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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by emmy512: 9:17pm On Apr 23, 2022
My parents hausa gateman was arrested after being accused of rape/attempted rape. He was in for over a week.
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Turns out he was playing with the girl and at a point was caught by a passerby at an akward position. The passerby reported to the girls parents and they beat her and i believe she said anything to make the beating stop.
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Last las, they said its rape, because he was hausa all d way in d south he didnt stand a chance. So my parents just had to oil the parents and olokpa hands to die d matter.
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He even had to send the guy back to kano to prevent him from being attacked.
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Another case was a brother to one of those ultimate love contestants who had porn in his phone and didnt realise his sisters kid goes to his gallery when he gives her to play games, at a family gathering at aba, this girl practised what she saw on his phone, she was asked "who used to do this to you." and she mentioned this my friend . The guy is now an outcast, the whole family dont let their children near him.

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Nobody: 9:19pm On Apr 23, 2022
HEBEI:
A little girl once approached me and was like; "uncle please, can you give me ten naira, I will give you anything you want".

Me; undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided

BLOODY LIAR! IMPOSSIBLE...
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by maasoap(m): 9:20pm On Apr 23, 2022
Jaqenhghar:
With the comments I read here its hard to doubt that little girl. Most Niggerian men are pervs.

[s] A little girl cannot just wake up and accuse you falsley. [/s] Are you the only one who plays with children?

Lol. Just pray and hope you don't experience that kind of life shattering accusation. What makes you think so? What if someone put her up to that?
Did you not see where he said that may be it was because he wouldn't play with her
tarantino1:
In primary three, one of our teachers got picked up by police because he allegedly raped a girl in my class. The girl was my friend, even my seatmate sef.

But that was not before collecting good amount of slaps. The case was fûcking huge. We were supposed to write exams but even by 11am, no paper had been shared.

Las las they came to find out that the story was completely fake. I remember asking the girl what really happened and she said her mom told her to say it so they could get back at the teacher for flogging her.

Honestly sha, the teacher harsh die. I chop better cane for e hand. But the girl's mother was a total psycho for that nonsense.

A story I will never forget.
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by LUAN1: 9:20pm On Apr 23, 2022
I don't let little children play with me,. Only male I can give like 40% chance to play with me

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by wabbyland(m): 9:21pm On Apr 23, 2022
I was also wrongfully accused as well. Though it was my girlfriend's sister. She claimed that I approached her and I just became a fool in my girlfriend's face. She's late now. Damilola RIP

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Kaybex007(m): 9:21pm On Apr 23, 2022
what I suspect is someone was doing that to her, but she decided to say it's you cuz he doesn't like you or cuz you shun her. what I will suggest is never play or call a little girl in private, whatever play you will play with her let it not be much and be in the public. so many wrongs are happening to little girls of nowadays and when they are caught they just mention whatever name that comes into their mind, these names are always names of outsiders close to them. in fact don't play with them at all in order to avoid embarrassment.

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by RSVP: 9:22pm On Apr 23, 2022
effort1:


You should learn to respect your father. Did you just call him pman?

You think it's stylish? No, it's dumb.



You almost concealed your ailment.

Just don't skip ur pills next time.

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Cutehector(m): 9:24pm On Apr 23, 2022
Thank God i dont play with little children.

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Nobody: 9:25pm On Apr 23, 2022
JoyousFurnitire:


Pure fallacy.

Just be a good person. Take your health and lifestyle seriously. Pray!
correct
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Connected1: 9:25pm On Apr 23, 2022
Antyxx:
Hmm
It's true that children can lie, everyone knows that. It's Oyinbo people that started the Children are plain innocent rubbish, some children were born devil
I remember when I was 3years old, each time I go to learning place, there are this children that would use her fingernails to wound my neck, without doing anything to her.
And she would deny it to the last, infact,children deny things the most

Then in my primary school, I'm primary 2, many of my classmates have sex with each other,and press their boobs. Infact, everyone knows them as onisekuse
Then I have known about sex since primary one, sometimes I used to wonder if adults used to forget their childhood, at 5-10 years, all children know about boyfriend's and sex from their peers, it's not just the main core of their plays
But also, many of my classmates that have sex, would have been probably abused by a man at home, because each time I think about why Bose, Aina, Cathrine were having sex at primary 2, that's the only excuse I can give. This is in in early 1980s. Most of them are grand mother now and great grandmother

