritatingly like a pig in my room and accused me of snoring like a pig, stressing that I need urgent medical check up . I told her she would know who was snoring like a pig, and who needs medical checkup after i'm done with her.I left my room and went to sleep in the guest room.
The following day i left home for work without taking breakfast afterwhich i went to see my lawyer. I issued a court summon to my wife through a court clerk.
I was told, She couldn't believe her eyes after she read through and discovered that i was seeking a divorce
She Refused to sign the papers and told the court clerk that i should kom and tell her with my mouth, stressing that she didn't marry me through a letter. She said i should kom and give her the papers myself if I was man enough.
The court clerk said he tried cajoling her into signing the papers peacefully but she screamed "He is my husband, I can't divorce him" and ran away with hot tears rolling down her cheek.
You know what happened next, i went straight to area command where my good friend works and left for home with 5 armed policemen.
In quick strides we searched for her and found her in her bedroom upstairs. She sat in the bed looking morose and jumped up fearfully when she saw us.
I pointed to her and told the men to escort her out of my house. Before she could say pim, one of the policeman a corporal, clamped handcuffs on her hand and told her to be cooperative as to follow them to the station. She protested very loudly and struggled to free herself, but it was too late, my mind was already made up. She ended up in tears making strong appeals to me but I kept a stony face. The policemen dragged my wife into the waiting van.

One of them came to me and asked to take her things along with her. I was shocked, because I bought everything in the house with my money. The sergeant kept his mouth shut when he saw the look on my face.
I gave him an address and asked him to drop my former wife in that address where her father lives.
Then I locked up the bungalow I bought for my 1st wife and joined my second wife in the estate.
You're lucky that most people don't know their rights in nigeria. In some countries you have no right to just throw your wife out of the house unless by court order and if she must go , if you have children she will be likely to be given the house so she can live there with the kids . You would also be required to pay for the kids upkeep and pay her enough money to live at the same standard as when she was married to you. .Similar laws apply in nigeria but most people don't know . Ive seen a case where a man took his wife to court and told the court that he wanted her out so he could be with his girlfriend . That was his biggest mistake . The court ordered him not to go less than 100 metres from the house and to continue to pay the rent for the wife and their 2 kids. He wasn't even allowed to go back to the house to take his clothes . He ended up with whatever the wife chose to give him. This happened in Lagos .

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