@Chaos14, spend on your family. They mean the most to you. Act broke to outsiders — they don't deserve seeing how rich or wealthy you are because it will trigger envy in them.

Act as if you're poorer than them. When they compliment you of how accomplished you are, turn it to a joke and tell them you're too broke to be accomplished.

Always claim to be stingy in front of them so that when they talk against you of how stingy you are behind your back, it won't hurt you.

When they least expect it, help them, but don't make it look as if you'll always be there to help them. If you do, they'll start leeching and the day you'll refuse, you'll become their enemy and they'll deal with you for it behind your back.