Evidenx:
SHE FAILED HER SELF.

Yemsam01:
And that child failed herself if!

sassiemyk:
That Child Failed herself also...

Preacherrr:
THE CHILD ALSO FAILED HERSELF.... By choosing to tread the wrong path too early in life.

onadana:
You forgot to add...The child failed herself.Were they not other girls there too?

sisisioge:
And the child failed herself...surely, she knew it was unacceptable practice for children to have sex, it was also unacceptable to record it. Otherwise, she wouldnt have to hide to do it, it would be a thing she could do openly. How did she learn those things? It is well.

we are still talking of a 10yr old innocent child, right?!

sisisioge:
I honestly dont know why the school left them unchaperone!

victons:
How did school fail?

Manlikechoba:
School didn't fail any here
You can say society(what she saw and heard etc)
Her parents (allowing her watch some kind things and movies and at age 10,you suppose don dey teach them sex education etc
School tried their best in separating them but still yet,the did was done

thats part of the school "failure"...as i dont understand how 10yr old can roam freely at night in a strange hotel/place, in a foreign country.

HeavenShield:
The child failed herself but I think someone has been defilling that kid!![/b]

i havent watch the video, but by the description of things, it didnt seen like it was her 1st attempt, thus the question:" how long as this poor innocent child been led astray?". BTW i doubt this has anything to do with religion, especially when this whole saga comes from a xtian school.

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limit it to school and parents.
we gat nothing to do with the child upbringing

Olatara:
Which society? Is it the society that is minding their business? Abeg!
Charity begins at home.

i believe that sex everywhere in society, sex being cool in society, unclothedness everywhere, sex in music and its videos etc has a part to play...thus society is to blame too!

tunapawizzy:
you are right BUT some children came with the bad characters from their homes...how are we sure this was learnt in school...no matter how you look at it, good parenting is golden..even if the child is learning bad things in school, you will have a chance of knowing early enough

Kayrubu:
the Child Failed all Of the above.

Shebbs:
And The Child Failed Herself, Failed Her Parents, Failed Her School And Failed Society
Rubbish!

rollywise:
And the child did not fail abi? Some children need serious beating to reset their brain

generalwo:
..... The children also failed their parents, their school and the society.

LaReinaa:
And the child also failed herself, her parents and the society because she’s a stup*d and wayward child.

true, and we have to look deeper to see where that child missed road....but we cant sit here and believe that a 10yr old is MATURE ENOUGH to make the right decisions about sex (which is an adult act). a 10yr old should be playing with dolls, not ask herself if its ok to have sex IMHO!

AutoRedux:
Respectfully speaking, I really don't want to call you a f ool.
Girl that was very happy riding dick that's who hypocritical and sentimental Nigerians are saying was raped.
The only person who has failed herself is the girl and nobody else. Not the parents, not the school and not the society.

bro, you are entiltled to your opinion, but there is something really wrong in society, if you think that a 10yr old child, just woke up one day and decided to have sex and riding young boys like a p0rnstar. we are talking of a child here, and if this isnt a confirmation that our society is indeed fukced up, then i dont know what is. the fact that you would expect a 10yr old to be smart/mature enough to know whats right or wrong (at such a young age) is whats amazing here!

abbey621:
Even at 7, many of us knew whenever a kissing scene comes on, we turn our eyes away, even at 7 many of us knew if we should see an unclad grown up we cover our eyes. That was back then in the late 80s and early 90s o wey innocence still reign supreme. Nowadays kids are exposed to the vices 50 times as much as back then. A good parent will teach his or her child the consequences of allowing someone to touch his or her privates, a good parent would use everything from religion to finances, making sure the child understands not only the consequences for bad behaviors but the reward for good behavior. the problem nowadays is that some parents themselves are still not mentally developed, some are still learning how to raise themselves not to talk of children.

YES....those of us who came from a safe/sane environment with caring parents had he mental/emotional tools to understand right from wrong, while others dont. let us not put everyone in the same bag, and instead let us all still believe that a 10yr is still an innocent child!

