But am having a conscience like am starving my wife or being wicked.
No you are not, I like the way u made her know that u can do and undo.
We women seems to be overjoyed when a man do all of this things forgetting that it is our responsibility. If the man dt is doing all the chores suddenly says he's not doing then women shouldn't make it the man responsibility. We should stand up and do the work.
Man assisting wife is very very good. At the same time women shouldn't take it for granted.
dchamp234: I don't need anyone to tell me where you come from, Yoruba men are always like this, and she has been the one cooking all these years but cos she couldn't cook today and you beat and stave her of food and water, I don't think that rice and stew is up to 5k. Yeye afonja men..
Please where did he beat her and starve her of water
Na you cause am, you turn to cook and your wife doesn't have regard for you Mr chef Some woman just like to cause trouble sha... Stop cooking and know peace since she doesn't really appreciate you and want to turn you to chefchi
yinkaOdutuyo: So the main issue that led to me denying her food this night.
I asked her for the two of us to go and get ingredients for food, she said she's having serious headache so I went alone.
When I came back I washed the rice and put it on fire and I also start grinding the pepper and tomatoes with manual grinder.
After few minutes when the rice was done I asked my wife to go and put down the rice from fire, and fried the stew afterwards.
She just started shouting she's so tired, her head is hot and making hefty sounds inside that she can't stand up from this bed.
I insisted and she went to put the rice down and off the gas, instead of her to start frying the stew. She just came and meet me on the bed.
And she started shouting I didn't tell you am hungry, am not even eating this night at all. Do whatever you want to do, I'll never stand up to make any stew in this house. If you want to eat go and make the stew yourself.
I just stood up and enter the kitchen to make the stew. As I was making the stew, my wife that said she's not feeling fine was busy watching film om her phone. She complained earlier that her head is hefty and aching her that she can't stand up from the bed, but she stood up and start looking for the BT Audio to connect to her phone so that she'll be able to hear the film audio very well.
Immediately I finished making thr stew, I served the food on the table and the next my wife wanted to stood up from the bed to join on the table so that we can eat.
I just told her that You can never eat from this food this night and tomorrow morning, because you were the one that said you were not hungry that I was troubling you to make food.
I also told her that the headache allow you br watching films and also allow you to be looking for BT Audio. But denied you to cook for me.
So house I want to know if this is right or wrong pls or what can I do.
To all moniker saying have I ever helped her before this is for you below:
BTW I have cooked many times in the house, there are times she'll go to work before she comes back I'll have prepare good foods, that will atimes takes me 2 or more hours to prepare and she'll come back and eat and smile and say thank you. I use to get home between 5pm and 6pm latest, while she'll be coming home by 7pm, 8pm or latter.
At times the two of us may be at home and I'll be the only one cooking, while she'll just lie down watching films or doing another thing while I do the while cooking.
I think I have being helpful to her in cooking and other chores in the house. There are many times I'll be the one washing all the clothes in the house, while she's sleeping or doing something else.
I literally do almost 80% of everything in the house if not more than.
But me doing all those doesn't mean am a fool or I don't know what am doing.
Bit I think as a man you have to man up.
Actually, doing all that means you are a fool and you don't know what you are doing.
That is why your wife no send you.
She is of the opinion that you are an easy pushover.
You need to learn how to take control of your family
yinkaOdutuyo: So the main issue that led to me denying her food this night.
I asked her for the two of us to go and get ingredients for food, she said she's having serious headache so I went alone.
When I came back I washed the rice and put it on fire and I also start grinding the pepper and tomatoes with manual grinder.
After few minutes when the rice was done I asked my wife to go and put down the rice from fire, and fried the stew afterwards.
She just started shouting she's so tired, her head is hot and making hefty sounds inside that she can't stand up from this bed.
I insisted and she went to put the rice down and off the gas, instead of her to start frying the stew. She just came and meet me on the bed.
And she started shouting I didn't tell you am hungry, am not even eating this night at all. Do whatever you want to do, I'll never stand up to make any stew in this house. If you want to eat go and make the stew yourself.
I just stood up and enter the kitchen to make the stew. As I was making the stew, my wife that said she's not feeling fine was busy watching film om her phone. She complained earlier that her head is hefty and aching her that she can't stand up from the bed, but she stood up and start looking for the BT Audio to connect to her phone so that she'll be able to hear the film audio very well.
Immediately I finished making thr stew, I served the food on the table and the next my wife wanted to stood up from the bed to join on the table so that we can eat.
I just told her that You can never eat from this food this night and tomorrow morning, because you were the one that said you were not hungry that I was troubling you to make food.
