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Re: Me And My Wife, Now See Sex As Stress... by AfahaAbia(m): 3:56pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
I 1 Like |
Re: Me And My Wife, Now See Sex As Stress... by rickleye: 4:00pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
When I was studying for my WAEC exams - I was beginning to get a lot of female attention. There was the incident I mentioned in an earlier thread with a friends sister. There is another one where I dated sisters and lost them both and some other ones. In any case my school Ifako grammar had a pre WAEC exam in which I preformed woefully. Not bad IMO but less than expected. ( I would attend school from 8-4pm have an hour break and start evening class 5-7pm. Monday - Friday. On weekends I would wake up 4-6am to study before the rest of the family would wake up to study. So they my dad and my uncle thought the investment was not yielding the reward. So they told every single female that I was not available. I wouldn’t know they came by. I would just hear from the grapevine that they left a message. Some said I left a msg with your dad ( I would laugh and say , oh that’s why I never got the msg) One day, I grew tired and asked my dad and uncle why they stopped my female friends. They said dude - sex in the right contents is good and that when you are older you will have sex and grow tired of sex. He said women will throw themselves at you and you would say no. I laughed then but fast forward - they are right. My whole preamble is to say - you have to spice your relationship up. - Make it spontaneous sometimes - Roleplay - you doctor she patient. - Have targeted date night and movie. - spread it out . 2ce a week - You need to replenish some nutrients in you ( libido - Take a weekend with the boys ( Absence makes the heart grow fonder) - Look inward - Sex shouldn’t be stressful but dealing with other stuff mentally affects your sex life. - what is your love language and hers as well . It could be gifts, communication ( writing her little notes and poems) or physicality . It doesn’t also have to end in coitus . Goodluck 4 Likes |
Re: Me And My Wife, Now See Sex As Stress... by Nobody: 4:02pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
You're not alone you guys need some time off like 2-3 weeks. |
Re: Me And My Wife, Now See Sex As Stress... by Nobody: 4:03pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
1 Like |
Re: Me And My Wife, Now See Sex As Stress... by JOACHINpedro: 4:05pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
Vinnie2000:
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Re: Me And My Wife, Now See Sex As Stress... by Nobody: 4:05pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
yinkaOdutuyo:Dem no dey know person finish o...so you don't get heart break. |
Re: Me And My Wife, Now See Sex As Stress... by gonkin(m): 4:41pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
We also get tired of food but man must chop. Marriage isn't all about sex na. Sex just comes with the package. Wetin I dey talk sef. I no even get babe not to mention marriage abeg listen to the experts 1 Like |
Re: Me And My Wife, Now See Sex As Stress... by Bignuell(m): 5:02pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
I get high libido, sex be like oxygen, Niggas una don see an abi |
Re: Me And My Wife, Now See Sex As Stress... by Nobody: 5:07pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
E dey happen sometimes. You guys are overfed with "sex". You need time out. |
Re: Me And My Wife, Now See Sex As Stress... by franklingud(m): 6:01pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
You never know say sex can be tiring and boring? What happened is that you guys libido has drastically reduced. Solution?.... You guys need some dose of vitamins and libido enhancing drugs. Especially you as the man, try taking tigernut drink. And add some exercise to it. Then Thank me later. |
Re: Me And My Wife, Now See Sex As Stress... by Sureplug123(m): 6:02pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
Decreased sex drive and intimacy tend to be common as people age. Research has shown that sexual intimacy starts to decline as people grow older. |
Re: Me And My Wife, Now See Sex As Stress... by Nyascobar1414: 6:06pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
Kingpin1000: He will learn! 1 Like |
Re: Me And My Wife, Now See Sex As Stress... by Mivici: 6:06pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
>: yinkaOdutuyo:love is blind |
Re: Me And My Wife, Now See Sex As Stress... by Judd007: 6:15pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
Just 3 years you are tired, remember you are stucked together for life, just de think of new styles my brother, yinkaOdutuyo: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Me And My Wife, Now See Sex As Stress... by Karleb(m): 6:21pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
Demigod22: Wise man. |
