| Re: My Job Is Ruining My Relationship, How Can I Go About It? by pretydiva(f): 8:57am On Apr 22, 2022 |
You will be fine op. It's just a matter of time |
| Re: My Job Is Ruining My Relationship, How Can I Go About It? by Nobody: 9:18am On Apr 22, 2022 |
Richy4:
My worry is you making a mistake in the surgical room because of fatigue... And when that happens, they won't hesitate to withdraw your licence and the management won't say that they were the one calling you..
Your job is just like that of the pilot that did not have enough sleep and were carrying passengers to and fro.
You seems not to have anytime due to the nature of your job... or maybe time management..
How do they plan your work shifts?... Maybe you can consider removing your name from the "on call" list so that if there are emergencies, they will call other doctors... Surely you are not the only doctor in that hospital unit...
Try and look for a lady in a teaching profession (primary or secondary) and see if you can build a relationship... They are the most patient people on the planet.. and it will suit your career as well 
It's true I'm not the only doctors in that unit, my team is a 5-man surgeon including my cheif, in cardio thoracic they are 9- 10 man in that unit and other specialty they are much more in number than us. Now to my unit, when I was in my first year I had 3 Seniors two of them left neurosurgery for pathology and family medicine, the other senior is the only one left to handle some surgery which is under my cheif supervision, I learnt most of the procedure from him , my cheif only step in complex surgeries he is in his 60's , there's a traditiona here that a residents can't go on leave except his juniors are catching up with surgical procedures, now my senior is on leave i think it's 8-weeks leave he will soon be back tho , my leave depends on my juniors there are two of them (white guys) but it's like they are not really catching up with some procedures they are in their first year so I can't really blame them the pride of being in neurosurgery is still hindering them so my leave is not any time soon until they can handle minor surgeries even if my senior is back ...the crux of the matter is we save life, that smile on you patient's family when you walk out of the operating room and you tell them their sons, daughter, husband or wife is doing good that hug , that feeling is out of this world, though I've had bitter experience as a doctor when you lose a patient and you can't even look at their family's face to tell them their son didn't make it.... it's just crazy Thanks for your advice sir, I'm grateful. 20 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: My Job Is Ruining My Relationship, How Can I Go About It? by Richy4(m): 9:38am On Apr 22, 2022 |
Scapula112:
It's true I'm not the only doctors in that unit, my team is a 5-man surgeon including my cheif, in cardio thoracic they are 9- 10 man in that unit and other specialty they are much more in number than us.
Now to my unit, when I was in my first year I had 3 Seniors two of them left neurosurgery for pathology and family medicine, the other senior is the only one left to handle some surgery which is under my cheif supervision, I learnt most of the procedure from him , my cheif only step in complex surgeries he is in his 60's , there's a traditiona here that a residents can't go on leave except his juniors are catching up with surgical procedures, now my senior is on leave i think it's 8-weeks leave he will soon be back tho , my leave depends on my juniors there are two of them (white guys) but it's like they are not really catching up with some procedures they are in their first year so I can't really blame them the pride of being in neurosurgery is still hindering them so my leave is not any time soon until they can handle minor surgeries even if my senior is back ...the crux of the matter is we save life, that smile on you patient's family when you walk out of the operating room and you tell them their sons, daughter, husband or wife is doing good that hug , that feeling is out of this world, though I've had bitter experience as a doctor when you lose a patient and you can't even look at their family's face to tell them their son didn't make it.... it's just crazy
Thanks for your advice sir, I'm grateful. I'm happy for your success more than words can express...It gives me joy when some of us fly the green and white flag at full mast outside the country despite the bad image.....
You will be just fine.. I know that everyone has one special person meant for them... some find them real late after searching endlessly/ marrying some wrong ones... Maybe, those princesses that left were not meant for you...
