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Re: Help! I'm Too Nice And People Are Taking Advantage Of My Niceness. by Mummyfour(f): 9:32pm On Jun 28, 2022 |
My son reported me to my pastor that I am too nice and kindhearted and people take me for granted too. I have tried to be less nice and less trusting, but it is not just working. I keep praying that this nature of mine will not keep landing me in deeper troubles 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! I'm Too Nice And People Are Taking Advantage Of My Niceness. by lasisi69(f): 9:33pm On Jun 28, 2022 |
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Re: Help! I'm Too Nice And People Are Taking Advantage Of My Niceness. by Transcriber: 9:34pm On Jun 28, 2022 |
Sergio101: Wassup bro |
Re: Help! I'm Too Nice And People Are Taking Advantage Of My Niceness. by poweredcom(m): 9:35pm On Jun 28, 2022 |
Dadfumi: Look youngman you gat hustle o , stop begging now go and start to learn how to create wealth now You got a girl child , how will u feel in d future you girl is a street girl being banged by every nigga That every dad nightmare ...bro you get big issue at be hand thank god na only one kid u get Again ur wife may enter street join self , we have banged many aingle.kothwrs and gang banged Dem as well and paid Dem off to go settle dier debt ... oga this can make u run mad o if you get to know, na wetin de reign for naija now o 1 Like |
Re: Help! I'm Too Nice And People Are Taking Advantage Of My Niceness. by postbmd: 9:36pm On Jun 28, 2022 |
Like 9ice shey |
Re: Help! I'm Too Nice And People Are Taking Advantage Of My Niceness. by Muna400(f): 9:37pm On Jun 28, 2022 |
Learn how to say no and stick by it as for lending money to friends.. Stop it, they will never pay, they will assume u are in obodo oyibo and u have money to throw away.. If anyone asks u to lend dem money,lemme say 10k, give de person 2k and tell de person not to pay back.. Give what u can't miss.. But toughen up cos if u don't, pple will suck u dry 3 Likes |
Re: Help! I'm Too Nice And People Are Taking Advantage Of My Niceness. by Sergio101(m): 9:37pm On Jun 28, 2022 |
Re: Help! I'm Too Nice And People Are Taking Advantage Of My Niceness. by Toriagirl(f): 9:38pm On Jun 28, 2022 |
Limit what you give to people, some people are very ungrateful, no matter what you do for them. 1 Like |
Re: Help! I'm Too Nice And People Are Taking Advantage Of My Niceness. by tonididdy(m): 9:38pm On Jun 28, 2022 |
Travicon:Been there, done that. REWARD: hate, when you can no longer provide, abandonment. Fact: you feel so lonely you are too scared to be alone, you do nor trust in yourself or your future. You have a fear you may one day need their help in return when they go above you in life. Remedy: focus on yourself. Satisfy yourself and your thoughts first. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help! I'm Too Nice And People Are Taking Advantage Of My Niceness. by checky619: 9:40pm On Jun 28, 2022 |
Why do I feel that the person who typed all these is sitting on an ocean view balcony’ house in Greece santorini typing on 2022 mac book pro sipping expensive quality wine DoctorOlasDesk: 1 Like |
Re: Help! I'm Too Nice And People Are Taking Advantage Of My Niceness. by arthurwillia(m): 9:41pm On Jun 28, 2022 |
Travicon: If it’s your nature just continue Me I no nice oo and I don’t help abeg Make all of Una gerrout 1 Like |
Re: Help! I'm Too Nice And People Are Taking Advantage Of My Niceness. by RPG2020(m): 9:41pm On Jun 28, 2022 |
Greatzeus: You don't belongs to the house Go and watch porn outside |
Re: Help! I'm Too Nice And People Are Taking Advantage Of My Niceness. by MMWandali: 9:41pm On Jun 28, 2022 |
Travicon: It's good to be nice Givers never lack God will surely repay you However, you'll need to wise up to some extent That your Russian hostel, start to have a contributory fund where everyone will contribute for things u all use and especially food Thanks God bless 1 Like |
Re: Help! I'm Too Nice And People Are Taking Advantage Of My Niceness. by Apili: 9:42pm On Jun 28, 2022 |
DoctorOlasDesk:please comrade were can I get this book am also in this grip |
Re: Help! I'm Too Nice And People Are Taking Advantage Of My Niceness. by Osogaz: 9:44pm On Jun 28, 2022 |
Persephone1: That was the best advise I could provide.. he never reach but frankly, we were all once like that 1 Like |
Re: Help! I'm Too Nice And People Are Taking Advantage Of My Niceness. by gimakon2(m): 9:44pm On Jun 28, 2022 |
