While i was busy striving hard to grow my new business and expand my source of income, my girlfriend of 3 years (Fiancee) was busy dancing in someone else music video.

Do you think that's a red flag or I'm just overthinking everything?

I'm currently angry and I'm contemplating on ending our relationship asap!

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We've settled the matter.

I think you are over reacting.

Is she a paid dancer?

As she didn't tell you bout it... Your fiance is hiding a lot from you...

Izprince:
As she didn't tell you bout it... Your fiance is hiding a lot from you...

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Why must she tell him before dancing in music video to make her money.

No it is a pinkflag..
why not have a face to face interview with her to figure out the views..




I always laugh out at ppl that bring their respective stories here [the house of bitterness ] for advice and opinions..

Is it an old video or recent video?

Has she told you about it? If it's recent and she hasn't mentioned it, red flag bro.

MadamVanessa:







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Why must she tell her before dancing in music video to make her money.

Why will you be on a music video and not tell your bf when dancing is not her profession? The girl is not being faithful.

Izprince:
As she didn't tell you bout it... Your fiance is hiding a lot from you...

She didn't tell me anything just checking through tiktok and her IG page.. that was how i jammed the video. It hurt

Why do you want to cage her in the relationship? Don't you want her to work for her money?

End the relationship if you wanna end it.. You guys wahala is just too much. What is it sef?

There are many dancers making it big in the music industry both male and female.. Many of them are also getting endorsement deals. I don't wanna be mentioning names sef.

If I were to be your girlfriend, I will be so happy you're ending the relationship in order for me to focus on my career than to be caged in a relationship.

What nonsense!!!

funshint:

Why will you be on a music video and not tell your bf when dancing is not her profession? The girl is not being faithful.

So dancing in music video means that she has cheat already.. some nairalanders with myopic reasoning

Olam09:
While i was busy striving hard to grow my new business and expand my source of income, my girlfriend of 3 years (Fiancee) was busy dancing in someone else music video.

Do you think that's a red flag or I'm just overthinking everything?

I'm currently angry and I'm contemplating on ending our relationship asap!

so because she's dating a SIMP she shouldn't pursue her passion? Though, chances are that the owner of the music video is her new boyfriend and you are the ignorant ex

MadamVanessa:







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Why must she tell her before dancing in music video to make her money.[/s]

Your comment is the idiotic useless comment here if a girl can be in a relationship and still not tell such useful information to her boyfriend unless she has something to hide

Olam09:
While i was busy striving hard to grow my new business and expand my source of income, my girlfriend of 3 years (Fiancee) was busy dancing in someone else music video.

Do you think that's a red flag or I'm just overthinking everything?

I'm currently angry and I'm contemplating on ending our relationship asap!

here are some questions....
- what exactly is she doing in the video?
- are you 110% certain this was done while you guys were together?
- did she tell you about it beforehand?
- what did she say when you asked her "what the fukc is that all about"?

LoveNbeloved:
Is she a paid dancer?

No. But she's a model. Whenever she have a photoshoot section she use to tell me. But seeing this is heartbreaking and I'm a very jealous guy.

MrBrownJay1:


here are some questions....
- what exactly is she doing in the video?
- are you 110% certain this was done while you guys were together?
- did she tell you about it beforehand?
- what did she say when you asked her "what the fukc is that all about"?

She did not tell me anything and i haven't talk to her about it yet. Currently depressed.

MadamVanessa:






So dancing in music video means that she has cheat already.. some nairalanders with myopic reasoning

I'm not really surprised by your response...as a lady your capacity to reason is low. So won't argue any further. Anyway I smell a cheat!

MadamVanessa:







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Why must she tell him before dancing in music video to make her money.

She was supposed to tell me before hand.. imagine your bf appearing on Big brother naija while he didn't tell you anything how would you feel?

Olam09:
She did not tell me anything and i haven't talk to her about it yet. Currently depressed.

stop stressing about it (as it wont change anything) and just face her and show her the video and demand for an explanation. there is nothing more deceitful than a partner who does such things behind your back, without even having the decency to tell their partner.
if you guys have been 3 yrs together, and you can find stuff like that about your "supposed" life partner, what else does she have in her closet?!?

czarr:
Is it an old video or recent video?

Has she told you about it? If it's recent and she hasn't mentioned it, red flag bro.

Recent video, not up to 24 hours.

She for tell you nah...
But for her not to tell you that means you're not the main guy... Sorry ooh

I thought you finna be concerned about not having enough money yet to run your business...you're depressed about the most useless thing "Relationship".

Jennyclay:
Why do you want to cage her in the relationship? Don't you want her to work for her money?

End the relationship if you wanna end it.. You guys wahala is just too much. What is it sef?

There are many dancers making big in the music industry both male and female.. Many of them are also getting endorsement deals. I don't wanna be mentioning names sef.

If I were to be your girlfriend, I will be so happy you're ending the relationship in order for me to focus on my career than to be caged in a relationship.

What nonsense!!!

She's working as a secretary in an accounting firm. She's not a fucķing dancer!

No be say she even danced well sef.
Mtcheeeew

Olam09:


No. But she's a model. Whenever she have a photoshoot section she use to tell me. But seeing this is heartbreaking and I'm a very jealous guy.

She is a community girlfriend, stop wasting your time trying to domesticate street dog.

Olam09:


No. But she's a model. Whenever she have a photoshoot section she use to tell me. But seeing this is heartbreaking and I'm a very jealous guy.

You say "model"?? Ha I rest my case. See I use to work as a photographer with these models here in Lekki... The sex sessions we(Photographers) do have with some of this models after photoshoots I can't say them here. I'm sorry bro you fiancee has a lot to hide.

From dancing in a music video to dancing in the bedroom.. That is if they never bang Her pussy tire.

OP, E sure me die say dem Don bang that your gf tire. We have said this over and over again that you don't date Nigeria girls, you only bang their pussy, dump them and move on. But wey be simps no dey ever hear word

Olam09:


She's working as a secretary in an accounting firm. She's not a fucķing dancer!

That your girlfriend is a coded runs girl, she's an Olosho disguising as a dancer.

That's exactly how Nigeria girls behaves. Haven't you heard that u don't date Nigeria girls? You only bang their pussy, dump them and move on.

U better dump that Olosho and move on with ur life. Girls full everywhere

Nonexisting:
She is a community girlfriend, stop wasting your time trying to domesticate street dog.

Comrade. Only if the simp will listen to this great advice of yours!!!

The guy is trying to domesticate a community hoe and a coded Olosho! Simps will never learn!

MadamVanessa:







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Why must she tell him before dancing in music video to make her money.

if u are wise d first question u should ask is if she's a video vixen?
But u are a block head who types b4 thinking,no wonder u said a man dropped your sorry ass,congrats to d guy that dodged a bullet n it's a big sorry for d next unfortunate guy

Olam09:
While i was busy striving hard to grow my new business and expand my source of income, my girlfriend of 3 years (Fiancee) was busy dancing in someone else music video.

Do you think that's a red flag or I'm just overthinking everything?

I'm currently angry and I'm contemplating on ending our relationship asap!

op she is making her money, if she was idle people like u would have come here to start calling her names that she is useless yen yen yen yen pls allow her to make her money. If u don't want the relationship den end it. She is not your wife so Don't cage her.

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