I understand the loneliness but I will suggest that u calm down so you don't make mistakes because u are lonely, she might just be getting ready, applying some lip stick somewhere in anticipation of meeting U some day. But before she shows up, Ask some of your senior colleagues as others have suggested how they juggle their career (long hours) with their spouses... U will need their advise handy when the time comes... wishing you the best buddy.. 13 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Job Is Ruining My Relationship, How Can I Go About It? by kokolowar: 10:39am On Apr 22, 2022 |
Scapula112:
Hello nairalanders, I'm an old user of this forum just wanna remain anonymous. Pls my career is not making me be in a relationship with any lady, all the Ladies I've dated in the past all complain of one thing which is time. I'm a second year neurosurgical resident here in new Jersey prior to my residency in this program, I was a medical officer whose job Is not more demanding , I had a girlfriend who's always complaining of me not being there for her tho I give her money and always visiting her if I'm on shift even though I got limited time to prepare for a medical board exam to get into residency (USMLE) those know about the exam knows how crazy it was, a three steps examination.
She broke up with me for a guy she always call her friend..the heart break almost cost me my step 2 CK, life goes on. Here am I in neurosurgery, my first day was like hell imagine being in the O.R for 16 hrs straight without seeing the sun because they brought multiple patients who sustained brain injury during a road accident, I nearly cried, to my chief of surgery ..An attending surgeon it's like nothing I almost regretted being there and not going to family medicine or internal medicine.
This has made me so awful that if see me you'll think I'm a mad man...is either I'm in the O.R or I'm sleeping no time for family, Cinema, vacation, the girl Ioved has left me all because of time. I make money i don't have time to spend, money is now useless to me because there is no time to look after myself ..in the next 1hr I'll be in the middle of a surgery. It's just crazy, is this how I'll spend the rest of my life? No woman? It's frustrating .
Last week i collapsed in the middle of a surgery because we just finished removing a tumor In the right part of the brain barely two hours, I was sleeping when I got an urgent call to report to the O.R ... I'm now regretting choosing this program. Can a lady love a guy whose everyday life is like this? I think not.
What do you think I can do please mature minds. I'll be 29 by June.
so sorry about this. but you can dm me sha, I dont mind a busy man in a noble profession. it will get better. one trick is to find someone also in the medical field, e.g a nurse. They'll be very understanding i'm sure |
| Re: My Job Is Ruining My Relationship, How Can I Go About It? by Helloflife: 12:33pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Scapula112:
Hello nairalanders, I'm an old user of this forum just wanna remain anonymous. Pls my career is not making me be in a relationship with any lady, all the Ladies I've dated in the past all complain of one thing which is time. I'm a second year neurosurgical resident here in new Jersey prior to my residency in this program, I was a medical officer whose job Is not more demanding , I had a girlfriend who's always complaining of me not being there for her tho I give her money and always visiting her if I'm on shift even though I got limited time to prepare for a medical board exam to get into residency (USMLE) those know about the exam knows how crazy it was, a three steps examination.
She broke up with me for a guy she always call her friend..the heart break almost cost me my step 2 CK, life goes on. Here am I in neurosurgery, my first day was like hell imagine being in the O.R for 16 hrs straight without seeing the sun because they brought multiple patients who sustained brain injury during a road accident, I nearly cried, to my chief of surgery ..An attending surgeon it's like nothing I almost regretted being there and not going to family medicine or internal medicine.
This has made me so awful that if see me you'll think I'm a mad man...is either I'm in the O.R or I'm sleeping no time for family, Cinema, vacation, the girl Ioved has left me all because of time. I make money i don't have time to spend, money is now useless to me because there is no time to look after myself ..in the next 1hr I'll be in the middle of a surgery. It's just crazy, is this how I'll spend the rest of my life? No woman? It's frustrating .
Last week i collapsed in the middle of a surgery because we just finished removing a tumor In the right part of the brain barely two hours, I was sleeping when I got an urgent call to report to the O.R ... I'm now regretting choosing this program. Can a lady love a guy whose everyday life is like this? I think not.
What do you think I can do please mature minds. I'll be 29 by June.
Hi Chief, I'm really sorry about your relationship but I'm a medical student in my penultimate year with intentions of coming to work in the US after school. I would really like to link up with you so I could learn more about the process. Can I email you chief? |
| Re: My Job Is Ruining My Relationship, How Can I Go About It? by davillian(m): 12:54pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Scapula112:
Hello nairalanders, I'm an old user of this forum just wanna remain anonymous. Please my career is not making me be in a relationship with any lady, all the Ladies I've dated in the past all complain of one thing which is time.