@OP If you like yourself, never take the advice of some silly people on here and do the very right thing. People are going to soon start writting bull crap , stop being nice this and that... complete bullshit! never listen to people like those, keep being good. I have paid house rent for someone , gotten admission for someone and paid fees, I have housed someone. I remember giving 50,000 some months back, only to run into challenges these days (as i lost my remote job and all) and the same people i did these things for , highest they could do, is to watch my status on whatsapp.... infact they still do, does not change me from doing good. I just pray God will give me a heart to take care of everyone and make me very rich to help other people. If they ever take you for granted, its their own downfall... not yours! I have a girl i am asking out she wont accept, but she wants money... her sisters got so angry at her last time and she has stopped talking to me as well... Heheheheh, guess what, she relegated herself to watching my status on whatsapp and facebook! Thats where she wants to be => A spectator! And thats where she is gonna be while i work my way back to the top. I am glad many of them put themselves as spectators and not partakers to success, so when things get better, we cannot be close, its the path they chose for themselves. Let me leave with these last words, If you ever do something for someone and expect something in return, you have failed as a person. Good will find its way back one way or the very other, maybe not now...someday! God is not Dead! Shalom #GodIsNotDead 7 Likes |
Re: Help! I'm Too Nice And People Are Taking Advantage Of My Niceness. by Daslim180(m): 9:45pm On Jun 28, 2022 |
Don’t be surprised those your friends and people you are giving your money are already building mansion. I have been in your show before and even now. I tried so hard to stop being nice but guess what, my mind doesn’t rest if I haven’t helped. So I need help too 1 Like |
Re: Help! I'm Too Nice And People Are Taking Advantage Of My Niceness. by PDPGuy: 9:47pm On Jun 28, 2022 |
Simply stop being overly nice, especially to Nigerians 2 Likes |
Re: Help! I'm Too Nice And People Are Taking Advantage Of My Niceness. by smith946: 9:48pm On Jun 28, 2022 |
Sometimes in life you need to be stingy to people, especially when you don't have much. They won't beat you, they can only call you all sort of names. 4 Likes |
Re: Help! I'm Too Nice And People Are Taking Advantage Of My Niceness. by Kubin: 9:48pm On Jun 28, 2022 |
U nice pass tinubu,wey the share 2cups of rice for lagosians |
Re: Help! I'm Too Nice And People Are Taking Advantage Of My Niceness. by 02Kebreal(m): 9:51pm On Jun 28, 2022 |
People that are nice don't even know they are nice. |
Re: Help! I'm Too Nice And People Are Taking Advantage Of My Niceness. by Odochime(m): 9:53pm On Jun 28, 2022 |
Do not stop being nice, don't expect people to be nice to you in return for being nice. Instead, I think you should learn to match people's energy. 2 Likes |
Re: Help! I'm Too Nice And People Are Taking Advantage Of My Niceness. by Brunosamel(m): 9:53pm On Jun 28, 2022 |
Travicon:Fool the day you hit the gym that's the day you will stop being nice. Internalizing pain changes people no google or books will help you embrace suffering or you won't last long. |
Re: Help! I'm Too Nice And People Are Taking Advantage Of My Niceness. by dododawa1: 9:54pm On Jun 28, 2022 |
If you be giver,you are and if you be reciever,you are,GAIN is in both but GIVER never lack. |
Re: Help! I'm Too Nice And People Are Taking Advantage Of My Niceness. by Gabbriell: 9:54pm On Jun 28, 2022 |
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Re: Help! I'm Too Nice And People Are Taking Advantage Of My Niceness. by kinggSamuel(m): 9:55pm On Jun 28, 2022 |
a.man must learn how not to be nice and know when and when not to use it. because majority of people are bad. -machiavelli. i am not saying be cruel but you have to help yourself first. your age is an age where you have to gather your resources together and build the type of lifestyle you want. it is when you are financially free that you can then help others. serve yourseld first, sometimes say no to helping people. build a rigid code of conduct on the inside but let your appearance be easy going. appear the opposite of what you seem. if you look like someone that can be easily manipulated. then make yourself have self discipline and a strong code of conduct. 2 Likes |
Re: Help! I'm Too Nice And People Are Taking Advantage Of My Niceness. by doctor306(m): 9:56pm On Jun 28, 2022 |
I used to be that good , I mean too good till a close friend stolen my Jbl charge 5 that shit changed me. I never got it back I stoped asking after some months but damn Doubt I’ll ever trust humans or put anyone first ever again |
Re: Help! I'm Too Nice And People Are Taking Advantage Of My Niceness. by phurlar(m): 9:57pm On Jun 28, 2022 |
@ Op.... Keep being nice and a giver...There is always a reward for every actions either good or bad... Dont worry OP about how you're being treated by people ..The universe has a way of treating people like you in ways you never expect. |
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