andromida:

I think its communication and commitment at the end of the day whether inlaws or boredom or whatever.when both parties are committed to eachother and make constant effort to understand eachother pls underline constant because just because you understand someone last week it does not end there,thesame person maybe going through different things in another week if you dnt communicate how will you knw the person just looks troublesome to you thats not to say there are no troublesome people. dem plenty. Then commitment, when you are committed to something you make sure it works despite the odds and sometimes some people just dnt want to learn, they are proud and selfish and some people are not meant to be.

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In my little unnderstanding about marriage or relationship, alot gotta do with effective communication and commitment, without this two, nothing will work out.

When things are discussed and determined to resolve, it will work out, from sex, finance, in-law, children e.t.c followed by prayer to whatever u believe in.

I have had my share of bad communication with my wife, but we work on it, and today am grateful to God that we are having a nice marital life and i we are commited to make our marriage work cos i know some pple are not happy about our union.

Pls talk to your wife or hubby about things u know that are not okay with you, u will be glad you did.

I pray that all couples going thru one trouble or the other for God to come to their aid, amen, amin.


A minute of silence for those that have lost partner to this inferno, 59' 60' amen

Thanks a Bunch!

koyaabj:

Bordom, infidelity on the part of the babe, poverty.

ajigglin:

communication is number 1. when that goes, everything else crumbles.

But u have to Agree that Communication Gap Can be Bridged, But Infidelity is a Bridge Way Toooo Far!

D.A.V.E:

why relationships break? Interestin,a relationship to me is like watching only one station(probably afmag) on your dstv,it becomes boring n u jst cant help but switch stations(this is where the break up sets in),its not jst infidelity,financial matters etc but change of preference

busygirl:
very well said! Almost 7 out of 10 relationships die as a result of boredom.

MsPotato:
Pafuri, I believe some parents in law are 4ucking selfish. Like my parents. They dont want to hear what I have to say about my bf. To them, as long as he is black, that means he is a confirm bad evil person to their eyes. But what they dont know is they themselves are evil

MsPotato:
Pafuri, I did not receive your PM  




yes I know that but what can I do? They hate black while I love black so what do you expect me to do? Should I follow their orders and when both of them die, I will live a lifetime of misery?