I'm a second year neurosurgical resident here in new Jersey prior to my residency in this program, I was a medical officer whose job Is not more demanding , I had a girlfriend who's always complaining of me not being there for her tho I give her money and always visiting her if I'm on shift even though I got limited time to prepare for a medical board exam to get into residency (USMLE) those know about the exam knows how crazy it was, a three steps examination.
She broke up with me for a guy she always call her friend..the heart break almost cost me my step 2 CK, life goes on. Here am I in neurosurgery, my first day was like hell imagine being in the O.R for 16 hrs straight without seeing the sun because they brought multiple patients who sustained brain injury during a road accident, I nearly cried, to my chief of surgery ..An attending surgeon it's like nothing I almost regretted being there and not going to family medicine or internal medicine.
This has made me so awful that if see me you'll think I'm a mad man...is either I'm in the O.R or I'm sleeping no time for family, Cinema, vacation, the girl Ioved has left me all because of time. I make money i don't have time to spend, money is now useless to me because there is no time to look after myself ..in the next 1hr I'll be in the middle of a surgery. It's just crazy, is this how I'll spend the rest of my life? No woman? It's frustrating .
Last week i collapsed in the middle of a surgery because we just finished removing a tumor In the right part of the brain barely two hours, I was sleeping when I got an urgent call to report to the O.R ... I'm now regretting choosing this program. Can a lady love a guy whose everyday life is like this? I think not.
What do you think I can do please mature minds. I'll be 29 by June.
Nigerian girl What's her business with your presence just give her money finish 1 Like |
| Re: My Job Is Ruining My Relationship, How Can I Go About It? by alizma: 12:57pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Scapula112:
Hello nairalanders, I'm an old user of this forum just wanna remain anonymous. Please my career is not making me be in a relationship with any lady, all the Ladies I've dated in the past all complain of one thing which is time.
I'm a second year neurosurgical resident here in new Jersey prior to my residency in this program, I was a medical officer whose job Is not more demanding , I had a girlfriend who's always complaining of me not being there for her tho I give her money and always visiting her if I'm on shift even though I got limited time to prepare for a medical board exam to get into residency (USMLE) those know about the exam knows how crazy it was, a three steps examination.
She broke up with me for a guy she always call her friend..the heart break almost cost me my step 2 CK, life goes on. Here am I in neurosurgery, my first day was like hell imagine being in the O.R for 16 hrs straight without seeing the sun because they brought multiple patients who sustained brain injury during a road accident, I nearly cried, to my chief of surgery ..An attending surgeon it's like nothing I almost regretted being there and not going to family medicine or internal medicine.
This has made me so awful that if see me you'll think I'm a mad man...is either I'm in the O.R or I'm sleeping no time for family, Cinema, vacation, the girl Ioved has left me all because of time. I make money i don't have time to spend, money is now useless to me because there is no time to look after myself ..in the next 1hr I'll be in the middle of a surgery. It's just crazy, is this how I'll spend the rest of my life? No woman? It's frustrating .
Last week i collapsed in the middle of a surgery because we just finished removing a tumor In the right part of the brain barely two hours, I was sleeping when I got an urgent call to report to the O.R ... I'm now regretting choosing this program. Can a lady love a guy whose everyday life is like this? I think not.
What do you think I can do please mature minds. I'll be 29 by June.
Life is like that, you are making money, definitely time is one of the sacrifice for the money. Do you know the truth? It's going to be like that in that your career. Either you get a woman who doesn't care for your attention but your money, or you adjust your career to create more time for you. Your choice depends on the kind of life you want to live. 1 Like |
| Re: My Job Is Ruining My Relationship, How Can I Go About It? by Calicoe: 12:59pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Look out for a female colleague who's going through the same ordeal and turn her to a f**k buddy at work |
| Re: My Job Is Ruining My Relationship, How Can I Go About It? by omoh5064: 1:00pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
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| Re: My Job Is Ruining My Relationship, How Can I Go About It? by Ken4ward: 1:01pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
My one cent, go and find a lady in your field, both of you would better understand what’s going on. |
| Re: My Job Is Ruining My Relationship, How Can I Go About It? by chocolateme(f): 1:02pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Scapula112:
Hello nairalanders, I'm an old user of this forum just wanna remain anonymous. Please my career is not making me be in a relationship with any lady, all the Ladies I've dated in the past all complain of one thing which is time.
