CHARACTERISTICS OF A CONFIRMED BIG BOY.

BIGBOY no be for mouth, not by sagging trousers, tinting hair or forming REDPILLER,
Being a BIG boy is all about Growing up and letting some things go rather than trying to fight tooth and nail Just to win an argument.
We are discussing men that are contented, mature and reasonable enough in the society, this is the class yours truly belongs to.

Here are the Top Characteristic of Big Boys? Check out if you are truly a BIG BOY or a mere red pillar.

1. HE DOESN’T SHOW OFF BEFORE LADIES
Some guys are simply funny. They sight a pretty lady and they start acting like “junkies”, No naaa!

The girl is in your taxi that’s why you brought out your Samsung Galaxy Tab, I phones and start playing compulsory, imaginary calls calling millions of naira to impress the lady, no wonder kidnapping business is booming.
There is God ooo!

HE DOESN’T INVOLVE IN INDISCRIMINATE WOOING OF LADIES...
They woo ladies in decent environments to avoid insults


HE DOESN’T DO THINGS TO ATTRACT UNNECESSARY ATTENTION
They try as much as possible to avoid unnecessary attention, a reason they stay mostly in estates to preserve their sanity.


HE HAS HIS OWN MONEY
They don't open foundation to beg money, they have their money from genuine hustling and enjoy it in peace.


HE TRIES HAReD TO FULFILL HIS PROMISE

They don't promise to convince, they fulfill their promise without compromise, that's integrity
If you made a promise to her to take her to the PROMISE eatery on Saturday. Try to keep to that. Even if it becomes impossible, sincerely assure her that you’ll make it up to her and really do make it up. It says a lot about your personality.

Probably, your thinking was wrong about who a Big Boy is. It’s not about “Low waist” and Having Seven Girlfriends oo… It’s about being responsible to One girl. As they say, the greatest sign of maturity is Responsibility.
Don’t be like the average Nigerian guy whose dream is in his pee pee…No! Aim higher.

8. HE HUMBLES HIMSELF & DOESN'T BRAG
Some self acclaimed BIG BOYS can be so silly. Probably because they were privileged to get a degree from a reputable university, they keep raising shoulders making every other person look like they have a slim chance of making it in life.

A Big boy understands the principles of life and he knows fully well that life sometimes favors the illiterates even more than the educated ‘cos he understands the dynamism of life, therefore he does not pride himself.

9. HIS FINANCES DOES NOT BECLOUD HIS RIGHT SENSE OF REASONING

Some dudes stop holding conversation with their neighbors or friends the moment they climb onto the ladder of success. They find it difficult to mingle with other people because of ego boasting.

A Big boy is well behaved and does not allow his success becloud his right sense of reasoning.

10. HE DOESN’T BELITTLE OTHER PEOPLE’S ENTITY
A Big Boy appreciates the good work of others rather than those who derive pleasure in bad-mouthing it. Some self acclaimed working class dudes are quick to condemn and rubbish their handworks.
A Big boy praises and encourages you even if you are not so doing well.

11HE HUMBLY CORRECTS PEOPLE’S MISTAKES
A Big Boy does not do I Too Know. Therefore, when a Big Boy reads a post or comment on Social Media and finds grammatical blunders in it, he sieves the blunders and picks the sense out of it or humbly corrects the mistakes where correction needs to be made, rather than those who will outrightly mock you and make fun out of it.

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