I also told her that the headache allow you br watching films and also allow you to be looking for BT Audio. But denied you to cook for me.
So house I want to know if this is right or wrong pls or what can I do.
To all moniker saying have I ever helped her before this is for you below:
BTW I have cooked many times in the house, there are times she'll go to work before she comes back I'll have prepare good foods, that will atimes takes me 2 or more hours to prepare and she'll come back and eat and smile and say thank you. I use to get home between 5pm and 6pm latest, while she'll be coming home by 7pm, 8pm or latter.
At times the two of us may be at home and I'll be the only one cooking, while she'll just lie down watching films or doing another thing while I do the while cooking.
I think I have being helpful to her in cooking and other chores in the house. There are many times I'll be the one washing all the clothes in the house, while she's sleeping or doing something else.
I literally do almost 80% of everything in the house if not more than.
But me doing all those doesn't mean am a fool or I don't know what am doing.
Bit I think as a man you have to man up.
Shey Una want working class wife, so please share in d house chores joyfully
Jamesbiodun: Na you cause am, you turn to cook and your wife doesn't have regard for you Mr chef Some woman just like to cause trouble sha... Stop cooking and know peace since she doesn't really appreciate you and want to turn you to chefchi
No you are not, I like the way u made her know that u can do and undo.
We women seems to be overjoyed when a man do all of this things forgetting that it is our responsibility. If the man dt is doing all the chores suddenly says he's not doing then women shouldn't make it the man responsibility. We should stand up and do the work.
Man assisting wife is very very good. At the same time women shouldn't take it for granted.
Just shut up. The woman works like d Man. They should both b in d kitchen
AutoChick4U: Just shut up. The woman works like d Man. They should both b in d kitchen
You just jump to comment without reading the op message. Anyways, I can see the fish brain in ur head. You just don't insult pple u don't know better read and pass dt all
You're the one supposed to be cooking for your wife sef.
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Why are you people attacking me like this
I'm very sure his wife gets up in the morning to go to work just like him and as such they should split the house chores equally. Instead of doing as if he's doing his wife a favor by cooking for her.
You're the one supposed to be cooking for your wife sef.
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Why are you people attacking me like this
I'm very sure his wife gets up in the morning to go to work just like him and as such they should split the house chores equally. Instead of doing as if he's doing his wife a favor by cooking for her.
So house I want to know if this is right or wrong pls or what can I do.
To all moniker saying have I ever helped her before this is for you below:
BTW I have cooked many times in the house, there are times she'll go to work before she the two of us may be at home and I'll be the only one cooking, while she'll just lie down watching films or doing another thing while I do the while cooking.
I think I have being helpful to her in cooking and other chores in the house. There are many times I'll be the one washing all the clothes in the house, while she's sleeping or doing something else.
I literally do almost 80% of everything in the house if not more than.
But me doing all those doesn't mean am a fool or I don't know what am doing.
Bit I think as a man you have to man up.
It's not morally right to do so. Would they also share the bills equally. The man was very right if you ask.
It's a way to discipline bad attitude. If I she truly had headache she wouldn't be able to use her ear pod. No human being would be comfortable doing that. So it's clear she is lieing.
Nothing wrong with that. Especially if they are househusbands and as long as their wives don't degrade them but treat them as their equal.
I watched a video where a guy was a househusband and he was fulfilled and happy with it. His wife works and provides for him while he does the house chores. People insulted him in the comments but of course he didn't care.
You people cannot handle half of the shit you dish out to women.
How on Earth do these mentally unstable people able to open a moniker on nairaland?
Iyaebe: You are not matured,hope you’ll never ask for sex from her again.If I’m her I’ll deny you sex till I decide to let go for making me starve just because I acted silly . I hate tit for tat partners
She will go back to her parents house, another girl go enter
When I see some post as the Op It goes to show lot's of people go into marriage without being mature enough for it. I mean what's the big deal? Okay she dey watch movie and she lied about having headache because she was just being lazy.. She was wrong but starving her of food in ur own house is foolishness. Like what's the point really? I will let her serve herself and when she comes to the dinning we trash it out and ensure it doesn't happen again. Not letting her sleep hungry just to get back at her. Even if she never mature reach u should be able to teach her things she doesn't understand and not go down her level and drag with her. Next thing she will start withholding sex or giving u sex without her participation abi how sef. No be to claim married people, are u matured enough for what it entails?
Its like you do not want peace to reign in your home. Also its like you don't like s-X. You should have allowed her to eat the food. You will surprised how she would open the doors of ''cloud 9 activator'' for you. Try it next time and see.