I'm a second year neurosurgical resident here in new Jersey prior to my residency in this program, I was a medical officer whose job Is not more demanding , I had a girlfriend who's always complaining of me not being there for her tho I give her money and always visiting her if I'm on shift even though I got limited time to prepare for a medical board exam to get into residency (USMLE) those know about the exam knows how crazy it was, a three steps examination.
She broke up with me for a guy she always call her friend..the heart break almost cost me my step 2 CK, life goes on. Here am I in neurosurgery, my first day was like hell imagine being in the O.R for 16 hrs straight without seeing the sun because they brought multiple patients who sustained brain injury during a road accident, I nearly cried, to my chief of surgery ..An attending surgeon it's like nothing I almost regretted being there and not going to family medicine or internal medicine.
This has made me so awful that if see me you'll think I'm a mad man...is either I'm in the O.R or I'm sleeping no time for family, Cinema, vacation, the girl Ioved has left me all because of time. I make money i don't have time to spend, money is now useless to me because there is no time to look after myself ..in the next 1hr I'll be in the middle of a surgery. It's just crazy, is this how I'll spend the rest of my life? No woman? It's frustrating .
Last week i collapsed in the middle of a surgery because we just finished removing a tumor In the right part of the brain barely two hours, I was sleeping when I got an urgent call to report to the O.R ... I'm now regretting choosing this program. Can a lady love a guy whose everyday life is like this? I think not.
What do you think I can do please mature minds. I'll be 29 by June.
dear.. all I can tell you after reading all these comments is to calm down. Everything will take shape and balance at the very right time. 4 Likes |
| Re: My Job Is Ruining My Relationship, How Can I Go About It? by fairlyisabel(f): 1:04pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Scapula112:
Hello nairalanders, I'm an old user of this forum just wanna remain anonymous. Please my career is not making me be in a relationship with any lady, all the Ladies I've dated in the past all complain of one thing which is time.
I'm a second year neurosurgical resident here in new Jersey prior to my residency in this program, I was a medical officer whose job Is not more demanding , I had a girlfriend who's always complaining of me not being there for her tho I give her money and always visiting her if I'm on shift even though I got limited time to prepare for a medical board exam to get into residency (USMLE) those know about the exam knows how crazy it was, a three steps examination.
She broke up with me for a guy she always call her friend..the heart break almost cost me my step 2 CK, life goes on. Here am I in neurosurgery, my first day was like hell imagine being in the O.R for 16 hrs straight without seeing the sun because they brought multiple patients who sustained brain injury during a road accident, I nearly cried, to my chief of surgery ..An attending surgeon it's like nothing I almost regretted being there and not going to family medicine or internal medicine. Hello dear.....I am interested. Don't worry , we will manage time well. Do not leave your job , atleast for now. We have a lot of ladies that can cope. The introverts.
This has made me so awful that if see me you'll think I'm a mad man...is either I'm in the O.R or I'm sleeping no time for family, Cinema, vacation, the girl Ioved has left me all because of time. I make money i don't have time to spend, money is now useless to me because there is no time to look after myself ..in the next 1hr I'll be in the middle of a surgery. It's just crazy, is this how I'll spend the rest of my life? No woman? It's frustrating .
Last week i collapsed in the middle of a surgery because we just finished removing a tumor In the right part of the brain barely two hours, I was sleeping when I got an urgent call to report to the O.R ... I'm now regretting choosing this program. Can a lady love a guy whose everyday life is like this? I think not.
What do you think I can do please mature minds. I'll be 29 by June.