Re: Me And My Wife, Now See Sex As Stress... by house10s2: 7:09pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
N it begins |
Re: Me And My Wife, Now See Sex As Stress... by wiseone28: 8:15pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
Thank God i am a Monk
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Re: Me And My Wife, Now See Sex As Stress... by zionmade(m): 9:11pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
Prettygirl200:You are correct. They can keep bringing their privacy to the public and destroying their home |
Re: Me And My Wife, Now See Sex As Stress... by phemmyfour: 10:04pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
yinkaOdutuyo:It's normal, you guys need to change the atmosphere like having it on the beach etc....you need to spice things up |
Re: Me And My Wife, Now See Sex As Stress... by HausaIgboYoruba: 10:09pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
yinkaOdutuyo:Read up coolidge effect! |
Re: Me And My Wife, Now See Sex As Stress... by Nobody: 10:37pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
It's sad... |
Re: Me And My Wife, Now See Sex As Stress... by richie3384: 12:10am On Apr 17, 2022 |
yinkaOdutuyo: It's normal later you will resume. It's a cycle. This one happened to both of you at the same time, it can also happen to each of you at different times 1 Like |
Re: Me And My Wife, Now See Sex As Stress... by Nobody: 5:01am On Apr 17, 2022 |
yinkaOdutuyo: Is she ugly? Cus that's the only reason that will stop her! ... |
Re: Me And My Wife, Now See Sex As Stress... by Nobody: 5:10am On Apr 17, 2022 |
yinkaOdutuyo:U both need to get away.. a vacation will help. Don't just relax and do nothing or someone else might start introducing something fun to her then it wouldn't be long before she starts entertaining them |
Re: Me And My Wife, Now See Sex As Stress... by bigpicture001: 7:31am On Apr 17, 2022 |
Honestly, sex is boring to me.... It's always dig dig dig.... So monotonous annd boring |
Re: Me And My Wife, Now See Sex As Stress... by eventainment(m): 8:04am On Apr 17, 2022 |
yinkaOdutuyo:Change your sex location like a vacation for you both will do magic . |
Re: Me And My Wife, Now See Sex As Stress... by ibkonekt(m): 8:25am On Apr 17, 2022 |
yinkaOdutuyo: You are not tired of sex itself. You are tired of her and she is tired of you. So sex is fun when there is a challenge and chase involved, you have already had this woman in all ways. If this lack lf sex continues both of you may likely cheat 1 Like |
Re: Me And My Wife, Now See Sex As Stress... by PUSSYHOE(m): 8:30am On Apr 17, 2022 |
yinkaOdutuyo: Toto voucher The day you will catch her sucking dick you go die that day. |
Re: Me And My Wife, Now See Sex As Stress... by ashawopikin(m): 10:10am On Apr 17, 2022 |
Exkandayee:true |
Re: Me And My Wife, Now See Sex As Stress... by Originalsly: 11:26am On Apr 17, 2022 |
yinkaOdutuyo: Guy... married ... and having marathon sex? Were you going away?....... to the moon?.... for a longggg time? What was the point? Is like going to buffets... instead of going once a month or so ... you go everyday.... and instead of just choosing one or two dishes on the menu each time... you chose to stuff your self full of every item every day. After a time... would younreally be having appetite for any dish on that menu? Same here. You done wayyy too much... nothing left to explore nor enjoy... been there done that. As a guy... your libido will slow down... and this will affect your ego. Is this really the root of your disinterest?... cannot maintain level of performance? ... used to use boosters to keep up and have marathon sex? ... and now they are no longer effective? If this really the case... it is normal. If this is not the case... then it is not normal for a man with high libido to suddenly lose interest in having sex .... with the same partner yes ... but not having sex period.He will be looking outside.... married or not. Now that you told your wife... and she admitted that sex was stressful to her .... do you realize that she was doing it to please you? Do you realize if she was stressed that she cannot cum?... but you are swearing you were making her cum? Did you ever look for signs to know if she were in the mood to have sex?... or was it sex on demand and you figured she would say something if she wasn't in the mood? I suggest you read up and understand the difference between having sex and making love.... making love is a must for the married to have a long and healthy sexual relationship. Take a different approach.... and take this to the bank ... you may no longer be interested in sex ... but your wife will ... she may be taking a break now ... but sooner or later... regardless of what her mouth will be saying.....her body will be demanding sex. |
Re: Me And My Wife, Now See Sex As Stress... by Blunttruth: 7:51am On Apr 18, 2022 |
yinkaOdutuyo:It's completely normal. But don't let it linger for too long, always do things that will ignite your passion. Do you have a baby? |
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