Kokaine:
No sir. I don't agree. Again the age of your first kids does not influence the truth about this scenerio in any way. I married as a virgin at 34 and my wife was a virgin at 30. That was the background and times we lived in that benefitted us. Do you think the societal values of today does not influence the decisions kids will make? The movies, the bbnaija? The celebrities? The bobrisky? The phones and xrated videos? The unaccountable politicians and moral decay in a society? Put that same child in the north and see her have a different character altogether. The society affects the growth and characteristics of the children who live there.

Offtopic

In this day and age, northerners are still living in their delusions about their 'high moral values'?

The same north with a drug abuse epidemic of slow (codeine and coke)

The same north that raised a generation of psychotic gang raping money obsessed bandits?

The same north where school proprietors are kidnapping and killing toddlers?

The same north where divorce is a casual game?

Let's not even get into how spoilt the children of the northern elite are. We had some when I was in secondary school. Completely and utterly out of control. Slovenly and with no respect for societal norms

And while everyone kept quiet about it the time, most of us also wondered why the victim of that school proprietor, a 4 year old was wearing makeup in pictures

But let everyone be living in their fools paradise, even as it collapses around them.

immortalcrown:
School management is hard oh! But this news left one stone unturned. How did the girl end up with boys in a room? The truth is not yet out. The earlier the school says the whole truth, the better for the school. The parents of the kids, the school management and the society contribute to the perversion.

However, the boy is lucky. The society would have buried him alive if there is no video to show he did not rape the girl. His own parents are quiet because they have shame. The girl's mother wants to play smart in a society that is smarter than her. The boy and the girl need to be disciplined according to their ages to avoid their future being ruined.

But wait oh! As una go the world school game finish, which trophy una win? Abi the video na una trophy? Abi na show off una wan go do and the video come spoil the show? E be like say village people follow una reach Dubai.

The girl went down to the boy's room according to Ubi Franklin (The girls family friend) to get her charger which they took.

That's the girl, obviously she's been into s** B4 now.

MrBrownJay1:







we are still talking of a 10yr old innocent child, right?!





thats part of the school "failure"...as i dont understand how 10yr old can roam freely at night in a strange hotel/place, in a foreign country.

The girl went to IG and picked up all the wrong role models and messages

She wanted validation celebration and followers.

So definitely society plays a part.

MrBrownJay1:







we are still talking of a 10yr old innocent child, right?!





thats part of the school "failure"...as i dont understand how 10yr old can roam freely at night in a strange hotel/place, in a foreign country.

YES....those of us who came from a safe/sane environment with caring parents had he mental/emotional tools to understand right from wrong, while others dont. let us not put everyone in the same bag, and instead let us all still believe that a 10yr is still an innocent child!

You believe a girl with a moniker Badgirlfuck is still an innocent girl or that its the school's fault that a girl that called herself badgirlfuck sneaked out at night to go and fùck?

wirinet:
You believe a girl with a moniker Badgirlfuck is still an innocent girl or that its the school's fault that a girl that called herself badgirlfuck sneaked out at night to go and fùck?

i believe any 10yr old child is innocent yes, and its due to bad influence that a 10yr old innocent child could suddenly do these adult acts. the above sexual acts dont come naturally for a 10yr old because they aint even suppose to think of sex at such a young age.

here is a simple clue: if a pedo grooms a child to believe that sex at 5yr old is okay, would you still blame that same child when they grow up and wanna have sex with everybody at 10yr old?!?

GloriousGbola:
The girl went to IG and picked up all the wrong role models and messages
She wanted validation celebration and followers.
So definitely society plays a part.

exactly!!!!

wirinet:


You believe a girl with a moniker Badgirlfuck is still an innocent girl or that its the school's fault that a girl that called herself badgirlfuck sneaked out at night to go and fùck?

Very close to badgirlriri as a moniker

And I'm not sure internet handles mean that much.monikers can be serious, for fun, for trolling, for shock value, for amusement - I mean we have all sorts of monikers here based on male and female Instruments. We even have monikers that translate as good fellatio_.

This is a small pikin attention seeker who has picked the wrong ideas to look for attention.

Which incidentally may mean she is getting no attention at home whatsoever.