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| Re: My Job Is Ruining My Relationship, How Can I Go About It? by LordIsaac(m): 1:04pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Any relationship that is not in sync with your job should be severed. |
| Re: My Job Is Ruining My Relationship, How Can I Go About It? by Nobody: 1:07pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
My question is, is this what you really want to do, as in your vision for being a surgeon? If it is, then you really don't have to be emotional and worry about relationships because time and fate will fix up everything. The problem is that if you're pursuing a career that is not actually God's vision for your life, then you will probably be frustrated both with the job and relationships, because God can only be committed in preserving and adding flavours into what He has asked you to do. This includes giving you a peaceful relationship and a woman who can stick to you no matter your tedious work. 1 Like |
| Re: My Job Is Ruining My Relationship, How Can I Go About It? by olamoses75(m): 1:09pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Don’t know what’s wrong with marriage this days. What’s so special in your hubby telling your own kids what he did for you? My dad does that anytime he’s angry, and my mom will also confront and tell him what she also has done... las las na inside bedroom everything dey end. We their kids no longer take them seriously anymore whenever they’re having misunderstandings, na to just Dey watch film or listen to music. Their marriage is now 35yrs and still counting. Obviously you don’t really love your husband, based on your write up. Because there’s nothing special about your hubby attitude. It can’t be tagged DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ! |
| Re: My Job Is Ruining My Relationship, How Can I Go About It? by Elsucre042: 1:11pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Guy listen carefully, if eventually go sapa way(go broke) availing every average woman all the time she needs she still definitely going dump ur ass.
Stay focus, if it were 2b all about women Benjamin Carson wouldn't have come this far. Look for a woman around your same circle( career hungry woman) establish an open relationship with her with time if all goes well wife her immediately. Problem solve pere... chikinah
Keep saving lives. Its your call
Peace bro 1 Like |
| Re: My Job Is Ruining My Relationship, How Can I Go About It? by Visasolution048: 1:15pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Stallionhorse:
Leave your job.. Chase after women okay.. Woman are everything.. Baba, I like your advice die...Let him leave his work and chase women ..since na relationship be him utmost goal at 29... See 29years old with promising future dey complain about relationship... 3 Likes |
| Re: My Job Is Ruining My Relationship, How Can I Go About It? by tobito33(m): 1:15pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
What do you think I can do please mature minds. I'll be 29 by June.
[/quote] O.p pls be committed to your chosen profession you are a life saver pls be proud of that My advise is give it time your miss right will come who understands and appreciates how time is so priceless to u. |
| Re: My Job Is Ruining My Relationship, How Can I Go About It? by harmony75: 1:17pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
I don't think you're serious sheyy na jobless people you dey meet ni? Be patient and focus you will get a good wife that will be understanding doing her own thing and you will be busy with your job. 1 Like |
| Re: My Job Is Ruining My Relationship, How Can I Go About It? by clockwisereport: 1:20pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
You are sex-starved. C'est fini |
| Re: My Job Is Ruining My Relationship, How Can I Go About It? by Ayrastarr(f): 1:20pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Scapula112:
Thanks sir, I can't leave my career for a woman. Only a fool will do such especially a rewarding and a demanding career like neurosurgery or other surgical specialty, my specialty is the hardest to get into any where in the world, my hospital accept two neurosurgical residents each year to know how hard it is, what I just need is companionship and I'll do as you say. Thanks sir Okay, so do you want a lady over there or you want a girl from Nigeria cos I'm available 2 Likes |
| Re: My Job Is Ruining My Relationship, How Can I Go About It? by Minjim: 1:21pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
You don't have time for any serious relationship now.
Focus on your career and keep making money.
In time, you'll have the time. 1 Like |
| Re: My Job Is Ruining My Relationship, How Can I Go About It? by Godfather052(m): 1:21pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Scapula112:
Hello nairalanders, I'm an old user of this forum just wanna remain anonymous. Please my career is not making me be in a relationship with any lady, all the Ladies I've dated in the past all complain of one thing which is time.
I'm a second year neurosurgical resident here in new Jersey prior to my residency in this program, I was a medical officer whose job Is not more demanding , I had a girlfriend who's always complaining of me not being there for her tho I give her money and always visiting her if I'm on shift even though I got limited time to prepare for a medical board exam to get into residency (USMLE) those know about the exam knows how crazy it was, a three steps examination.