Also, the males understood butts,breast etc as early as primary 2. I remember how Yusuf will slap some girls butts and everyone would laugh,we all knew the meaning

About Lies
One girl lives in my street, she's around 5years old, this girl can behave like witch, always fighting,and have blade mouth,abuse anyone,where did she learn it from? I will say from her mother but the truth is her mother doesn't do as much as she does,from her sisters? Her sisters are naturally quiet and cool headed
Hereditary is real, some people were born wicked and this they need training to become better
Me myself,since childhood,I don't forgive people,and till now, I still don't. I have intense hatred for anyone that hurts me right from childhood,no matter how small. My mum would wonder why I get so unforgiving,right from Childhood,age 3.My sister would forgive immediately,but quarrel often.
Infact, all my behaviour right now,are same things I exhibited during childhood,as well as my siblings
Meanwhile, my brotherss are very quiet right from baby. My nieces are quiet and mom troublesome right from baby, they hardly cry and laugh often, they exhibit the same behaviour after age 5, and I have one niece that behaves just like me. If you offend her,till next year,she go remember,she no dey forget

The work of parent is to learn who your child is, and mould her to something better. Some children like sex right from childhood,and they will like it till adulthood. Meanwhile,some like sex due to abuse
I have been trying to learn how to forgive people but I still can't oh, I heard marriage is all about having a forgiven heart but if someone offends me very badly I can't forgive them no matter how hard I try.
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by lindseykibler(m): 9:26pm On Apr 23, 2022
Blastedholligan:
so sorry about your ordeal. That's so sad.

So what now happened to this girl afterwards?

The girl and her mum later apologized but believe me I can’t forget that incident till now cos I remembered staying awake throughout that night along the street with my cousins till dawn. It was a horrible experience. I later took the case off from the police. As God performs wonders, the girl and her mum was given quit notice to leave the compound by the landlord.

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Kaytixy: 9:28pm On Apr 23, 2022
I have learnt a lot here today

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Jaqenhghar: 9:28pm On Apr 23, 2022
maasoap:


Lol. Just pray and hope you don't experience that kind of life shattering accusation. What makes you think so? What if someone put her up to that?
Did you not see where he said that may be it was because he wouldn't play with her
Nigger. Its hard to believe anyone who lives in a society that allows paedophilia. I dont know what you want me to do. You live in a country where these things are seen as a norm yet you eant me to believe that it does t happen. ThEN you get offended because I have have an opinion. NIGGER GTFOH
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by MrAbdul123: 9:29pm On Apr 23, 2022
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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Bahamas95(m): 9:30pm On Apr 23, 2022
A talkative is a liar.





I dislike anybody that talks too much, I don't care if he/she is an adult or a child.

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Jaqenhghar: 9:31pm On Apr 23, 2022
thoollz:


The way ignorant people dey always talk Ehn. Make una dey use confidence dey talk rubbish. Stop showing your ignorance to the world. So because I have a video on my phone, automatically I'll be flagged and arrested for possession of such material? Damn, you guys worship the whites alot and think everything is automatic. Do you think these same people don't share child pornography or illicit contents? How many of them get arrested just like that? Even R.Kelly that got involved with underaged kids was first of all reported before his case got to a judge. White people are not God, they're humans and will make mistakes.
Please I beg you, if you ever go abroad go and try it. Have it on your phone and use any public wifi. Then when you stand before a judge repeat that horseshit you just said. You think everywhere is like that cesspit you call a home. SMH

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Mexyz(m): 9:31pm On Apr 23, 2022
Mummytoo:
Quite unfortunate, forgive her from the bottom of your heart

Thank God the matter didn't escalate

One thing I find very annoying amongst you ladies/female is your hypocrisy.

If it were to be that little witch that shared this story now, people like you would be shouting, castrate him, chop his head off, he should be shot with an Ak.
Now look at you preaching forgiveness, just imagine if the whole stuff had gone beyond control and the young man's life ruined with that allegation.