GloriousGbola:


Very close to badgirlriri as a moniker

And I'm not sure internet handles mean that much.monikers can be serious, for fun, for trolling, for shock value, for amusement - I mean we have all sorts of monikers here based on male and female Instruments. We even have monikers that translate as good fellatio_.

This is a small pikin attention seeker who has picked the wrong ideas to look for attention.

Which incidentally may mean she is getting no attention at home whatsoever.

We are talking of a 10 year old girl and not an adult over 18 who use nairaland. The girl probably started using the moniker at 7 or 8 years of age.

I have a 7 year old daughter who although has an Internet enabled phone does not know what the word fùck means, even my 13 year old who is a tech guru does not understand the word fùck yet.

wirinet:


We are talking of a 10 year old girl and not an adult over 18 who use nairaland. The girl probably started using the moniker at 7 or 8 years of age.

I have a 7 year old daughter who although has an Internet enabled phone does not know what the word fùck means, even my 13 year old who is a tech guru does not understand the word fùck yet.

If you think a 13 year old tech guru does not know what the word Bleep means I have a bridge to sell you.

Did you not know what that word meant when you were 13?

If you want to live in denial that your darling kids do not know cuss words , that's on you.

gamers use provocative handles and have always have - particularly kids.

MrBrownJay1:


i believe any 10yr old child is innocent yes, and its due to bad influence that a 10yr old innocent child could suddenly do these adult acts. the above sexual acts dont come naturally for a 10yr old because they aint even suppose to think of sex at such a young age.


here is a simple clue: if a pedo grooms a child to believe that sex at 5yr old is okay, would you still blame that same child when they grow up and wanna have sex with everybody at 10yr old?!?



exactly!!!!

I hate it when people make reference to a pedo without an iota of evidence. Bad behaviour could be gotten anywhere; bad friends, Internet or watching adult movies/shows. The girl already has an adult themed Likee account since age 8 at least. She also have a smart phone with unrestricted Internet, where porn is a click away. So she does not need a pedo to be spoilt.

GloriousGbola:


If you think a 13 year old tech guru does not know what the word Bleep means I have a bridge to sell you.

Did you not know what that word meant when you were 13?

If you want to live in denial that your darling kids do not know cuss words , that's on you.

gamers use provocative handles and have always have - particularly kids.

Believe me he does not know the word fùck yet. This is someone that still walk the house naked not minding other people in the house. He is still like pre forbidden fruit adam, does not understand understand unclothedness yet. I always shout on him to tie towel after bathing instead of walking around naked looking for his towel or pants. He also has a youtube channel with over 200 subscribers.

wirinet:
I hate it when people make reference to a pedo without an iota of evidence. Bad behaviour could be gotten anywhere; bad friends, Internet or watching adult movies/shows. The girl already has an adult themed Likee account since age 8 at least. She also have a smart phone with unrestricted Internet, where porn is a click away. So she does not need a pedo to be spoilt.

...and your point is?!?!?

wirinet:


Believe me he does not know the word fùck yet. This is someone that still walk the house naked not minding other people in the house. He is still like pre forbidden fruit adam, does not understand understand unclothedness yet. I always shout on him to tie towel after bathing instead of walking around naked looking for his towel or pants. He also has a youtube channel with over 200 subscribers.

Unless you are homeschooling your 13 year old, I assure you he has classmates who have used the word Bleep in front of him.

And not everyone of your child's friends parents are as careful

But maybe Im wrong

GloriousGbola:


Unless you are homeschooling your 13 year old, I assure you he has classmates who have used the word Bleep in front of him.

And not everyone of your child's friends parents are as careful

But maybe Im wrong

He takes after me, he doesn't have any friends. His only friends are his brother, his sister, his grandmother and I, not forgetting his mother. In his past time, he is on the family computer or his phone. There was only one incident when through a gaming site, someone he was chatting with was attempting to groom him. The person pretended to be a small girl and was talking about love and gayism. His little sister quickly alerted me that her brother was chatting with strange people online. I took the phone and viewed all their chats and browsing history. After resetting his brains with belt, I seized his phone for one month. I asked his junior brother and sister to monitor what he does his phone and report any suspicious activity. The report i have been getting is that he is either gaming, studying or youtubing.