She broke up with me for a guy she always call her friend..the heart break almost cost me my step 2 CK, life goes on. Here am I in neurosurgery, my first day was like hell imagine being in the O.R for 16 hrs straight without seeing the sun because they brought multiple patients who sustained brain injury during a road accident, I nearly cried, to my chief of surgery ..An attending surgeon it's like nothing I almost regretted being there and not going to family medicine or internal medicine.
This has made me so awful that if see me you'll think I'm a mad man...is either I'm in the O.R or I'm sleeping no time for family, Cinema, vacation, the girl Ioved has left me all because of time. I make money i don't have time to spend, money is now useless to me because there is no time to look after myself ..in the next 1hr I'll be in the middle of a surgery. It's just crazy, is this how I'll spend the rest of my life? No woman? It's frustrating .
Last week i collapsed in the middle of a surgery because we just finished removing a tumor In the right part of the brain barely two hours, I was sleeping when I got an urgent call to report to the O.R ... I'm now regretting choosing this program. Can a lady love a guy whose everyday life is like this? I think not.
What do you think I can do please mature minds. I'll be 29 by June.
Opportunity wey we dey pray for, u come dey complain. I no blame u sha. The grass is always greener on the other side till u get there and see for urself, imagine making money and calling it useless simply because a pussy left u for a guy she go still dump or divorce when the guy can no longer afford her bills. Bro no make me regret why God bless u o. No just provoke my provocation this weekend. However I understand the other part of ur complain as regards ur health but abeg make e no be woman again, biko 7 Likes |
| Re: My Job Is Ruining My Relationship, How Can I Go About It? by clockwisereport: 1:21pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Ayrastarr:
Okay, so do you want a lady over there or you want a girl from Nigeria cos I'm available Sharp girl. You don dey shoot your shot already 3 Likes |
| Re: My Job Is Ruining My Relationship, How Can I Go About It? by sherylbaky(f): 1:25pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
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| Re: My Job Is Ruining My Relationship, How Can I Go About It? by Nobody: 1:26pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
You don't have a problem
Somebody somewhere will love you the way you are...
Dont soldiers marry there? When they go on 3yrs,5yrs and more without seeing their loved one(s) which we've seen on nairaland.... those fighting for Ukraine or Russia now,don't dey have gf or wives or husbands or bf??
Chill, u didn't make a mistake.... 2 Likes |
| Re: My Job Is Ruining My Relationship, How Can I Go About It? by advanceDNA: 1:26pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Scapula112:
It's not even about money, the guy my ex left me for is someone I can put on my pay roll every month and won't still feel anything. Thanks for your input ma'am. date a doctor like you....
U won't both have time for each other.. which you will both understand....
or better still...date a geh that likes money...she will gladly collect your money and cheat on you steady when you are on call..  1 Like |
| Re: My Job Is Ruining My Relationship, How Can I Go About It? by Pootle: 1:27pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
oga that what you sign up for...you should know this before studying medicine  |
| Re: My Job Is Ruining My Relationship, How Can I Go About It? by advanceDNA: 1:27pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Manlikechoba:
You don't have a problem
Somebody somewhere will love you the way you are...
Dont soldiers marry there? When they go on 3yrs,5yrs and more without seeing their loved one(s) which we've seen on nairaland.... those fighting for Ukraine or Russia now,don't dey have gf or wives or husbands or bf??
Chill, u didn't make a mistake.... U dey mind the guy... The guy just come open thread to come talk about his job....he actually loves his job... 3 Likes |
| Re: My Job Is Ruining My Relationship, How Can I Go About It? by profmallor: 1:28pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Your future is VERY VERY bright, forget about women for now. After you are done, its you that would pick at your desire. Continue in pursuit of that greatness. 3 Likes |
| Re: My Job Is Ruining My Relationship, How Can I Go About It? by sherylbaky(f): 1:29pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Op, u are yet to meet the right woman, wen u meet one everything will be like magic because ur ambitions would be of the same level and she would be there to always support u.
The right person would come, don't be in a hurry, for now, focus on ur career and always take good care of yourself. 2 Likes |
| Re: My Job Is Ruining My Relationship, How Can I Go About It? by MASTAkiLLAh(m): 1:30pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Don't force it, a lady who really loves you will appreciate the downsides of your profession and stick by you. You still have time bro, improve yourself now 2 Likes |