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Jaqenhghar: 9:32pm On Apr 23, 2022
Nostring:
c'ommon most huh? Stop been foolish na

Insults is all the fool has left when he has nothing to stand on. Take that L and go sit your bìtch ass somewhere.
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by chima47(m): 9:33pm On Apr 23, 2022
It"s unfortunate that women are trying hard to use rape accusation as a weapon against men, a girl Amos set me up, she chats me up, many times demanding for sex, but l refused for she is more like a daughter to me, suddenly she woke up one day that she will procast my name that l have sleeping with her, l didn't argue her, l simply screen shot our chat and send to her. That was how the threat died. If not that l don't delete chats and messages from my phone, she would have messed me up.

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Jaqenhghar: 9:34pm On Apr 23, 2022
Kaytixy:
people like you are the ones raping people's children up and down. Rapist

I hear you. You are entitled to your opinion. Unfortunately no one asked you. No one gives a shít what you think.

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by thoollz: 9:36pm On Apr 23, 2022
Jaqenhghar:

Please I beg you, if you ever go abroad go and try it. Have it on your phone and use any public wifi. Then when you stand before a judge repeat that horseshit you just said. You think everywhere is like that cesspit you call a home. SMH

OMG, is it everyone there that will make use of Public WIFI when they know they've illegal contents on their phones? Use your thinking faculty. It's just like carrying a bomb in front of a Military Base. Isn't that suicidal?
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Princerichi0(m): 9:38pm On Apr 23, 2022
I pulled a little girl of 5years by her hand. She went and tell her mum I grabbed her in her armpit. I was dumbfounded. I was just grateful she didn't mention a more sensitive organ like her breast or azz.

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by IAMBOSS1990: 9:40pm On Apr 23, 2022
Jokerman:
Lol.... teachers have a lot of stories
True talk.

A guy was once sacked because a female student reported that he looked at her funny. Look o, not touch or smile or laugh or even talk.

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Nobody: 9:40pm On Apr 23, 2022
fykes:
I still regard this as the greatest Mistake I ever made in my life so far. So I was young then and working with a multinational, lived alone Inna 3 bedroom flat, a car and enough money but no time. I I only came home once in a month for 6 working days.
Had this neighbors a young mother of 3 who according to them, I her husband eloped and her mom pays their rent. So the girls, started getting close... They weren't going to school, no money, there mom I don't know what she does and didn't care as at then. They always want to watch cartoons when I was around... I just lost someone then to death and was given extender break from work.
As I was at-home... The last girl became my favorite she was smart, I outspoken for her age etc. I wished to have a child like her... I started paying their fees, put all three back to school, bought them a govt to watch whenever I go back to work, I gave them one of my TV and also gave their mom 120k to start okirika biz. I weekends I drive them to parks and sometimes their mom brings me food...
I was young and felt I could save the world until I overheard their mom on d phone one night when I returned with them to eat night food telling someone that she's gonna marry me whether I want it or not... She's found a man and will do anything to tie him down.

I started keeping my distance and left for work, I didn't come back nor pick her calls again, for like 2-3 months. When I did , they had packed out with my properties including my mattress I gave them.

The lady that sells food told me that the mother was telling them that she's scared of me molesting her daughters because I asked her out and she refused. So she feels I will want to molest her daughters instead that's y I was being nice.
That period I was hurt but when I really found out that she was a runs girl and had no husband, I knew I dodged a bullet, I that's when I started hearing the real gist abt her... She was really dropping off her kids in my house so she can use their apartment to hustle.
she run u better street

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by tomietush(m): 9:41pm On Apr 23, 2022
yanabasee:
I would say... how old was this girl?

No little girl will know such a thing to say if it never happened ...

And if she's a little girl of about 10yrs below I believe her....

If she's a little girl of above 14yrs.. then I believe the Op....


I fear women alot... They have that evil thought of accusing anyone of rape.....


I fact, there was a time that any girl I met and wants to get serious with, will always have a story of how she was raped by her uncle or relative or neighbor or a male friend she trusted or even her ex boy friend....


A simple story...

In my estate, there this security guard that would stop one teenage girl from visiting one single lawyer.... The security guard is an old man... He will always embarrassed the girl in front of her school mates when they're returning from school... And will always threatened to report her to her parents...

One day, while she was returning from church with her parents, they stopped and called the police and the security guard was picked...

The case was reported to me and I mediated on it...