To me I believe the best environment to train children well is in a family setting, where everyone watches out for the children and both parents make themselves available to monitor them. What is killing our society is the break down of the family structure. The children then look for family support elsewhere.

wirinet:


He takes after me, he doesn't have any friends. His only friends are his brother, his sister, his grandmother and I, not forgetting his mother. In his past time, he is on the family computer or his phone. There was only one incident when through a gaming site, someone he was chatting with was attempting to groom him. The person pretended to be a small girl and was talking about love and gayism. His little sister quickly alerted me that her brother was chatting with strange people online. I took the phone and viewed all their chats and browsing history. After resetting his brains with belt, I seized his phone for one month. I asked his junior brother and sister to monitor what he does his phone and report any suspicious activity. The report i have been getting is that he is either gaming, studying or youtubing.

To me I believe the best environment to train children well is in a family setting, where everyone watches out for the children and both parents make themselves available to monitor them. What is killing our society is the break down of the family structure. The children then look for film support elsewhere.

OK.

immortalcrown:
You are obviously insane. I did not say the one they already did will spoil their future. I said they should be disciplined so they do not continue with that habit. If they continue with the habit, their future will likely be ruined. Are you saying continuous sex by kids cannot ruin their future?

you are stupid for calling me insane without answering how sex ruins future

Cromagnon:
you are stupid for calling me insane without answering how sex ruins future

You are stupid for not knowing sexual intercourse is for adults. You are stupid for not knowing that children indulging in sexual intercourse at tender age ruins their age. If you are not stupid, why is an adult sexing an underage female a crime even if she consents for it?

abbey621:


I'm not going to bother arguing with you too much because you're not talking about society itself but governmental policies and inactions. Your premise is flawed as you assume the wealthier the parents the more likely the children are morally and ethically sound, this is complete FALLACY! You also mentioned the USA, are you kidding me? The same country that not only has a gun problem but a drug and depression problem as well? That country?

I've been in the USA for close to13 years now and I've had the privilege of working and socializing not only with the grassroots but the CEOS, directors etc. I can say without any doubt that society does not give a flip about your kids. Society will never ever do your job for you, it would rather help you to further break down your child into what the system believes is appropriate for him or her based on skin color, gender etc.

Your premise is flawed as it ignores personal choices, it ignores responsibility and accountability. You can be in Nigeria, USA or australia, if you lack discipline from a solid foundation(parental) then you're already at a disadvantage in the society, this is not about mponey or governemnt, it is about parents acting like parents. Let's get back to the basics!

I wasn't talking about money, all I said up there are not my words but tried and tested documented and proven ideology, the society definitely includes the government and it's policies shape the future outcome of children, I wasn't talking solely about the situation at hand but responding to your allegations that the society has no stake in a child's upbringing. You will not argue much indeed, see epistle, taking it personal.

vannessa7:


I wasn't talking about money, all I said up there are not my words but tried and tested documented and proven ideology, the society definitely includes the government and it's policies shape the future outcome of children, I wasn't talking solely about the situation at hand but responding to your allegations that the society has no stake in a child's upbringing. You will not argue much indeed, see epistle, taking it personal.

Read what I wrote but this time carefully, "IT IS NOT THE JOB OF SOCIETY TO RAISE YOUR KIDS", this does not mean it has no role in it, stop making sh*t up!

immortalcrown:
You are stupid for not knowing sexual intercourse is for adults. You are stupid for not knowing that children indulging in sexual intercourse at tender age ruins their age.

You said future, not age
Clearly you're the stupid one

If you are not stupid, why is an adult sexing an underage female a crime even if she consents for it?

was and adult sexing a child or were two children sexing themselves.

You're not Very intelligent are you?

Very crass and uncouth and lack self control but not Very intelligent

Cromagnon:
You said future, not age Clearly you're the stupid one was and adult sexing a child or were two children sexing themselves. You're not Very intelligent are you? Very crass and uncouth and lack self control but not Very intelligent

Your stupidity is congenital. It runs in your lineage. That is why you believe constant sexual intercourse among teenagers is good for their future. You are probably a pedophile. I said the kids that had sex should be disciplined so their future will not be ruined. You are here claiming kids having sex is not bad for their future. If you are not stupid, tell me the benefits of kids having sex.

immortalcrown:
Your stupidity is congenital. It runs in your lineage. That is why you believe constant sexual intercourse among teenagers is good for their future. You are probably a pedophile. I said the kids that had sex should be disciplined so their future will not be ruined. You are here claiming kids having sex is not bad for their future. If you are not stupid, tell me the benefits of kids having sex.

