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Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by Dorwadora(f): 12:17am On Apr 10, 2022 |
kkins25:He can't get that kind of vibes from me cus naturally I'm scared.... I'm doing the whole thing because I was desperate to have a job and now that I've gotten it I don't wanna lose it... Believe me sir cooking is the least of my fear.... I'm always looking around in fear.... Jumping at every shadow 2 Likes |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by kkins25(m): 12:20am On Apr 10, 2022 |
Dorwadora:Okay. i understand your worry.. if you can get some one to go with you |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by SmartPolician: 3:59am On Apr 10, 2022 |
Dorwadora For now, I don't think there's anything to be worried about. If you say the place is isolated, make sure you have the contact of someone - a closeby friend or a policeman - whom you can call the day the man would want to force himself on you.But then, that's just a precautionary measure. The thing is, the man may just be another Nigerian boss who exploits his workers because he knows that jobs are hard to get in Nigeria. If he approaches you and asks you out, you have the right to say yes or no. He cannot force himself on you....if he tries to, take the action in the first paragraph. Good luck... |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by Bola146(f): 4:10am On Apr 10, 2022 |
blaise26abj: Sleeping and waking up is a risk! There are many people who are willing to take the job, if her mind is doubting, I told her to quit! 3 Likes |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by Enemyofpeace: 6:17am On Apr 10, 2022 |
Bola146:long yawns! |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by Sapiosexuality(m): 6:53am On Apr 10, 2022 |
Simple. Start cooking bad meals on purpose and you will be free from that. Add more salt, more pepper, more oil and let him free you. . You didn't sign up for cooking. I hate it when employers give employees jobs outside the scope of what they signed for. 2 Likes |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by Thandiubani(m): 8:02am On Apr 10, 2022 |
Well, the handwriting is on the wall. Just sha update us when knacks enter. 1 Like |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by DUNKA(m): 8:25am On Apr 10, 2022 |
Dorwadora:The questions are as follows: 1. Would you still cook if his wife/family are around? 2. Does his wife know you are cooking for him? 3. If she knows is she ok with it? 4. If you were married and a single junior of your husband was cooking for him at home like you are now would you be ok with it? Answer these questions truthfully and you would know how to proceed. All the best 6 Likes |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by Saintmary(f): 12:21pm On Apr 10, 2022 |
Dorwadora: Look at you sha, fasting can not stop him if he has ulterior motives. All he needs to do is take his ritual bath and you'll be shocked to see him on his prayer mat in the next few hours. See, he needs a quasi-wife, he has already roped you into the position, it's just a matter of time before he lures you. You need to ask yourself before going to work tomorrow, what do you want for yourself? Then it's either you stay or start looking for another job because you will be chewed up and spewed out if you stay. 3 Likes |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by zoedew: 2:48pm On Apr 10, 2022 |
Somebody’s on your case! Watch your back! 1 Like |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by aikyg(m): 2:48pm On Apr 10, 2022 |
I hope he's paying you for the cooking? It's only wrong if he's not paying you. |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by izubext007: 2:49pm On Apr 10, 2022 |
After frying meat for him to eat, also put it in mind that u should also fry ur pussy for to eat one day. 1 Like |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by meeketta: 2:50pm On Apr 10, 2022 |
You must be strict in your dealings with him. |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by Sunsets: 2:51pm On Apr 10, 2022 |
Look for another job. Resign. QED. The reason is simple: your boss is unprincipled. When unprincipled, anything can happen. If you are not open to anything, do voom. Lets assume that he is principle but naive (most unlikely), his naivety may get you killed by his wife. Now, if you are brutally frank with him and explain your displeasure, frustration in the job (from him) may set in. You are in a dangerous domain, jakpa. What are you still doing there? Haven't you left? I don't want to hear of a missing undergraduate girl. Dorwadora: 2 Likes |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by Shadysen: 2:51pm On Apr 10, 2022 |
Will you like someone to cook for your husband ? 1 Like |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by chronique(m): 2:51pm On Apr 10, 2022 |
Dorwadora: If you are pretty and attractive, it would just be a matter of time before you both start helping each other cook what is between your legs and I'm sure you know there can be no better food cooked other than that especially when you're both hungry and almost starving to death. Meanwhile, enjoy your cooking. As you sabi cook, we suppose call you "kukere". 2 Likes |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by seyz91(m): 2:52pm On Apr 10, 2022 |
Naso slawormiir: 1 Like |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by Obagofixxy: 2:53pm On Apr 10, 2022 |
The end result go bad ohhhh because u go soon appear for headline, better avoid that man ohhhhh 1 Like |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by Justc: 2:55pm On Apr 10, 2022 |
Just start cooking rubbish as if you don't know how to cook good food. He will know what to do. |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by ujezeez(m): 2:55pm On Apr 10, 2022 |
Anytime you and your married boss finally kpansh still let us know... 3 Likes |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by Golan007: 2:57pm On Apr 10, 2022 |
YoungLionken: In advanced societies, this ad-hoc role would sooner or later result in Oga being penalised. If he makes advances and she rejects it, man might neve run a business again. |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by CashVessel(m): 2:57pm On Apr 10, 2022 |
You need the job right? You should ask yourself this ; are you not making yourself vulnerable to rape or whatever heinous crimes could likely take place? The God that helped you get this job can help you get another. Tell him you aren't comfortable with that aspect of the job and if he insists you must do it. For the sake of your life quit. If the wife no pour you hot water, the man fit rape you... 2 Likes |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by Exceed15: 2:57pm On Apr 10, 2022 |
Just be becareful. |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by LiamNG: 2:59pm On Apr 10, 2022 |
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Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by Xilsbridalhouse(f): 2:59pm On Apr 10, 2022 |
Dorwadora:Just cook nonsense! Don’t try to impress him with your cooking skills. Make the food very salty and Pepperish. |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by Prenonjebose: 2:59pm On Apr 10, 2022 |
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