Believe me, she accused this man of always asking her out and even showed her pants that he tore on one occasion when she went out to buy something and he stopped her and dragged her.. ..


She humbled the man and he was ridiculed... Truthfully, he never did any of those things... Investigation set in, all the accusations were followed... the days she mentioned, the man wasn't on duty... And the lawyer was arrested and he was the one that told the girl to frame the man up so he'd let her be....
My own lil cousin lied against me, thou it was molestation, but the lie stood against anytin i could say
She was just 3 years old

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Ifakiland(m): 9:42pm On Apr 23, 2022
RSVP:
Same thing happened to me long time ago .

A neighbor daughter said I molested her and the story has circulated around almost half of the people in our neighborhood was looking at me somehow but I never knew until her father came to tell my pman one faithful morning... Oboy! I was shocked and couldn't believe a lil girl would came up with such story... I carried the stigma for many years cuz I don't even know what to say to defend myself...Those little demon can lie oo.... Someone may have done that but NOT ME!
That's why I casually play with kids especially those little jezebel.
Small pikin wey you go comot belt for....smh you go give am better belting for her mama front

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Shyboyk(m): 9:45pm On Apr 23, 2022
johnnywalker131:
Wickedness also lies in the hearts of little children, you would be surprised what these kids are capable of doing

This just brings back memories of an ugly incident that happened many many years ago when I went for holidays at my aunts place , there was this little girl who happened to be the daughter to my aunt’s friend , can’t even remember her name …she was so playful and outspoken for her age and everybody commended that , she would say things you would never expect her to say being the little girl that she is and everybody liked her. On this fateful day, this girl had tried being playful around me and I really was in a bad mood at the time so I shunned her. Out of the blues, My aunt and this girl’s mother summoned me for a talk, I got in the room and the girl was there, my aunt asked "what have you been doing with her(the girl)"

I was taken aback by the question cause it didn’t make sense to me ..I answered and said , "I don’t understand Ma", then she asked the little girl to repeat what she just told them and when she started talking, I just stared In disbelief cause I couldn’t wrap my head around what I was hearing and immediately I knew I was in trouble …her words “this uncle came into our room and locked the door, he pushed me on the bed and started touching me and told me not to tell anybody that he likes me" Haaaaaa!!! was the only thing I could say because I was dumbfounded and scared at the same time, I almost burst into tears �, they thought I wanted to cry because I was guilty… I was teary because how on earth was I going to convince anybody that this little girl was lying. She gave such specific and exact details that I was almost doubting myself, if I were a random person listening to this , I would 100% believe this girl, I just went on my knees and I was swearing by everything I believed in but I could see from their faces that nobody believed me.

Till date I’ve not yet figured if someone put her up to it or she came up with that herself , that was the last time I saw my aunt, the little girl and her mom , I never visited again…she’s dead now, she died of cancer …May her soul Rest In Peace ….it’s sad that she died having it at the back of her mind that I was that kind of person, pretty sure that little girl would be way grown up probably in the university by now, a lil note if she ever comes across this story which she probably wouldn’t remember, “you almost ruined my life“ From that day to this day, little kids scare me more than adults …the devil lives in little children!!!! Never forget!

source: Twitter @InvestorKpk

https://twitter.com/InvestorKpk/status/1517492718645174272?t=9miAe-vRHJNXp9q8uKQQSw&s=19

It also happened when I was teaching in a pry sch though it was not in my class it was in nursery calls the girl should be about 4/5 years same as the boy …well the girl went home and in the process her mom was changing her cloth she noticed blood stains and she got really angry thinking her daughter was raped she shouted at the girl and asked her what happened she said her class mate did that to her her mom brought her back to the school and the mom of the classmate was called back even the boy no know watin the sup watin concern am concern rape at that moment while the girl’s mom was busy shouting at the guy’s mom the guy’s mom was telling her there is no way her sons hand can penetrate the girls virgins and break the hymen well long story short the girl was taken to the hospital and we realized the got injured by a nail on her seat …

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by 9182736455O1999(m): 9:54pm On Apr 23, 2022
Kriss216:

I must commend your intelligence.

I love kids alot but I always maintain distance with them. To give kids money or buy them something now is wahala. Everybody will be suspecting you, thinking you're a ritualist or something.