SMH
Maybe you Sexing as a child
Why you lack home training


Notice how you can't say how their life will be ruined
But you so versed in gutter language

It's not my fault you fell into trap of pedophile o

Go deal with your demons in private

Cromagnon:
SMH Maybe you Sexing as a child Why you lack home training Notice how you can't say how their life will be ruined But you so versed in gutter language It's not my fault you fell into trap of pedophile o Go deal with your demons in private

Sexual intercourse involving kids can ruin their future through an unwanted pregnancy, sexually-transmitted disease, unprepared marriage and other problems. If you are not the most stupid person on earth, prove me wrong and list the benefits kids can get through having sex. Until you prove me wrong, remain stupid. Pedophile.

immortalcrown:
Sexual intercourse involving kids can ruin their future through an unwanted pregnancy,

Not necessarily

sexually-transmitted disease,

Curable

unprepared marriage

Has nothing to do with sex

and other problems.

Such as.....?

If you are not the most stupid person on earth,

Only a stupid person will call a stranger stupid because they can't debate like civilised persons. More jgjdta wild untrained animal

prove me wrong

You're the one saying it's wrong with your chest
Onus of proof is on you

and list the benefits kids can get through having sex.

I didn't claim there were benefits
I just asked you how you are so sure their lives will be ruined and you started frothing at the mouth

Until you prove me wrong, remain stupid. Pedophile.

Cromagnon:
I didn't claim there were benefits
I just asked you how you are so sure their lives will be ruined and you started frothing at the mouth

No sincere and sane person will ask such a question. If someone attempts to sex your teenage child, will you ask the same question?

Cromagnon:
I didn't claim there were benefits. I just asked you how you are so sure their lives will be ruined and you started frothing at the mouth

No sincere and sane person will ask such a question. If someone attempts to sex your teenage child, will you ask the same question?

Cromagnon:
I didn't claim there were benefits. I just asked you how you are so sure their lives will be ruined and you started frothing at the mouth

No sincere and sane person will ask such a question. If someone attempts to sex your teenage child, will you ask the same question? Will you?

immortalcrown:
No sincere and sane person will ask such a question. If someone attempts to sex your teenage child, will you ask the same question? Will you?

if someone tries or succeeds then I have failed as a parent. Also it wasn't someone,(adult), it was her age mate. I know many people male and female who were sexually active when I was also in primary school. Their future is not ruined. They are doing better than me who is a virgin. But continue to see red instead of providing proof of your claim. It's not as getting annoyed

Cromagnon:
if someone tries or succeeds then I have failed as a parent. Also it wasn't someone,(adult), it was her age mate. I know many people male and female who were sexually active when I was also in primary school. Their future is not ruined. They are doing better than me who is a virgin. But continue to see red instead of providing proof of your claim. It's not as getting annoyed

If your kid's age mate wants to sex your kid, would you ask the same question?

immortalcrown:
If your kid's age mate wants to sex your kid, would you ask the same question?

this is not about asking. It already happened.Pandora box is open. No amount of close marking will stop that child from having sex. All you can do now is pray they will listen to stop. But just assuming their life will be ruined, MBA I no gree

Cromagnon:
this is not about asking. It already happened.Pandora box is open. No amount of close marking will stop that child from having sex. All you can do now is pray they will listen to stop. But just assuming their life will be ruined, MBA I no gree

Like I said earlier, you obviously either very stupid or insincere.

One, why are you telling me it has already happened? When I say the kids should be disciplined, every sane adult knows I mean the kids should be told not to have sex again as kids. No sane human will think I mean a disciplinary measure should be used to reverse what the kids have already done.

Two, if your kid is sexed by his or her age mate and I advise that they should be disciplined to avoid their future being ruined, would you ask the same question?