The world has gone mad.
i swear.
few days back i remembered one of my neighbour beating one of her girl child (no be small beating o). I later discovered it was because of the money she collected from me.
i felt very bad. I won't give children any gifts again o rather than even playing with them.

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Killermamba: 9:55pm On Apr 23, 2022
johnnywalker131:
Wickedness also lies in the hearts of little children, you would be surprised what these kids are capable of doing

This just brings back memories of an ugly incident that happened many many years ago when I went for holidays at my aunts place , there was this little girl who happened to be the daughter to my aunt’s friend , can’t even remember her name …she was so playful and outspoken for her age and everybody commended that , she would say things you would never expect her to say being the little girl that she is and everybody liked her. On this fateful day, this girl had tried being playful around me and I really was in a bad mood at the time so I shunned her. Out of the blues, My aunt and this girl’s mother summoned me for a talk, I got in the room and the girl was there, my aunt asked "what have you been doing with her(the girl)"

I was taken aback by the question cause it didn’t make sense to me ..I answered and said , "I don’t understand Ma", then she asked the little girl to repeat what she just told them and when she started talking, I just stared In disbelief cause I couldn’t wrap my head around what I was hearing and immediately I knew I was in trouble …her words “this uncle came into our room and locked the door, he pushed me on the bed and started touching me and told me not to tell anybody that he likes me" Haaaaaa!!! was the only thing I could say because I was dumbfounded and scared at the same time, I almost burst into tears �, they thought I wanted to cry because I was guilty… I was teary because how on earth was I going to convince anybody that this little girl was lying. She gave such specific and exact details that I was almost doubting myself, if I were a random person listening to this , I would 100% believe this girl, I just went on my knees and I was swearing by everything I believed in but I could see from their faces that nobody believed me.

Till date I’ve not yet figured if someone put her up to it or she came up with that herself , that was the last time I saw my aunt, the little girl and her mom , I never visited again…she’s dead now, she died of cancer …May her soul Rest In Peace ….it’s sad that she died having it at the back of her mind that I was that kind of person, pretty sure that little girl would be way grown up probably in the university by now, a lil note if she ever comes across this story which she probably wouldn’t remember, “you almost ruined my life“ From that day to this day, little kids scare me more than adults …the devil lives in little children!!!! Never forget!

source: Twitter @InvestorKpk

https://twitter.com/InvestorKpk/status/1517492718645174272?t=9miAe-vRHJNXp9q8uKQQSw&s=19

I had the same experience I couldn't say a word, how do you defend yourself against a little kid, when our society presume them to be angelic and innocent. The worse thing that can happen to a man is to be accused of by something by kids or women na only God go fit deliver you

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Draslo(m): 9:57pm On Apr 23, 2022
dominique:


It's the way you men absolve yourselves of any wrongdoing for me. You said fear women then went on to say it was the lawyer that made the girl set the security man up. If there's anybody we should be fearing, it's the pedophile lawyer who wants to ruin the lives of both the girl and the security guard but you passively mentioned him as if what he's doing is not out of the ordinary. For every wayward corrupt girl out there, there's a man that made her that way. Swallow that with your red pill
Take it easyyyyy

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Jaqenhghar: 9:58pm On Apr 23, 2022
thoollz:


OMG, is it everyone there that will make use of Public WIFI when they know they've illegal contents on their phones? Use your thinking faculty. It's just like carrying a bomb in front of a Military Base. Isn't that suicidal?
But you will use their SIM abi. Ode. You never think reach that level abi. At least your comments show you know whats illegal and you embrace it because you like in a cesspot where such things are the norm

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by ccollins(m): 9:58pm On Apr 23, 2022
evictor305:
Honestly i feel for you OP be very careful with children. I'm currently working on my daughter for similar thing. This things starts gradually and parents need to pay attention to it. I have a twin of 3 years 1 month boy and girl. Someone the girls lies that she was beaten even when am absolutely sure nothing like that happens. If i scold her verbally she will start crying and go tell her mom i beat her when nothing like that happened. I was like where are all these coming from? trust me i can figure it out and it's not the same with her brother. Children are more than we think. may God help us
stop allowing the children to watch tv and cartoons. Only read their books and Bible. Those tv , video games, cartoons corrupt those little children and make them do this evil things

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